Today we went to visit Xiao Liu's family. His family members really like my sister. 

Don’t let the westerners spread the negative hate . In America, I knmh jesr bad things about Chinese because of the communist government and black folks believe they are racist . But they are not racist, it’s the language barriers and they want an excuse to treat the Chinese poorly.

Most of the Chinese people especially from the village country side are very kind hearted and warm to others, Unfortunately the western media makes up alot of negative false stories about china to the world because American and some of the western countries sees china as a threat.. as china’s economy is booming.

Chinese are some of the hardest working people, a culture to be proud of.

I can only agree with this. I'm lucky that I made a decision 30 years ago to move from Germany 🇩🇪 to Hong Kong 🇭🇰 and China 🇨🇳 and I have never looked back since then. I have seen China rise and I am very proud of China 🇨🇳 and it's people! I just ❤ 🇨🇳 !

@petralui6873 As a woman, I'll also say that China also has really handsome men😅🇨🇳

That's great for mother. Now what about the son? I think lawu needs a husband right?

She seems too keen to marry her son off. If he is usually like this, lets mum take control, then is he ready for marriage?

​@@lindc1070Both him and Lawu are shy infront of people so it seems they are in love 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤

​@@iggymichthey barely know each other. They should just get to know each other as friends first without his mum and Felis talking abt marriage

@@Sunshine-zi4nq Love comes to strangers too. It doesnt need to know a person my dear. You can see it in their eyes. Especially the man . He is in love.

Uhmmm my dear you just don’t know but racism is every where even here in china and it’s ways too much it’s just that some people in the villages are ok but my dear just try it out you will see what am talking about uhmmm

Racism happens everywhere. Though less in China than America. I never forget George Floyd and many others who are killed by the police brutality every year!. No black is killed in China.

@@zainabswale8375 Agreed. Some are just fooling themselves. Even in the village, we only see what they are filming. To their credit Felis and Lao Li are trying to show only the positive. But there is no place on earth where everyone is good or nice. Not being negative but we need to be honest about that.

​@@zainabswale8375I agree. Looks like the ones in the village appear to be less racist. But Chinese are very racists towards Africans even in our own African countries. To the point the Rwanda president deported Chinese business people for terrible treatment of African workers. The Asians are obsessed with white people/skin.

@Meilee Get out more? One track mind? I've been to 46 countries, Africa, Middle East, Asia, Europe and north America, loving different cultures different mindsets. I'm appreciated by different people for being open minded to any new culture. You don't care about police brutality in America, which kills black people EVERY YEAR. You're racist by excusing those crimes. Racism makes victims every where, but when it comes to the state, to system, to police like in America, it's a crime. SHAME! .

Amen

We all think.... Let's allow Lawu to think. She is the one who has to make the choice. Whether or not we agree, Lawu needs a man, not a mother's boy. IJS..... ACCORDING TO THE BOOK OF MARK 10:6-10 --- “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8 and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.

​@xiomaralemans8646 that's your opinion. You don't know her personally, so let's just watch the courtship and enjoy the journey. Snide comments, less of! 😊js

But who is Feli’s husband? Is it the elderly man that has speech challenge?

​​@@xiomaralemans8646She comes from a very traditional home where the mother trained her hard so a strong mother in law will only improve her life &'she may turn to be better at learning Chinese culture with moral support from her sister I prefer this family to the other they looked dodgy to me ...Go Lawu ..hapo poa!

Right you

❤

They want something

​@@lorriebrown1243don't worry. They didn't want anything from you.

I was waiting for this comment 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Bravo sister 'Aziizah May Allah bless you and your family.

she was talking about helping out with chores….

l can see the Parents in law are both very good people they will cherish Lawu . Looks like this toung man is their only child .

young man

I have never seen Chinese people so welcoming to black people.

@@vlacroix7329they’re lovely ❤I’ve ever been with them 😊

He is not her boyfriend she is dating to different things

Did he really?

Racism only exists in the West! Asians and Africans don't even know how to identify people by colour?!? They just see them as someone from another culture.

You do realize there is a shortage of women in China??

They just want a slave to work in the farm. Why haven't they got a wife all this time. The Chinese women don't want them.

