Tony Gaskins On Leading With Love, Relationship Roles, Making Love To The Mind + More 

AT ALL, he cheated on his wives for years.

Exactly

Charnese Williams lol

He's so dumb, he needs to leave the show

He annoys me!

Ur so right boys always get told by fathers how to dlerp eith girld or to start by dating multiple girls to see what they like or not get hurt and then the problems develop that we hace today

Facts

Faithful black man is a great.. yesss.

Me too.

word

Until she gets tired of him for something that prob wont be his fault. His father had a divorce after 25 yesrs so that should speak volume. I respect his views but it doesnt mean his wife will remain happy with him from a lack of pure excitement. It happens.

@@Flexx155 smh

Until she find out he got aids for sleeping with 100 women 🤷🏾‍♂️

I thought the same thing 😂

...and what if one is atheist...just curious...

@@RW38762 still applies

@@RW38762 Exactly!

Would that be the white man's Jesus, that was sold to black people? If yes. NO THANK YOU! Im not riding for him.

@@ezravonhindenburg1240 he lost me when he said ride for Jesus

Agree

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well for those who think this is a mature conversation, in my opinion what make it not mature that he never mentioned how women need to take accountability because women chose the fixer upper, project men, women try to fix abusive males with 5 kids and with 4 different females and not even taking care of them. But yet they still choose them males. Then after choosing the type of male thru out their 20s early 30s 3+ kids later now want a good man. Who want all of that baggage after all she went thru. Now all of a sudden she is like there are no good men . No its the men YOU choose. Also dont say he wasnt like that in the beginning, it was signs for the most part. Then if we put women on a pedestal they will cheat. Speaking of cheating women cheat just as much as men if not more because the women me cheat with do yall ever take in account that that woman most of the time has a husband or bf. Its females that break men and cause men to lose everything or what have you. But we cant say anything about women messing over men. We gotta shut up, move on and man up. But society act like men dont get broken, good men get messed up by female but we cant talk about that because society will look down on us. So please stop acting like the women are the victim because women also cheat, get caught, sabotage the relationship/marriage , play the victim and divorce. But men cant speak on that. LETS KEEP IT REAL!

because a black man's priority should be a bachelor first and foremost

Realist comment ever!

KITTEN MAYZ 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

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KITTEN MAYZ Damn Skippy

Amen!

Tanisha Hatchet Period! I Started to explain to some of these men that feel that its a male bashing interview or that he’s stuck up but I just realized they aren’t ready for the message that he’s trying to express and me telling them in a different way is no better than this God-fearing man is trying to explain it.

Kanika Haggins save your energy queen lol these little boys are too comfortable occupying grown men bodies with the IQ level of a child! Living worldly and being influenced by society is fun to them! I couldn’t even get through the interview because this wise man was surrounded by ppl who just couldn’t grasp what he was saying! I pray that wisdom finds these lost souls and keep it pushing!

Tanisha Hatchet nope

LOVE IS A GIFT FROM THE MOST HIGH, AND WE MUST TAKE CARE OF LOVE. LOVE IS LOVE AND LOVE IS ALL. GOD IS LOVE AND LOVE IS THE LIGHT.

i dont mean to be so off topic but does anybody know a way to get back into an Instagram account..? I stupidly lost my account password. I would love any assistance you can offer me!

God wants the best for us.

Same

Amen!!!!

I can respect that.

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Yes old fashion is wisdom. Just stick to the principles and you will be happy no matter what.

My sentiments exactly! Loved this interview

Great interview. Great insight. God set it up a certain way to make it work he revealed it by His Word. The tuff part is to apply it and flesh it out. Society has and will continue to go against the Word. It's a war and constant battle. God knows best and revealed how to abtain the abundant life.

Yes old fashioned is the way to go

WOW!!!! YOUR WORDS JUST HELPED ME!!!!

Perfectly said

Yes aman

AMEN

Every single day ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽

You ain't lying!! Yess

Amen

Sonya-Marie Samuel Yes. Poor Charlemagne. Written all over his face. 🙏🏾

We’re all good at saying let’s keep it real, but you expose people with the truth it will hurt. Truth hurt!!

dee jay that's deep! U ain't lying

woah, that's powerful, so true!

The goal of the devil is to break up the family unit and destroy our kids and he is always busy. As men and women we need to know our roles in the household. When God created Adam and Eve he gave Adam specific instructions on how to be a kingdom man and Adam was to relay that message to Eve. Not trying to write a book and I’m not perfect but I try.

Bro say it for the folks in the back!!!

3drhodes yes, exactly.

