SUMMARY: 0:31 You Always On Phone 1:16 Your Walk 1:41 Not Looking in Eyes 2:20 Space Invander 2:44 Handshakes/Keep Out Of Mouth Ad: Pete & Pedro Nails Clippers 3:57 Asking Hug From Girls 4:33 You Smell Bad • Your Breath • Down There • Cheap Fragrance/Scents Ad: Pete & Pedro Powder 7:04 Fight 7:33 Sitting 8:25 Smiling 9:04 Don’t Dress Horribly
SUMMARY GUY HERE: 1. Frequently checking your phone 2. Not having a confident walk 3. Not maintaining eye contact 4. Invading others' space 5. Having a bad handshake 6. Having hands in your mouth 7. Hugging for too long 8. Not having good hygiene (ad) 9. Sitting with a hunch 10. Not having open body language (smile, don't cross arms)
sh!!!t, first timer here, couple videos in and i just need to say, i love what you're doing. Spitting facts, and portraying an actual alpha type guy. not degrading, not telling people to start fights and belittle people, all just personal shit you cando in your own life that will progress you in the right direction. You have my respect and my sub.
I started watching at 13 yrs old I’m 22 years old now and I’ve become such a high valued man who’s starting to build business , relationships and finding my way in this crazy thing we call life. Step by step, brick by brick I will construct a foundation that will elevate me to where I see myself and everything else will follow. I Can’t wait to have this conversation with you in person alpha thank you from a lost boy who’s now a found man with purpose.
Yo Alpha, i started watching you few months back, changed my daily hygiene routine, buyed a few new sets of clothes with your advice, and asked few sassy girls for their number on the street, and they have actually given it to me, i am an introvert, so the change of my confidence thanks to you is actually game changing, i am dating my maybe to be first GF, also i am 23, so i want to thank you dude! Your Awesome, keep it up!
TL/DR: 1. Being on your phone constantly 2. Your walk (is wack!) 3. Not looking people in the eye 4. Not giving people their personal space 5. Improper handshake (hand care) **ad** 6. Overly "huggy" (hug etiquette) 7. How you smell (body and breath) 8. Fighting/too aggressive 9. Seat posture 10. Not smiling enough! (flash that alpha grin!) 11. Don't dress horribly (I might have added one, oops)
All my respect goes out to the people on the spectrum who find a lot of these points very difficult, but muscle through it anyway! As someone on the spectrum myself, it took me quite a few years to stand up straight and actually look people in the eye.
I hear ya - Malone! Thanks. Great tips - by alpha m! And speaking of Body Language… Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action. Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation… Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Advice for Young Men: Had a bad day? Think about how you’ll laugh back on this day when you write a book on your life. It’s barely going to be 2 sentences out of 400 pages. Keep growing.
Been watching Alpha since the start up, and it's just so smooth how he pitches an item towards you (in this case the finger nail set) awesome vid as always!
I’ve been watching these videos sense they came out and it’s changed how I live. On the fragrance not, I subscribe to the rebel and my girl absolutely loves it and I’ll never stop buying it.
Discovered you thru a reaction video by my woman Kat Blaque. As a woman who loves men, I genuinely dig your work. When people ask me for an example of positive masculinity (as opposed to toxic) I point to you. In the aughts, guys had Queer Eye to teach them how to be real men. And that show did a good job, IMO. Nowadays, they've got you and you're doing a great job. Also like Queer Eye, a lot of your life advice is good for everyone, not just men.
PS Soooo true about the too-long hug. I used to know a guy who would hug me a little too hard and then press his knuckles into the middle of my back and give me this totally unwanted, frankly gross, little back massage. This would have been a totally turn-off in a dating situation but this guy was a co-worker of my HUSBAND. So awkward and gross. Guy was a creep.
I'm 40 and back into college. Gen Z dresses weird, sloppy and seem proud of it. At least in computer science course. I feel out of place and almost wanting to wear swat pants, flip-flops and dying my hair green lol
Great tips! And speaking of Body Language… Watch 007 movies, and see it in Action. Just observe James Bond, study him, watch his every move - and see how he carries himself, how he talks, how he moves, and how relaxed he is in any situation… Takes notes if you have to, because once you have this whole “body language” thing down - no one will look at you the same way again! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I love this man and I'm a woman! Hope you continue to grow and reach the masses with this valuable information. One of them might just cross my path!?😚😍💖
I have CP, my walk is Definitely Wack lol. I have used the line, "you think I move differently vertically, just imagine horizontally!?" That always got a giggle, sometimes more lol
Look away when they look away, look when they look, and smile. Neutral staring makes people uncomfortable. I used to struggle with that and still struggle with other social things, but improvement is possible and totally worth it 👍
Facts. PLUS he gets to the point perfectly without any nonsense - i relate also with speaking firmly & sometimes a little rapidly possibly a NY thing on my end though lol
Did anyone one else find this one extra funny or just me😂😂 all of his moving, randomness flap you in the face do better kind of energy and uncle barry🤣
LOL!! Where has this guy been my whole life?!?! Kinda binge watching and liking it. Totally true. Today I went back to my college to get some swag and noticed some of the girls checking me out. I was walking with confidence because I knew I was in the top 10% of the guys there. They’re so young and didn’t know themselves, trying to figure things out… I’d go up and ask the hottest girls where the store was(I knew where it was). Give them a high-five and walk away. This guy is good!
I'd just like to put out there that eye contact is incredibly tough for some people, such as those with mental conditions such as Asperger's or just people who aren't comfortable with eye contact
Key points: - Avoid Phone Distractions: Engage instead of checking your phone during conversations. - Confident Walk: Walk upright, eye contact, avoid short or overly fast steps. - Respect Personal Space: Keep an arm's length distance; firm, proper handshakes. - Maintain Hygiene: Fresh breath, control body odor, moderate fragrance use. - Open Body Language: Good posture, avoid crossing arms, smile frequently.
If you walk past someone don't make eye contact where you have to turn your head to keep looking at them or if you have to move your eyes. Distant eye contact only or if you are approaching someone directly
Love your videos and your motivational speeches/tips. I bought the Rebel cologne for a birthday gift to myself back in November. Love it! And I can definitely say I've had more girls tell I smell good wearing Rebel cologne than any other cologne I've used in the past. Anyone reading this, I highly recommend getting Rebel. After a few compliments, you'll start leaving the house with a positive and productive attitude.
Thanks for this video. I did the tongue stink test. God my breath stinks. Just bought a tongue scrapper and it will now be part of my oral hygiene routine.
ok this guys at first seems like those “alpha dogs” but some of these are actually really good tips and just seems like a good guy in general. Very pleasantly surprised!