Lawlu is such a pleasant hardworking and assists Felista with work on the farm abd household chores,and this speak volumes that there parents did an excellent job raising these two sweet young women. Lao Li family is so hospitable and nice also.

​@@karentimberlake4657❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Tu as de la chance si tu va marie avec lui ( bon couple)

考虑到将来，会和小李妈住一起吗？這不像Felista的情况，她可以在家独当一面，自己做主很多事情，单纯很多。

Exactly! Felista is somewhat blessed. She does not have any elder who restricts her . She can do has she pleases.

i like the fact that he cooked too .both families look welcoming though

I'm sure the mother of the second man does do all of the cooking just as Felista does all of the cooking at her home. This family appeared a little more open. I really could not tell the true dynamics of the first man and his family.

I agree with you 🇲🇾

@@traycee2404the first man s family has 100 cattle, plus goats, etc etc, owns a large plot of farmland. The second one is just simple life, has a nice house, happy go lucky man. Needs to decide. Needs to find out more the finances of the second man. Most men look for a nurturing wife and most women look for a supportive attentive husband. I dont think Xiao liu is looking for a man like woman and neither is lawu looking for a man who will make her totally on him to cook, clean and work. They are after team work as a couple.him

Let them be spoil together!

So open? Don’t you know about china one child policy a couple decades ago? That’s why they are super shortage of woman. And most of these rural guys don’t have a chance to get a wife

Yeah! They are ready for a grandchild. Please don’t think that people are doing Lawu a favor because she’s actually doing them a favor. She should take her time and not be rushed.

Tesstess is right, this Chinese rural community is open enough to find spouse in Africa. That's the truth. If they're not open to that, they won't search for African brides

@@louisethonvison4669 most of them tried it many times all over Southeast Asia like Laos and Cambodia but no one wants them

@@Martin-xw7kk Not true! There're plenty of youtubers, many of them are Laotian or Vietnamese ladies married to Chinese men.

Looking from the outside in there are going to be different perceptions of each male suitor/individual. I have commented before the older gentleman is more mature and probably make a better provider. I know one of the guys said the older gentleman was his godfather and they had a larger home located in the city. Which, could mean they can provide/support their family. The younger man could be the youngest child at home with his mother and momma directs him and will definitely tell him what he has to do as a man with a wife. We all in reading the comments see different perspectives of each man their age family/ how they were reared in the family their maturity. The younger man mother said they would talk about things before the final decision would be decided. It seems Lawu made her decision for Xiang Liu’s and I’m quite sure there will be discussions with her sister and both families. I hope they both made the right decision that they will be happy with as a couple starting their on family. Congratulations on whatever decision they make!!

Untuk Lao li hati hati itu vidionya ada yng bajak , walaupun tidak lengkap seperti vidio ini 🙏🙏🙏 makasih Lao li sehat selalu kamu anak muda yang pekerja keras kreatif . . . Cayo🎉🎉🎉

Las familias de campo son muy directas y unidas en el hogar espero que el futuro esposo de Lawu sea muy bueno y generoso😊😊😊😊

More Chinese men in rural areas are marrying African women. The Chinese women prefer city life. Many Chinese men cant get married because of this but they need a wife to help with the house and aging parents also need care while they work. African girls like Felis are willing to do this. Asian and Chinese are not.

​@@nesadcruz7840They do married Indonesian too,some convert to muslim and some look for Chinese Indonesian. Many of them are youtubers too.

@@philomenasason7733 yes but do they live in rural areas like a Felis? Most Asian women who married Chinese live in more developed areas or cities, from what I have seen.

There're lots of foreign wifes living in rural areas like Feli. Indonesians, Vietnamese, Laotians, Pakistanese, Ukrainians, an Italian, a Suedish even an American.All these ladies are youtubers 😊

​@@nesadcruz7840o mm mm ok

Yes so much food

Первого много критиковали. То старый он,то не красивый. Многие были против первого.

Age is just a number. I think it's important to have a thoughtful and responsible husband. This one still seem to rely on his parents. The mother did all the cooking. But I do like the mother. She would make good mother in law.

Agreed..

True true!

This guy will listen to his mum , not independent.

That’s true.

