Torrid Try on FAIL | Torrid Plus Size Try On Haul

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@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you all for the amazing display of support!! Each and every comment means so much and I am working on replying to as many of your comments as I can. If I don't reply, then it's probably because youtube isn't consistent in showing me all the comments. 🤗❤

@beverlykwakye682 3 года назад

What camera do you use? The quality and lighting is relly good.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Beverly, thank you! I just use the front facing camera on my Samsung Galaxy Note 20 Ultra, and I use a ring light. 🙂

@lizziegeedee 3 года назад

Align probiotics-best thing for bloating issues!!

@lizziegeedee 3 года назад

I feel the same right now!!! My mom died last year at the beginning of the pandemic and I’ve been smoking a lot of weed and gained weight. Like the most I’ve ever weighed in my life. Like I went from a 1x to a 3x and I FEEL YOU!!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Aww sweetie I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I totally understand. I went through horrible depression when I lost both my parents in 2006. It will take time love. We all grieve differently. Big hugs to you ❤❤

@ahoarsewithnoname 3 года назад

Hi. I'm a rando who clicked because it was recommended. Bloated, not bloated, weight gain or no weight no weight loss, you are still beautiful. You are not alone either. There are so many people in your shoes. Anyone who would come here with the intention of leaving a nasty comment is the person who can only build themselves up by knocking others down.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you for kind words. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment! 💗

@schtinnialaffaye82 3 года назад

I am that one random person that has come across your video, but I see a woman who is in a situation we all have been in. Keep your head up; better days are to come. Thank you for sharing.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you Elonda! Hugs! ❤

@karenchildressbentley6775 3 года назад

Me too girl .. Keep ur head up .. I ve gained so much weight .. I hate looking in the mirror or trying to buy clothes..

@marlataylor4487 3 года назад

Much love & light to you beautiful! We're ALL struggling w/something! Love, you & I love you

@Emily-sb5pc 3 года назад

Hey!! I just want to let you know, I really really struggle with bloating too. You're not alone!! Throughout the day, my weight fluctuates so much that I will go up inches on my waist. It's a human thing and we're still amazing no matter what!! Our body is just doing its thing!

@catherineelizabeth2108 3 года назад

I hope you see how all the women here are wanting to support you, because we have all been there. Our hearts are with you sweet girl.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Catherine! I am so humbled and blessed that so many amazing people have reached out with kindness. It is a beautiful thing to especially see women lifting each other up! Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment ❤

@stephanieremsen8564 3 года назад

I’m a rando who just stumbled upon your channel, but I’m not here to leave a nasty comment. I’m here to leave a virtual hug. And, to subscribe. You are not alone.

@admirekristi5133 3 года назад

My favorite shirt was the third (coral) shirt. 💕 Don’t let your “insecurities” run your life. Continue to live your life and be happy while working on yourself! Weight-loss is extremely hard. Your time will come. Show yourself some grace and be proud of the progress you’ve made! 💗

@sarasaunders5848 3 года назад

I’m sorry the clothes didn’t work out. But-you made me smile when you called the flamingos “pink chickens” 😅

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Haha, thanks girl! 🦩🦩❤

@poogeasaurus5684 3 года назад

I feel your pain. Can’t tell you how many dressing room meltdowns I have had after things don’t fit right. It feels so personal but it’s just that clothes are made like sh*t these days. Hang in there!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Elizabeth! Fortunately I was home for this meltdown. Even before the pandemic, I don't like trying stuff on in the stores. Thank you for your support! 🤗❤

@jessicarizzo227 3 года назад

Girl, I am the "rando" person who just happened upon this video, and let me tell you how happy I am that I did. Thank you for being so honest in this bc the struggle is real. My best advice that I have learned is this...The words we use are the bricks that build the house that we live in. Stop the negative self-talk. Please stay positive, even if you have to fake it to make it. Trust me when I say truly love yourself regardless of any shortcomings and your world will change. You got this! (New sub here too, btw! )

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Jessica! Thank you for taking the time to watch and for your kind and encouraging comment! Have a great day! ❤

@danizig7 3 года назад

Don't give up. Random person who came across your video, watching try-ons for plus-size clothing. My body type is very similar to yours, and I really appreciate seeing someone like me trying on clothes that I would actually wear. Thank you so much for the video, and I will be looking for more!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Dani Zig? Is that a play on the band name Danzig? Thank you for taking yhe time to comment. I'm so glad that you are able to find my try ons helpful. Tyfw! ❤

@danizig7 3 года назад

@@TheTruckersWife no, but I get that a lot, LOL!

