Those are important questions to ask oneself... You have lots of time ahead of you, so whatever you decide... it can be changed! My husband died 3 years ago so I've been thinking along the same lines... do I want someone else? If I don't meet anyone, will I be ok with that? We are lucky we have kids who love us and care about what happens. Sometimes I think I want to travel, but I love my house so much with my ocean view. All I know is I don't have to make a decision today!