"My family comes first and im always giving them the love they need always neglecting myself." , "not appreciated for my efforts." Damn that hit me so hard I cried. Thank you for your words. Knowing I'm not alone even though everyday I am. ❤
Thank you for listening and commenting. Your not alone in this, sacrifice for our kids is what we do , and most of the time without any gratitude or a simple thank you except mothers day, and even then, its obligated to thank us not like they do it because they want to, they do it because the holliday tells them to. Subscribe and keep updated with my music, I have more like this on the way.
@@chirondawn2966that is oh so very true. Thanks for your reply to my comment. I wasn't expecting something directly from you and i really appreciate your words. I'm going to listen to all you have uploaded and I can't wait to hear more from you! ❤❤
I hear you! I wish I would have heard my wife sooner!!! It seems that none of us understand the other side. I have cried so many times to Dax’s song. This hits from the other side mostly because I never had expectations for my wife but that doesn’t mean she didn’t feel any. She may have not have any for me but I sure as hell do!
Thank you for putting it from a woman's perspective we are mothers and Aunt and teachers and soldiers and doctors and we are often times thought of as oh you're okay you know you can just get over it. When most people don't understand that to be a woman it's just as hard to be a man. Were abused mentally physically emotionally we hold Blue Collar jobs just like a man and come home at the end of the day and feel so alone and feel so helpless and feel like you did absolutely everything right and it was absolutely wrong. Thank you for your bravery to write it from a woman's perspective I hope @Dax hears this
Very sad song but so very true you shouldn't ever have to compete with social media to know or understand how beautiful you are because the creater created you in his own image and that's a very true important thing to remember always where ever you go
I have been waiting for SO LONG for a woman to post a rebuttal to his song. I feel like his song could be valid, but he blames women, whining the entire time. This is spot on. As a man, I know (somewhat) what the women in my life have sacrificed and been through. As a MAN I feel like the majority of these issues affecting men are due to men, but I guarantee you, based on the people Dax is associating with, he blames "toxic masculinity" on women.
Thank you so much for your honest comment and for tuning in. Your woman is very lucky to have you be so open minded that you see the truth, pros and cons to both sides. Nobody is perfect, but with compassion, understanding, honest communication, and an open mind, we can have a better more respectful, less victim minded society. One of my song lyrics from " Lonely World" says - We are broken, but not hopeless Thank you for your feedback and hope you and your SO listen to more of my songs and relate to eachother in a sincere way!!
It's his story, his life, so he's to blame who he feel, just as you,... We all have different lives and experiences, no need to try an correct a life you haven't lived in...
I got to say that it take a lot of strength and will power to take a stand. I appreciate you. Its a great accomplishment. You should be very proud of yourself. I know i am proud of you. I will be the first to say that you song actually had an impact on my life. As i man i found myself questioning if a woman I loved, would stand up against someone trying to ruin, belittle, or create doubt in her mind against the man she was with. Just to make himself a better mire qualified man to take his place. Sweetheart, you showed me this which i already knew but doubted. So thank you for helping me finally seeing my truth. Now with all the love i have for her, I can let go knowing my live was strong enough to let her go. Ty
im trying to make that happen!! i left him a message on this video in the same way he left a message for Eminem to call him on one of his.....guess he is just getting too big now!!! Thank you for listening and taking time to comment . I really appreciate you all!!
The problem is that you are wrong. This might be your experience. But your husband is gone because he is working for you. While most men will never hear they are good enough or will only get flowers at their funeral is true.
Actually your spouse and kids should ALWAYS come first. Even before religion. If you can't put your spouse or kids first then you shouldn't have a family in the first place.
@@Buttercup20151 Nope wrong. I'm sorry to tell you but if that's the way you really think you shouldn't be married. No matter what your spouse and kids comes first over anything else and any church will tell you that.
So ummm that hit me girl I felt that whole song in my soul and thank you for sharing our side of the story like that speaks so much to the fact women are expected to do everything all the time for everyone amd it can get lonely and sometimes hard like I really am glad that were coming to more understanding being a woman aint easy
Thank you for listening and I am so glad that you related to it and sorry you feel like I feel because it sucks!! I write music from real life, real issues from a womans point of view because that is what music is missing . I do not have professional producer or best audio quality, but I tell real life in a real raw way. I hope that you are inspired and motivated to speak up to everyone and stand your ground and know you MATTER, YOUR IMPORTANT, YOU ARE LOVED YOU ARE IRREPLACEABLE!!
@@chirondawn2966 I completely agree the raw emotions and raw events are missing a lot nowadays so to find an artist that makes it hit just is amazing and tells the harder truths that's what music should be life isnt always roses and you may not have all the fancy recording stuff but it's from the heart that's what actually matters I know one day you'll get there ❤️
To be fair men put their families first too neglecting himself. Why you think he's always working? For himself? No he always working to give his family the life he never had. Haha
I don't think you understand the song that Dax wrote. Real men don't expect you to be something that you're not. You shouldn't let those outside influences make you strive to be something make believe. Or something other than the real you.
I do not think you understand my remix to what Dax said, to a woman, in our heads and what we are raised to believe and how society is, a woman's perception is quite different, hence why I wrote this remix. We were enlightened by Dax telling us a mans point of view so we understand men better. I wrote it from a woman's point of view to show how different it is. Both songs are subjective, not objective therefore everyone has their own story and point of view. I was telling mine in my version. Perception is NOT reality, it is the filter in which we see the world. Communication is NOT key, Comprehending the conversations IS !! Thank you for listening, and thank you for your comment and opening the doorway to understanding.
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.
I'm curious on why some of the things you talk about in your song are about what women do to women. Just seems odd that you are making a song about struggles you bring on yourself and not of struggles that are naturally expected from you.
@@atheistskeptic8748 my reading compression is perfectly fine, sweetie. Maybe you need to take another listen to Dax's version if you're criticizing her for doing, at worst, the exact same thing he's saying.