@Patsrivertosky 3 года назад

Oh, I feel you! My entire life has been a struggle with my body, finding clothes that fit, my mindset. I can't stand shopping at these stores that have ill fitting clothes. I've shed so many tears over the years. When I do find something nice, it's so expensive! The struggle is real for so many of us. Thanks for sharing your struggles.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Pat, oh yes, the struggle is definitely real for a lot of us. And honestly it's people of any size. When we have perfect images shoved in our faces constantly, even small "imperfections" make us feel disgusting. It's sad really. Sending you big hugs! Tyfw! ❤

@amandaroot7968 3 года назад

No no no. I cried when you said 'people will say I should stop eating'. Body image is a struggle no matter what weight. Thank you for posting this. You're beautiful ❤️

@fakenuggets 3 года назад

Honestly, I think you should remember that pretty much every single woman (no matter what size) feels the way you’re feeling right now. You are not alone in those upsetting thoughts. I have struggled with anorexia my whole life and even though now I am learning to love myself, I still have those days where i feel upset by what I see. Especially when I go shopping and half of the clothes feel too tight on me or they just don’t look flattering. Confidence and body image is really really hard. As women, we really have to remember that sometimes we are just going to have those days where we feel uncomfortable, whether that’s due to our weight, bloating, PMS symptoms, hormonal imbalance, digestive issues... it’s so difficult to not be hard on yourself when you feel like that, and I’m not even telling you to not feel like that, but just know that when you are feeling upset about this, remember that there are thousands who feel like that too and you are not alone. ❤️ Please be kind to yourself. And on the days where you do feel confident, try and remember WHY you feel great, so that you can tell yourself those things when you’re feeling shitty. Sending you so much love ❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie, everything you said is on point! I appreciate your kind, supportive, and thoughtful comment. We are def not alone! Tyfw! ❤

@lovemeeme14forever 3 года назад

you calling the flamingo a “pink chicken” was the cutest thing ever

@ashleyreynolds2134 3 года назад

Say it with me “ my weight does not define my worth!” You’re beautiful

@mrs.newton7472 3 года назад

Absolutely!!!!

@lindakingsley8250 3 года назад

I love this!

@angelamacakelly7706 3 года назад

Amen sister!! Love it!! 😍

@teasha6347 3 года назад

I love you for writing this 💖

@susie9010 3 года назад

This broke my heart... you are beautiful! We are NOT defined by the size and shape of our bodies. You are gorgeous and being way too hard on yourself. A lot of women feel exactly the same way... you are beautiful.... ❤️🙏🏻

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Susie, thank you so much for your sweet and encouraging comment! This def was just one of those blah days. Life is too beautiful to let my weight struggles steal my joy! You are beautiful as well! 🤗❤

@jennieb71 3 года назад

thanks for being so honest and real. you are beautiful inside and out. your not alone and I wish you better days ahead.

@modest_meghan 3 года назад

i'm sorry that you're feeling down in this video, but i do want you to know that the majority of the clothes were very flattering on you, especially the flamingo top !!! you can change the look of your tops when you feel bloated by tucking them into flowy high waisted skirts or linen pants. i hope you're doing better now!

@Kay_T_Vee 3 года назад

Truth!!

@SallyCoucke 3 года назад

Oh Andrea, you are not alone. I'm 5' tall also. I've struggled my entire life with weight. You are a beautiful woman just as you are.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing Sally. And thank you for your kindness and support ❤

@carolroe9586 3 года назад

I understand! Im 5 foot and I stuggle with my weight. I lost 30 pounds and gained it back. Just remember, you can do something about it, only you can change it. It takes so much commitment and consistency but its up to us to make the changes so that we feel better. Don't give up- take care of yourself, get your hair done, get a pedicure, get a spray tan, pamper yourself. You deserve it!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Carol, thank you so much for your kindness and encouragement! ❤

@Jeannie__ 3 года назад

@@carolroe9586 I also understand. I'm 5'2 and had to lose weight for a hip replacement surgery towards the end of 2019. I too lost 30 lbs. When the pandemic took place, I also gained it back plus 5 lbs. Been feeling so disappointed in myself and know that I need to do something about it. I have horrible osteoarthritis and because I suffer from chronic pain and my joints are being affected, I just have not been in the mood right now to work toward shedding those pounds again. I do hope to find the motivation and get back at it. I wish you luck in your journey moving forward as well. If you did it once you can do it again 😊

@bmoisgood3228 3 года назад

Girl you're beautiful, our minds can be our biggest enemy. I thought you ROCKED these shirts. I thought the tie-dye/splatter shirt looked so cute on you! I feel the same way you do. Especially after the pandemic.... Just know today is not tomorrow is not next year. Fill your day with fun things that preoccupy your mind and shout NO at the toxic inner dialogue. You deserve the world. We love you!

@l3xii92 3 года назад

I went Vegan and lost over 60 pounds in 6 months without working out. I am still plus size but I went from a 4x to a 1x and still working on it. Keep your head up!!!

@heathers4154 3 года назад

It makes me so sad seeing women beat themselves up, myself included. I've battled eating disorders and body dysmorphic disorder and I've never been happy with how I looked even when I starved myself into hospitalizations. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I admire your transparency and understand exactly how you feel. I think all of the clothes looked super cute on you, for the record. Much, much love.

@monicajohnsonevans3113 3 года назад

You have inspired me, sister. We must have the valleys to appreciate the mountain tops. Thank you so being so open and honest. You are not alone. I personally am right there with you. And you have given me hope that the best is yet to come. Keep moving forward, taking one day at a time. Love you, sister.

