I got divorced had my kids distanced from md poison fed to them about me with no proof but Allah says I will replace that which you have lost with something better // walahi it’s so true // I found u brother Jazakallah
Your advice is 100 percent true. Even though I still have a lot to work on, prioritising akhira, Allah settles your affairs in the dunya, puts tranquility in the heart and makes thing easy. I have seen this time and time again.
Dear Brother. May Allah bless you for this video. I cried watching this. I have been chasing financial goals, intellectual goals, and physical goals and working like an animal for months and months while putting my religion secondary. It is only now that I have realised how little I have achieved of my goals. Each time, I did not go to pray in the masjid in pursuit of another goal. It usually went to shit. Each time I did anything at the expense of my religion, the results were awful. I have decided to apply myself to our beautiful religion. The dunya now takes a back seat. Thank you for this reminder, brother. Jazakallah.
From a single female perspective I can attest to this. Knowing a potential is prioritizing me over just deen gives me an irreversible ick, a feeling that I can’t trust him and that he lacks masculinity altogether. How am I to follow him if he’s not following Allah? Men and women should prioritize Allah over all else, and when we falter, return to Him no matter what. It’s also extremely obvious when a man is pretending to prioritize his deen as well so do not do it for show. Know that nobody will love you more than Allah ﷻ and entrust Him with your affairs, because if you prioritize anything over Him you *will* be disgraced and you *will* lose the respect of His creation.
nowadays even the most religious ones are munafiq I have witnessed and experienced this myself w a man I thought he was so religious. Don’t fall for it. Again not all religious men are like that but there’s more of them coming out of the closet than ever
@@yyc246 you’ve mistaken what I said. I personally almost never trust men that are too outwardly “religious” because I see it to be overcompensating for a lack of character wallahu a3lam. I don’t trust dawah RU-vidrs and whatnot. What I’m talking about is people who are principled and stick to their principles, that’s not something you will see in someone without having a conversation with them.
@@batoulabbasi4235 you said men/women should prioritize allah above all which I agree w. But most religious men are not normal no days they have two faces. They lust after half naked women while want a religious conservative wife. They’re lost and confused. So in general don’t trust men at all. They’re selfish. Women should learn from them and treat them accordingly
How can you know someone is prioritising his deen over you? This seems too abstract. If you’re having a conversation to see if you’re compatible and like eachother, what exactly makes you think he prioritises you over his deen?
@@thomasbuxton2648 it’s not abstract at all, there are telltale signs. if he’s too agreeable even when she’s in the wrong and he knows it. If he delays his salah because he’s speaking to her. Generally if his primary objective is to attain her even if he has to make compromises in what pleases Allah. It’s very easy to tell.
Salam Brother, I loved the part where you talk about talking with your Lord Allahumma barik I need to start implementing it today. I can literally testify that if you do like our brother Mahdi told us to do which is to prioritize the deen over the dunya, then Allah Azzawajall will organize your affairs for you.
Wallahi, I'm not a 6-7-8 figure earning person. I have just about an average job. I recently got married to my second wife, Alhamdulilah. And so with regards to putting your religion, your Aakirah, Allah, FIRST - Mahdi is right. THINGS Happen!!
Asslamu alaikum. Brother Mahdi, you said in a video you are in a polygyny relationship. But also said lost 2 wives. Would you plz clarify the issue that if you are in a running successful polygyny relationship or not? I am not offending you. Plz donot be hurted.
Ya habibi I’m a young Muslim revert 21 years old it’s difficult to keep above and beyond ties of kinship with my parents because they constantly pressure me everyday to commit haram and I have had to threaten me leaving them so I may practice my religion (I co signed the house) how can I obey Allah while trying to obey the parents when they make it hard
This should help Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah by the displeasure of people, Allah will suffice him against the people. Whoever seeks the pleasure of people by the displeasure of Allah, Allah will leave him to the patronage of the people.” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2414 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani Also bro build ur tawakkul And be consistent with it etc
I'll also add the famous ayah, from Luqman's wise advixe to his son; { وَوَصَّیۡنَا ٱلۡإِنسَـٰنَ بِوَ ٰلِدَیۡهِ حَمَلَتۡهُ أُمُّهُۥ وَهۡنًا عَلَىٰ وَهۡنࣲ وَفِصَـٰلُهُۥ فِی عَامَیۡنِ أَنِ ٱشۡكُرۡ لِی وَلِوَ ٰلِدَیۡكَ إِلَیَّ ٱلۡمَصِیرُ } [سُورَةُ لُقۡمَانَ: ١٤] { وَإِن جَـٰهَدَاكَ عَلَىٰۤ أَن تُشۡرِكَ بِی مَا لَیۡسَ لَكَ بِهِۦ عِلۡمࣱ فَلَا تُطِعۡهُمَاۖ وَصَاحِبۡهُمَا فِی ٱلدُّنۡیَا مَعۡرُوفࣰاۖ وَٱتَّبِعۡ سَبِیلَ مَنۡ أَنَابَ إِلَیَّۚ ثُمَّ إِلَیَّ مَرۡجِعُكُمۡ فَأُنَبِّئُكُم بِمَا كُنتُمۡ تَعۡمَلُونَ } [سُورَةُ لُقۡمَانَ: ١٥] And We have commanded people to ˹honour˺ their parents. Their mothers bore them through hardship upon hardship, and their weaning takes two years. So be grateful to Me and your parents. To Me is the final return. But if they pressure you to associate with Me what you have no knowledge of, do not obey them. Still keep their company in this world courteously, and follow the way of those who turn to Me ˹in devotion˺. Then to Me you will ˹all˺ return, and then I will inform you of what you used to do. @@Ejs226
So obviously don't feel pressured to obey them when they ask you to sin. But do your best to still treat them with heartfelt courtesy wherever and whenever possible - I appreciate this can be hard, but therein lies the test. May Allah keep you steadfast brother
mahdi brother I am 16 years old I quitted all p***(not so long ago). Etc as man or boy I still have urges my family is liberal they don't even let me fast because I was weak but not know they think fasting will cause me get weak I came back on deen I don't know how can I convince my parent to let me marry or fast or find a way to control desire can you help me love from pakistan please
Assalamualaikum Brother. We can work together? I know it's random but i want you to teach more depth things like this and I'll help you monetize your audience. Jazakallah ❤
@MahdiTidjani man you keep saying that men without monogamous marriage in long term are unhappy but it is the same for women it becomes a habit and get bored what is the solution then ?? seek divorce and get another husband or what!??? if you are not happy with you wife and get another one it will make things worse
