TIPS FOR MOVING OUT OF STATE SUCCESSFULLY! | What You NEED to Know | Chair Chats w Living Like Mary 

"Sometimes your gifts are locked in a cage cause you not supposed to be there" that was real.

I really love this video. I’m a firm believer in don’t tell anyone your goals keep them to yourself till it happens.

I am a 40 year old nurse: LPN, yes I had a late start in completing my goals of being a nurse - legally but im here to tell you that breaking free from the negative that was imposed on me relatives, who don't want to face me, has been the most rewarding. God is faithful towards those who remain faithful to the path. I second this advice because I also use them. As a black woman, to another black woman, lets cultivate a growth mindset and cutoff who needs to go.

Wow! You started with $12 and left making over 6figures!! Like this is GOALSSSS 🙏🏼

I'm moving in the next 3 months to a whole new state. I'm both terrified and excited! I'm confident that the universe will open all the doors for me. Thank you for this video! ❤

Extremely motivational, I'm a 21 yr old black dude trying to leave my state and doing as much research as I can before making this move and this video was very inspiring to watch, thanks!

When you cried 😢😢😢 I’m glad u made it out that situation

I swear I felt like I was watching my big sister talk to me through this video. thank you for this 💕

This is crazy I'm literally from Missouri and I'm moving to Texas I picked the perfect video lol

“GOD is my source” ‘I am, expecting miracles into my life.. THANK YOU FATHER AMEN 🙏🏾 ❤❤❤❤❤

I’m raised in Miami fl and live alone. I gotta late start in my mid 30s and it really give me a reality check. Too expensive for nothing especially in today’s economy. My skill set ain’t too great but I’m struggling big time and don’t even have kids. I’m mostly just scared cause I only have 1 friend here and all my family is here. I’ll be starting over all alone moving away

When you said you slept in your car in the handicap spot and you started to cry I felt the spirit of The Most High! Lord have mercy! Great testimony

Solo, I have moved from Philadelphia, to Phoenix to SoCal and next …to Las Vegas‼️🙌🏽🙌🏽 These journeys have been some of the most exciting times of my life. Fortunately, my very small circle has always been supportive. My biggest suggestion is to do a deep dive on the location you are considering. RU-vid can be one of your best friends for this task. This even includes if your fav stores are in the area, and what health care providers will be available. As long as you have a job, the pieces will start to fit like puzzle pieces. Wishing anyone who is relocating much good fortune. 🌟✨💫

This made me cry 🥹🥹 I moved away from my hometown three years ago from Charlotte and when I tell you I did everything that you are saying. I remember I was moving on a Saturday and I told my mother and friends that Friday I was determined nobody and I mean nobody was gonna stop me ❤

Girlllll you made me cry because I am going through the motions of moving and this is a mental fight between the old you to the future and more improved you

This is the BEST moving states video on YT. This was honest, empathetic, smart and wise. God Bless your journey!

Also! Ur right about moving for the right reasons! I moved to prove everyone wrong and get back at my ex the first time and I ended up moving back! The second time I did pretty much everything u said! Good video 👏🏼

Welp! I’ve already told all my family and friends my goal of moving and they all said don’t 😞 I really wish I would’ve knew this before telling them cause nw my friends barely invite me out since they said I went be here anyway. 😢 Im thinking about moving to TX but now I have a BF and he doesn’t want to leave. I really needed this cause I just don’t know what to do

Thank you for this video t it’s definitely a realistic way to approach moving away. I hate that u were homeless but LOOK AT YOU NOW! I’m proud of u this video is definitely being saved

The United States (if you're here) and the WORLD is huge but social norms or finite. This means that it's possible for you to find a living situation similar to what you remember from home, but without the negativity. In 2021, I moved cross country to a place I've never been with just $2,500 and no job in the new city. But you can't do it alone! When you get to the new city, you MUST use the local resources, the most important of which are the HUMAN resources! Join groups! Network! Make friends! Do this at least one month before your move. It's scary to start from scratch with no safety net, but fear not - many have done this before.