@peanutbutter5254 3 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️ I couldn’t lose weight until I went strict low carb, gave up almost all processed food and focused mainly on eating animal products and some veggies, and ate only when physically hungry (intermittent fasting). You’re in pain because of inflammation. I lost about 120 lbs and have kept it off for years. Processed food was killing me. Please hang in there and don’t give up on yourself!! Reach out if we can help in any way. ❤️❤️❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you for your supportive comment. I do know that carbs affect me pretty negatively. I lost the 55lbs doing keto. But since a fall I had last year, i actually have pain from injuries I sustained. Low carb def helps our joint pains though. And my hubby has had less back pain. We had started keto again, but I had to stop because it was actually affecting blood pressure pretty bad and some other issues. I am focusing on getting my physical strength back up and def plan on trying keto again. It is the only thing that has ever worked because whether anyone believes it or not, I don't eat terribly and I don't overeat or go crazy on sweets. I'm not giving up though. Because I refuse to be defeated. Ty again for extending your support! Have a blessed night ❤

@priscillanash3543 3 года назад

Same.

@Michelle-fi3ze 3 года назад

@@TheTruckersWife just be careful with keto. It definitely works for weight loss but can cause other negative health issues. Kidney stones being one. And well high blood pressure as you know. Once you get kidney stones many women keep getting them. Not all but many. Strict diets like keto are not always the best route. But you know you best. Talk to your doc. Really the best is very low or no simple carbs. Lower complex carbs. Lots of veggies. Watch portion size. No sugar. It is toxic to our body and puts it in crazy mode. Stevia in the raw is good. Some people don't like it but I'm fine with it. I just put it in coffee tho. No processed food. No deep fried food. Also research whole grain breads. They are actually bad for us. We are made to believe it is better but our body does not recognize it. It's processed. The best bread is home made sourdough bread. Or even homemade Italian or even white. But it has to be homemade and not processed. Crappy bread can cause poor gut health, poor digestion and elimination and weight gain. Bread is a carb tho so even homemade you want to keep it minimal. But wholegrain bread from a store is crap. For me animal products are bad. It made my inflammation and bloat/gut healrh worse. So I am plant dairy only and eat very very little meat. Maybe once every 2 weeks at most and I can tell when I do eat it. As I said in a main comment some people just can't digest animal products very well. If you do go less or no meat eat more vit B12 fortified food or take a B12 supplement. Or eat eggs. Eggs are good for you (unless you have a gallbladder issue) and they contain good omega fats and lots B12. It's so friggin hard. It just feels like everything is against us. But it can be done. I don't think keto should be long term so we just a balanced diet/lifestyle change that we can do well forever really. Best of luck to you.

@Mimiiiiiixo 3 года назад

This was very encouraging to read. I have lost weight on Low Carb as well. Fast foods were slowly destroying my health as well. I had to take a few steps back. still on my journey though. 😩

@nicoler.7051 3 года назад

Girl hang in there. We all have had these moments and left dressing rooms upset because we nothing fit or looked good. I understand your struggle. Like you said maybe try them on when your not bloated.. that makes a huge difference but just know that you look beautiful!! Big hugs!!!

@StyleCoachingInstitute 3 года назад

This was such a brave video to share, and it's so important for women of all shapes and sizes to not feel alone with their struggles. We are all real humans, with real emotions. Sometimes life is hard, and some days are tougher than others, but I hope you feel the love and support of everyone here. You come across as a beautiful person... stay strong, and keep smiling. God bless you xx

@Angie-ci1lp 3 года назад

You’re BEAUTIFUL! Love yourself your image ENCOURAGING others …YES! You are a BEAUTIFUL SOUL❤️ Keep pushing Keep up your good work. Some people try to avoid cameras, YOU LADY! Did your thing and you spoke your struggle .REAL TALK! Dry those beautiful eyes and FOCUSED!! You got this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Aww, thank you so much girl! I appreciate your kindness and encouragement so much! Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment ❤

@Anvilla3 3 года назад

I cried with you at the end of this. I’m the biggest I’ve ever been and it’s so hard. I found your video because I’ve been trying to watch try on videos of women that are plus sized and still beautiful to help me feel more confident about my own body.. the content I usually see is always thin women that I can’t relate to. I know this was emotional for you and so hard to post, but I wanted to say thank you for being so open and honest. Side note- I thought you looked great.. we are so much harder on ourselves than we should be. We are our worst critic. Anyways, sending you love.

@stacieoriordan 3 года назад

I feel this exact way lately 😔 It's so hard

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Aww thank you so much Aly Nicole! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment ❤ Hugs! 🤗

@meghanreddick4488 3 года назад

I am with you. I went gluten free and sugar free and literally work out everyday and last night I broke down ate all the shit I've avoided for a whole year because it just felt hopeless. I really needed to see this and I appreciate your honesty and raw emotions

@beanqween9458 3 года назад

Always remember that the clothes are the things that don’t work, not your body. There are certain styles I can’t wear because they highlight my lower stomach as well. Life is always two steps forward and one step back. Chin up, sweetie. You are beautiful even when you don’t feel it. ❤️ from MN.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Emily! Thank you for taking the time to comment. You are so right! Tyfw and have a blessed week! ❤

@melhen 3 года назад

You're beautiful! I've been struggling with my weight. I lost 40 lbs and felt so good and since covid-19 I put 25 back on and I know exactly how you feel. I don't even wanna get dressed most days cause I hate how I look and I'm trying hard to lose it, but its hard. I cried with you girl cause I know exactly how you're feeling. Wishing you much love and healing .melissa

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie you're beautiful too!! I appreciate you sharing that you can relate to this video. Sometimes we just got to release that frustration! Stay strong girl! Even on the days when our outward appearance makes us feel less spectacular, our beauty that shines from within is more powerful than those feelings! Thank you for taking the time to watch and for reaching out! Sending you hugs sweetie! ❤🤗

@mxhyungwonie8098 3 года назад

I thought you looked great in all the outfits to be very honest. With a bit of styling they could look even better. Sometimes we can be our worst critics. You are gorgeous!

