To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like
Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.
These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.
@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.
@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here) What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.
@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.
I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10. So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅
@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.
Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.
That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way. I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!
@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would! That’s a good person right there.. Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖
@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting..... My tank is very empty now.... 😔
@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it
@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.
So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.
Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej. Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka. Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie. Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.
So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?
yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.
Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤
I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age. How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long. I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!! Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅
First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.
If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents… And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place
The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful
Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!
Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊
yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient
@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.
I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.
I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.
Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤
I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes
I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!
Much love for this little angel. ❤❤ Thank you for being so good to children. I slowly get back hope into humanity when I see people treating their children well.
I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation
I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.
Omgsh I cried - seeing a baby cry like this breaks my heart I have a 3 month old and they just need help with getting back to feeling happy again! Omgsh precious angels
😂Watch out for "trigger words" though. I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂
