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They have a beautiful spirit of humility, yet they are confident because they are God-fearing individuals. They are convicted in their own spirit if they mistreat another person. Morals, standards and how they carry themselves before they even meet us is just WHO these MEN are at their core.
@@angelnetworkascension2039 I agree. I was was in a relationship and after a year in...i started seeing him for who he really was. He had DEEP convictions going on within. Holding onto all that baggage of sins from his childhood. This is how I know...Hurt People, Hurt People! Another reason why I now take my time getting to know men. I'll continue to move slow, even now in my current relationship. We have to...🤗
@@jayceelaw6772 I wish you the absolute best! 🤗. What tends to happen is that these individuals are acting and they grow weary of "playing the role". The authenticity of who they truly are will come to the light. We just have to observe. It will always reveal itself. Having a spirit of discernment is such a gift and one of which I am grateful. Be blessed! 🙌❤
Never having a father in my life growing up. I never knew how a man is supposed to love a woman. So I thank Tony for teaching me at the age of 45 how I should be treated, valued, respected and above all loved.❤✝️
Been married 7 years. Extremely toxic and emotionally & mentally abusive. We have 5 kids together. I guess he's not in love with me. Filing for divorce. Finally gonna love myself the way I know I deserve.❤ Be Blessed!
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I hope the rest of your years you will be happy and loved properly
Thank you Tony. I was married to a “nice guy” who never stood up for me when his family spoke bad about me. I left him and everyone thought I was crazy because he was so nice. No matter how many nice things he did for me I didn’t feel loved because I felt betrayed. I appreciate someone finally validating me for this.
Going through this for years now. Husband of 22 years lets his family say horrible things about me and I have the screen shots and he is not remorseful and brainwashed by his narcissistic cult family and is enmeshed with his mother. Sick of it and done with it.
You lovely ladies deserve better. What’s crazy is Mr nice guy turned into Mr Nightmare when I left. He completely dropped the nice guy facade. I was shocked to discover he was a phony for all those years. “Nice guys” like this aren’t nice. They’re users who manipulate you into feeling sorry for them to get what they want out if you and then when you leave and no longer make them feel better about themselves they turn on you in the most brutal way. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise though with the way he didn’t stand up for me when others attacked me. That’s a red flag that underneath it all they don’t care about you. They’re only out for themselves. Let that allow you to feel justified in leaving their sorry asses.
@@AD-hh6ddI feel you, I've been with a guy like that and felt even lonelier than being single, took me nearly 12 years to finally made the decision, never look back.
The way a man loves his wife puts a spotlight on his relationship with his Lord! No man can truthfully claim he loves his Lord, if he’s not honoring his wife...
Joyful n Blessed yes indeed! They can claim to be Muslim Christian or whatever... some men use religion as a cover to hide who they REALLY are... but actions don’t lie... (some women too!!!) If he TRULY loves his Lord he can’t help but to genuinely love and adore and sacrifice for his wife!!!
To GOD be The Glory!!! After 20 yrs. of being single and 4 yrs. of celibacy, I have now been blessed with a gentleMAN that truly loves me and has exhibited all 5 traits you spoke on Tony. Thank you for being open, honest and obedient to The Lord's mission in your life. Be BLESSED. Minister TinaMarie🌹🌿 🙏🏽🕊️😇
Wow that sounds awesome thats a testimony. 29 years of being single with 4 years celibacy wow how did you go thru all of that without feeling lonely? I’m glad you met someone but how did you meet ur new man?
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
@Eternity With Christ hello Amen 👆🙏 Amen💫 Amen together as ONE💫👑 Amen what a blessing it's mighty blessings that men is still out hear that is spoken for an knows the love for a women's that has her back to all thing's as well 👆an Mr Tony Gaskins 🌹 Yassss Sir so true walk in it live in it an Yassss Chris 💯🤗 happy holidays too we all an safe happiness an joy wishing myself an y'all a healthy Right spirit of that Right one too become together as one of 2020☝️🙏💫👑🌹 Peace on Earth Peace within Peace too we All thank for reading 🌹
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
Aww my boyfriend told me he’s in love with me last week on top of him doing end showing all of these signs from the very jump of our relationship we are going on two years in June..
@@anointedstilettos Hasnt been easy, trials and tribulations has came in between. We were just teenagers when we started , we been through it all and now we are married with 2 kids . . Life makes detours some can be for right reasons some can be for wrong.. May god bless u someday💯❤
I AM BLESSED!!! My husband is a true gift from God. He is everything God said a husband should be God has blessed me exceedently and abundantly above anything I could ask or think. Thank you Father.
That's my husband, 30 years of marriage 🙏💓 he has always given me his last and put us before his own needs . I love him so much . I remember when we first got married and we didn't have much but he made sure we had everything we would ever need 🙏 Be Blessed 🙏
That's my soon to be husband now. Although I've went through the valleys of the shadows of death, fearing no evil, God has truly blessed me this time around. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽 Blessed indeed.
YES HE DOES CAR NOTE AND ALL OTHERS BILLS HOUSE MORTGAGE LIGHTS GAS POOL MAN ALWAYS HAVE I ONLY BUY GROCERIES I THANK GOD HE SENT MY HONEY TO FIND ME LIKE I SAID 35 WONDERFUL BLESSED YEARS THANK YOU JESUS THANK YOU
U r blessed. My boyfriend never defend me from his abusive family and friends. he even sided against me when i argued with his highschool female friend for always flirting with him. U really r blessed.
Love it !!!🥰 I can honestly say me and my husband have all 5 by the grace of God we have got to this point going on 10 yrs now and I love him more now than when I first met him 💖🙏
I was married for 22 years before I divorced him, because he was not that apologetic man. He has told me, “Let me make my mistakes.” What the heck?!😳 Some men never grow up. They just grow old. “So, out with the old!”
A man that find a wife find a good thing! Stop trying to find him wrong way. Pray the Lord will guide YOUR husband he has for u to find u!. Grace to all. gh
@@bosslady9108 u be Bless & trust in the Word of Jehovah God& no i am not a Jehovah's witness. My mom was . bless her heart i am a christian & i know the Lord has many names, King of Kings, i am that i am, Lord & Saviour, master, etc. I just like to call him by his name as we have names too. So i want to say to u Boss lady910. That it is no secret that what he does for 1 he will also do for u. & his word is tried & proven true. So u just KEEP your faith & he shall bring it to pass for u. I am celebrating your HUSBAND finding u before. Why because i am standing in faith with u Boss lady 910. Grace keep u & all. gh
Thanks Tony #5 is a great struggle for many men mine included. Never getting an apology has ended our relationship. I have no interest in a man who has too much pride, ego and arrogance to apologize.
I needed to see this to make the RIGHT decision for myself. Thank you so much. I came across this video by accident but this is for me. I needed this message.
I'm glad to see a black man speak about healthy relationships...I appreciate what you're doing to help us as women pay attention to what's necessary for a loving relationship!!❤❤❤❤
I have been married for 42 years and my husband has always sacrifice for our children grandchildren and myself!!! Thank for reminder me that I need to tell him that I truly LOVE him!!!! ♥️
To find such an honorable man with such morals and values is truly a blessing in itself for it takes vigerous discipline to be a faithful husband and to truly show so much love for others is so beautiful to me
Amen!! Me too! U are not by yourself!! God is picking exactly who we need sista!! We are a good thing!! What he said? He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing!!🙂🙏😇That's us!!😇🙏❤😇
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘ s you need help with , what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , keep gas in your car , also has God in life n make you first properity , help you with the bills , take you too work on your off days ! A real man will work too bones too make should you didn’t have too work that hard !
My fiance and I both do all of those things, it's amazing how much we love each other and bring a peaceful feeling to one another when one or the other has had a bad day or is in a bad mood. We actually don't get tired of each other and our differences complement the other one. We do have the same values and beliefs. I'm so happy to have a beautiful man who LOVES ME and is attentive when I'm sick takes care of me and took off work to be there for me when I was in the hospital for pleurisy. He tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he thanks GOD for bringing him an Angel! We both have been hurt in the past bit we treat each other with respect and love. We don't argue due to the fact that we may say something about the other that we can't take back. We talk to each other and we talk calmly and we listen to the other one and see where the other one is coming from. It's amazing how much we love each other and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We NEVER EVER HAVE put the other one or say anything wrong and hateful to each other! When he makes a mistake I don't yell at him we talk about it, and he made a mistake fixing a vehicle one time and basically tore up the parts for not tightening a part or something on the vehicle, I didn't say one word to him because I realized that he was kicking himself in his butt good enough. God love him, & he apologized to me because I was the one who bought the parts for the truck with my own money. We are not married YET! But we are getting married very soon. I prayed for God to send me a good man, and told God exactly what I wanted in a good relationship. Also told God that if there was no good. Man for me out there to not send me 1 at all. God blessed me with a beautiful loving attentive man, who is protecting and cherrishes me and tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he loves me. I'm blessed. I appreciate your video it reminded me of him to the T. Keep up the good work and have a good day.
This is Beautiful ❤ It Brought tears to my eyes I'm a woman and don't get teary eyed much due to now having thick skin due to Trials & Tribulations I want a Godly Honest Man. Not One who Claims he is a "Godly man" and at the same time manipulates religion and the Bible at his convenience.
Brother Gaskins, my future wife sent this video to me...Her birthday just passed and I made her feel like the Queen she is. I agree with everything you shared. I live by it too. Be blessed!!!
This is me bro. Most women don’t know how to receive it man. I felt like I wasn’t doing too much being this way. You just showed me that it’s the correct way. Thanks bro 💪🏾
Amen !!! My husband just passed we were married for forty plus years he was every thing for me on the day he died he had returned the drug store for me and an hour later died , we loved each other and I still love my husband❤️👍🏽
I'm glad to hear you had a wonderful 40 plus years. And made it through the up and downs. I can imagine your loss was difficult. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the understanding you need in this situation. So that you may accept it and be able to avoid the darkness that always sits and waits on us to come that way. If you have already been healed by God then that is absolutely awesome. I loss my boyfriend in 2018 to a car accident. And that blew my mind. We had recently broke up but were still very much communicating. And I know that's not a marriage but that hurt was massive. I had to quickly reach out to the Lord and take a look at my son and ask God to please help me because I didn't wanna go to the dark side of depression and being upset with God. I had to ask for understanding at its fullest. As of now I still miss him and I do shed a few tears here and there but I thank God for helping me through it all. May God bless you my sister and all your days to come. Remember, reach for God and believe that he will heal your heart. You have to believe and actually want to be healed. And that doesn't mean you cannot grieve your husband. Just try not to lie in it forever. And think of what your husband would want for you which is happiness.
Prayers n my condolences to you Queen you have a Angel now blessings sitting with God my ex passed Jan 29th 2020 of this yr from Cancer I miss him became my bestfriend n I got hurt by his family of jelousy never made it to the Funeral it hurts y'all I was only 1 there for n threw everything but God is good still in the midst of a storm
This confirmed that the only man who was in love with me was my first boyfriend. I was too young and broken to know it. I know it now. No regrets. I had to go through what I had to go through to love me first. I'm truly loving me. So when the next man who is in love with me comes along....I AIN'T LETTING HIM GO!!!
Dana Wright my sentiments also. My very first BF was all these things. Now, another woman has been reaping the benefits of a good man all these years. 23 to be exact!
@Dana Wright.. I totally understand where you’re comin from. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but he was definitely in love with me. I was just too young broken and unhappy to see it. I’ve only had duds come into my life since😳🤨😓... if and when given another chance I’m there for it. I’m grown today so I know better now🤔💯
Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I just found you. Perfect timing for my struggle. God bless you for glorifying the Lord and showing women honor young man🌞
Be blessed. Tony isn't lying either when he talks about how he interacts with women. I went to one of his seminars and he was kind, helpful and humble. Tons of beautiful woman at the seminar but for him it was strictly business.
This brother truly care about his black sistas. I know that all the black dusty, brother hate on him because he's spilling the tea on there game and giving us the upper hand. We know now! No more excuses. Thank you bro. Gaskins. God bless you and your family.
A man is suppose to search for his mate The Woman is supposed to wait until he finds her most women go out to find a man that’s why they end up with Lil boys playing kid game and please don’t bring any Baggage or Attitude from any of your past Relationships you must not think all men are the same this will interfere with your new Journey and your new progress with LOVE
My wife asked me to check this out and it made me feel good as I evaluated my relationship with my wife but at the same time it made me realize that there’s still work to be done on my end. Thank you for this video and be blessed!
💯 accurate! My own personal experience a man can leave to work on themselves and come back apologies and be the man you deserve but he had to do he's own self worth first and foremost to be love. This was great as a women to hear this advice and teaching, good men can be overlooked Or belittled purely because women like the lie . Women need to understand their own fathers haven't been able to show what love looks like either and the game keeps playing out in their hands and prespective of what they believe a man or love should look like. Love your talks, your honesty is a blessing.
Thank you Tony for providing the ointment I need to heal my wounds that got from my ex husband. I am on the road to recovery and am living a peaceful life
This revealed to me that I have never really experienced real love even with the father of my kids... it hurts but I needed this, thank you❤️ it’s really sweet to see a black man speak so passionately about his wife
Yep, all true. My Hubby been this way since day one. It took my slow behind a year to figure it out and not mess it up. I love him forever for it. Be Blessed... 17 years and still in love.
