Girls, Did You EVER Have A Guy That You Wished You Said Yes To When He Asked You Out? 

There's a good portion of these women that I'm so happy that they were so superficial... Because they likely would have ruined a really good mans life... And all I can do is smile about it

A lot of these seem like they regret not dating the eventual hot and successful person rather than regret not dating the person.

Girls who reject men: "oh no! He has money now and has no interest in me!!!" Guys who reject women: "she has 4 kids of 4 different daddies, she is still a single mom. Bullet dodged."

"Why dont men pursue women anymore?" Then reddit comes in clutch with hundreds of personal experiences😂😂😂😂😂

People: you should be friends first before you try and date. People after being friends: I don’t want to ruin our friendship. People later: why did you never ask me out again? (True story)

Story 11: Obviously, she wanted to keep that guy in her pocket until later. Losing him to someone else wasn't in her script.

Quite a few examples are from men who didn't take the "fear of ruining friendship" bait and successfully avoided being strung along.

“Didn’t want to cheat on my boyfriend.” She must not know going on a god damn date with another guy, and letting him flirt with you is literally cheating. If you actually cared for your relationship with your bf, you would shut down any though of someone flirting with you, let alone going out with a guy 1 on 1. Never underestimate women’s ability to do mental gymnastics.

Women complain about men with options being superficial, but they do the same exact stuff to men they perceive to be below them. Damn hypocrites.

If you're a dude in your early 20s, trust me on this: work on your career and get in shape. Men and women age differently, and you will have the *ultimate* revenge in your 30s 💯

These men are so lucky they did not get with these women

Story 12 - The guy kept inducing his wife to think she blew up. Sabotaging his own relationship. She might have and she might never had though much about it. But he kept remembering her. I wonder how is their marriage. 🤔

If anything, this makes me realize a woman with Reddit is a red flag lmao

I grew up believing the lie society told me that men were the ones who are too superficial, and yes, everyone desires a good looking person, but after 30 years of observing relationships of the people close to me and the one not so much, I can comfortably say, that the ladies are the ones that only take looks into account, and men are actually way more open and flexible when the time to select a partner comes.... guess who ends up being happier in the long run.

I can't imagine rejecting someone in such a hateful manner. All you have to do is say "I'm very flattered but I'm not interested" or something like that. No need for EW NO NOT GOOD ENOUGH. What the hell, people?

Turned down Stevie ray vaughn because he was short and weird. Then he went on stage then I was like hey..and he was like 🤣🤣 gtfoh

It’s crazy how the nature of woman hasn’t changed , no matter the the generation . Focus on yourselves men & if you had a woman that was with you at your lowest do right by her ..period . Because the women who only come around when you’re successful only want one thing ….

Girls who said no and didn't cheat on your boyfriend, you should have no regret. You lived with integrity 👏

Moral of the story: TALK LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING!

I'm grateful to all the women who rejected me when I was young. It gave my hormones enough time to calm down so I could realize women are one of the worst investments a man can possibly make. If they had taken an interest in me my life would be so much harder today.

I can't count the number of women that thought either I wasn't good enough or just a meal ticket. However,it only took one that wanted to work with me. By working together, we broke a net worth of 7 figures in 18 years.

At about the 8 minute mark that one summed it up....GIRL LOGIC 😆

Why do people go back to shitty exes. That last story was hilarious 😂

I already knew how most of these were going to be before I started the video and after watching, I was right. They regret not dating the eventual successful man because he has things now not because they were interested in him exactly.

As bad as it feels to get rejected, where would the guy end up if he wasn't? Most often rejection is a wake up call for us to gain focus and pay more attention to our purpose than our craving for sex

One thing guys need to learn from this video is that rejection isn't always about you

i can sum this up: in this case she either rejects you to boost her own ego, or ur ugly, or she thoughts ur some normal looking wagie loser, but then u got into your sportscar or into your actual persona and she saw that ur rich af

I dated a girl who broke up with me saying "you're just not a good enough catch for a girl like me" fast forward two decades. Until I blocked her number she was calling me almost daily begging me to take her back. Turns out she is BPD, a severe alcoholic, and her whole family has turned their back on her. She is currently doing three years in prison after receiving her fifth DUI. As for myself I haven't set the world on fire, but I own a small house and two decent trucks, all of which is paid off.

