When a man is looking for a woman it is called a sex tourism, but when a woman is looking for a man to have sex it is called love, a world we live in a fake and hypocritical world 🤣🤣🤣
Ubavo kaža go toa , i koga mažot saka nekoja osoba može i saka da ja usreke a ona go odbiva onda bil glub mažot, koja bolest i sporeduvanje diemetralno .. Bogami mu treba na ovaj svet resetet od početok da počne vaka ne ide napred nego vo provalija .
Iam complete 100% agree. Here in Austria it happened all the times with this stupid phrase...Iam in love. The most common man not just austrian woman wants but other nationalities as well is cuban and Dominican, btw i dont have anything agains to them but most of them are really arrogant and stupid just bc a foreign woman brought him here.
it is like a huge sex orgy. everywhere european women cuddeling with dominicans. what these women think is love, most of the time is used for sex, money and a good time.
I met my now ex wife in the DR back in 2000 when I went for vacation in Cabarete. She was just finishing med school and my good friend had married her twin 2 years before. The problem with marrying someone from the DR is not who they are but the unspoken familial expectations and deep cultural differences. If you marry someone under your economic level....which will be just about everyone in Boca Chica, you will be expected to send the family money each month. Want to visit the family for Christmas? You can not show up empty handed.....expect to buy tons of stuff in the US/Europe before you go. People are real picky....at least my exes family was. I could never get over how ungrateful they were for gifts that didn't live up to their expectations. I speak fluent Spanish and have lived in lots of places in South America but the Dominican culture is distinct...however culturally understanding, empathic, experienced you may think you are....(and you may be) the DR romance is very very complex. When the infatuation stage is over ,,,,it gets very very complicated. I'm middle class, but there was no way t my wife or her family could accept that I was not 'rico" rich. They expected that I would help out more:(an addition to their house, trips to Costco, lots of lechon at christmas....whatever I did, it was never enough). This caused lots of tension between me/my wife/her family. We got an F1 visa early on and she came to the US a year after finishing her pasantia (medical internship) ...and my family accepted her with open/loving arms.......But she saw all the "wealth" of my family here and wondered why they didn't just buy me a new car, a bigger home or send $ to her family in the DR. Low income Dominicans communalize thier money, but in the US we are expected to make our own way. The wealthiest family member isn't expected to distribute $ to those who have less. Each system is different ...one is not better than the other but they are in direct opposition. I did send money to her family each month and a bit extra at Christmas but again....she was disappointed because it was not more. She wondered why I didn't borrow some money from my wealthy brother and send it down there. The rift between her expectations and my choice not to bend to her pressure broke the marriage. After 7 1/2 yrs I filed for divorce.....but I don't regret anything, I got two happy amazing beautiful well adjusted children that live with me (she got remarried) and I learned a lot of good lessons. Dominican people are not bad in any way shape or form, but the economic/power differential European/American + the complicated socia-economic expectations that foreigners can't grasp in my opinion make a contented functional marriage nearly impossible.
Yes there were good parts but very few far and between. What true is that growing up poor in the DR is a really traumatic experience that all the love, empathy, and understanding can not conquer. Females especially have it hard there. The things I found out my ex had to do just to finish out her medical degree and get an internship were humiliating. Once she did got her internshhip, she was a "real doctor" the whole family (cousins too) converged on her for money and help. She made only $550 a month and that was with overtime. Young men have huge struggles....most young men grow up with out a solid father figure. Men as a rule play around sexually and get random women pregnant and rarely do thier part to bring them up. I saw it all the time.
There are Dominicans that are rich or upper middle-class that tend to be of Spanish, Italian or Lebanese origin that would NOT expect you to buy them anything. There are also middle class Dominicans with a sense of shame and self-awareness, who wouldn't expect handouts. Yes, they are 15-20% of the population but they exist. We are not all like your ex wife's "classy" family.😉🙄🤭
@@maryannwaters339 The rich constitute a very very small fraction of the DR population....the children of wealthy Dominicans go to private schools, immigrate to the US or Europe....you would never find them at Boca Chica or any other beach in the DR....(maybe Casa Del Campo). Like most of the wealthy in Latinamerica they despise the poor.
