Hey brotha, listen In most cases you are right however My best friend is a woman im a heterosexual man we grew up together never went together or anything. My Point is there are exceptions and I luv her husband like a brother. I am proud to say that my best bro is a woman… sounds weird but believe me its a rare one of a kind case, im 40 we been friends for 32 years. Have a good day man 😊
Green Flags: 1. She has a Job (excluding Onlyfans). 2. She makes it easy to spend time with her and responds within a reasonable time period. 3. She enjoys taking care of you. 4. She has longtime female friends. 5. She goes with the flow and is easygoing. 6. She has cool parents who are still together or are civil with one another if divorced. 7. She makes an effort to get to know you. She digs deeper to understand you.
Last night i realized ur videos are not just for dating girls but rather understanding women and having a good relationship, and for masculine and feminine balance of the energy inside of us both, yielding to which creates the fire or love or god, whether it be going in or outside expressively (thanks to u both, its incredibly helpful having ur wife on, to see a women's reaction on ur 'beast strategies') I am so glad someone is educating people on how to have alive sensual-and-sexual relationships that stay sizzling, thank God! and thank u bro , for ur spirit, journey and surrender .to the path . with grateful eyes Alwyn (u have embraced ur destiny, well done (oh yeah and thanks for sharing ur heart, i feel it. every time
Here are the green flags I've noticed as a 30 year old: 1. Cooks - Doesnt even have to be a good cook, but at least puts in the effort. You'd be surprised how many women uber eat everything these days 2. Keeps a clean apartment 3. Instagram is on private and/or ratio to followers to following is less than 1:1 4. Her parents are still together 5. She only posts pictures of herself/going out in her stories 6. Doesn't sleep with you on the first or second date.
A woman having a ton of male friends is a red flag because men know how a lot of other men think, which is with constant lust, and that's not platonic.
If you knew how man act you would have the knowledge to act right and be having more value than any of this man you wouldn’t worry she would pick you first before the rest.
I‘ve started dating this really special girl about a month ago (known her since like 2 months) and she literally has every green flag you listed. you just confirmed what a already knew, I have to keep her. thanks bro
Thank you David for all your videos. It’s good to hear about the red flags and green flags about women. We know what to expect and not get hurt again or what to change about us and our mentality. And thank you Julia for explaining to us as well on the female side. You both are a blessing for the men that have been struggling like me❤
I find it so weird that you can be dating/texting a girl for a month or two, everything is going absolutely perfect, every interaction has been great and she seems like she would die for me…Only to out of the blue just start being a lot more distant and next thing you know she’s gone
Man literally happened to me last week this girl from my internship things were good we hung out hooked up and humor was high but boom I reach out one day and no response I reach out another time and nothing … man it’s crazy how girls can just dip whenever they like
I particularly enjoyed how you framed the green flag 3. It’s not about expecting the lady to be a servant of us (I’m single father and I take care of my own house so I don’t need a maid at home), but expecting equal effort being put into the relationship. These small gestures would indeed be a good surprise and I’d deeply appreciate it. I’d definitely settle for a lady that would remember my what I like and surprise me with it.
Usually if I ask a girl out and they hit me with “oh I can’t hangout that day” and don’t follow it up with something like “I can’t that day but maybe on Tuesday or Thursday?” I just assume they’re not interested & I’m not gonna ask a second time.
Love the video,but i wanted to add something when i heard that she does everything you propose to her. I've never seen anything that Julia loves to do, or projects she has(maybe because it isn't a channel strictly about her) or when she is the one taking the lead in doing something together. It would be cool to show that part too because i've always seen you guys like a strong couple,made out of both a strong man and a strong female.
1. green flag: She has a job…what a great piece of advice… in what century are you guys living in? I can‘t remember the last time i met a woman that didn‘t have a job! if you constantly meet women tha do onlyfans or don’t work at all maybe ypu should ask yourself if you’re hanging out in the wrong places or with the wrong people…. you have such a weird understanding of women… i can not understand how you got married… you have such a negative perspective on women… probably because you‘re only hanging out at the gym with other influencers…a red flag in a woman for me would be one that finds you view of the world or of women attractive
I remember I told this girl I liked lifesavers gummies and she brought me 2 bags of them shortly after. I made myself sick but remember kings: If she wanted to, she would.