Well said

So true. She needs a strong man to lead the family.

I liked the first date better . He was confidently male, this young man seems like a boy .. mama makes all decisions nope not for her

@@mymalawianlifeexperiences strength maybe yes but it seems the second date's family is more warmer than the first one. There's something in their interaction here. Haha.. Phyllis is like Lawu's mother in China helping her find a better husband 😄 Anyway, whoever she may end up with I pray that it will be a good family who will treat her well🙏

​@@mymalawianlifeexperiences I agree with you

​@@chch1663can be a problem in future if husband listens to mama too much

Exactly

He looks kind of young.

The mom looks eager but she also said that if Lawu is not interested, let them know. Although Xiao Liu is shy, he spoke up about the use of chili in the dishes. I think that they are not as shy as we are led to believe. It is not easy to have your courtship videoed.

True

She has as never stipulated she is looking for love. She must first learn to converse in the community she lives. It will take time. It can't be easy different cultures to navigate together.

I think she must speak for herself. No one can force on her who they think will be good for her. IJS.

Yes

Me too I like the first one.

People are crazy they don’t know what they want some of them didn’t like the first one now it’s him they want 😅😅😅😅

То писали. что старый.некрасивый. То теперь первый нравится.

@@jacquelinestpaul4931 hopefully she is just looking and will take her time.

Chinese and tanzania they have some common culture it easy for them to interact to each other

These are rural china different from main china.

​@@rosetta4880exactly. Rural China 's situation and people , mindset are very different from urban. China is a big country

It is good If Africa can provide the wives China needs . It seems African girls want very much to leave their countries and Chinese men cant find local or even Asian wives , especially those older and in the country side. I hope now there will be no more trafficking of Asian girls from Pakistan and Cambodia. Am not trying to be offensive but there is a lack of awareness that this was going on for sometime and the girls were very unhappy. You can search RU-vid videos If you want to know more- Pakistani Brides in China.

@@nesadcruz7840 not just Cambodia and Pakistan but also Vietnam. Bride trafficking to China has been going on for sometime . Some poorer families sell their daughters and some girls are kidnapped. With these African women, they are willing. Nobody is forcing them it appears. It is not that these are bad men, Felis is happy. She was able to adjust to it as its better than life in her village.

How old is he? You're right, he looks much younger than the first one.

​I read a comment saying that Xiou Liu Li is 30 and Lawu is 28

Don't know how many more match making sessions with how many guys before a wedding😂 What happened to the first guy?

Agree. I like the first man more than

I think Felis isn't thinking too well. Agree with you.

I agree.

I agree with you for Lao Li has never misled Phyllis not even one time, Lao Li has always had the best interest at heart for this family......... I just wonder what's blinding Phyllis not to see the reality n guide her sister.

I think that we need a closure about this matter because we have the first guy and then there's this another guy. I hope we can know the reason why Lao Li's godbrother is not pursuing anymore🤔

Alot of food to welcome the family 😋😋😋

Any man living in the country side with a whole family is no go. Lawu should say no. It's a slave trap, just like her sister. Go back home to your parents.

菲利姐姐剛好可以學廚藝👍

@petralui6873 Liebe Petra, schoene Gruesse aus Berlin. Alles Gute!

Your wish will be granted,

Lao Li's God brother might be available if she chooses this one. Go for it!😂

@@Sunshine-zi4nq what matters is happy home

@@marianeema2752 Amen 🙏 Thanks 🙏

@@NM-kb3ko you too? How ?

China has a shortage of women, it's the unspoken word. This is indirect advertising for women from other countries to marry Chinese men. My comment will probably be deleted by the propaganda machine of China, because it's true.

True love has no boundaries

I agree 👍 💯

@@hanaeshete9388me too

Right man? I wonder if they have decided or Felis will just bring her to meet many more. Its ok to meet many but as friends or it will be very awkward later with those whom it didn't work out. What happened with Lao Li's god brother?

​@@Sunshine-zi4nqLao li had concerns about this as well and is now hesitant to publicly post any suitors.

Yes..haha. And I've been grinning while watching the courtship unfold, dunno y just nice watching people try to find their happiness.. Hope Lawu can learn and understand Chinese language like sooon😄