@Some annoying person the people who do it know it’s bad sure, but they haven’t been TAUGHT how awful it is, how to control themselves, etc. How many times do you hear mothers telling their daughters to cover up and always be safe compared to how often you hear mothers telling their sons to be respectful and controlled? You need a mix of both protection and teaching
Teaching our sons gender equality is very important. If we don't treat our sons and daughters the same then how can we expect them to treat other people equally in the future?
My only adjustment is ‘Don’t ONLY protect women, teach men how to behave’ - we should still make the effort to protect our daughters, whilst also teaching our sons
the woman in the first clip,she's stating straight facts. That's how it is,and the sad thing,many indian serials actually glorify it even more,which is why our mindset hasn't progressed much
@@crimsonmatter not only that they are sexist and patriarchal to the core, like it's always women serving their husband, and the women who gives her life for others and all that bs
@Human Being EXACTLY, you hit the spot and the nice ones are always sacrificing their life, and will wear traditional clothes, the villians on the other hand are shown to wear jeans/short dress. And ofc that villain would be a gold digger.
@Human Being also the way they glorify woman doing everything for men, even if these women have a career theyre "good" Only of they take care of entire family first. The "sanskari " Bahu is nothing but a slave who's portrayed as someone who enjoys doing everything for everyone. Can't believe people still give watch these soaps in today's date and time
@@hasinid6761 Its not like all men are same though, its just like some people are just too much for the society to handle. Its not like we all are morons or something and we all mistreat woman, but ya there are many who are in desperate need to nella some sense in.😞
@@rationalthought9979 Yeah i know india and Pakistan both countries have failed to keep everyone safe... E few months ago a dog got gang r@ped too and it just makes me worry alot..
"I'm not a boy" Please... a woman will be 60 years old with 5 PhDs, and people will still call her "girl" all the time. This guy gets called "boy" once and has a little hissy fit about it.
@@spongmongler6760 I'm from the US, and I hear women get called "girls" a lot. Did you think I was Asian because of my username? Sorry, I'm not Asian, I'm just a weeb. (-;
The first one, yesss. Being a part of an Indian family I can confirm that the household we grow up in is very sexist and every time I call my family out for the lil comments they make they suddenly shout "Oh here comes the feminist" as if that's an insult?? I'm proud of being a feminist like???
Exactly the same thing happens in my house too, everytime I speak out against something they say if I want to be such a feminist I should go to a western country 😭😭
I don't know about this, it can be interpreted in many ways. Why not teach men not to murder so crime can go down? The world doesn't revolve around your fears. Protect women sounds better.
I see a lot of people disagreeing here saying protection is more preferred, but protecting just solves the surface level problem, rather than that, wouldn't a solution that picks the problem out from the root of the situation be better? Would you prefer a temporary fix or a permanent one? Personally I'd choose a permanent solution.
"I will teach my son to respect women and i will allow my daughter to wear whatever she wants do whatever she wants of her choice" this is the pledge i take and i wish for every woman reading this and every man reading this, my mom is the reason I can't live my life through my choices because she's afraid of what might the society think but we are the society if we can accept this pledge and not care about anything things will all be great for women. Women needs to support women.
Expect bad men who don't care what they are taught to take advantage of you when you wear inappropriate things. Also, it is respectful to the men around you to wear modest clothing since they have a stronger drive for sex and are very visually turned on. This will help them to respect you more and will lessen the temptation that your body on display would bring. I don't know if you dress this way or not. I just took your meaning of wearing whatever you want as something along those lines since most people don't object to modest clothing.
2:19 the number of time i've watched this part is unhealthy but totally worth it lmao, "Well then act like one and give me the respect that i deserve while i'm speaking" i just love her...No like, jokes aside, he legitimately acted like ten-year-old who lost his cool, so unprofessional smh.