@marymaggotface1994 3 года назад

It can definitely be a struggle when you get clothing that you're excited for and they end up not fitting, I've been in that boat many a time. I'm 5'4" and around 450 pounds (first time ever admitting that) and I also have PCOS so it's difficult to look at myself in the mirror sometimes, but just know that you are beautiful and things will get better! I hope you're doing a lot better today than when you filmed this. You're so strong and you can get through anything!

@alexetter2454 3 года назад

“Some rando” did find your video. It’s me. I’m the rando. But I don’t come with negativity. I come from a place of love and empathy as I understand what you’re going through. You’re beautiful and now I’m subscribing because I want to see your journey. I know better is to come for you.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Alex, thank you so much for taking the time to watch and reach out. I appreciate your kindness and encouragement! Have a blessed day ❤

@cherriberri7161 3 года назад

Omg! You broke my heart at the end of this video, the first impression I got of you (this my first time watching your channel) was wow what a enthusiastic, self confident person! It’s ok to cry, just don’t stress about your weight, when you feel comfortable and calm just pick yourself up and try again. We all have setbacks in our lives. Stay well my thoughts are with you 💖

@screeningmimi 3 года назад

What a beautiful thing to say, and frankly I needed to hear it as well. We ALL stress about weight after Covid - or something else, and each day is a new beginning. Thank you Cherri for your words, and thank you Trucker's Wife for your wonderful channel, sharing your journey with us!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Cherri, thank you for your kind words of encouragement! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and for your sweet comment. ❤🤗

@MyiaLaShaun 3 года назад

Think about it like this boo your vulnerability and honesty, just blew up your channel. People love honesty in realism because they can relate to you don’t cry love

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

❤️

@debbiewheeler9508 3 года назад

I’ve also had bloating issues lately and found out I have an ulcer! It was recommended to drink kombucha and no fried foods and a few other things. Also, you may want to have your thyroid checked. Oh, I’m also a Truckers wife! I look forward to your videos.

@jonitapickett4833 2 года назад

After my car accident and other health issues I’ve gained 40 pounds. I go through the same emotions buying clothes. You are my new inspiration

@mikezervas2912 3 года назад

Joyce Z Hi, I came across your video band thought I would watch it. I want, to let you know I’m 76 now but when I was 40 , I had a life changing fall and almost became wheel chair bound. During that time I gained so much weight. If it hadn’t been for a wonderful orthopedic doctor that helped me so much , I probably wouldn’t be walking today. I’m in pain too every day but have learned to control it so I know how you feel. Let me say this and I hope it doesn’t sound cliche, beauty is within, please believe that. You seem like a loving and thoughtful person and really that’s all that matters. Sometimes clothes just aren’t always the right cut for us, I like everything you bought but maybe the material on some of the are too clinging, even on another person they would look too clinging too. Please don’t be depressed. Stay positive and stay happy. Thanks for the wonderful video.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Joyce, thank you so much for your kind and encouraging comment! So glad to hear that you were able to find someone that helped you!! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and reach out! Please know that this us not my attitude towards myself in general. It was one of those emotional and frustrating days! I do not let my weight determine my value or beauty! Have a blessed day! ❤

@Btorrez1885 3 года назад

Hey sis in all honesty you're being to hard on yourself... You looked cute! As a "bigger" plus size gay dude fashion is everything to me! I often say own what you can't fix. Embrace your flaws and imperfections, it's what set you aside from the rest! (Snaps fingers)😉 New to your channel (subscribed) look forward to future hauls. #OwnItSis ❤💋

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you sweetie! I appreciate your encouragement so much! No worries, this was just a bad hormonal day. I had no business trying on clothes when i was feeling all bloated and junk lol. I am 46 years old and think I look pretty dang good considering! Thanks again for showing me some love! Hugs! 🤗❤

@Btorrez1885 3 года назад

@@TheTruckersWife Yasss queen! That's the spirit!💋

@justme3874 3 года назад

I struggle with the same...i hate looking at myself. I cry with you because I know exactly how you're feeling and it sucks so bad. It's a daily sadness in me. I will pray for you and your spirit. Hugss 😥💗

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you sweetie ❤

@VanillaBean1 3 года назад

I know exactly how you feel and I don’t think it matters what size you are we all go through this as women. I have definitely had days out shopping where nothing fits the way I want and just feel so down about myself. Thank you for having the courage to post this video because I know on my rough days of not feeling pretty I feel alone and this helps to not feel like I’m the only one who goes through things like this. 💛

@staceymallette-hein8504 3 года назад

Girl , I'm a random person that just found you, and I think your very beautiful and I think the flamingo shirt looks awesome on you!!! We all get there trust me!!! I suffer from extreme swelling in my legs!!!! They are huge and I hate to look at myself. Chin up girl , when we get this low the only way is up from here!!!! Pretty lady!!

