Thought She Was a 'Good Girl' 

''Aim for girls who hate nightclubs or drinking.''........ and smoking too!

@@yeldarleumas1847 that too. Yes.

Doesn't stop there! Teachers, Nurses, Cops, Homebody's, Church. Ask me how I know. 😂

even if they hate, it doesn't mean they wouldn't cheat. they can cheat at their workplace especially nurses and doctors

Bingo

Horrendous!

Waited that long? A whole year?

@@dmitrikorobeinikov9400my guess is the divorce proceedings occurred shortly after the ‘vacation.’ Divorces can take time to be finalized

Sorry about your marriage. Things like this happen more often than we think. Glad she got caught. Follow your gut feelings. . Awareness is the key.

Damn... That's as nasty as hell! Good, traditional women must be extremely hard to come by nowadays... Many of them are head cases, I've noticed. I'm staying single myself.

Lol. The grass is greener on the other side. She breaks up with you, giving you bs excuses, because she has already started monkey branching, because this guy is supposed to be better than you. And then, boom, he pumps and dumps her, as if she were a doormat or a dumpster, and then suddenly after 10 months you get an email from her asking to meet her, and then she starts calling your brother to get your phone number which she deleted. Well, let her face the consequences of her own stupidity. Do not, I repeat, no matter how good sex was, which is exactly what she will try to lure you with to take her back, do not take her back. She is a promiscuous whore, and nothing good comes out of whoring, apart from shame, toxicity, sickness and life long regret because of what she has done. You will be sick too if you take her back, and you will need a lot of time to heal, thus, don't make that mistake.

Bingo! Most likely if they initiate a soft break. She has your replacement lined up is is probably already screwing them.

This is why surveys of women asking if they've cheated are as flawed as those asking their body count since the results can be entirely subjective.

Yeah but how did the guy learned she had s*x with another guy. I mean unless she told him herself.

Or you made her cheat

I'm not. I grew up in a housing project. I never bought into your suburban Disney dream. It was kill or be killed. Human nature is brutal.

They’re the worst, not all, but the ones I dated seemed to know how to manipulate the living hell out of people, since they know they look cute and innocent, they use it to their advantage.

@@marioncarbonell6047 "The Eternal Ingenue is in continual, graceful, coltish motion... frolicking like a puppy, she is often described as “charming” or “enchanting". What makes an Eternal Ingenue into a femme fatale, one who goes through many men and breaks their hearts, is that this is a woman “in love with love,” who has a dream-image of the perfect lover and is perpetually seeking the one man who can make her feel as she wants to feel. An element of the Ingenue’s search for the perfect love is that she must convince herself that all her previous loves were bad and not real love at all, so they didn’t count. As a result of all this self-deception, she is able to seem virginal even when she is not. The sweeter and more innocent a girl seems, the greater the likelihood she has been in a G-bang"

Those are the ones who do it the most because they actually resent being seen as innocent. The way most people would.

Not any more, I'm not.

Trust women to be women. Once you understand female nature there you go

Fax

Except joe rogan

No one except Jesus.

@@sjv9147s it’s joke chill

Get a dog, they are more loyal😂😂😂

Barsteward! 🤣

Lol mine did that too so he got his balls chopped off the same week ! Now he is a lazy couch cat going nowhere 😆

How did you find out he got another cat pregnant????

Cats r selfish n come around if u got anything they want to offer. Fun fact if u happen to die in a home where it's only you and cats after a while cats will start eating u when they get hungry. A dog will end up starving.

You are one of the few here with common sense

@Mary_QQQ That is true but the statistics will give you a true picture.

@@williamweb9782 what statistics? What is the source of your info, please share.

No.

Not the point

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Adam scapegoating and God said do your job Man!!

There’s a reason all these stories from the Bible paint women as untrustworthy and less than…..because it was written by MEN! Of course a book written by men will claim men should be the leaders, women should submit and obey, and women are sinful, untrustworthy child-like followers. Dont be naive just because it benefits you as a man to believe it.

Facts

Facts NO MARRIAGE in the West especially and NO Co-habitation. Certainly here in Australia

by your logic no one would marry, most women don't cheat

@@cautarepvp2079 Unfortunately, most will, given the chance.

​@@cautarepvp2079nope. Most women do.

So basically me

😂😅😅​@@raypist5938

Yup

Basically, women.