Just found you. You had me at Kansas City. My current City and I’m trying to get out. Single. I know where I want to go. Been going there for 5 years. I knew it was my place the very first time I went. My soul spoke to me that day. I’m so scared but so excited and no one has any faith in me. Thank you for this video! ❤

Your tips were perfect! I went through some b.s with so-called family with each state-wide move I made. Now, I thank God every night for covering me and blessing me with my own home. My point is, when it looks like you've hit rock bottom, don't give up! Your blessing is right around the corner!!

I have watched countless videos on moving and specifically moving to Texas but this video was the best I’ve seen! Please do an updated video of your thoughts on moving to Texas❤

I love this video, and I just subscribed to your channel! I am in the process of relocating from FL to TX, and I am excited about what God has in store for me! I am ready to reinvent myself and start fresh in a new place. My goal is to move before this year ends. I've been applying and interviewing for jobs nonstop. I refuse to settle! This video has given me more encouragement to keep on pushing! Thank you!

Everything u said is Antalya really helpful. Especially driving on the hwy ! Thank you!

Mary!!! You look so pretty 😍

I've watched this video twice now and will probably watch it 2 or 3 more times during this year. I'm planning to move out of my home state next year and these tips are so good. I especially like your tip about not telling anybody about your plans to move. The only peeps I've told are peeps that are supportive. The rest I'm waiting to tell until I have more concrete plans in place. This video is probably the best one I've come across for good real tips. Will definitely be returning for repeat watching.

I never comment but I must say your vulnerability is refreshing and your tips are very on point. I've never seen your channel before, but very glad to come across it. Keep going sis!

at 16:14 " not even for a free meal" had me dead LMAO. That is exactly what i was telling a dude i met right before leaving Seattle to move back east... " dawg im moving next week. "

Thank you for your encouraging words. Praying about relocating to be closer to family in Huntsville.

She’s dropping down the whole system I love it 🧚🏾‍♂️📝📝📋

Tfs 👑.. I most definitely need this confirmation Ive always wants to move out of my home state.. I did when i was in my early 20's.. that didnt work I ended up moving back 🏠.. Anyways its been over 10yrs now... I still havent got my own anything.. I feel a calling for me 2 move away & create my own environment .. You shared some amazing tips... Now i have to work hard & save & explore the state I want to move 2!! Your story was wonderful.. thx again May god continue 2 bless you & your family!! 👋🏾 new subbie 🙏🏾💐💖

Good to see your face!!! Love the new look 😍 (hair twins) is that your bedroom?? Can you give us a updated tour!!!

Great tips! 👍🏿

Tytytyt so much this video was so helpful im definitely moving to Texas and just hearing this is my conformation so helpful tytytyty

I’m grateful for this.

Good to see you. Love the hair.

Thank you 🙏🏾 kindly for sharing this video. I’m planning to sell my home in Virginia Beach and relocate to Texas because they offer incentives for Veterans and have more land when you purchase a home. I have a realtor in the city I plan to relocate to and I planned to visit but hadn’t planned to visit as long as you mentioned (nor more than one visit). I also appreciate your caution ⚠️ with visitors once relocated. I really wanted to find a group there as well. I just hadn’t found one. Romance isn’t my goal but the robbery situation was helpful. I really want to relocate quickly.

don’t apologize for getting emotional. it made this video even more valuable because I felt it. sending you love for this video ❤

As soon as you said Kansas City Mo.....Subscribe...I love all your tips thank you so much

Great video and good info ! Especially about living by a police station !

GIIIRRRRLLLLAAAA thank you for this video! I really needed this motivated and for you to be a woman of God is even better. ❤❤ I wish many blessings upon you’re life

Wow. You don’t look like what you been through 🙏🏼 I would love to hear more of your journey! And I agree with not making romantic connections girls get stupid over guys 😂

Thank you for this video sista I needed to hear this. ✨✨✨ I am moving to Vegas in May.