15:38 finally someone actually said something loyal instead of "I love my spouse but-"

For story 14, i felt that. I'm a guy but i have a similar story. I had a best friend for many of my school years. We had split apart for a while but during senior year we were being freindly to eachother like in the old days. I had developed feelings for her and i didn't say anything or go anyfurther with them. I didn't want to ruin our friendship and thought it was too later. I also wasn't sure if she had feelings for me and didn't want to make the same mistake i did with my first crush (long hateful story). I now realized that she did have feelings when we were younger and might have still. It has been 4 years and i'm still kicking myself you that mistake (among others). Even though i regret that mistake i wouldn't change it'l, because i don't think i deserve her.

Story 4: He did that on purpose. It was all calculated. Edit: wow, so many superficial women in this video. I'm glad that they regretted/felt misery for being so shallow.

If they were really in love with their then bfs why would they care how successful the others were?

Story 12: That dude was aiming to get hurt with his joke. If it hurt him at all.

The best investment you could ever make is one on yourself. When you become a better version of yourself, give nothing to those who didn't believe in or give to you.

If you’re with someone and you actively think and have reason to believe they don’t care about you: you have no good reason to not break things off with them for someone better.

He is so perfect, it would suck to lose him. I better reject him. Women.

Story 12 wow i never know a man can disrespect himself like that but he's right though the wife should leave him he's a low value male , wife blew it by being married to him .

Kinda crazy to think about some ppl that wouldn't exist today if their parents or grandparents didn't reject them.

So that last one, she said "put some distance between us" with no explanation other than "3 weeks later I went to his door...." it makes it seem like she ghosted and avoided him for 3 weeks.

My son hates the concept of relationships because he has had a lot of rejections. He just shuts down at the thought of it. Friend zoning is a horrible thing for men to go through. It makes a lot of men turned off to the idea of a relationship that they would rather be alone or have a dog. I can't say on levels I blame them. I can't say I blame my son either, and he's going to turn 27 very soon. He used to be fit and let himself go really badly. Like he gained over 120 pounds and doesn't care anymore and it breaks my heart as a mom. He's such a sweetheart to women and is always willing to help out in anyone's life regardless of the issue. Now, he just smokes E Cigs a lot and cries himself to sleep at times. I act like I don't hear it but it hurts me too. I pray to God that someone will see him as more than a friend but honestly, I don't know. It's sooooo different from when I dated and that was thirty years ago. Maybe he is right. Maybe his generation is destined to fail due to social media. God help us.

I love how SRV, one of the goats, dropped that on her!!!😂

1:01 He lost nothing, as she was clearly in it for the money, 99% of women are.

I feel so bad for the guy who was very kind but had “ no ambition”

Was best friends with the most amazing guy for over a year, and knew I loved everything about him, and could see that there was an attraction he had building towards me as well. Eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I told him no. It was the most heartbreaking thing in the world to do, but I explained to him that while I wanted to date him, I wouldn't be a good girlfriend at the time. I was dealing with a ton of un-addressed trauma, fighting chronic illness, trying to finish my last semester of college, and was dealing with some seriously messy family issues. We stayed close and I did a lot of work on myself over the course of that year, graduated, finally found a solid treatment for my chronic illness, and got things sorted with family. Ended up telling him I was still in love with him, but would completely understand if he felt differently after all the time that had passed, and I was just thankful for his being in my life and would respect whatever he wanted fully. We met for breakfast the next day, and turns out he'd never stopped thinking about me either. We've been together for 7 years now and just got married last year. Glad I said no the first time, as hard as it was: I was in no mental place to give him everything that he deserved and it wasn't his job to "fix" me. We were still the right ones for each other after those months of healing and waiting, and I think our relationship started in a much healthier place because of my choice.

Kinda seems like a lot of these people just settled for the next person they ended up with

For some reason hearing this women feel regret brings a smile to my face. But the one about the shy girls and the one at the end kind of made me feel bad for those girls.