As an indian, I can confirm that women in india are treated horribly- those men that the first lady was gesturing to are types of men that I've had to see on the daily whenever I go to india whenever I visit my grandparents. It's really terrifying... I'm so happy that the woman at the beginning is speaking about this!!
Yes the Grandparents place is just fuc*** iconic for the shi*,im 12 and here where i live is a city i get to wear atleast knee high clothes okay knee high dont get me wrong ,when i go to gp's house the flipping relatives are like inspecting me like im carrying something illegal what the heck,?!!.Its hard for me to change into a midclass desi girl.Okay!!! Next time i go there,im gonna be me and speak up for myself cuz who else will? But im still scared if my parents will ground me if i speak up cuz *Girl shouldnt raise their voice*🇮🇳🤮
@@peek-a-boo6778 yes it is and in my gp side we also have to wear covering clothes and not to roam around by ourself as they said that maybe some villagers will maybe pick u and do this or that
The fact that a transgender was awarded the highest civilian honour in India this year for her contribution to art forms 🥺❤️ We are changing and actions speak louder than words. Many people on the Internet and outside have spoken so vociferously in support of the move. They deserve the respect they always got in Bharat.🚩
As a Kpop Stan, I'm really happy that this wonderful women is trynna speak up for all of us. It's just sad how kpop female idols are treated like some toy, like how are they getting them for doing literally the smallest thing (I mean literally) that's why if you don't like Kpop atleast respect them
If anything men are the ones who hate each other. They never complement each other. While on the other hand when women say we stick together, we mean it. Women created a whole movment (feminism) and have supported each other, actions after actions despite the oppression, for decades now. ✨ Women are just Iconic ✨. Period.
Exactly this is so true...tbh i keep complimenting my friends whenever I get the chance bcos as a woman,i know how much it can elevate someone who is striving in this patriarchy
Look, I'm a bi woman and I love women and female solidarity but I think it's dangerous to portray all women a certain way in the sense of we're all kind angels. It allows those women who are toxic and predatory to fly under the radar. I just want there to be acknowledgement of "hey, you can't always trust and support other women and their actions"
Hey, you have 666 likes, so I'm not gonna destroy the pretty number by liking, but so you know I like your comment That pretty number is gone 😢😢 aight got it!
@@lemon4087 and still no action especially as an Indian I have seen people shy away from these topics and when u point it out they will ask you to shut up and you are too young
The first woman spoke FACTS👏. As an indian I feel proud we have brave women like them and sad because we still have to fight like this, to get our opinion heard, in 2021 😑.
I'm so proud of all you sisters who raise your voices and call out sexism, unfair behaviour etc. We must fight for our rights and our dignity. That's the only way to change the things. Thank you for changing the world. I love you.
the indian lady really did said something prove that every girl is having equal rights like boys and also actually SAID THAT TEACH THEM TO BEHAVE!!!! I MEAN I AM SURE NOT EVERY WOMEN ARE ABLE TO SAY THAT I AM FEELING PROUD THAT THE INDIAN WOMEN IS NOT ONE OF THEM
That was senseless for me. I didn't quite understand that. For me, a woman can express her feelings easily but when a man does it sometimes it is seen as weak. U know the bs statement, "rEaL mEn dON't cRy"
@@ItachixUchiha- ah “men don’t cry” actually is complete nonsense but I think tailor meant ,imagine a female celebrity lip syncing to her song,she’ll be seen as overdramatic and if a man does the same, he’ll be seen as “reacting” and feeling the song you know?
@@nianbuno9177 Wdym?? What is the connection between lip syncing and over reacting??? I don't think gender even matters here. Anyone who lip syncs is seen as bad coz u know lip syncing is not a good thing.