Thank you, thank you thank you God for this!!!!!!! Wow. I’ll be moving to a new state next year. Thank you for this.

Very, very wise!!! Safety is key!

Thank you for the gems. I wish the best for anyone on this journey. I didn’t know the mental tole it would take. I moved straight of my moms house to another state. But it’s barely been 30 days. Having my dog is forcing me out into interaction I wouldn’t have had alone.

Sisssss! Girl you have gain my up most respect. You have stated some real hard facts! Thank you for educating these young phone happy folk. I am grown grown and still look in my rearview even in daylight. I love how you keep it on real! And your tips are extremely helpful. Thank you! 🙏🏽

So many good tips. Such a blessing for you to be able to take care of your Mom. Keep striving.

Awwww Mary don’t cry 😢😭

These were some of the best tips I’ve heard and ones I never heard before.

Yo! This video is absolutely EVERYTHING!!!!! Thank you so much for this. You put a lot into deeper perspective than I've ever heard before. Wow!! This is AMAZING! I would love to hear your story on how you met your husband out there.

Wow, I’ve already done some of the stuff that you suggested. I’m on the right track. God led!

It was nothing but God that brought this video to me. I am planning to move, and I have serious plans for my next chapter. I am encouraged and enlightened by your tips. Is there more?

Great video. Great advice

I definitely was delivered here. From MO. born and raised in stl. Went to college in cape Girardeau. accepted 1st job in washington, mo. I am miserable! To the point of moving states. Thank you for the direction and encouragement! Great info and video.

Sis, this was so good. God is sooooo amazing! 🙌

I know this is 6 months old... you have helped me so much and I am so grateful for you and your encouragement!! 30:29 t ❤❤❤

Thank you! What a beautiful and informative video!

“ the guys are so much finer chile “ 😂 no seriously though! Great video very informative and when you cried I cried! God is soooo good to his children ❤️

I love your message and words of wisdom. ❤ CA -> MN 🤞🏼💕

Woman, I loved this video, you are so real, God is definitely with you. I don't know you but you made Me proud. Your admission of the way God has lead you real touched Me because I truly understand the strength of God also the strength of God within you. Good job Sister, i hope you and your husband does and are doing well. I'm in the middle of relocating myself. God Bless!!!

New sub, I appreciate this video and so many things you were saying a resonating with me because anybody I talk to just doesn’t get it. And I think it’s important to point out that I live in the state of Florida because so many people have come down here. I’m born and raised in the state. But the energy down here doesn’t necessarily match mine. I added the Weather app to the locations that I’ve been spotting out. I’ve also been traveling over the last two years, looking at different locations and have a couple trips planned in the next 3 to 5 months. My is about to be put on the market. And I’ve already relocated with family. A graduate with my bachelors in less than six months I don’t wanna leave without it. Saving is so important. But the self doubt emotionally and not thinking you can do. It definitely holds me back ( you or I) both words because I feel like it may not just be me. I love your energy and I appreciate the fact that you were transparent about your transition to a new state. I’ll share a couple of my own list in case anybody else or yourself or did not struggle with this. For me, it was transferable certificates or education to help with the transition into a new job . If you have pets, make sure you possibly look into ESA paperwork as this can save in cost if you’re renting. In my situation, I have homeschooled child. I made sure to call the districts and each location and look up the state regulations for homeschooling. Compare apples to apples when it comes to education, regulations and transfer credits, especially high school students or if you’re college student. For me, I downsized all of my things , making sure you have all of your medical records and important documents together if you need to see a doctor or get prescriptions for a couple months in advance and especially if you need a specialist.

I needed this! I’ll be watching this again! ❤

Very true !!! Love this

I’m moving from California to Iowa … I hope the best for myself and my little family .

You gave THE BEST tips. Thank you so much for the reassurance. I'm moving in less than a month and I'm terrified and excited at the same time

I love the homes in Texas!!!