That backpack story sounds more like a r/pettyrevenge thing, lol

Last story literally reminds me of mine. but instead of the guy's friend for this story, it was her friend who told her, he's not single anymore, she dated someone who is seemingly toxic, while I'm still in a good relationship with my girl, she knows everything.

These stories are making my blood boiled lol. Women are such puzzles.

Sooo what I'm hearing is the moral of the story is: When a woman is gullable, she often misses out on either someone or something beautiful in their life that could have been. Women will pass up many things, but the things she passes up the most is always what she either desires most or needs most in their life at that point in time

Story 12 sounds like he REALLY wants to be cucked...

There was a chick I was in love with in middle school she never gave me the time of day now she’s a single mom with no high school diploma 😂

I love that Larry Fitzgerald story, lol. "You blew it!" 😂😂😂

Amazing how some of them in these stories don’t perceive talking romantically or being in romantic or intimate moments with people when IN a relationship as a issue. Just regrets. Be careful who you date is what these kinda stories teach you.

I like story 17, she talks to guys she likes about freaking beast wars. If a girl can talk to me about how awful and yet funny character rat trap is, she’s got potential

Girl number 4 deserved it for being superficial. Good on the guy for getting a bit of revenge. Petty, yes. But still funny

I don't feel bad for the women wo reject the men who became successful in the end, I like the fact that some of them stayed faithful to their partners.

the girl in story 15 are another example of girls being straight up stupid, not even gave him 1 little chances!

So many missed opportunities that could've turned out to be the greatest story of their lives. So many "could have been's" because we were too afraid to appear foolish. We all have these regrets. Both women and men should learn to take a chance on a possibility. You know in your gut if that person is good. See if it turns to great. Life is so short.

Story 16 seems like the genuine article. She didn't turn the guy down at the bus stop for any other reason than loyalty, and she's not leading her husband on by dreaming of another guy. That kind of devotion is rare. :)

I only know one girl from high school who probly doesnt. She made me seem like a stalker only because she wouldnt say Yes or No when i asked her if she'd wanna go on a date. It was always, " I'll think about it" or "maybe" i only asked 2 or 3 times which was once a week till i gave up.

The fact these girls are proudly saying they would rather be with the successful guy from highschool than. The person they are currently with is messed up.

Its always nice when the crappy people vet themselves

Bro. Stevie ray Vaughan is my literal guitar and life hero. Did not expect to hear his name in one of these videos lol. 🐐 🎸

Last Story, she took advice from a friend who convinced her to not commit a mistake and instead made it worse as she proceeded to literally ignore him stepping on his feelings in the process hoping he will wait 🤡 and then even gets back with her horrible ex 🤡🤡

Two-story 17: girl I could talk for hours about beast wars

There’s one guy from high school. I didn’t even realize he liked me until long after the fact, but I regret that I liked his friend and didn’t give him a chance. He was the only genuinely nice guy I’ve ever been friends with. I saw on Facebook though that he found a girlfriend who really appreciates him, and that just made me smile. Hope everything goes well for him.

"I couldn't dare a ginger" Fair tbh

Guess I'll be single 4 life. I gave up 😂

Story 9. Hope he says no

Moral of the story . Woman have to start aproaching guys instead of the other way around ...

News paper one was gold

Bro whoever is playing little big planet is pissing me off they missing all the secrets Xd

He stole her PS3 and backpack? I don’t believe any of that. She rejected him, he came back in shape. She gave it up to him and he tossed her to the side and got her roommate too. The weird awkward guy became a Chad and the best she could come up with was he stole her PS3 and backpack.

I am girl I was confessed in high school by guy friend but I don’t know why but I felt nothing not joy, anger just nothingness. I really felt bad that I felt nothing because I know with a confession of love you are suppose feel something anything. The next day, I told the truth that I didn’t feel the same way and focusing on school and didn’t want to manipulate him he deserve better than that I seen that happen personally I didn’t want to do it on others. Months later, I went to a different community college then and found out from a former friend of his but a friend of mine that “He was a complete jerk in high school and I stopped being friends with him and he became even worse in community college the sister college of mine because his mom worked there. So I found out I dodged a bullet on that one. My heart was protecting me from someone not good for me.