@reginad813 3 года назад

Right there with ya. It's not easy my friend. When you are in pain your body hangs on the every stinkin calorie.

@alyssamarie100 3 года назад

I’m a size 10 and have Body dysmorphia and i feel the same. It doesn’t matter your size. It matters how you feel. I love your raw emotion and it helps validate the feelings of others as well 💕

@raindropsonroses27 3 года назад

I can relate to this. Most likely you have insulin resistance. Look into the book the obesity code it really helped me. We’re not insane, we can barely eat and gain weight. Our bodies do not use sugar and carbs correctly, and I can’t stand when people tell me oh just eat less and work out. Sending you high vibes! You got this! 🥰💫🧘🏽‍♀️

@irenedavo3768 3 года назад

I wondered if she is Diabetic! Only found her today

@kathycollier8033 3 года назад

I just came across your video please don't cry. I know how you feel about buying clothes. I have the same struggles and heart breaks when I try to get new clothes. I think you are very brave and God Bless you I'm glad I found you keep being a true inspiration to all of us

@Emma-rz8ob 3 года назад

Oh this broke my heart. I have not seen your channel before, but I can just tell you are the warmest and sweetest woman and I am so sorry this was disappointing. If it helps, women of all sizes have had this experience. I've had countless tearful dressing room sessions. Despite this being a difficult video to make for you, I am subscribing because you are one of the most genuine, kind, and funny people I've seen on youtube in a while. xoxoxo I hope you feel better :'(

@hannahmclaren9672 3 года назад

Yes its just an experience that most people have and never share it. I absolutely despise dressing rooms.

@Rfaivre1978 3 года назад

Me toooooooooo!!!!! Subbing too!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Emma, thank you so much for taking the time to not only watch, but reach out. I appreciate you sharing that you understand what I was feeling in this video! No worries, I do love my life and am actually a very happy and positive person! ❤️

@Emma-rz8ob 3 года назад

@@TheTruckersWife Just watched the follow up video too, i guess your channel name is very fitting then :) ;) hahaha

@RattyNatty 3 года назад

Im actually really happy she uploaded this video. As someone who struggles with weight gain due to an ED and medication I always compare myself with others accomplishments. But it’s reassuring that those who have lost weight also struggle mentally too. She’s a strong woman and I support her reaching her goals💕

@mymommaandme 3 года назад

I found you by accident. Can I just say you are so brave to put this out there. I struggle too. It’s constant. You are not alone. I and I’m sure many people are feeling the exact same way.

@AP-yh2lk 3 года назад

Try getting extra large leggings that come all the way up to the top of your belly button and there won’t be a “cut off” that pokes your belly out. It will look a lot smoother.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

I def like leggings that come up higher! Tyfw and taking the time to comment! ❤️

@SanFranDentist94301 3 года назад

I just posted that. Awkward waistbands can distort your actual body tissues. Almost like a corset. Pushing fat and muscle up or down instead on *in*.

@Whocares1976 3 года назад

I randomly saw this video and it just made me so sad! I used to have horrible bloating. I would put on a pair of pants in the morning and by night time they were digging into my stomach. It was so uncomfortable. I finally found out I had hypothyroidism, celiac disease, and Crohn’s. I could never lose weight either. Bloating like that is never normal even if a doctor tries to tell you it is. Once I stopped eating gluten a lot of the swelling went away , and I stopped gaining weight once I went on the proper thyroid medication, and anti-inflammatory meds for my Crohns. One suggestion I have , is to to do an elimination diet to see if something is specifically bothering you, and to try digestive enzymes. They really do help. I have a different body type than you, and I think Torrids sizing has been really off this year. I shop there a lot and always wear either a 2 or a 3 depending on the cut. Some of the tops I bought in a 3 , I couldn’t even button. The flamingo top has a trapeze cut which is very flattering. If you like that style, they have dresses in that cut as well, that I think would like really pretty on you. I hope you are feeling better 💕

@patriciayoung795 3 года назад

Yes words hurt you feel so bad. Don’t let people take you down. Your stronger than that. God made you and he is proud of you the unconditional love he has for you is all that matters. Keep the special you coming out. God bless you and you go up not down. Your beautiful.

@kathleenspeegle3517 3 года назад

I think almost every single person has felt the same way at times. Just remember, you are a good person and you are doing the best you can!!!😊 Hang in there!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Kathleen, thank you so much for your comment. It isn't something I dwell on for long! I just keep on truckin and doing my best! Hope you are having a great weekend ❤

@chernyl26 3 года назад

Keep your head held high. You are beautiful. I am going through the exact same thing. Lost 50 pounds and it all came back. Just remember though...you are beautiful!

