I had a dad but he was a deadbeat he never got us birthdays gifts or even said happy birthday or Merry Christmas so My mom worked jobs till she found one good that paid well her boss was amazing and my mom gave me the best life ever I Love You Mom🩷
Omg same my dad left when i was 3 and I'm growing up fine and I have 4 brothers and my dad not contributing to pay money tor help we've survived. Everyone struggles but I feel like God has really helped my family and me ❤
I raised my two children alone after divorcing their father ,he was an alcoholic ,he never did a thing for them r with them after that. It was very hard because of money but We made it through it and they're amazing and all grown up now and I still see them everyday. I think what children need the most is living people that put them first ,who cares what sex they r ,as long as those babies r loved ,that's the only thing that matters .It's so important for children to grow up with people that not only love them but each other ,it builds strong adults with confidence and they can go out in the world and be alright ,that's my only regret in raising my two children alone but We're alright and they r happy and I have beautiful precious grandchildren now too
I do believe kids should have both a healthy female role model and a healthy male role model, but that doesn’t have to be their parents, could be an aunt or uncle or grandparent or close family friend
They don’t NEED and they SHOULDN’T have a male role model! Trust me they will be just fine without one! I can promise you this because I have 2 lovely mums and no uncle lol! I only have aunts and I’m just fine so yeah😌
Children need parents who love them and provide for them. It makes nlt diffrence the gender of those parents. My Mum raised myself and my brother on her own because my Father is a deadbeat. These children are loved and wanted, that is more than can be said for many whos biological parents (both male and female) whose parents neglect and abuse them. Its the quaity of the love and care gievn gthat counts not the gender of the person doing the loving.
A dad is a person who is obligated to help provide and care for their family, a donor doesn't have to help he doesn't even have to meet the kids So if you are going to comment thats right the kids dont have a dad they have 2 wonderful moms and an amazing donor who donated to help people who cant have children with their partner naturally ❤ So before you comment think about this
@@swissarmybadger it’s not my experience tho. The majority of the world will agree with me that the farther’s leave more than the mothers , it’s just fact. I’m not saying all men do it but it’s more than woman for sure. Think what u want but that’s the facts.
@@N3ptune3254 but just because fathers leave more than mothers doesn't mean that MOST fathers will leave. That's not a fact. That's like saying more dogs attack people than cats, so that means most dogs will attack. It doesn't work that way. The fact that you think it does just shows a real jaded and pessimistic view.
I am pregant right now found out after I broke up with my ex after emotionally belittling me 24/7 and I txt him for my own protection because I'm not just gonna not tell you I told him sent him pictures of the test them my test results from planned parenthood and I tried calling more then once and I got block so now I have prof of telling him and him not ignoring it
Two parent homes vs one is the argument most people make, without realizing, when they say that they need a father figure, unless they aren’t going by any studies and they are just stupid. Two parents are the key, not saying single parents are less than but than they have less the time or energy as they already know.
@kkhagen2170 Am going to totally disagree. Am a single mum, tried to do the co-parenting until I get a phone call from my son's school informing me that again on the week with his dad my son hadn't attended. I get a fine shoved my way, then find out he is beating my son. I get full custody of our son and a restraining order and move. My son missed one day because of an operation, left school with two degrees and a diploma and thanks to his "dad" ptsd being a single parent didn't make me lazy. Maybe the authorities I warned about his the dads temper but saw me as a bitter ex, they were lazy.
I was born through fertility treatment and I lived without a dad but with 2 amazing moms. They were the best thing I could have asked for. They did all and probably more than a dad could have done for me.
Same my dad isn’t around much and it’s been 2months since I’ve seen him or even talked to him my mom and him got a divorce 2years ago but my dad says he cares but he really doesn’t
@@xtrmsleeplol my dad before he died helped give me body issues and some other mental health issues and when he died I cried not from sadness but from happiness cause I was finally free from him lol 😂
@@xtrmsleepshitty argument that means absolutely NOTHING🤣🤣. I didn’t have a dad till I was 13 and he just made shit worse wish he woulda stayed gone. Maybe you just don’t know how shitty a HUGE chunk of dads are though, lucky you. I think this statement is honestly hilarious with the fact that out of majority of people I’ve ever met have been either traumatized by their father, abused by em or just did everything they possibly could to get away from them…… I rlly want to know where all these absolutely amazing fathers you’re speaking about are cuz I sure haven’t met any other then 1 and I swiped him up😂I get told constantly how lucky I am for having a husband that’s active and adores our kids. If it was truly the norm to be a good father men wouldn’t get praised for it as if it’s rare anytime it’s seen or talked about, just as women don’t get praised for taking care of the babies they made with em.
okay but like the boy will have an uncle (leah’s brother) and also like i’m pretty sure they have a guy friend so like it’s not a big deal if oakley has 2 moms
I grew up with not having a dad but a wonderful mum and I grew up wonderful. and so will your babys.!!! i love my mum more than anything.and your babys are going to love you both the same way i love my mum. Ignore the haters😊
They don't need a dad if there are two people already caring for them. I had a dad let's say since 5-13 my dad had rape me so many times and I was so scared to say anything but I did when I was 16 and I went to Foster Care for 1 year and couple months
I used a donor for my baby son. Having said that, I had the process of creating him with a male but that male is not in his existence and my kid is perfectly fine frankly. Who the guy was? I feel my son will grow up much happier and healthier. Emotionally and mentally, and he has all his physical needs. Already met so having said that. I don't feel a kid Needs a mom and dad combination. I feel as long as it has a parent or guardian of some sort that loves them and takes care of them. They're gonna grow up perfectly fine healthy and happy
Same I have one and he left me even though I was his first kid and he tried reaching out to me but when he was drunk 💀 I feel like if I ever have a kid imma make sure I do everything possible to make sure the kid doesn’t have a dad
Actually with amount of single moms or how dads "babysitting" their own kids & doesn't know even their age or birthday - I think having two Moms for a kid won't be a problem at all 🤷♀️
I think having a father figure is really important but I mean as long as they are loving and supporting their children I don’t really think it matters.
My dad was apart of my life but was limited because my mom thought she was better then him because the state gave birth certificate that had a mistake that made her think she had levering over my father.- so moms can also be a problem in a childs life not just fathers
Well at least their own children won’t have to worry about some deadbeat father. In the world babies are raised my the mothers anyway. We’re still animals.
Males have sperm and females have eggs, the sperm finds the egg and connects then it grows into a baby, I'm not sure about size but I assume they are super duper tiny.
OK, it's only so people that say that they need a phone. In my life like girl I know you can't be talking because like yeah, maybe you don't have a father or something like that, but that doesn't mean you need to point it out, because sometimes people's fathers are not even there for them like so you only let it be like. Respectful and respectful way because they're great. They're actually grateful for like having a kid because some people are not grateful. Some people kill their kids.
I don't have a dad, he left, had my half sister than left her too ✨🤪 sooo not everybody needs a mom or a dad, buy everyone needs a family, biological or not, even a chosen family like a group of friends 🙂