Thank you so much for this message. Absolutely makes so much sense. I’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a 1 year old child we are raising and sadly I’m now dealing with the Jezebel spirit of my mother in-law, who is definitely trying to destroy my marriage and ruin my child. Needed to hear this. Now I know how to proceed. I will definitely be in my Bible, continue to serve my husband, and stay prayed up. This demon loves chaos and confusion. I’m ready to fight this battle and the demon will never win or succeed. BE BLESSED! 🙏🏾
I'am so Blessed I've got the best husband in the he world, he does all 5 and more .we are so very much in love with each other ,it's so amazing how someone can fall so deeply in love with their partner. We're going on 9 years and growing strong .
@BARBARA STEVENSON. Thank you so much for sharing this Barbera. It great to know that married, single, happy or in question women watch the show. It takes a good woman to have a good man. Thanks again for sharing.
I admire the way you talk about your wife. So happy to see a faithful man who sticks by his wife's side and show true agape love. God bless y'all marriage. Love it!
Divorced after 30yrs 4 kids. I wanted to have a ever after but realized the role I had allowed myself to succumb to was not the role of a Happy Wife😒 I was a Kept Woman and I thought that was ok. My Bad Happily Divorced 🥳
Be blessed! Married my husband 6/27/2020 and it took us ten years to get it right. My God I love my husband totally we both had to grow soooo much and God blesses us to get it right. Thank you Lord.
Amen my sister....bang goes the theory that you have to date for a specific amount of time....there is no set time and it took this time for a reason. I thank God that you were both able to go through those experiences and then eventually come together with a meeting of the minds. God enabled you both to be go through his character development in order to prepare you for marriage, even though it took 10 years...To God be the Glory. I love your testimony.
I'm glad y'all got it together. I believe there are times where it's two people that love each other but just need time to grow. Tony would tell you he settled 🙄🤣🤣. Let's be real, we all know men take longer to mature. I don't want the commitment just because he wants to keep me around. Sounds like you both have learned each other and it's paid off. Wishing you all the best.
Thank you Tony and thank your beautiful wife for allowing you to do what you do. You and RC Blake keep it 100. I love you my brother! I just pray that every woman that hears you will meditate on every word that comes out of your mouth because they are God inspired. May God continue to bless you as you are such a blessing to us women 🤗
#1. He will sacrifice for you #2. He won't intentionally hurt you #3. He will defend you #4. He will be consistent and completely faithful to you (watch for signs, and be honest with yourself!) #5. He will apologize
When I got in an accident my man was right there everyday came to my house I couldn't do nothing I could walk or the bathroom wash up or nothing he was right there to do it that's a real man
Felt like I was never fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a man that was truly in love with me... I pray that God will help me discover what true love is and how it feels like to be in such relationship. My Mr Right is coming soon 😏
Your honest is refreshing. And your walk with God is evident. Your relationship is blessed because you are blessed. And that is a true blessing from God. Blessings to your entire family. Be blessed. Acts 2:38
13 years 5 kids and I within the past year I asked god to reveal everything I DIDNT WANT TO SEE and accept for what it truly is and when I tell you my god showed out !!! That man has never loved me or our kids for that matter I was a live In sex toy his personal doormat his fool for life god gave me the strength I needed to walk away and love me believe in me and his purpose for my life I soon launch my first business my kids first business and many more goals to accomplish we are finally happy and thriving it’s a lil sad but they barely even miss their father we their not with him and doesn’t even really care to see him when they do sometimes we hold on for our kids not realizing it’s destroying them too ladies trust in god he will show you he will give you the strength you need to better yourself your life your children one day god will send the right holy man to love us correctly ❤️🙏🏾
When I was growing up I could tell my parents didn't get along. When I graduated my younger brother was a senior. My dad moved out. This wAs back in 1968 I asks my dad did he just stay to keep from paying child support? He said yes. I thought that was awfully selfish.because I never saw love and I always felt we may have been better off if he had taken that BS somewhere else and not continue to make my mom miserable. I was an intuitive Lil girl. When they would argue I knew the one time it was about to turn physical and I ran in there and grabbed him. He said don't grab me grab her. She was whopping his butt. I was glad. But for me staying around was not beneficial because the kids get to see nothing but negativity. If the love were there and it were balanced it would be different. But that wasn't the case. So women I agree you can save your children a lot of unhealthy emotional drama. The Lord will make a way. And the Lord will be whatever you need that's missing in your life. He loved you and wants you to be at peace. God bless you sister. Oh, and if you want to be married. Start preparing yourself. Be like Esther in Bible. Prepare ask God to show you your faults and help you correct them and know that HE is preparing the right man just for you. Be blessed my sister.
Your story sounds just like mine, except the part where God gives me strength to walk away. I have been begging God for strength to leave for years now but i havent recived it. Today is my 13th Wedding anniversary and I just realized he never loved me and possibly our 4 kids. Im glad to hear you got the strength to leave. I wish you many blessings.