I once rejected a guy I really thought could be a good partner. It a because my father didn’t approve of him. I still think about what could have been, but would make the same decision regardless.

I just got rejected by a woman !!

As you grow, there will always be the “what if’s” lingering in your mind. Stop dwelling in the past, focus on the present. Be aware of your surroundings, you never know if someone or something special is right in front of you.

This video was a great reminder of why I'm going to stay single.

17:38 The friend that gave her the advice couldn’t be more wrong. If he was truly smart and attractive than he would’ve perfectly understood her situation.

Bruh, in HS I was hella smitten with this one girl. I was pretty direct as I am on the spectrum. I directly asked her out. She kept playing coy and would be real touchy with me. Those moments with her really recharged my affection for her. Her excuse for not dating me was that she was saving herself for after HS. My friend group and her friend's group was really close... turns out they all were having sex and all kinds of fun. The inside joke was that I was 😐 oblivious. I will admit it was impossible at the time to understand subtle cues. One day, I was passing notes for the friends group when I connected the dots... They all admitted they all had sex like 16 times, and they thought it was "cute" that I was oblivious. I still feel that epic embarrassment to this day. I quit the group, and after HS ended up going to prison for 9 years. Near the end of my sentence, she started writing me. She had a set of twins a little girl and was 3 abortions deep. She sent me hot nude pics and I considered ef zoning her. She thought I was going to setup her address for my release to live with her... instead I secretly set my ma's address. When I got out she was there... bruh... I couldn't believe my eyes. She was *OBESE* . Not thicc, not BBW, she was full blown wake apnea, medical shoe clad in a matching mumuu. I told her directly that I never intended to live with her. I only wanted to eff but seeing her in that condition I mentioned that i couldn't even ef cuz she was so obese it wouldn't be enjoyable for me. She called me a pos and a jerk. I since then started a few companies and am doing well enough to be seen and visible in my home town... She still called me after 10 years into my release wondering if she lost the weight would I reconsider... After declining, I thanked her for teaching me how rewarding it was to be a jerk to women. I was fresh out and eye candy to everyone. I started an eff buddy situationship with this 19 year old in 2022 when the lockdowns eased up. The last time I came over she told me to come straight to her room because her mom is over. She said her mom was depressed because her latest boyfriend cheated on her, she was broke/ homeless and needed a place to stay so she was on the couch. The apartment was already hella tiny. I came over like planned and was shuffling past the sofa... when I heard my name... her mom was my HS crush! Bruh, my heart started racing and I just pretended to not recognize her and apologized for waking her. Me and her daughter were doing the nasty when i noticed a weird shadow under the door... her fat ass was watching us from under the effing door! I stopped and told my homegirl that I saw her mom watching us, and she went ballistic. She bolted out there wrapped in a bedsheet to confront her mom, but her mom was a weaping balling mess. Describing her as "ugly crying" was an understatement. Her mom gave some cliff notes on our connection. Then she turned to me and was screaming, "Why couldn't you love ME!" Well, to conclude... it's been a year and a half since we ended our fun friendship. Good news is her mom used that rock bottom landing to motivate her to hitting the gym and is now employed at a really good job. A few more lbs to go and she'll be on the healthier side of thicc again 😭😭😭

A lot of these girls are really shallow

Moral of these stories lol doesnt matter how much of a great/nice guy you are if shes with a douchebag best believe she is choosing him and is even loyal to him. Better to be the douchebag than the nice guy

"turned him down because he was ugly but regretted it when i saw he became hot" -_- looks aren't everything thing. I'd rather have a timid girl than one that has her phone book stored of every simp that she used her looks on. I had a girl that was love sick for me but the only thing that held us back from being a couple was her religion she's from a muslim background and everyone knows muslim girls aren't allowed to be into contact with any other race but their own while the muslim men can date anyone. Such dumb choices. Despite that crap me and her still had a nice time together. But ended up apart due to her father being that typical muslim stereotype that hits her daughter and tells her to never see me again. She had to oblige. Hate her parents for denying her the true happiness she was longing for through me.

