Healing begins once someone does away with bitterness...The moment you start talking about someone destroying your youthfulness, is the moment you start dying slowly slowly...Start by loving yourself and your children..The rest will follow
Wee kweli,,,,,nii ndateitwo na ihii igiri ,, mmoja 2years mwingine 8month ,,,till 2date c jawahi pata hata shillingi moja kutoka kwake,,,,,now is 12yrs ago ,,,,haikuwa rahisi but assume amechomekea kwa hiyo job na amekufa na job imeisha,,,,,xaa hii nko na plot na gari,na bado watoto wanasoma ,trust God
Shirow namesake... At the moment your heart's bleeding but later on you will come to realise it's for your own good, keep in mind that your husband has mental health issues, be very careful when around him coz even if he hurts you he can't be prosecuted coz in court they'll say he's not criminally responsible for his actions. Sending hugs😘
An innocent woman who deserves better life. Be strong. This is a toxic marriage to the wrong person and that is why she has the bitterness. She can look for a little capital bcoz she has a potential in running a bzness. For the sake of kids, cool down and be sober
Wambui I love how you handle this Issue may the grace of God abound. To my sister pole sana for what you are going through however my dear I feel strongly that this is a spiritual attack on your family and marriage which has manifested in your husband having mental health issues please my dear forgive him and begin to heal so that you can arise in the place of prayer and fight for your family it might be the Lord will intervene and bring restoration even if your marriage fails do not allow the enemy to make you bitter because that is his agenda. Stand in the gap pray and see what God can do both for you and your babies. There is a serious attack on families in our generation the devil wants to unleash a generation of bitter mothers raising children alone but I believe we can overcome so that no matter what we raise our children the right way whether in marriage or single and the only way for this is in prayer where we forgive and heal. Remember with God all things are possible.
Sister, tafuta pesa uweke kazi ingine wachana na hio family cos you will never be happy there. That family is cursed, they lost a jewel, I wish ungejua kile God anakutenganisha nacho. You are so hard working mum, pls sahao huyo bwana na hio family.
I always hate men who mistreat women with a passion but I feel there is more to this story. Secondly I know you hurting but just move on and start fresh we did the same though not easy but God has been faithful.Thank God your parents can support you.
Mm nilipitia km hawa ,niliachwa na my two boys, na akasema hawezi saidia watoi nikiwa kwetu ,na kwake alikua akinigonga km ubwa ,mpaka kuvunjwa mikono ,nilisuffer but wazazi wangu walinishikilia na Dad akasema hataki hio ndoa tena ,there's God in heaven ,nilianza kueda gulf ,today am in qatar 🇶🇦, saa hii ananitafuta na hawezi nipata ,so take heart dear ,nigukwagira
If he gives you back the business he will come back again, please trust God for another business and from there stop being sweet talked to, ask God for a new beginning, you will excel more than before.
Sometimes ladies you have to be brave enough to have the things working You don't have to work with someone from scratch and then a woman from somewhere come and enjoy the fruit of your labour You have the right of those properties, am saying this as a man
Wambui excellent advice to Florence it's super to hear all those positive and encouraging words....Florence you're one blessed lady with your hands..start a new life away from that time waster and you will grow to become a millionaire in your own right and NEVER NEVER EVER go back to that time waster who has held you down for so long...he doesn't love you at all at all and you deserve better in life and be wiser Florence when it comes to business look after yourself first and those children they're your rock...love them and protect them at all cost. God be with you 🙏
Living with a mentally sick person is not easy. Wambui has given you the best advice. you are still young blessed and favored. Call your self a meeting and start your life afresh,your hands are blessed and you will go very far. Trust in God and in your self. Thank God he brought your children to you.