My girlfriend is just like this and this is why even in the modern date dating which sucks she is traditional and probably will take the risk of getting married with a prenup of course but, I will love her to death
Not too long ago I met a lady and we had the most incredibly romantic time. I thought we were going to be together forever. Then about a week later right out of the blue, she leaves me a john deer letter. So I called her up and she gave me a bunch of crap about me not listening to her enough or something, I mean I don't know I really wasn't paying attention. But the thing that hurt the most is I think she was seeing another guy.....I never did find out who.
To be fair. I've dated woman who have their own jobs. Don't go out clubbing. Don't have guy friends. And guess what. They treated me like a piece of crap.
I'm 35 and for those of you single, I am re-married after a divorce in my 20's , my ex couldn't understand I lot my job and I was in depression, blasting on the change of routine we had. Read, this will be worth it. After reengaging in dating, -one of the girls was always too busy or too tire to meet (the model like one) -second was good looking, divorced and had diabetes illness so she would have difficulties reproducing so she decided she would not bear children -third Eastern European Immigrant, dressed with Spring dresses all the time, would make me cakes and would NOT INVITE ME TO DINNER, she will make dinner. career oriented and cherish her family in her country of birth. one of the first things she asked during dating was if I knew how to do mostly manly things like changing my car oil or changing a light bulb. after discussing these options with a cousin, he ended up like, Brahh, one doesn't have time with you, The other one unfortunately would not bear children... this is a no brainer. for the immigrant. At this time we have 10 years, she gave me 2 kids and asked me if I wanted to have a third one. loyal to the BONE! (almost certain) Absolutely NO MAN FRIENDS, her girlfriends are mothers and Wifes, understand my goals and is a team player not an opponent. be careful around... I have on divorce, my ex wife would slap my face if I watch a Music videos with girls twerking.
I just thought of a good marketing tactic for your clothing. It would work great if every once in awhile you wear Max's brand clothing and push his brand on your channel and he does the same. It would come off better than just pushing your own brand all the time. Just an idea I thought of
So cool seeing that you went to to BU. I was born and raised in Boston. Seen your channel because it says that Dre Drexler watched your videos. Absolutely love what you guys are doing and I really appreciate y’all.
Hey David, I miss your old format of video. Not that you sitting in front of a microphone talking isn't still a solid format, but I thought the day in the life videos we're what made you unique and set you apart from other guys in this space. Just my feedback. Always love the content
As a female its hard to find really good friends. Especially if the girl is beautiful friends will get jealous. So many girls that have long time best friends secretly hate eachother. Its so hard and rare to find a truly good friend within female circles. Its really sad
Beast, I'm struggling to understand why most girls always felt sorry for me. Knowing that rejecting me is a smarter option than lying and hurting my feelings. Look man I can handle rejection shit is easy to get over. But for someone to love you out of pity. How the fuck do I find out if she loves me out of pity.
You're describing my ex-girlfriend slash best friend. There are no romantic connections, we just enjoy hanging out. She will buy a takeaway one week and then I buy the next. When one of us has no money, there are no qualms about paying them back, because we know we'll pay the next time. We have a laugh. We tease each other and we get each other's humour.
I’ve recently reconnected with a girl I used to know like 10 years ago and the best way I can describe her is me in a dress I have yet to find one thing we don’t have in common but I’m a dumba** that’s afraid to ask her out
7:12 My girl friend is always faster than me. Getting ready to go out takes her 5 minutes and every time we go to the toilet, she's always the one waiting. I'm not slow but she calls herself Sonic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not texting back in a reasonable amount of time is in my eyes disrespectful and I lose interest in her. Like you said, she seen the msg. It takes seconds to reply and she’s not ignoring her girls and other dudes. I’m out.
Finally, first realistic and healthy video about of what a true girl is and how the other girls should be. Usually people talk about how a boy should be. This is how a realtion ship should be. Half and Half.
Hello! Just a question. At the finish you said that if she digs deeper and want to know you more is a good sign. I agree with you on that. But, what about if after sometime, and possible 2. or 3 dates you are the one that is making the big part of effort. You should try to give up and concentrate on other girl thinking, 'Maybe she doesn't like me as much '. In that process maybe you can make her a little jealous. Or just saying her upfront that you think that she is not as involved as you in making this relationship working. Suggest the idea that if she continues like this, she will loose you. What do you think? I vote for the cold approach, for concentraiting on other girls, for her to see that it could lose you.