This is straight FACTS 💯💯💯

Victoria Curry right!!!

Tasheena Smith I swear

I totally agree

Tasheena Smith 🤣🤣🤣

Totally!! He was so annoying

He's a grown boy who is lost and don't wanna be found.. A sad soul indeed

He was allowing the devil to use him.

Thank you for stating that. He schooled them !

No weapons formed!🙌🏾

thebrwnhippie why is he like that, childish

I don't like Char neither however, I see him asking questions for the majority of the broken men that outweighs us good men. Also, I do believe the way he speaks he doesn't know how to get his thoughts out in a respectful way. That's his downfall, so like we all have. I maybe wrong, most of his questions are good but delivered in a wrong way.

thats a lie, well for those who think this is a mature conversation, in my opinion what make it not mature that he never mentioned how women need to take accountability because women chose the fixer upper, project men, women try to fix abusive males with 5 kids and with 4 different females and not even taking care of them. But yet they still choose them males. Then after choosing the type of male thru out their 20s early 30s 3+ kids later now want a good man. Who want all of that baggage after all she went thru. Now all of a sudden she is like there are no good men . No its the men YOU choose. Also dont say he wasnt like that in the beginning, it was signs for the most part. Then if we put women on a pedestal they will cheat. Speaking of cheating women cheat just as much as men if not more because the women me cheat with do yall ever take in account that that woman most of the time has a husband or bf. Its females that break men and cause men to lose everything or what have you. But we cant say anything about women messing over men. We gotta shut up, move on and man up. But society act like men dont get broken, good men get messed up by female but we cant talk about that because society will look down on us. So please stop acting like the women are the victim because women also cheat, get caught, sabotage the relationship/marriage , play the victim and divorce. But men cant speak on that. LETS KEEP IT REAL!

Come with the facts!

I'm sure he skipped over that. CTG is the type of person who would use parts of the bible to validate his poor behavior when it's convenient. This is why it's important to read for yourself, because ppl like him will have you believing anything to push their own worldly agendas.

Exactly!

At least u proud of him .. shit I changed for a female and was loyal for multiple years and didnt get no where for it .. it's all about the woman allowing her man to grow and respect him for it .. I've been through hell changing to be like this man but not getting it back makes me want him to talk about the females that play games with good dudes ,

@@johng6316 cuz this dude is fool of himself. You know dude is getting pussy left and right saying all the right things they wanna hear and shit.

@@johng6316 but maybe it’s because you already cheated and she just couldn’t move past it. Have you tried being a better man for a good woman from jump yet? Before deciding it’s not worth it to be good?

They're not disliking this video, they're disliking themselves. They like the message but cannot live the lifestyle.

positive does always mean real. well for those who think this is a mature conversation, in my opinion what make it not mature that he never mentioned how women need to take accountability because women chose the fixer upper, project men, women try to fix abusive males with 5 kids and with 4 different females and not even taking care of them. But yet they still choose them males. Then after choosing the type of male thru out their 20s early 30s 3+ kids later now want a good man. Who want all of that baggage after all she went thru. Now all of a sudden she is like there are no good men . No its the men YOU choose. Also dont say he wasnt like that in the beginning, it was signs for the most part. Then if we put women on a pedestal they will cheat. Speaking of cheating women cheat just as much as men if not more because the women me cheat with do yall ever take in account that that woman most of the time has a husband or bf. Its females that break men and cause men to lose everything or what have you. But we cant say anything about women messing over men. We gotta shut up, move on and man up. But society act like men dont get broken, good men get messed up by female but we cant talk about that because society will look down on us. So please stop acting like the women are the victim because women also cheat, get caught, sabotage the relationship/marriage , play the victim and divorce. But men cant speak on that. LETS KEEP IT REAL!

@@aalphasplatt1153 !!!+q

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Girl when Tony made an example of men calling their women their rib but treat them like their pinky toe and this idiot Charlemagne really interrupted him to ask how do men treat their pinky toe. I was almost DONE at that point but wanted//needed to hear the rest of the wisdom Tony was trying to convey

Tishun NIKCO if you want to hear some real wisdom: Before a woman looks for a man and a man looks for a woman, find God first and then you’ll see how beautiful love can be.

