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to be alone but not lonely… 

coco xu
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@jjunn29
@jjunn29 Год назад
"u can be alone, but doesn't necessarily mean ur lonely"
@drunkenboat_dark_domain
@drunkenboat_dark_domain Год назад
Thank you coco! "After loneliness comes independence "I can’t agree more 🥰
@rockygirl9533
@rockygirl9533 Год назад
I’ve been living alone in my family house for the past year while my mom has been working in a different state sense October of last year and haven’t gotten the chance to see her. I live in a small town and neighborhood where it’s quiet all the time so it makes me feel less alone. This video came at such a great time because just yesterday I had the feeling thats comes every one and a while that I’m alone ones again. Hearing about how you deal with loneliness made me feel a lot better and reassured me.
@youdontknowprincessjin4255
@youdontknowprincessjin4255 Год назад
I love love the direction you are heading with your channel 🎉❤
@richardcooper
@richardcooper Год назад
Definitely as always making/giving value, and seriously how good is K-Pop! K-Pop fans are not alone :)
@luiizacortes
@luiizacortes Год назад
i loved the video, I live by myself for a year now and I’ve learned how to deal w those emotions of “being lonely” and by far Its being great, my happiest moments are when I am by myself
@tori2606
@tori2606 Год назад
I loved this, thank you I was feeling a bit lonely but now I feel better
@saylalisaloveme4619
@saylalisaloveme4619 Год назад
Coco, thank you for being 9 months in my life. every single video of yours is pure gold, you made me see my life in a different perspective, I can’t describe how much I love and appreciate you❤
@yangnoo5799
@yangnoo5799 Год назад
coco, thanks for sharing this. I believe I overcame this situation in my own way!!
@seasonjijie
@seasonjijie Год назад
Hi Coco, I'm interested to find out why and how did you enter a US university from NZ. e.g. did you take a SAT exam? Also, what differences do you see now between yourself and your previous high school classmates who entered a NZ university? Lastly, pros and cons of study in US? assuming you do not regret the decision Thank you
@val1032
@val1032 Год назад
5:50 that secret tip part OMG. I ACTUALLY DO THAT. I didn’t really tot it was a coping mech sorta thing but I guess it is
@CuongNguyen-w5h5n
@CuongNguyen-w5h5n Год назад
This puts a smile on my face from start to finish because it is just so genuine. You're such a beautiful person Coco. Another great video!
@xerosolar307
@xerosolar307 Год назад
You know the phrase "It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company", when I felt most lonely was actually in College, I was studying in another state but I had annoying roommates most of my years there (and I mean, the room was shared, it was a very small place) and I felt dreadful because I couldn't find a place to be alone, which as an introvert made me happier, then I moved out to a different appartment where we each had our own rooms and I felt so much better (then pandemic happened and I returned home w/my parents) but yeah, for me it was finding people that I actually liked being with, online communities also helped me a lot (also big K-pop stan here, hehe)
@TheBigBananaaa
@TheBigBananaaa 5 месяцев назад
✳️ My hobby is golf ⛳️ I book 5 golf days a week and play with different people with the same passion ✳️
@tonyccc
@tonyccc Год назад
Journal Squared! Hope you are enjoying and live in peace with loneliness in NYC
@tenzinrigsel8142
@tenzinrigsel8142 Год назад
For past few months I have been watching your videos and I got to learn that how to love myself and being alone doesn't mean you are lonely. You taught me living alone and spending time with yourself is a lot healthier(both mentally and physically) than I thought. I found peace in your videos and i hope everyone else will…..THANK YOU.
@MC-bb3ov
@MC-bb3ov Год назад
there is a spelling error on your thumbnail
@jacobbos2208
@jacobbos2208 Год назад
Great advice super helpful to us all
@avinashtiwari4025
@avinashtiwari4025 Год назад
just sit by yourself for few hours without checking your phone and without saying a single word and see how all your negatives emotions go away. I think the problem is we are not giving ourselves enough time to process our emotions. All the best coco you may reach 100 k by end of this month 😅
@Alex_lce_lce
@Alex_lce_lce Год назад
I'am a man, but damn its soooo powerfull, its make me feel so good, thanks for your thoughts, and thanks for video.
@gunterchen359
@gunterchen359 Год назад
The way I deal with loneliness is watching ur videos! :) 元氣滿滿~!
@ywll
@ywll Год назад
Wait, aren't you from Qingdao? Anyway, I love your channel~~~
@hensksjkkqmj5085
@hensksjkkqmj5085 Год назад
but why your chinese doesn’t sounds taiwan?😂😂 more like China
@yejimmy3533
@yejimmy3533 Год назад
干 虽然够中二 但真的很好!!
@noradcane2175
@noradcane2175 Год назад
You seem like a very nice person i think you will meet friends in school your gorgeous🎉
@OneSanddman
@OneSanddman 5 месяцев назад
It's hard for a pretty girl to find the right guy. It will take time!