​@@Steve-iv1uheasy fix, be with a man

Mine was endess STI 's This stopped after I married🎉

True i used to be a promiscuous man and I truly regret those meaningless relationships. Just a waste of my time & soul. It’s bad for both genders.

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​@ArthurMorgan-ux9jj Yeah it's funny. Men will say that women with a high body count aren't wife/gf material. Ok cool👍 Yet some of these same men will happily go about contributing to the damage these women suffer. Anyway, yeah, promiscuity almost always leads only to very short-term satisfaction, a loss of ability to pair bond, kids born with no father, STI's, and will leave u lonely later in life. It's sad to see so many young girls take this advice knowing they won't realize the consequences until it's too late

I started to get pretty deep into hookup culture and life taught me a massive lesson. Imagine having a gal you don’t even like miss her period. The worst 3 weeks of my life. That mental and emotional trauma made me completely change. Hell even with girlfriends I use jimmys. I don’t care if it’s not as good.

No accountability .. I'm shocked! SHOCKED !!

That makes it even worse smdh😠

I hope he stands his Grounds

I hope your son never takes her back. When a woman comes back, it’s usually because things failed with the other man.

She got caught in her emotions the fight exposed her behavior

Same holds true if it's a male.

Plan on 1/2 you'r wealth going to your X and half of what's left going to capital gains . Good luck with the remaining 25%

and pop society always supports the woman.

@@9avedonpre nup

Back up plan? Pro tip-don't get married or live together. That'll save you LOTS and LOTS of $ $ and resources

​@costumeninja1914 Don't be fooled by the Ole "Pre Nup" there buddy!! Best thing for a man is DON'T GET MARRIED!!! Its just not worth the hassle!! Sorry ladies but you're just not worth it!! 😂

Why get another? That's just more nonsense.

​@@no-namecrown5510 because a man has needs.

@@SKBottom you deserve all the misery she intends to inflict on you then...

@@SKBottom Might need to elaborate on "needs" there. You talking sex? Do you think the fairly meagre sex trade-off is worth the grinding work of a relationship?

He is not a Gentleman, he is a ho picking hoos at bars, but when the ho does the same, he gets judgmental 😮

Read the room

Typical. Nice guys are invisible to most woman like yourself who look for the bad boys, hot guys and rich dudes... you just get pumped and dumped the realize this too late. Same ole cycle.

It's if, it's not all women just the modern ones and 304s.

Facts

Truth my brother!

Not necessarily when. What he means is she CAN and there isn’t a f*cking thing we can do about. Just move accordingly and never be surprised. I used to get heart broken when I was in my teens and early twenties. Sh*t stopped at like 24-25. Now I don’t get heart broken, I just get disappointed. It’s easier to move on. As you get older, all those questions as to why, don’t matter anymore. Just know they did. What we accept, we deserve. You don’t like it, don’t accept it.

Wow.. cynical much??

Dozens? More like hundreds!

@@yeldarleumas1847billions

An unconverted heart LOL Like religious people don't cheat all the time and then just say they sinned and pray for forgiveness.

@@scottverge938you don’t get forgiveness by praying. You’re forgiven by the blood of Jesus. What stupid religion have you seen that in ?

@@scottverge938 so you just proved my point. It's not a women thing it's a people thing because both men and women cheat. Statistics say that (Historically, men have been more frequently associated with cheating, but recent research suggests that the gender gap in infidelity is closing.) that goes for all people who are religious and non. Sense men have always cheated more the only thing that's happening is (1.) women are becoming more sinful. Or (2.) women are just becoming more like men. If you are not religious then there's no such thing as good or bad behavior there's just behavior there for there's no need to call out women or men for wrong doing because it's subjective. Facts don't lie. Divorce is 50%+ but arange marriages are from 1%-4%... An converted heart ❤️ stared with men. So sense women value leadership then what did women do? They followed our path. Truth is truth weather people believe it or not. This is well documented history.

@@scottverge938 Child pornography offenders are predominantly white, aged between 25 and 50 years and, in relation to "hands on" child sex abusers, more likely to be employed. On multiple studies, they have been reported to have higher education at a rate of 30%.

@@scottverge938 Historically, men have been more frequently associated with cheating, but recent research suggests that the gender gap in infidelity is closing. If women value leadership remember they are following the leadership of white men here in America

Been there. Worst part for me was not ending it sooner. When the first hint of nonsense began.