I love the "im bloody gorgeous" lady so much she also made a tiktok saying she doesn't want to be the reason why men enjoy, but rather the reason why they suffer and that's so iconic of her. Go off queen
When that woman talked about how guys think we are always dressing for them, that’s so true, like if I wear this I’m wearing it because it’s nice and I want to dress for myself not to “attract” guys. It goes to the point where you’ll see some women saying that some girl is dressing like that for the guys
I mean haven't they seen Girls clothes???🧐 Like sooo many cute clothes for women (and men can wear it too if they want) there's no way i wont try all that different kind of cute clothes in stores especially korean girls style😩💗
I agree 100% I'm always checking out other women, like "I love her outfir", "I love her hair" ect ect... So when i dress up it's pretty much for the same reason. And when I was married I was always just jn sweatpants at home, but if we went out or people came over I get done up.
And another thing: I hate when guys are like “you’re basically asking for it” whenever girls dress in clothes that don’t cover everything entirely. Like what if I actually feel pretty in my outfit? Like I’m not going to change for you. But then they make me feel uncomfortable and then I would wanna cover up. Like it just makes me mad
3:26 my woman be spitting facts. Now that i think about it, we always do it for the girls. Girls try hard to impress girls tbh, no matter straight, gay or other.
As an Indian, teenage girl, I’m really not allowed to wear shorts or crop tops. Even if the shorts come almost up to my thighs or even if the crop tops reach my waist. Is extremely sad how the men treat women. Not just here, but around the world. We cannot wear sleeveless that much or anything that has a slightly low neck. All this why? Because somebody hasn’t bothered to teach their son about respect. My family is very forward and supportive of me dressing according to the trends so only when they’re around, I’m ok with wearing proper clothes. But what about when I move out and start living on my own? Do I have to only wear clothes that will only show my neck and ankles? And if we wear something even the least revealing, let’s say shorts that come up to your knees, men will stare, try to touch you, whistle etc. what kind of an environment is this for anyone to grow up in? And I don’t depend on anyone for transport, so I cycle almost everywhere. I’ve been chased by men who wanted to touch my legs, or butt. I seriously wish the mothers would take the initiative to teach their sons about this and them to be gentlemen and RESPECT not only woman, but EVERYONE.
I go with you but why mother should do this why not father? Both parents should teach irrespective of their gender as girls I have seen girls discriminating eachother for blah blah Topic I am feminist but my definition is not the same Everyone would be treated equal if they are taught equal I mean a women should protect and respect women The coming Generation will be far better I have many people my cousins who have same thoughts the elder Generation might be backward but slowly slowly it will change
exactly. the fact that my grandma told i looked indecent in a crop top exposing like an inch of skin while she was exposing her whole damn belly in a sari.
I have heard a lot of stories like that about India and I am so sorry for every woman who had to endure sexual assault like that or has to live in fear that it might happen. Is there any specific reason why men behave so bad in India?
I don’t understand such. Of course sexual desire is going to be a present factor. Men are much less selective in species and are more generally aroused by females than females are by males. A man will most likely have arousal to a woman if she is doing something attractive as that’s just natural. By the same logic I could say to women we are like candy because women have arousal to men.
3:22 YAS GO QUEEN! also I tried it out out of curiosity, and I just looked at my self and I just felt so happy when I saw my face, cuz I felt so pretty
Gen z is filled with dramatic fools and i know this because i am gen z. Out of all people, whiny teenagers on tik tok are probably the worst role models to have
Someone from work who is now a close friend said “that was kind of awkward..” (I don’t remember what I did or said) and I said “it’s only awkward once you make it awkward” and she told me how that was a smart idea and how that changes everything. It made me feel good, even though I stole that from somewhere 5 years ago…
With the videos about girls supporting girls and people reminding you that you're beautiful, it reminded me of something that happened a couple months ago. I was going to an arcade with my youth group and I saw a girl there that had a very nice skirt. I complimented it saying "Your skirt is really pretty" She thanked me and said "Thank you, you're pretty!" I was struggling with self image at the time and I just asked "Really?" I was speechless and that really helped my confidence afterwards.