The Fitzgerald Story was awesome! 😊

Never been in a relationship. Oh well

There is no true love or special bonds, people just choose partners on a whim it seems and change them like toothbrushes after barely any time. So sad to see, as a child i always believed that for each person there is a special other person on this earth they are destined to be with. The one true love. While that's obviously bullshit I still to this day refuse to accept how loose and meaningless it actually is. Like every time a girl used to enter our social circle i saw one friend after another catching feels for her. It was so stupid. It was not about her as a person or something but rather just her being the only or the new chick. Thats it. A couple of months later same shit with a different one. These feelings aren't special if they aren't discriminatory you know. Also seing how fast women i know find new partners or change partners. Its not that they have short relationships, its that they are never not in a relationship. It ended, sad, boom the next one. Just like that, was it the next best one i wonder? That's were i got my toothbrush analogy from. Your toothbrush is not special, you just always have one for obvious reasons. If you change boyfriends like toothbrushes how is that special? This guy could be literally any other guy that you happen to meet in that short time window between relationships. Yes, i am somewhat bitter and lonely. Nothing means anything. I am very selective. And seeing how mindless other people handle romantic relationships bothers me. I do not want to be just another guy to someone i literally would devote my life and heart to. I do not want to be the next best one. I do not want to be with someone because I just happened to be there and it could have been literally any other guy also. Maybe im taking all this to seriously. But i refuse to be like the people i observe. It disgusts me, there is no dignity in it. No meaning.

Women 🙄☕

6:20... man that hits the feels.

Love is a pointless, hollow thing.

Man the stories where the women are just blatantly outing themselves as shallow and only willing to give the guy a chance had they been attractive really rubs me the wrong way. It really does feel like they will latch to any old wifebeater or criminal, as long as they're eye candy.

Never let your girlfriend/boyfriend keep you from your wife/husband

Most of them basically flirted or more while being in a relationship

These days I'm sure they all regret it.

the whole middle school and high school no boys interested in me I was invisible and when in college some guys really just couldn't let me go, while I already had my eyes on my husband and no I didn't regret anything at all rejecting them.

Women ☕️

Ok imma guy but I have a story for this one. In preschool I met this girl. We'll call her Zoey (not here real name). We became pretty good friends. Best friends in fact. We lived on the same road so we rode the same bus and on field trips we were always partners. We both we're on the academic team and soccer teams (even tho I hate soccer i played because she loved it). Everyone new I had a huge crush on her but I never thought she looked at me as more than a friend. The older we got the more we drifted apart and found new friend groups but still talked here and there. Senior year of high school I got into my first fight defending my best friend who had just came back to school after a four-wheeler accident and was paralyzed. I ended up getting arrested by school security and the dude's parents wanted to press charges cause I threw him down a flight of stairs. Anyways, Zoey wanted to know what exactly happened so she was talking to my homie and ended up admitting she had a crush on me. After a 2 month suspension, community service, and house arrest I came back for the last 3 weeks for graduation. She caught me in the hallway and we talked for a few hours leading to her asking me out. In my head I was thinking "we've known each other since preschool and you knew I had a crush on you but you friend zoned me for 13yrs? Nah" so I turned her down in front of her friends and my friends. Everyone was completely in shock cause she was one of the hottest girls in school and I'm just your average looking guy. She ended up blocking me on everything fb, snap, ig, even Xbox lol. 5 years later and she's even hotter, makes 6 figures, and travels across the country living her best life. She's still single and I've tried to talk to her and apologize but she has never opened any of my messages. Talk about a royal fuck up🤦🏻‍♂️

Who asks someone out that just stole from you??🤦🏾‍♂️😂

Some of these sounds really fake lol

The guy from story 11: she ain't your girl. Guarantee that, so long as she's not a devout woman of God, she's fucked a guy who she just met before. "It's too fast" is just her saying "I'm happy with the attention and the money you're spending on me, let's just keep doing that and I can keep pretending it'll lead to you getting to bang me at some point" Be happy with your wife. Hopefully she doesn't require you to pay for her.