Wisdom4Life LoveIsTheWay that’s a good way of thinking 👌🏽

well for those who think this is a mature conversation, in my opinion what make it not mature that he never mentioned how women need to take accountability because women chose the fixer upper, project men, women try to fix abusive males with 5 kids and with 4 different females and not even taking care of them. But yet they still choose them males. Then after choosing the type of male thru out their 20s early 30s 3+ kids later now want a good man. Who want all of that baggage after all she went thru. Now all of a sudden she is like there are no good men . No its the men YOU choose. Also dont say he wasnt like that in the beginning, it was signs for the most part. Then if we put women on a pedestal they will cheat. Speaking of cheating women cheat just as much as men if not more because the women me cheat with do yall ever take in account that that woman most of the time has a husband or bf. Its females that break men and cause men to lose everything or what have you. But we cant say anything about women messing over men. We gotta shut up, move on and man up. But society act like men dont get broken, good men get messed up by female but we cant talk about that because society will look down on us. So please stop acting like the women are the victim because women also cheat, get caught, sabotage the relationship/marriage , play the victim and divorce. But men cant speak on that. LETS KEEP IT REAL!

@Kairel Mcleary Barnes you are very ignorant with no kind if substance behind what you are saying but you expect a man to take you serious with an attitude like that. How old are you? For real

RC Blake’s is another one that bear good fruit

@@tracey5215 yes both of these together!

@@ShyXoxo1920 don’t forget The Shumake way too

Also Sealz The Man. All 4 of these teach congruent messages. Each of them are great.

sad that most guys in the comment section and women dont respect this guys words

You'd be his side chick huh? Lol

Charlemagne tried to call him ugly which I thought was weird

I'm a guy and like what he saying... nothing wrong with his message.

Because he so guilty and only going on 3 years of no cheating after 21 years

Yes!

Christopher Chesler Yes! Hella annoying.

Yes! And supposedly a self proclaimed ex cheater. Acting like an imbecile as wise as he is. His inner demons were shaken up lol

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Amen, we are all at different seasons

Exactly

Amen, so much truth

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True

He wants to do wrong; I don't envy his partner.

KITTEN MAYZ I thought I was the only one. He really disagreeing with everything this man says.

The Queen Po he prolly cheating on his wife. Cause he actions are speaking for him. That’s what happens when a REAL MAN in your presence! He bothered by his greatness! 🧐😉

Right!!! Excellent point. You can't fix a problem if you deny that it's there. It's the same thing as racism. If you are overly positive and ignoring evidence and continue to say "I don't think this is happening anymore because I don't see it", you will NEVER get to the root of the problem.

Exactly and his past is an example of that. He thinks just because HE doesn't cheat on his woman anymore, that means the images have gotten better. NO, your wife just gave you an ultimatum and YOU decided to get your act together. Simple. Stop playing stupid.

@@bbhalocapricorn2321Exactly.....He WAS bothered by his greatness.....that's the Cancer in him....jealous and annoying by nature!!!!

@@torrenaflowers9701 -absolutely! Tony has a calm presence and is clearly the alpha male in the room and charlamaine or whatever his stupid name is, is bothered to his core! You can see it in his body language and grown boy responses 😅😅😅

hope smith said the same thing. No fools over here. Peep that too huh

@@bbhalocapricorn2321 Charlemagne is double-minded right now. He has one foot in being faithful in his relationship and the other foot in fulfilling his fleshly desires on the side. He's trying to justify his point of view which is false. Self-control is not easy to some people but it's attainable.

Yes! A hit dog will holla and Charla was def hollering! This interview had him feeling some kinda way!

He definitely was uncomfortable lmao.

@@ew0711 😂

So true....

Amen

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That’s why he sounded so ignorant during this interview. He barely stopped cheating 10 minutes ago.

Desire' Harris he annoys me. He’s actually unattractive. The two don’t mix 👀

Lol Yeah I feel you. Being annoying at that level would make anybody unattractive to me

Desire' Harris which is why his body count is low and he keeps tranquilizers on stash

Awwweeee 😍

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Congrats 👏 on your growth. Hope you're still going strong today

Extremely proud of you. Especially for you self awareness, discipline, & resolve.

It's true Eve influence Adam to eat the fruit

MegaJesusisGod that should tell you something. Men aren’t supposed to be influenced by a woman. The real purpose for marriage isn’t our happiness or lust it’s to spread the kingdom of God. As men and women we need to know our roles in marriage.

I LOVE THIS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Some people think love is corny some don't. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings. Everyone is not gonna view the world the same way you do.

Thank you! How is love corny?? Or a man treating his woman right a simp!?!?! The sad part is its women on here agreeing wit the salty ass men in the comments. Love never goes out of style.

@@brittanymosley3649 you are being typical which most women are. Just because you feel a certain way about something doesn't mean everyone else feels the same way. Everyone is not gonna agree with you and that is ok.