@ninalongoria3124 3 года назад

Take a beep breath,stand tall and fix your crown queen.....You are beautiful and amazing person...It’s gonna be okay❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Nina! Thank you so much for your kind and supportive comment. You're so sweet! ❤🤗

@Kay_T_Vee 3 года назад

Okay I randomly saw this video and girl the tie dye top the motley crew top and the flamingo look so cute you are beautiful!!! It’s who you are inside that counts too remember you are human it’s okay to feel insecure or feel frustrated!!!! Hang in there babe! People love you for you. Inside, outside, it doesn’t matter how a shirt looks trust me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love to you

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you for your sweet comment Katie ❤

@blitzy4bales427 3 года назад

The fact that you get on here and display your vulnerability is awesome! With all the photoshopping, fake personas, and video manipulating we get, you keep it real! Pink floral and wander west werent my favorites, but i liked all the rest on you. Listen . You keep being you. It's refreshing. You're relateable. We all have "those days" where we go shopping and nothing looks good and we feel defeated. You got this!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you sweetie ❤️

@MadeInHome_ 3 года назад

I am a rando person who found this video and I’m here to tell you beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and I want you to know THIS is real life and that YOU are so so strong for even being confident enough to add this video. Everyone’s body was made with imperfections and honestly at the end of the day it’s your life don’t worry about what people think bc if you love something that love will come through in whatever your wearing!

@Katsumi590 3 года назад

Girl you are not alone 😞 I have to deal with constant bloating and it makes me self-conscious. I know that I’m my worst critic and that no one judges me more than myself but yeah.. just know you aren’t alone.

@cammyharding7069 3 года назад

I struggle so much with my weight. And I understand how you feel. But beauty is on the inside. Truly. Head up. You got this and you are gorgeous.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you Cammy ❤

@melissadurante1450 3 года назад

Check out Dr. Joel Fuhrman Eat to Live

@rainbowsandsunshine424 3 года назад

As someone who has felt the same things, and still has bad days, I appreciate your honesty & vulnerability. I know this won’t take away the depression and pain you deal with, but you are beautiful. You’re not defined by a number on a scale. Sending you hugs and positivity!

@tinabrun4560 3 года назад

I appreciate the raw emotion and honesty bc i have days when i feel like this too. Youre not alone in this struggle either. I am sending you good vibes, love and hugs.

@kleek9581 3 года назад

The chicken shirt, cold shoulder and tye dye all looked good on you. We women all struggle with our bodies, it’s so hard to feel uncomfortable in our own skin! Don’t give up. Focus on your health & well being.

@VillainessVamp 3 года назад

Rando person here. I have psoriatic arthritis and have struggled with pain,mobility problems,weight gain,depression, anxiety, mean girls at work, fear of losing my job and losing my home. Nobody can see the illness , they just see my fat. They blame me. Every time I lose weight, I just gain it back - plus more. So, no more. I am who I am. I'm not fat, I have fat. I deserve to have peace and happiness no matter what size I am. You are gorgeous inside and out. DO NOT listen to the haters. YOU have MORE to offer than a cookie-cutter body type.

@BaptizeInFire 3 года назад

Rando here, idk how I ended up here, was looking for swatches of the melt blush lights but, I’m sure I’m here for a reason. You can be 100 lbs lighter and STILL hate looking at yourself. And THAT is where you need to start, because you that’s were the defeat is coming from. Not your weight. Losing weight is hard sure, but not impossible. Learning to love yourself and champion yourself is SO MUCH HARDER. You can do anything you set your mind to! You are strong and beautiful and deserve to feel happy and healthy. Eliminate and work on the things that are keeping you from that goal, and stop making the weight the culprit. It’s not THE PROBLEM, it’s a symptom of the problem. You can totally do this, you have a wonderful fulfilling life just on the other side of that battle, please fight for it, you are 💯 worth it ❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Amber! Thank you for taking the time to watch and for reaching out! Have a great day ❤

@Meech817 3 года назад

I got here from looking up a palette review also! But I'm glad I did come across it.

@kathysorensen1021 3 года назад

The coral top, Motley Crue tee and the flamingo shirt look nice. I've been having trouble with Torrid sizing lately too.

@hannahroo11 3 года назад

As a midsize person, i love watching try ons and hauls to see what 'real bodies' look like in ALL clothes, not just the ones people end up liking on themselves. I think this is a great reminder to others too. Also I think you look great in the pink shirt at the beginning and the color really suits you! Also also if you need to wait to try clothes on until you feel better (about yourself and in general) then do it! sometimes headspace is everything!

@jaimeh761 3 года назад

A crappy try on haul can do this to any of us! Stay strong hun! I know and feel your struggle. Big hugs

@jaimeh761 3 года назад

Ps i loved the flamingo tank it was super cute on you!

@hannahelizabeth5693 3 года назад

I'm recovering from an eating disorder and it's really difficult for me to go shopping and trying on clothes. I hate looking at myself in the mirror it's really exhausting. Your feelings are very valid.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Hannah! Thank you for your comment. So glad to hear you are in recovery. It was very brave of you to share that with me, a stranger. I appreciate it. Tyfw! ❤

@kathrynfrederick1752 3 года назад

I went through same stuff! I have been on a clean diet bc I was diagnosed with celiac which means no gluten wheat. It changed my life. Make small goals and give yourself grace. This our temporary body! You have a heart of gold! Love your videos.