Chiru let me tell one thing God knew you before you were born. Whatever you are going through God is with you. God is the Father who cares about you and your lovely children. Trust in God and all will be well. Together in prayers my sister. Those who trust in men are cursed. I wish you well
Mami I dedicate this verse to you. May it become your song when you wake up and while going to bed. Soon or later you will testify God's doing. I was once a victim - Isaiah 43: 18 - 21
Tell God to give you another capital n start again n assume he is in the grave you won't be going to the grave for school fees... our Almighty God bless the work of your hands n forget Abt the whole story n start again n you will be healed completely...n make a decision to leave him for the sake of your peace.
Shiru pole sana kwa yote umepitia, Mungu akupe amani, stop crying and be stronger 💪for ur kids, dust your self, pray more 🙏 and make a better decision, wachana Na hio duka my advice is tafuta agent chukua pp kuja gulf the best therapy for you to be more strong and wiser ,all my colleagues here in gulf knows that, And may our God be with u always 🙏
Ici ihiko riu ni muno gutiri kuria kwega mother in law angi ma mariganagirwo onao mena ciana ici ihiko ikoragwo undu umwe gutiri kuria kwega no muthuri ohigire muno ma ......pole Sana ciru mungu akupe Amani aki
That man & that woman are both evil beings, everyone involved in causing you pain will definitely pay big time!!! God knows justice & injustice, he knows how this monsters have treated you & the kids, he does not slumber day or night, stay strong mama it will get better with time, they will not flourish they will go down
What! I know this couple ......I never thought this woman can create such lies......I wish the truth would be revealed.....ciru......what goes around comes around
But Honestly it's time for ladies to wake up. If you work together, when it comes to buying property make sure your name is on the property. Why work together but when it comes to buying property its written on one person? Kenyan ladies are very hardworking but trust everything to their husbands then later mtu anakurusha nnje with nothing and maybe you earned the big share in the income.
Nowadays it's better kujilea as a lady single that's...These men are too much...One thing I have realized is that after a married woman bores a first, second mtondogoo, that's when majority of men begin cheating, tuside chicks others become secret polygamists...when I add all that single hood is the best life....
@@lydiagitiri6422 Aii it's time to wake up. Men are using women to enrich themselves then wanaenda kuenjoy your sweat with someone else. Very painful see the pain in her heart. 😥😥
Ladies please be bright, love yourselves more than you love your men, don't be making money and giving it to your men, do you own savings and buy your own properties ....
Listening to this story the cause of their marriage failing is the mother in law.... I think if his hubby was making his own decisions and avoid been controlled by his mother..... They cld have gone far... Accually very far.... But to the lady be strong enough take care of ur children they need you more.... Believe in God and He will provide
lets respect our wives just imagine if ni wewe ufanyiwe all this will u carry all this ts a great shame to all men who mishandle a woman.... ITS SHOWS HOW THE MAN IS WEAK.. remember that day the first day you meet with that beautiful lady theN try to remember those SWEET moments when the love was tight all things mme pass together DOES THAT WOMAN A WIFE A LADY DESERVE ALL THIS ????????????????? PLZ MEN NOT EVERY BODY IS HAPPY ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE CLOSE YOUR EARS MANY MARRIAGES ENDED UP JUST BECAUSE OF OPENING YOU EARS THE SAME TO WOMEN TRUST EACH OTHER .. THE DAY YOU MEET YOU WERE ONLY TWO OF YOU .men u are letting as down ..... may GOD INTERVINE IN YOUR LIFE YOU ARE STILL YOUNG BEAUTIFUL AND FEARFULLY MADE MOVE ON LIVE FOR THE KIDS YOUR DESTINY IS GREAT
Children are blessings from God,,crying is also a part of healing,,to those interfere with others marriages first investigate dont think you will be angel
Mimi my x aliniacha na loan kubwa nikiwa nimemchukulia. Waleo hii Niko sawa ata naishi nyumba yangu. Even me he was suspecting me akisema hua nalala na men yet he had no evidence. Mpaka kunipeleka hosi eti nimemletea ugonjwa tukienda ninapatikana Sina ugonjwa Jipe moyo Mami, atumia tuonaga maingi. Huyo bwana hajarogwa asikudanganye, wachana na yeye, siku Moja atalia akikukumbuka.