​@joncarbone exactly the same. She was so good and so loyal for decades that I thought we could fix things. I should have ended things at the first or second betrayal. Instead I held on and became all needy and jealous and turned her off completely and she ended things. Which then destroyed me. Emotionally it would have been much better for me to be the to end things and kick her out.

I agree and still have faith that there’s some good people, with integrity out there 💫✨

Amen Sis. It seems like this red pill content only further divides us, honestly, though perhaps it provides comfort to some. I don’t sense God’s work here. Walk in faith and we’ll be protected, live our values and these things are much less likely to happen to either gender. This man was engaging with her outside a covenant so what the literal hell did he expect? No real sympathy, sorry.

@@PetitHibou72it can divide but it does expose some serious issues that should be dealt with or avoided too. Edit- God matters a lot to me so I think God isn’t largely here simply because a lot of this is happening out of consequences for our actions and choices. Also our hearts are far from God the more we focus on ourselves and what we want too- which matters here

I try to be a decent guy myself but it’s crushing to be honest. I hate being alone and having to learn to do things by myself

Trust is earned over time. Lost in a second

😂

I think that this does happen. This guy and his followers and all red pillers are men with huge chips on their shoulders and active contempt for women. Assholes seek out other assholes. This is exactly the kind of partner someone who has contempt for 1/2 of the population deserves.

They can and they do in the church not in the bar.

@@JohnGalt539to be fair church has got one of the most insufferable people. They don’t drink or party and often wait till marriage but being around them is hard you feel like you’re being judged 24/7 not to mention they treat men and women like some separate species due harsh gender roles they rarely have things in common and often marry the person they don’t even like, have kids live decades together and truly don’t give a crap about each other. The body language gives it all away. They are rarely gentle with each other it’s all the facade god knows what happens behind closed doors.

Yeah... Some people are just outright NASTY. 🤢 Omg!... I'm much more traditional than a lot of people, I think.

💯👏👍🔥.

Im not surprised and have told this to exes straight up. I've seen it all in 25 years with multiple partners. I'm done.

Tik tok.

Damn

Keep a red flag evidence notepad file in your phone on a "partner" everytime an instance occurs. You will find out towards the end all the stuff you added up made sense on their behaviors. Learn to act sooner.

Great advice, great way of putting it.

Two things keep her with you, sexual attractiveness to you and your ability to give her an array of emotions. Be humorous, stoic, angry, kind etc. from time to time it gives her uncertainty making her feel she needs to do better or fix things.

Most of the time, human faithfulness solely depends on the availability of options. That's why most of the celebrities, artists, sports stars and rich people are having multiple relationship entanglements. Its so hard to be faithful to a one person when you have so much attention & throwing themselves from opposite sex.

@@luckyjayakody Doesn't matter the woman's background if they feel the man isn't providing one thing and another man does, for instance, could be humor and intellect because her man is bland and boring. In this moment and time the other man fulfills hypergamy no man is exempt from a woman's feelings.

​@@luckyjayakodyyup. Straight facts.

Stay away from them

It’s like when they gaslight you and say you’re the one with the poor communication skills but when you do attempt to communicate your words falll on deaf ears. As if you’re speaking a different language to them

Same

Women are hardwired to feel an array of emotions which means they can do good and evil depending on her feelings in that moment. Their argument triggered her emotions Rich said on the backend meaning it was already counting down to end in that moment she thought she could do better and cheated. Cheating was already on her mind she just decided to do it after being triggered she failed the pressure test. She came back 3 weeks after enjoying a sausage buffet like rich should pickup where they left off as a woman explain this? Amazing!!

Some women are emotional which leads to irrational decisions, women argue and become difficult when they want out she was already looking to cheat.

If you're a woman , you know damn well!

Uhh…females are high-level manipulators.

Good for you, hope you can find a loyal and loving man.

I'm sorry for what happened to you, but I have to say that there are way more cheating women than cheating guys. The alpha, tough, sense of humor guys (which happen to be very few) are the ones who cheat. Any woman, beautiful, ugly, tall, short, shy, outgoing, long hair, short hair...they all can cheat. Quiet guys, shy guys, very thin guys, fat guys, focused-on-work guys don't get a chance by girls.

'' I never imagined that my husband would cheat, but after 14 years of marriage I found evidence of just that. I was devastated. I will never fully trust again''😔🙏💔

Sadly, both genders are just capable of cheating. But what scares me is a good woman is bad woman that hasn't been caught

Who are these men cheating with? Single women? lol they’re usually married or in relationships same as yours was.