"A man is allowed to 'react' , a woman can only 'overreact'." So true, especially after seeing all the stuff she's gone through. My respect for this woman is immeasurable.
5:25 That's soooo true Men really love dark humour until it's about them. They be joking about r4pe and f3minicides but they start a war when someone says KAM
'NO YOUR PRETTY' THAT LINE IS ICONIC!!! As gen z we are slaying in telling women and girls that they are pretty because in case of millenials its the opposite like my mom is a millenial she has insecurities like she is dark and too thin whereas women of her age have gained weight and all i hype her up telling her she is beautiful just the way she is and that to me she is very pretty but whenever she goes to hangout with her friends and to parties every other women tells her that she is too thin and highlight all her flaws and my mom's confidence in herself goes down like thats so sad Let's promise we gen z will never do any of that
I'm from Bangladesh and what the first woman said is sooo true. In South East Asia and many others places, they teach women that they should not instigate men's sexual desires by wearing "inappropriate" clothes instead of teaching boys to behave appropriately and treat women with respect. I'm only 13 and I can't even wear a t-shirt in my own house and when I try to speak up against it I'm told that I'm to sensitive.😑
I'm south east asian and yes it's true that school and society tells girls to cover up or victim blaming for their clothing i absolutely hated it it basically brainwashes girls thinking it's their fault, also they do not teach boys what is "consent" most of them will thought body language, clothing as an invitation to harass girls then blame them for wearing too "reavealing"
OP, i think u mixed up ur geography here. Bangladesh is not included in the S.E. Asia region. S.E. Asia is only comprises of Malaysia, Indonesia, Singapore, Brunei, Thailand, Philippines, Myanmar, Cambodia, Vietnam and Laos. Or ur saying that u'r currently resided in one of the S.E. Asia country?
0:01 dang fr y'all need to educate your sons like people over here tryna see this ladies goods and for the men who do care and don't do stuff like, yk, to women ty, ty SO MUCH
Sometimes I felt so bad because I was born as a woman and since I was little I always wanted to be a man, not because I felt like I was a man or trans, just because I hated being a woman, at school, at home and even with my own perception of myself, misogynistic thoughts were always there, I have lived looking for men’s attention because otherwise I thought I was worthless and almost everything in my life I did it around men’s pleasure. But now I am trying to learn to love and respect myself and change this wrong perception I have of women, because I am so tired of hating who I am and I just want to feel happy with my existence. I was looking for this kind of videos for a long time and somehow it made me feel better, thank you.
You're not the only one sis, I'm there with you fighting my own fight. It does get batter, the more you practice. One thing that personally helped me, was understanding that feminine energy is not week vs masculine energy being strung. And the society associates feminine energy with women, and masculine energy with men. Making I seem as if though men are batter, because of there masculine energy assigned to them. It all comes down to understanding the feminine energy is equally strong with masculine energy. This is also where toxic masculinity comes in, the disadvantage for men because of the patriarchal society which assigned the roles for men and women. Men aren't supposed to cry, and can't be feminine cause they need to be man, and femininity is beneath them, like crying. All people have feminine and masculine energy, despite there gender, anyone can have more of one energy then the other. But all have both energies. Not even talking about that there are more then just two genders, which the patriarchal society dismisses causing oh sooooo many other problmes. But I'll be here all day, if I'll go on 😂😅. I hope this might help you as well, peace ✌
I used to think the same, but then I started spending more time with women, and I felt a lot of positive energy that I never felt around men. And I realized women ain't the problem, the society is that paints women with that brush. And now I love being a woman because now I understand my worth
When a woman learns to embrace her character she is soo powerful. Men might act tough but mentally we girls are stronger. I feel you and I'm proud of you and keep going ❤️
@♡ 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐤𝐨𝐫𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐝’𝐫 ♡ hun ignore them, it's usually people like them who bark "woof woof woof" without thinking and consider themselves to be superior.
