Really good video, Jo. Your guest was very articulate and interesting. I agree with most of what the two of you were saying. With respect to dating, if I ask someone to go with me, I expect to pay. After all, if I asked her, I am in control of where we go and can plan the date such that wherever it is, I can afford what it is we will be doing. I would never expect a woman to pay for her half of the date. A lot of women here will offer, which many men appreciate, but we never accept. Can't wait for the follow up! Take care.
Hello Jo 👋, Hello Jennifer 👋, what is this 50/50 ? Both partners once they decide on being committed to each other should put 100% of their efforts to build a loving binding relationship. You can tell someone loves you by their effort. In the US most people feel you should always be considerate to others, and some don't. It mostly depends on how you were raised. Very interesting topics , two beautiful independent women sharing their thoughts 😀. The smiles on your faces were priceless.
Hello to Jennifer, who speaks English in a beautifully elegant way. Having dated ladies from Nigeria, Ghana and Uganda, as well as the Philippines, there are definitely cultural similarities. Lovely chat ladies.❤
It would be difficult for many European guys paying for all, when they're not used to such in their own countries. I'd like to know why Kenyan women or any other women feel it should be the way that the man provides for all?
@@jennifernjambi4618 Jenny, just so you know. In my country people are seen & respected as equal & that means (in most csses) a married couple who both work, equally both provide in monetary ways. Both feel it's right to do so & is healthy for ones own self esteem & wellbeing. This is considered progress from 60+ years ago, when indeed it was the man who (generally) solely provided in a marriage. Think about it & I've visited Kenya to know, do you want progress of a healthy & wealthy developed European country, or Kenya to remain the country it is?
In my case grew up knowing and seeing my grandfather providing for the family.my grandmother have never worked. Biblicaly i have never come across averse that says its 50/50. awoman gives birth and feel the pain and aman sweats Will working hard. Man providing for the family have never stoped them from having many wives. The problem in africa is corruption and greedy leader that why we are abit poor than european country.
@@jennifernjambi4618 Hi Jenny, yes I completely understand & that's how it was 60+ years ago in many countries, including mine...but things have changed, thinking has changed for the better & mutual respect has grown from it. These days, the any self respecting woman 'WANTS' & needs to pay her way on her own or in a relationship. My wife & all my friends wives do this, it gives them self worth & independence. Sure, we treat eachother on occasions & then that's seen as special & out of love. My countries government is also corrupt, most are...but it's what's inside the individuals that counts. I know for certain that women who pay their way & don't rely on their man, feel much much better about themselves, their self worth increases & their self worth & respect is high. Such women here are desired & respected by men, yet any women who is known to take take take...is kept well away from. Yes the two countries are a world apart, but human beings are human beings & so it's up to us to change if we want better, want to improve. Hand on heart, if you have the means to pay, how does it feel when you don't? When you always allow your man to pay?