So true. Been having these things I look out for in women over the last 13 years. Keep being told I am picky but if being picky is being good, decent person with value then call me picky all day.
I agree with your sentiment. Don’t know why NY Post doesn’t. They’re usually conservative though they have swayed over the years to the left side of the aisle.
It is sad. I got a ( very) longtime female friend. Fact is, I've not seen her in person for almost 5 years now ( I'm in US, she's in Germany, neither of us went back to homeland in ages), yet we still talk at least once a month to catch up. I tell her my troubles, she tells her mine, and it has been that way since University freshman year. Not once we had an inkling of anything more, always supported each other. She has a longtime female friend as well, so she definitely isn't a "I cant get along with girls" type of person either. I value my friendship with her so much. This is a woman who'd call me to get her when she didnt feel safe in a place, or I'd call her to buy me groceries when my ankle was badly hurt and I needed help. And according to y'all, she'd be viewed with ultimate suspicion because of me. Shame on y'all. I get that a 'male friend' is usually a side piece waiting in reserve, but if a woman has a friendship that lasted over a fucking DECADE, at that point you shouldn't view that friend as male or female, that's just a ride or die chosen family.
There's always exceptions to the rule, but based on my personal observations, it's feminine males (not gay) and gay males that usually have females that they consider friends. Not saying anything about you though.
Absolute banger of a video. I especially love the part about her going with the flow. This I feel is important to me because if I have hobbies I'd love a girl who's down for the ride. Definitely going to be testing this with girls I'm talking to from now on
I agree with all except number 5. Yes ,it is bad sign if girl takes hours to get ready...and makes you wait...like run for hills, because it is so entitled and rude. And if you are spontanous personality and want girl who is 'go with flow' to match your energy, absolutely go for it. However 'The girl who will experince crazy level of anxiety if you change plans last minute.' that sounds SO MUCH like female who is undiagnosed autist. Unfortunately there is a lot of women on high-functioning end of spectrum, who dont know they have it. For long time it was though autism affects only boys, but no, women are just better at masking...mimicking normal behaviour. But symptoms of female with autism include: aversions to changes(especially sudden), sticking to routines, aversion to touching, prefering to be alone, problem starting conversation or problems shutting up about certain topics, trouble reading facial expression, having the blank face, sensory sensitivity(against light, noise, textures, smells are most common), fixating on task and being really upset when interupted, being picky eater. If you ever come across woman like that, then for love of god please tell her(nicely). Even if she might not be for you, it will help her to know. I only found out at 27, and before that my sensory sensitivity was making me believe i was literally going crazy. Because who gets on verge of mental breakdown just because strong light shines on their face for fifteen minutes?
Hey bro, I have a colleague who is super attractive. Everyone is interested except me and that's why she only keeps giving attention to me. Only she's testing me and I'm not in the mood for testing. Are you interested or not, but I don't participate in a weird test. And in a short conversation she said whether I was a quiet type or a busy one? I said a quiet type. She continues to look interested, but her reaction is waiting every day (Me: help) Uh Do I need to do something now? I don't want to be tested, just be honest. I hate testing. Greats robbert
I’m just confused. Why do so many dating coaches put so much emphasis on women with exclusively female friends? If he’s like a brother to her, and she’s like a sister to him, what is the exact risk of our girlfriends having male friends? 10:20 side note: If women aren’t supposed to have male friends, why is it a green flag for her divorced parents have a civil relationship, that a woman is still friends with her ex husband? Employing your logic, wouldn’t it be more ideal if her divorced parents cut communication with each other?
Watching some of these Videos started changing my Perspective on the Chicks that go to clubs and try to hookup with Men and Bang with them. It’s Greasy Shit Really. But at the same time I wanna hookup with a Chick at least Two Times, and than settle up with finding a Valuable Woman.
I'm genuinely surprised that that women is doing those things for you. (Unless she's your friend who's just helping you get shots for your video.) Not because of you, but those women are constantly showered by men and act so entitled. (At least from what I've seen.)