@_brandixx 3 года назад

We spend way more time beating ourselves up and blaming ourselves and our bodies, instead of blaming plus size brands for making terribly designed clothes that are all made straight up and down, with no room or design features that account for curves, rolls, or bulges. You don’t have to justify your weight to anyone or explain “why” you are plus size. I know a lot of us have been or are where you are, it’s especially hard NOW as we all plan for life after lockdowns and realize how much weight we’ve gained or regained since the pandemic began. I hope you’re ok!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie, I'm better than ok! It was just one of those days where it was a perfect storm for a cry it out session. I am blessed and life is way too beautiful to dwell on my weight. Thanks so much fpr reaching out with kindness and encouragement! I truly appreciate it. Have a good night girl! ❤

@ThrewOutMyHalo 3 года назад

I agree. I'm not plus size anymore but even in non plus, everything is so boxy. Not many peices are for curvy bodies unless they are pear shaped. The only time I can get great shape is bodycon but, then I have a belly. Shopping sucks.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Boxy clothes are awful! You are right, things are geared towards pear shaped. I wish! Tyfw! ❤

@chrissyf1656 3 года назад

Preach it! I absolutely hate shopping for clothes these days! I'm a size 10 shoe so, even shoe shopping can be a pain.

@kathryncurtis9320 3 года назад

Everyone has said all the encouraging things I'd have said so dito. Torrid lately hasn't been fitting me like normal and unfortunately I haven't lost weight lately thanks to my Lupus flare. Leggings and jeans fit the same along with thier relaxed mainly rock band shirts. Everything else fits strange. Loose in some places and tight in others. Don't let the fit get you down. I think I'm just going through a Torrid funk. Don't give up on yourself or Torrid.

@shayekingsley7340 3 года назад

I have PCOS and have struggled ever since the diagnosis. Weight is an ongoing issue for anyone, but the added pressure of PCOS makes it seem unbearable at times. Your rawness helps show others that they're not alone, so thank you ❤

@UGOOMERO 3 года назад

Omg! I randomly came across your video and it really broke my heart. First and foremost, you’re loved,supported and have curated and empathetic community. From what you said, it seems you’ve achieved A LOT in your weight loss journey. Please don’t forget that! 🤗 You mentioned that you’ve kept up with your diet; but I suggest you look into your nutrition. Coming from a health care professional, sometimes diets or traumas (like your fall) put your body in survival mode; making it retain weight we would’ve lost else wise. It will pass if you keep at it 😉 Again, you seem to have a kind heart and as much as we desire to “look” a certain way, it’s your physical and mental HEALTH that’s paramount. Sending virtual hugs!

@kimberlybirk 3 года назад

Rando person here to say, you are awesome! And beautiful!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you so much Kimberly! ❤

@BittyPenny 3 года назад

Me too. This was my very first video of yours and I have no judgment. Instead I can that I understand and you’re beautiful inside and out. ♥️🌻👗

@Esh___ 3 года назад

Hey! Just wanna say that the flamingo shirt and the peach colored shirt both looked great on you. There are so many factors that can make losing weight difficult. The biggest thing to remember is that you aren’t just giving up. You’re strong as hell. One thing that helped me, particularly with ordering online, is getting some tailors tape and getting my chest, waist, and hip measurements. Every brand, especially for women’s clothes, make their sizes differently. If you get your measurements and check size guides based off of those measurements, you may be able to get better results in finding clothes that fit a little closer to how you’d like.

@genevievehodginslaity8824 3 года назад

Just came across this video and you my dear are the bravest person I've seen here, so real and raw and something everyone has felt trying on clothes, thank you so much for sharing this, you are awesome.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you Genevieve ❤

@Katsumotokris3 3 года назад

I literally came across your video randomly…and girl, I’m giving you hugs and sending positive energy your way! Your post was so raw and real…and I appreciate you for that! Sometimes we can feel so alone in this struggle and knowing we are not alone can help!!! You will help more than you know with this video. Thank you for posting it. Don’t give up. Just keep at it. You already know you can do it! Just keeping going…you’ll get back to where you were! And…if you’re not feeling yourself…and too bloated…maybe drop by your doc to check and make sure everything is ok. For the record, you ROCK that black tank with 🦩!!! Keep on keeping on pretty lady!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie, thank you for reaching out! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and for your kind comment! ❤

@lesliecryer1247 3 года назад

You are not alone and very brave! I’m not this same journey. Lost weight and gained some back. I hate the way I look. Don’t give up. Ask for help. And keep asking for help. We have so much to learn about living a healthy lifestyle. My counselor just told me to start here: I’m the best thing that has ever happened to me. I deserve the best treatment to myself. I feel like this is the hardest for me. Putting my health first.

@lewasil 3 года назад

Man, I would LOVE TO be a 2X. I'm a damn 5X. It's tough all around. I know how hard it is. I oeep thinking I'm eating well, then to realize i didnt lose a pound. Please stay strong sweetheart. Xoxoxoxo.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie, thank you for taking the time to watch and sharing that you understand the struggle. Stay strong as well girl! ❤

@autumncolors84 3 года назад

I'm 5'0 too and plus size. I also have PCOS too. Some cute clothes! I get my bras there since my size is 40DDD. Edit: Your furbaby knows you were upset. Mine get the same way and I know exactly how you feel. I struggle with my weight too and it's tough. At times I feel so overwhelmed because I'm trying my best and eating healthy and I still look big. My weight is all in my stomach too and face. So I totally relate to you.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi sweetie, thank you for commenting. Yes my Joker is 17yrs old and has been by my side through some of the most emotionally painful times in my life. He is my little bestie for sure! Tyfw! ❤