*Moving with Holy Admirations* thanx twin! Peace&Blessings ☮️☪️🕉

You made some GREAT points. Very realistic advice.. thank you

HONEY I listened and wrote down every tip from this video. God is so good and I'm happy to hear you got through the hardships to get to where you desired. I pray God blesses me with a new location as well. Finally doing the research thank you for the tips!

This was a very helpful video! thank you so much for sharing your experience, knowledge, and wisdom! 🙏💜💜💜

Thank you. This video really helped put things into perspective for me. You gave great tips that I will be applying to my upcoming move to Texas.

I absolutely love this video! I’m so happy to have stumbled across it as I’m planning on moving to a new state. I love how you didn’t just paint a pretty picture(the good and the ugly) and was truthful about everything you need to know and do when you’re making a move. Than you SO much! 👍💕

I move in 1 week. This video is very helpful!

This was beautiful! THANK YOU SO MUCH! Blessings! IT WILL COME. IM READY.

Hey Mary ! Just luv your new series Girl u are fantastic about the guild lines of moving out of state,l could listen to u all day because u have been thru it to give the advice, when u first came u did what u had to do to get where you are now ,u are a success a leader and a blessing to be here in 🤠 we luv u so much and inspiring about your journey ❤️ u and keep it coming see u in the next one 💕

Sooo helpful 🩷 thank you!! Hawaii ✈️ Iowa

Hi Mary ur journey is so incredibly awesomesauce & deeply inspirational to where it lit the fire inside of my soul to GET REAL. I don’t know how long this journey will take me, but I know I will make it out. I have faith. & thank u for adding fuel to my faith w sharing ur wisdom & experience. If this path to my own freedom succeeds, I’ll be back here in the comment section 🦚

Thank you for this! I have been looking for a video like this and couldn't find anything other than packing tips or moving tips..."start decluttering as soon as you know you're moving". I can't tell you how many times I heard that sentence! I get it! I need more. This was great!

Such a great video thanks Mary! Agreed with so many of the comments, very realistic tips and recommendations for moving out of state thank you for putting this together!

Hey, thanks for the video! I am also from KC and I am moving to the east coast in the fall. Love KC girls spreading their wings ❤️

I loved this video, thank you for your story 🙌🏾💜

You look absolutely glamorous.

This is the best advice ever ❤ I did it the hard way 😂

Wow. Your words were so powerful. Thank you for being so real. I felt every word and really needed this. Ill watch this video every day until i achieve this goal. Thanks girl keep being great.

This video really helped me. Thank you!

Thank you for making this video! I got so much from hearing you perspective 👏🏾👏🏾❤️

Guuuurl you just spoke to my spirit frfr 😢😢😢 I just wish I found this sooner.

Thank you for sharing my first visit and I’m very inspired to move out my current state. Thank you so much

Excellent video and guidance. Loved listening to you.

I have always been the happy part of my happiness.. im letting that be my guide ❤

To God be all the glory. Thos testimony and video is soooo beautiful, informative, and positive. I can watch it continuously until the promise is manifested. Thank you soooo much.

Powerful testimony

Thank you for this video! It was really helpful! I want to leave Minnesota, but I just feel like I can’t! I actually want to move to Dallas but my parents have scared the life out of me and I’m not sure how much they’ll help me if I do. I have college friends who moved and they are really living their life!

God is Good! Thanks for your words of wisdom!

From someone who moved out of state TWICE i agree with everything you said. I wish I would’ve visited my first apartments at night, a HOT GHETTO MESS! I also should’ve saved my credit would be soo much better 🫤

GREAT TIPS ❤ I wonder if I should stop focusing on Social Security right now so I can save and just start working more during the week instead of less? Because Social Security is always going to be there right? I mean you can always apply to get it back. And if you call ahead of time and let DHS know why you suddenly started making more money “to save for moving“ that will probably help in the long run if you do reapply

I’m working on manifesting an out of state move for myself. Can’t afford to visit different states so I’m using Google Earth to view the towns I’m looking at apartments in. 😊 just an option for other people like me who maybe can’t afford to visit states.

Highly informative, thank you!