We praise children in order to build up their self-esteem. They are more likely to take risks and be more creative and expressive if they know that there are people who will love their work (Poker Chip Theory). *But here's where teaching and parenting differ.* We teachers are taught not to praise a child's work by saying "Wow, that's so good!" or "I love it!" We have to say specific things, like "I like how you made the tail curvy down here" or "I like how big the eyes are". We are also trained to give the child the chance to explain what they made in more detail. We can ask questions like "What is this? What does it do? Where are the people going? Why does it have five legs? Who gets to live there? How many colors did you use?" The child is the artist, so let them explain their creation and their thought process. It's honestly very cool to see children explain their drawings! Even if it's just a doodle mess, the child doesn't see it as such (depending on their age and developmental stage).
if you want to achieve otherwise, just yell kids the 4 horsemen spells: if you want to make yourself painful, keep going down 1: you're bad 2: give up 3: get a job 4: can't even do something simple
I was about to comment this. People in Bunnings always know exactly where everything is, it’s crazy. Do they study the store everyday, because Coles & woolies staff are useless when it comes to finding shit in a smaller store compared to Bunnings.
the fireworks actually, not sure if u've observed it but if u live in China or any Chinese community u'll be able to hear that, especially during the Chinese New Year... Feeeeeew~ PA~ yea thats how it goes
Soo good your back keep it up! also your interview with Dr mike was so informative and i got to learn a lot about your struggles to become the steven we love today- keep it up bro
@@StevenHe can you do me a big favour and subscribe to this guy? He's a professional at the slipper (he's not too naughty so I know for a fact that he got his techniques for sending failures to Jesus from u and I believe he really deserves it)
6:09 that is the firework sound, as you can also see in the back, 对联 at the front doorr is for Chinese New Year, but this video is placed in the countryside of China according to the architecture
The art part is relatable enough, I used to draw shitty pictures and my art teacher would say, "Redo it" and after 5-6 tries I got it right and yeah it improved and I learnt to get it correct in my first try.
I just had a 1s flashback to an episode of Bluey that covered that exact thing! If praised for the thing=keep doing and practicing the thing. If ridiculed for the thing=immediately stop doing the thing, never going to get better.
When I was a kid there was a magazine for kids were kids could send their drawings and some would be put on the last page, so I made a drawing and showed it to my dad and said proudly:look how much better my drawing is than theirs,and he said: yours is just as bad as theirs,did not spare my feelings at all 😂
9:21 This lady has true lead-protagonist form, the confident slight-smile, and the sleeveless-but-classy dress (while still wearing her purse). She’s got that heroine street-fighter energy, and she knows it. When is her character model going to be motion-tracked for Tekken 9? 😎 … Maybe we’ll see a trilogy movie with her, then crossovers with John Wick / James Bond? (As Jeanette Boudica? Look up the last name ;-) ).
Hi Steven, the part at 6:09 was actually a man mocking firework sounds (cuz he can't afford them), not really trying to wake anyone up. The snow in the background proves the time to be around January (new years) in the colder part of China. Hope you notice this. Love your content!
7:22 When I was five it was May4th and it was Star Wars day at the Zoo and I started lightsaber fighting my freind outside the Gorilla enclosure and it started whamming the glass with a pool noodle and then trying to jump the 30 foot wall.
From mark 6:35 to 6:45, your reaction and that scene are priceless and I love it!! 🤯 By the way, can you send me the link of that '4 white beings dancing on the bed' - I would really appreciate it, thanks. 😄
Childhood praise is actually a complex issue, praise of output can actually be detrimental, but praise of effort improves outcomes and the tone of self talk. It makes sense that a collectivist culture would abhor praise, because it generates self-esteem which leads to individuality.