Haki Wambu women are going through hell in the hands of Men it's soo painful Mum be happy for your kids that's your gift never regret and God will Bless the work of your hands. Wish you all the best in this Journey 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Wambu ni hayo Tu Kwa SASA haki it's really sad
You seem to be blessed, ambitious and very successful in business forget this man and move on. Stop following him and going back time after time.Wake up from the Dreamland you are in. No human is limited my friend you are a very strong lady
Mami go prayers... I have a friend who went through the same kumbe after prayers it was revealed that the girl had used some charms... The man of God delivered her and before my friend left church the hubby was calling her asking to meet her. Now she is back to her home
So sad!! When that idiot started buying properties without putting his wife's name on documents, that was a huuuuge red flag 🚩. Let's support this lady to open a business she's hardworking and strong, she'll forget that idiot completely!!
Though you are after your right, please I would advise you to assume this man is dead and ask God to show you another direction. As long you continue thinking about him you will never heal. It has happened to so many women and they are moving on very well, don't blame yourself dear and take your children as God's blessings. There is so many women out there crying for children. Mami shake yourself and say enough is enough and move on. Aim higher and with God all is possible
Ukiachwa achika so that you can make a positive move . If you keep looking back your positive energy will be wasted .I will call later and give my story dear
Watoto ni baraka,every time you see them give glory to God. You have been given good health too... Nowadays chasing man and his wealth especially if the man is controlled by inlaws,is like chasing wind. I would encourage you to gather up your broken pieces,and start again. I have a very bad history ya kuvutaniwa na wazazi,which destroyed my life till todate. Stop sympathising yourself,you are very strong,stand for your children my dear!You can do it! Men should style up!They should be responsible too!
Mungu atakuinua tena in Jesus mighty name 🙏 woiiiii😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it's painful 😢 please dugacoke kuri muthuri ucio ringi...the pain I went in yr 2018 After kutoka Saudi nikapata zero 😢 💔 I gathered my self again After my mum stood up with me sister siko pale,,hugs ndukamenwo wi mene
Ngai aromuhe thayu cokia ngatho tondu wi Muoyo na hinya wa muiri tiga kumaka thi ni Nene kwarema amba wehere uke gulf uthukumire ciana na wigire thayo watching from Saudi Arabia
Dear Shiro... Indo mundu Nima niacaragia na cigathira no indo icio ticio cii bata gukira muoyo waku kana health yaku. Ingikwihoya umuohere tu na uriganirwo biu tondu ona agitunya indo danagutinia moko..... Rugana wihande na uge moko Maya makwa ni Marathime na umuohere wire ngai kiria urihutagia na moko macio maku gigatherema. Onathui single mothers no tutuire na no tureraga na tugathomithia na ngai dari atutiganiria. Dakuhoera o thayu.
you will be fine mrembo trust in God. what you should know is that you are being manipulated. This man is taking advantage of you. Even now if you stand up again and prosper, he will still come . uguthie kwi Ngai na niegukuhe undu ugwika. you do t even need what he has. watoto ni zawadi kutoka kwa Mungu . rekereria niukuruguma. you are not a waste please. you just loved from the heart but he was not meant for you. gain courage my dear and stand up for your children.
This man was just jealous,he lacked evidence ya zile uwongo atakuekelea thats why he had to use those dispeakable words...Take heart mama,there is a God on heaven who doesnot sleep..
Sometimes i wonder 💭 soo much how can dare to go stay with man who’s wife is crying 😭 that house girl is a demon but she always remember you are not better,if truly you go behind this lady will pay it dear,please ladies let us not cry 😭 more for this men some of them take advantage of our hardworking efforts,hind something for yourself💜💜sorry for that and God will heal your heart ♥️
When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them! The moment he sold a family property only to co-own the other with his sibling, it should have shown you his priorities. His family comes first that tells you your down there at the bottom. He doesn't love your children as much as you might think he does, in the incident that he died today (God forbid) there would be nothing left behind for them. Women you must learn to match energies. All marital properties should have both your names. It's only in developing countries, men abandon their children and women with no home only to occupy the same home with a side woman.