@nicolasrothchett9012
@nicolasrothchett9012 Год назад
i think a Mr.right would definitely add a zest to your life 😅
@rayseetoe
@rayseetoe Год назад
Ayy when we producing some beats on Logic Pro?
@johnmichaelcunanan8962
@johnmichaelcunanan8962 Год назад
You can describe my life in one word and that is "Alone" HAHAHA
@moejobe
@moejobe Год назад
Dope video! 👏👏
@altonyan9070
@altonyan9070 Год назад
hiii yay another video to bless our souls
@kkwong2010
@kkwong2010 Год назад
Let me help you fix being lonely 🥰🥰🥰
@DylanDocker
@DylanDocker Год назад
Why’d you move alone? You seem to have a lot of friends/family
@joshclark8385
@joshclark8385 Год назад
You have such a cool style, Coco 😎
@ratanaly2185
@ratanaly2185 Год назад
when you have video with joma again ?
@seanli279
@seanli279 Год назад
loving the self help vids :D the main character advice is soo relatable ty coco
@Simplyafaf
@Simplyafaf Год назад
Thank you. For the first time i understand why I'm feeling lonely. It never came to my mind (why) I'm feeling this way. But now and for the first time i understand why and i think i can fix it ❤❤
@meteorhill
@meteorhill Год назад
Hey Coco, how's Joma? Is he ok?
@bqpham23
@bqpham23 Год назад
Thanks for the video. Just FYI there is a typo on your "Time Stamps". Also, under camera equipments. The first affiliate link is broken, and the second link the camera is no longer available. If that matters at all. 😂
@cocoxu
@cocoxu Год назад
ohh thank you for the reminder!
@chandler-1999
@chandler-1999 Год назад
Hi,coco.I subscribed your channel just lastday.I will graduate from college the day after tomorrow.And I planing to studying abroad,but my English speaking is not good😭I really admire your language ability,and I hope I can learn from your videos.btw,this is my first comment on the RU-vid😂
@cocoxu
@cocoxu Год назад
thank you and I'm glad my videos can help! good luck you got this :)
@annadeng980
@annadeng980 Год назад
I CAN DO WHATEVER I WANT!!!
@YudiSun-u7m
@YudiSun-u7m Год назад
you light up my day!
@jamesryanjavier5108
@jamesryanjavier5108 Год назад
Do vlog in chicago
@armchaireconomist8648
@armchaireconomist8648 Год назад
WMAF here - my wife is from HK. We met back at University. We have been together for 20 plus happy years have a family and a home in the suburbs. Life works itself out. You will find your way.
@deepjyotibasumatary3753
@deepjyotibasumatary3753 Год назад
Been through that... Its very difficult at the beginning, and I would advise not to drink alcohol at that time. Take yourself on a date whenever u feel lonely, cook food, learn laugh.... Enjoy your time
@notaweeboo469
@notaweeboo469 Год назад
I’m an international student with no friends and feel extremely lonely… wondering if I should just do exchange/transfer and go home :/
@shawnfong5566
@shawnfong5566 Год назад
Thanks for sharing! I saw your q&a video with your brother and decided to pick up a new hobby in video editing (used my prize money to buy final cut pro). I hope I'll be able to find people who enjoy video editing too!
@robertking1367
@robertking1367 Год назад
Hi Coco excellent video, advice and dialogue. I thoroughly enjoyed your words and the images you blended into them. I love music, watch movies dramas in other languages, sometimes with subtitles sometimes not. I enjoy the fact that I will leave a comment for the person I watch and listen to on YT, in hope that if they do read it they will like it. It is a sign saying I appreciate what you are doing and encouragement to them that they have reached me. I also like reading other comments and am happy when the YT person's efforts has also reached them. I don't mind being alone, I dance in my house, I write romantic stories where the characters are nice and love each other, I read anything, I watch anything, I draw, imagine and create. Coco, you should be proud of putting this out, I truly believe you will reach a lot of people with this. Take Care and Thank You. 💖🙇‍♂💖
@xevilrabbit12
@xevilrabbit12 Год назад
Its difficult 😂. i feel like wooo great for sometime and the feelings get back slowly and feel lonely 🥺. But now i don't really care about being lonely.. and these Kdramas really make me. feel lonely so i don't really watch em anymore 😂
@LonelyLucas8
@LonelyLucas8 Год назад
You are such a wise person fir your age and I indetify a lot with you like for real!Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts,love your content ❤❤❤❤
@CyberMew
@CyberMew Год назад
On the topic of kdrama, I recently watched 18 Again and I would very much recommend it
@nugudave
@nugudave Год назад
05:09 lol what's happening here. 🙏😆
@yosua2116
@yosua2116 Год назад
Now I'm so lonely (lonely) Oh, I wish I'd find a lover that could hold me (hold me) Now I'm crying in my room So skeptical of love (say what you say, but I want it more) But still I want it more, more, more
@cocoxu
@cocoxu Год назад
it is as if you commented a voice memo
@nugudave
@nugudave Год назад
apparently fifty fifty is in some kind of trouble, all members filed for injection against their company it seems. hope everything turns out alright. source: trust me bro.