@autumncolors84 3 года назад

@@TheTruckersWife That's wonderful! My kitty Gomez is the same way. Our furbabies are the best. ❤

@amanda5764 3 года назад

I'm glad there are stores that cater to plus size gals, we all deserve to feel good in what we wear no matter our size. Unfortunately we all experience shopping days that are total busts. There will be better days. Watching what you eat is so important for your overall well being and I have found walking outdoors is tremendously helpful to not just maintaining my weight but my mental health as well. Just remember that no matter how slow you start, you are passing everyone on the couch ❤

@loveprice4528 3 года назад

We ladies are blind to our own beauty but fortunately we have each other to remind us that the woman in the mirror you see everyday is what a beautiful woman looks like.

@tinahayes8203 3 года назад

Girl.....I have problems with diabetes, weight & hair loss. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are extra fabulous putting your story out there. Hang in there sweetheart.. 🌼💜🌼💜

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hey girl, I'm sorry for the things you are struggling with. I'm trying not to be so hard on myself, but it's definitely a learning process. Thank you for sharing and for your kindness and support ❤

@Megdee83 3 года назад

So amazing of you to be able to still put the video up even though you weren’t feeling your best. So many of us go through exactly what you are!! Do not beat yourself up, you are beautiful and wonderful as you are. Be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there

@cfriedly28 3 года назад

I feel your pain so deep, I have Hashimoto’s and had a huge weight gain and felt just shitty. The scale does not define us. You’re beautiful and worthy - know that!

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you Christine! ❤

@sarahvenable3383 3 года назад

It's not you girl it's the clothes. Pick your head up and keep on pushin. You can do whatever you put your mind to. 🙏🏻❤️

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you sweetie ❤

@ellyturpin5132 3 года назад

This made me feel like I’m not alone, I’m sorry for your pain, I feel your pain and relate, thank you for being open with your feelings. Stay strong beautiful

@NaturalBohemia 3 года назад

I randomly found your channel while searching how to style apple shaped bodies and let me tell you something…you are absolutely beautiful and your aren’t alone in this journey. One day at a time! 🧡

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Aww, thank you so much sweetie ☺ I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment! ❤

@curlinegreen8657 3 года назад

Hi..I randomly picked your video to watch and you really touched me...God is great, he will work everything out for you...You are not alone in the struggle....be strong, stay focus on what you want....Keep doing what makes you happy...Stay safe and be blessed

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Curline, thank you for your nice comment..yes, God is great! No worries, this was just an emotional day for me. My weight issues can't steal my joy! Tyfw! Have a blessed Sunday! ❤

@user-ii3vn8tn3q 3 года назад

All the things I didn’t wear, and didn’t do all those years because I am fat. None of that anymore. MY life. MY idea of pretty, MY comfort. MY happiness. I am my own judge. Lookout vogue, I own several swimsuits now, and I use them! Don’t give up, you are beautiful and obviously a social butterfly!

@jessiemelendez8906 3 года назад

I am a similar shape. I have pcos and carry a lot of weight in my belly. It’s so hard as I used to have an hour glass figure. I think different bottoms will make a huge difference. I would consider a high waisted skirt and then knot up the top or tuck in. I love a graphic tee with a high waisted skirt. I would also recommend torrid’s new 360 push up bra. It helps even my figure out. Also, their strapless is amazing. I’m dairy free, gluten free, red meat free, low carb and I struggle to lose any weight. You are beautiful. Don’t let numbers on a scale define you. I’m recovering from ankle surgery now and trying not to just gain gain gain. Just know you aren’t alone we are here. Thanks for being real. Keep the flamingo top. Love it.

@dsum7778 3 года назад

Please... No apologies. We are all human with human qualities. You are loved.

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Thank you sweetie ❤🤗

@keepuwu-ing7653 3 года назад

Man I know how this feels. Ive cried over one shirt not fitting so I think you handled it pretty well.

@probablyhyperfixating 3 года назад

Awww i just wanna hug you! We've all been there! Trust me! I lost 30 lbs at the begging of lockdown and was super proud of myself... Then gained 40 and nothing fits right. Biggest hugs ever sent your way😘😘❤❤

@missrobertson45 3 года назад

I want to hug you so much girl, weight issues are not black and white. The majority of mine comes from antidepressants and antipsychotics. I've had to make the choice to either be thin and suicidal or heavy and stable? I've chosen the latter. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable..new subscriber as a result ❤❤

@TheTruckersWife 3 года назад

Hi Michelle! Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment! Hugs back! ❤

@ThatsY2 3 года назад

Please get your thyroid checked! I totally relate to everything you have said. Be kind to yourself. Take care of yourself and get your freakin' thyroid checked! Sending you all light and love!

@stardaze3762 3 года назад

I gained weight from having a low thyroid. After getting my thyroid medication, I have lost 34 pounds!!! I started at 257 and I’m now 223. It really does affect your weight and energy. It affected me so bad that I thought I was either pregnant or just going crazy. I always tell people to get their blood work done at the doctors if something doesn’t feel right. My mom got her thyroid cut out a couple years ago and I hope I never have to go through that! It’s crazy how that small part of your body effects almost everything!!