@@ranjusranjus143 it would be folly for a man to be so selfish to bring children on earth yet rejects them very foolish for a man to not put a name of his children in his properties …
May God give that house girl wisdom to run en start rescuing her live en her generation to come before is too late 😢😢 may Holy Spirit whisper to her hii machozi unaona na huyu mama aombe sana asikuje kulia *2 me I fear woman when it comes to cry 😭 it reminds me of Hannah she did not say a word as bible record but God who here's her heart answers dear house girl second wife Run Run Run Run machozi si maji
Wambui why men are like this Soo sorry fr that woman i fill like the pain like my own anyway wambui you inspire alot of family may GOD continue to bless you
May the peace of God be with you my dear but you need to see the red flags and ask God to help you and your children life does not end there He has your blessings
My dear sister,,achama na huyo mwanaume kabisa,mungu ata kubariki na jia ingine,juu ukifutwa huyo mwanaume utakufa uwache watoto wako,ataja kutafuta na hatakupata,ata usitake chochote kutoka kwake,hiyo Mali yake itaisha yote,pole jikase kama Sisi tuliamua kulea watoto wetu pekee,na mungu ni mwema
@Rion Ronny yes Ako nabahati Mimi zangu zilienda zote 3 motobike my house fully furnished nilisema afathari kujitoa nikiwa uhai nikarundi zero na three kids sahii Niku hustle tuu
I am teaching young girls to always safe something aside. I have 5 brothers, never would I interfere with their families., would not buy property with my brothers! I broke my engagement when I realized the man was going to use me, he planned on both of us contributing for purchase of land that was going to be entitled to him and his mother. Before we planned the wedding, I realized I was marrying a man, his mother and sisters so I left. That was the best thing that happened to me. I would not buy property or fully invest with a Kenyan man. It would be to my detrement as is obvious my jasho belongs to his wicked family or a prostitute 2nd wife. Most of these mother in laws are staunch Christians!!🤔🤔. Evil mother in law go marry your son!!!!
Some of these men are under a spirit of backwardness, na hawajui. May God protect US from them.i wish you can just let them be, start again and God of single mothers, will Lead you to your success,don't look back wamucoka niguo uriyaga mundu. And that house girl, atafanyiwa more than this soon.
Its really painful, God be with you, this a lesson when such lady tears run out of her eyes, we need as men to judge with all dimension if its your sister/ or daughter going through such life how will you feel??,,
I can see the favor of the Lord was upon this marriage but the relatives from husband side are the cause of this problems. It seems you loved and over trusted him but instead of reciprocating same treatment to you he was sharing everything with his mother . He is mama's boy who cannot make his own decisions neither defend his wife in time of family conflicts . He should manup because , what's go round comes round. His current marriage can be also suffer. the same thing. Finally I salute your wonderful and supportive parents who were always there for you . May Almighty God bless. them. Amen
Waaaa pole sana mmke don't gave up cry machozi iishe then uamke tulee watoto ur not alone safari hii tuko wengi umefumilia mengi kweli ur wife material bt ukaangukia fundi mbaya
Just move on and leave him alone, dont fight for earthly things, peace is paramount..you will be blessed in another way, n next time dont let anyone control u , ur phone as how?
Her story is very similar to very many others out here. It leaves me wondering, ladies, who tells us that our names are too long kutoshea kwa title ama logbook? Normalize having your name on that paper as long as there's your money there. Ata akileta reasoning mzuri aje, jina yako pia ni jina. Let it appear there, especially now when the love is still fine. It keeps you ready for when it turns sour. Otherwise, invest independently. That keeps you safe.