@hklether85
@hklether85 Год назад
I'm also spending me time alone, and feel having got grown so much. Coco, I think you're so smart girl out of how to put the feeling into words👏
@yeswanthh5068
@yeswanthh5068 8 месяцев назад
@Jessi261
@Jessi261 Год назад
You’re the kind of friend I always look for but sadly I never found one. But I’m glad that I was able to find your RU-vid channel and help myself through your videos. Thank you so much🌸
@sparkhl
@sparkhl Год назад
i think its not easy to telling other people that you are feeling lonely, take a lot of courage 🤣, anw very good advice 👍, stay positive no matter what , looking forward to your next video ❤
@Muhammad-Jacobs699
@Muhammad-Jacobs699 Год назад
Find a hobby if you're lonely or join an online community within that hobby is fantastic advice!
@vinhhang1558
@vinhhang1558 Год назад
My life is exactly like K drama, the difference is no happy ending. If it’s already the bottom, it’ll get better from here
@MaikoMaiko-s9l
@MaikoMaiko-s9l Год назад
Always watch your video make me feel less lonley and have a big sister feel like
@vinukadesilva5211
@vinukadesilva5211 Год назад
coco is like my spiritual mentor fr be imparting me with great wisdom
@AtlasRages
@AtlasRages Год назад
Agree on the blasting music part. It helps eases and distract the silence.
@arpansarkar9294
@arpansarkar9294 Год назад
Hey! with the intention of watching kdramas with you.
@AnNguyen-us9bt
@AnNguyen-us9bt Год назад
1 minute into this video and it's already pulling at my heart strings. I've been living alone for 2 years now and the only one in my family to do so. Being alone has it's pros and cons I feel very at peace and can do what I want when I want. But it doesn't stop the occasional wave of loneliness. It's weird when I end up with family and it's great but something seems to gravitate me towards the "lonely" feeling. Hard to explain but maybe I like being sad? Great video tho. I relate super hard 😢
@Kradrice
@Kradrice Год назад
Thanks coco. Your videos always somehow make me feel less lonely!
@ShroobDestroyer
@ShroobDestroyer Год назад
Can you recommend any sad K-Drama OSTs/songs?
@mielv4491
@mielv4491 Год назад
looking forward to your actual music video 😁
@KinnerSurprise
@KinnerSurprise Год назад
Will you be collabing with Joma again?
@justinng1766
@justinng1766 Год назад
Coco always knows what to say 😎
@samtoo8685
@samtoo8685 Год назад
I play video games and read books
@fistwood
@fistwood Год назад
I want to see you sing and play guitar
@李政君-u2h
@李政君-u2h Год назад
你说你一个人做的那些我也基本都一个人做,而且我几乎每次都是一个人看电影😶
@fistwood
@fistwood Год назад
6:59 Blondie Coco??? You looked cool!
@josiesjournal
@josiesjournal Год назад
such a comforting video 🥺
@fyhr__
@fyhr__ Год назад
The rythm of the video was great!
@aceyoung2710
@aceyoung2710 Год назад
You from Taiwan? I thought you are from China.
@SoulfulChickenSoup
@SoulfulChickenSoup Год назад
She was referring to one of her followers from Taiwan asked her how to deal with Loneliness.
@aceyoung2710
@aceyoung2710 Год назад
@@SoulfulChickenSoup got it and my mistake.
@TheBigBananaaa
@TheBigBananaaa 5 месяцев назад
I think 🤔 Coco is from New Zealand 🇳🇿 from Chinese origins living and studying 📚 in the USA 🇺🇸
@leotang4995
@leotang4995 Год назад
DIVERTING VIDEO !
@nakamiyonemura2001
@nakamiyonemura2001 Год назад
Coco you're so precious
@jayden1022
@jayden1022 Год назад
The positivity that we all need when we feel lonely, thank you coco!
@stevenzhao1561
@stevenzhao1561 Год назад
Thanks for the tips :)
@renashbellrn
@renashbellrn Год назад
Alonely. :(
@ruihanli7241
@ruihanli7241 Год назад
first
@stevennyang9304
@stevennyang9304 Год назад
my solo movie count is like 10 or something
@chaima-slaimi
@chaima-slaimi Год назад
💕💕💕
@hipotalamus
@hipotalamus Год назад
TOO MUCH COPIUM
@LonelyLucas8
@LonelyLucas8 Год назад
I can totally understand you and resonate with you Coco, this thing of "romanticize your life" is something that I've been doing for a lot of time and really helps, it's actually amazing ❤ great advice 🤍
@hoehoe2126
@hoehoe2126 Год назад
im looking for a rave bae @coco xu
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