@@RevealedFilms crazy enough, mine actually cheated with single women. The long term one was divorced from a man who cheated on her, but being with a married man was still okay with her. 🤮

FACT!

There is a risk for that, but not a 100% guarantee. It goes both way.

Nasty...

Same for men!!! It goes both ways.

I guess I could say that if you’re in a relationship with a man, he will 100 percent use you until he finds the next woman to use. The thing is that not all men are like this, just as not all women are cheaters. Both men and women are capable of the same toxic behaviours. These are poor human behaviours.

Latinas cheat too boy lol

Most attractive women arent virgins.

@@insus100 there are plenty…men look in the wrong places. And I’m fairness, I did too because it’s easy to look in the wrong places.

Both men and women do this stupid shit...

That's true! Wtf is in the bar or club? I realize most people like that have no ambition either. I've been around many. Stay away from women who love to hang out in bars and clubs too. They're usually not good girlfriend or wife material. They love bars and clubs because they are hook up spots and they can find the sleaziest men, the men most low grade women are drawn to in those places.

Absolutely losers. But it's in between too. The work buddy. The friend from their social networks. Social media. Dating apps especially.

Aww sounds like jealousy to me

I am a woman and could never do one night stand and I am not prude, in the contrary, intimacy is very important for me in a relationship ! Anybody that does them, counts them, men and women. If you have such beliefs on women, you need to start working on yourself as you obviously attract them!

@@breizhita5882 Great to hear that you are a woman of great character and hold your standards high. I do know that ladies of the same character as yourself are out there, just sadly increasingly uncommon. I do have to disagree when you say that 'Anybody that does them, counts them, men or women'. Internally, we certainly all do count our sexual interactions however, when this topic arises in relationships, many women will discount the number of singular event sexual encounters resetting the counter to zero hoping to set forth on a relationship built on dishonesty, the weakest bedrock you could have. Self respect is very important in both men and women and anyone who rates themselves so lowly as to engage in sexual activity as a sport is not in my view cut out for relationships. Isn't the whole idea of a relationship to feel extremely special to one another, to hold each other as the person we love and desire above all others, isn't that exactly the purpose of firstly courting and then onwards to marriage. I have been lucky enough to stay away from ladies who have numbered countless sexual partners, I set about in my teens to not attract those types and the onset of HIV in the 80's helped inform that decision for me. Of course throughout life, our friends don't make the same choices and I have seen far too many times how the previous promiscuity of either partner, but particularly the woman has driven a coach & horses straight through the middle of those relationships. The number of former encounters is a statistic that gives a lot of information, like the service history of a car, we value it because it can be an accurate predictor of future reliability, whether we can get from point A to point B reliably without any catastrophic events along the way and whether that vehicle can easily be stolen. With the vast interconnectability of today's society, trust in our vehicles has never been more important and nobody wants to discover their car casually discarded in a layby with the swirl flaps missing.

I suppose that it's much different in Europe than in the US. Nobody in Europe would ask about head counts, that's such a horrible term by the way! Anyway, I do believe people like people who are similar to them. I do beleive that having our energy mixed up with many partners is not good for us. I also never understood friends who do not protect themselves and I find players* unattractive. *They tend to believe they are good lovers but quantity doesn't mean quality...it's just a consumistic attitude like fast food!

Good shape bro!

True

Also the went out with her girlfriend met another guy screams 20 to 30 year old.

100%

Yup it's all there and their IG or FB green light status and activity, especially late at night usually gives them away from my experiences. 😂 Or you can just hack her phone and have a sneaky peak. Don't be surprised. THEY ALL DO IT!

​@@bobbyscalchi4013 thr phone tells all...

@@a-t5380 I was just grilling and chilling with a co worker this evening and he was telling me about how his boy just tossed his wife out of the house after going through her 🤳 phone? I'm like "You surprised!?" Average and below average women are 100 guys deep on the dating apps. The temptation is too great and the choice is always there.

My ex husband did that. Was brutal at the time. Feeling better now though. There is healing for those that want it❤

True

No. You missed it. He said she didn't sound or looked like one but she ended up being one

@@user-kb1hw2yq2for he was just incapable of seeing it. You don’t just flip over night, she was already that person.

Quack

Nice hahahahahaha yeah because being nice is what attracts women LOL

Lol.

Nice gaslighting