I've seen all these qualities in one of my bff but she is a Muslim and I'm a hindu so i know that I'll never gonna have her bcz this is 🇮🇳. Well whoever marry her will be much lucky. And i hope she'll get someone who deserve 😊
A couple of points on your comments. Women who have guy friends can be good wife material. You have to discern if they are just simply the type that understands how flakey women can be and don't like to deal with that. Secondly, a guy who needs high maintenance women is just a validation seeker who gets off on playing the white knight. It'll eventually burn him out and she will think the relationship comes too easy, get tired of him because he's not a challenge and cheat on him or leave him.
Im a girl watching this... dont get me wrong here im NOT lez!!! Im just watching this to work on myself to be the right gf and wife when its the right time and im older and so far ive got green flags exept for... i really dont always get along with girls and since pre primary ive played with boys and i still get along beter with guys these days... i think im to much of a tomboy for the girls where i live. There is one girl tho that i do get allong with and she is my best guy friend ś gf. I dont know if thats a red flag? But if it is just let me know.
I'll disagree with you on the first one. In a few ways. A guy doesn't care if she has a job or not, if he wants her to be a stay at home mom, she wont have a job. Also "The value of money", this is a revolting and regurgitated belief humans have. If you believe money is OOHHHH so important in life, sorry but that's a massive red flag, and shows you have no awareness of reality, and I want nothing to do with you. Money is a carrot dangled in front of you, designed to make you waste your one and only life chasing shit that doesn't matter, it only results in benefiting the elites who rigged the system to make you a slave. A bit of money is fine, enough to get some food and such, but you don't need more then that.
FYI > Believe it or not, there are a good number of decent, trustworthy, and enjoyable women in this world who often prefer the company of their close male friends over their female friends. I have a few long-time male friends, as well as some relatively new ones. I don't relate as much with the typical female's perspective and mentality. This isn't to say that I still don't have female friends, because I do! I just usually feel more at home with the guys. If the man I'm dating has a problem with that, then he is clearly insecure about himself and has trust issues. Additionally, I have a life, which also means that I have a schedule. My schedule is no less important than his. Sure, if I can possibly swing an impromptu get-together, great! But an emotionally mature man doesn't get twisted around if I don't jump up and go whenever he wants to do something spontaneous. That's about it, for this video. Just to be fair and balanced, I liked most of your green flags. 👍 But I'm not going to look at your other video about red flags because it's time to now shift my attention back to the positive things in life. 🌞🌼🌿🕊️
That’s such a weird topic because I have a few female friends. I don’t go out with them without my partner. My partner has a couple male friends and I’ve met them. 1 comes our house to hang time to time in a group setting or they go to lunch sometimes during work hours as they work together. We both agreed we don’t go to opposite sex’s houses or out to a bar without each other out of respect for the other.
Hey man I’m loving your video, but I really don’t see a problem with her having male friends. My girl was grabbing coffee with an old time male friend she grew up with the other day and I don’t see the red flag. Having said that she takes care of me, I take care of her, and the physical interaction is great. Any input would be welcome and appreciated.
If she doesn't have any reason to be around them constantly from work, church, isn't related to them, and so on while you are dating her or seriously involved with her? Then she has no reason to be around them, so beware of Women who need tons of attention from those that are not in her immediate circle. I feel sorry for anyone who ever thinks Olivia Dunne will make a good wife because she has 7 plus million Tik Tok followers and any guy who would marry her will be competing with them for her time and attention.
Please do the 2 finger turning around eachother handmovement a bit less. Talking with your hands is good, but it gets cringy if you do the same thing over and over again.
There are no green flags. Women do not need we men. I was burned i my thirties. Even if we have similar political beliefs or social standards there is too much danger in developing a relationship. Being single and masculine and living my life for me without the impediments of a relationship is the best.
So i dont go out much because im always working honestly im more worried about collecting that check she how much of it i can save But i recently met this girl that works with me i learn alot about her she been working sense she was 15 she pays 75 of the bills to help her parents has 2 cars is gonna buy another car And for everyone else she probably looks average btw theres nothing wrong with that on top of all that shes getting a Lipo surgery because shes been saving for one She knows how to control her money very well she acts like someone that might be 25 But theres a problem when i met her i was only a regular sales person but i became her boss on top of that shes only 19 Im 27 i see her like 3 to 4 times a week we havent actually gone on a date but we did go to the movies with other coworkers at we do normally just go to the gym together theres alot of times she be buying food without asking so far shes the only one checking all the green boxes