@@BIGNOSEPOPPA the problem is you're using the excuse of an opinion to hide the fact that treating someone right in a relationship is ALWAYS GOOD and the right thing to do. You have some insecurities yourself but that's ok too

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💯 A WORD!

So true!! Too many single parent homes and broken families

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Something like tat

Stephanie Avila women treat men like they’re disposable all the time. The way the game works is women have options and men have to make options for ourselves which is why we have to deal with multiple women. Women can break up with a man and have another within the hour. As a man if I’m not constantly engaging women then I won’t have a woman; and a man can’t invest his all in one woman because said woman never invest her all in him.

Alot of our men grew up in a single parent household or a broken home so they didn't have the model relationship to look up to. You're not born a wife and husband. It's something you are taught or learn. Every marriage is different and nowadays it's so overrated. These men are married but living like they are single. Got side kids and girlfriends. It's already not a big option of men out there anyway. Either married, gay, and in jail

The men that usually think this way y'all don't usually find them attractive..Women want all the wrong men to be the right men

He probably still feels guilty about how he dogged his wife. Like the old folks say "a hit dog will holler".

CCmysmile true...DJ Envy cheated too but I like his attitude about it in the interview. He owned it and agreed with what Tony was saying.

Not combative CTG is pointing out how one sided this young mans opinon is about relationships. Just because you wanna brag about your numbers and your homies numbers doesn't make you an expert.

Lately I’ve been annoyed with their interviews but I think Charlemagne is asking questions that other ppl listening would ask. Not for his purpose but for the listeners perspective.

YouWhoKnowKnewNot well if your on the side of what’s right...how can you not be one sided? Right is right and wrong is wrong...this man has admitted all his wrongs but he’s on the other side now and working to bring other men over to that side...

Exactly

he was so goofy lol

true

I was thinking the same thing. Don't get me wrong he has his moments where he drops seeds.

Exactly agreed 💯

Ass acting all the way out!! Lol

He's so annoying lol

How we going to make this work babe?!

for real ❤

Yes I’m looking for a black wife as most black men. I want you to know most of us view you as a Queen regardless of what the media says

If I could only find a man who thinks and act like this, happiness could be obtained.

word 😂i nice wake up call this morning

Agree he was aggravating af...

He's allowing the devil to use him as a vessel to cause distraction.

Just followed him on FB 💪🏾🙌🏾

Don't downplay the beautiful thing that is sex just because someone wants to say I love you with their body doesn't mean they are evil or only concerned with body

Pele Kama I want to like this 100 times!! 🙌🏾

@@camwilson2583 not downplaying it. just saying that there's a synthesis at play and in motion. looks. touches. words of edification. kisses. adoration. etc. all day, everyday. a full course meal and desert. keep it healthy. keep it lasting.

@@PacificMoceans completely agree with you thank you for explaining that have a beautiful day!

Pure rubbish... YOu just made zero sense.. so what about the women .They just sit there like a stone and let the man foreplay you? get out of here with your feminist BS

yeah he was goofy

He mimicked the mindset of kids now adays. Charla was the bad cop.. Got to be able to get your message through the static

Sometimes you have to dumb down the delivery so the message is still received. People aren't as intelligent as they used to be.

Well said!

I felt the same way. He was responding like he wasn't married.

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12:40 he might feel attacked. Look at justice4closure on IG

Ama. K Ows couldn’t agree more

True😂

Kay Pee every interview

Yesss!

BLIND VISION A must to get Eric Thomas on here!!

Eric Thomas definitely should be on the Breakfast Club. He’s the best out!

surprised e.t. hadnt made an appearance yet!

JazGreenTLK Yes he is so amazing! I listen to him at least once every day as well I honestly listen to him more than Tony!

anomalient yes yes yes! Maybe we need to tag him in this! LOL

Amen .no brainer

yeah cause we've seen him when he just started on RU-vid

Me tooooo

@@nikkyshamz2696 It's so awesome, I've been watching his older videos on RU-vid for a long time, he helped me through a lot

@@BriaBarrows Right! It's awesome to see him here now

I agree

Dude I never expected you to be on here.

I support you great black man. All love

@@tiredox3788 I want to like and dislike the comment at the same time

I was saying the samething

My guy🔥

CusWeAre lol I said same thing. She knows daddy make the income. I wold never tell my dad how he got snitched on. Weird

Right!!!

Yup 😂

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EXACTLY, Unfortunately The Breakfast Club aside from DJ Envy who I'm not a fan of show their asses in this interview and also showed that this topic is way too mature for the immature likes of annoying ass Charlemagne and the idiot Angela Yee

Angela Yee was very mature