Tolerance and Standards 

Absolutely resonates with me! I needed to hear your message today! I’ve always been a people pleaser/family scapegoat My 90 year old mother is twisting/gaslighting and triangulating, I’m a Retired nurse and I’ve lost my father in December My mother is making everything about her she doesn’t care about me or as I’ve come to realise anyone, I have fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue ME My Mother’s behaviour is horrible! She has a son -my brother who lives only a few miles from her but he walked away after my middle brother died in 2006 at age 39 following a retirement night out with colleagues in Lancaster, he was a missing person for 5 weeks until he was found in the river! The he had just bought a brand new motorbike and was looking forward to our nieces wedding! The coroner said accidental death but could not confirm cause of death by drowning!! It’s been very difficult!🥲 Sending love to you from Geordie from Newcastle living in North Wales ❤️ Sending love