Why did you delete your post, regarding rich Dominicans?🤔🙄 I guess you have super natural powers and are able to get into the minds of ALL rich and upper middle class Dominicans and generalize how they "HATE the poor."🤔🙄 You have a pattern of generalizing, just like you did, regarding Dominicans and their idiosyncracies surrounding $$$. But then again, you are the: noble, righteous, sanctimonious, virtue-signaling, gringo, coming to save impoverished Dominicans and bring them to the promised land.🙄🤭 Oh and btw, I am Dominican. Don't let my Anglo RU-vid name fool you or the fact that I am barely middle class here. I don't need any money or marriage proposals from benevolent, altruistic, W.A.S.P.s, from the Good Old USA, thank you! And I sure as hell don't need to go to Boca Chica, Cabarete, or Sosua to find my saviour either.
As a woman financially stable and middle aged, no way are all of these women innocent, many are very aware of having the upper hand and take advantage of the men as well
I have a friend with a guy in the DR. A couple of them, actually, but this particular one, she sees every time. She's paid his rent, bought him a scooter, got him into hotels, filled up his gas tank, paid for medication for his family members, paid for vet care for his dog, bought him working animals so he can make money with the tourists, got him into dance clubs... He's like 20 years younger than she is. I think it's insane. When you're a tourist in the DR, the guys aren't interested in you because they love you; they just know you have money.
that Italian woman is prepared to change her whole life to revolve around this kid she met on the beach. He doesn't seem to even care much about her. Truly fascinating!
Edison is probably younger than 18. His bills are paid, and he says he doesn't know if he can wait more than 3 months to get him out, and she still thinks it is love. His bills are paid, and the next day, he is out looking. What a mess.
A guy in France also has to work an average of 6 to 8 hours a day to provide for their families... these guys in the video are just there for "fun" all day... Great comparison.. these women are living in such a huge illusion... it's unbelievable
Yea, if there looking for lust, that's one thing, but if their looking for a relationship, I bet their in for a surprise. Are you going to help pay bills this month? Where are you going now, out again? I've almost went thru all my savings, are you going to get a job? Nag, nag, nag, lol
It`s not about only love . They feel very lonely in their country because they don`t have anyone for love. Those people who start family and have kids and grandkids not feel very lonely. They enjoy their lives. But those people don`t have family they have to do this kind of thing. Everyone should start family to avoid this kind of things and become happy.
That's not why you should start a family. You should start a family if you truly want to. And if you don't you should stay single. You should start a family for personal fulfillment in general. Not just so that you're not lonely later in life
having a family isnt for everyone. Multiples vocations do exist in front of the Lord. But I agree for most people, they should marry be faithful and start a strong, healthy, holy family. In western countries it become so hard to find someone, I dont know why. People just want sex and finally they marry. This is absolute non sens if you live with christian values.
My French Canadian ex girlfriend used to vacation in Santo Domingo until I realized after our relationship was over that she was going to hook up with these random men every time. Disgusting.
@@charlesgithiri0017 we see it in South Africa too. Men and women with no self respect coming here, looking for sex from vulnerable poor people who will do anything for money. It is not sexual starvation, it is promiscuity and exploitation.
@@sunstarpunk That is true, BUT It's ONLY spoken negatively about when men do it, and that's when it's said that it's bad when both men and women does it😞 Why is it that a man has to be thrown into the mix EVERYTIME when the subject is about a woman being trifling😖
Interesting is that these women in their country are totally different, cold. If she found a guy like that on the Paris or New York subway, he'd be just another immigrant with no chance with them.
Because they know they dont have to deal with the criticism of their families/peers/friends while they are IN the DR. Goes to show you the level of fakeness of women
A 43 year old next door neighbor "fell in love" with one of these guys and brought him to Milan (where I live) and they were living together for a couple of months until one day the dominican young man decided to leave 'cause he was going to leave for Spain with another woman, much younger and wealthier. POOR WOMEN
She deserves that . Because cheap person chose cheap relationships like this. Actual life means marriage and the both take the responsibility and have children. But also physical love and honestly and respect is the way for healthy marriage and life
This is not love, this is just physical attraction and she wants to enjoy her time while traveling. Never saw any regret on her face of not being able to see him again. They both see their own benefits in dating each other and love never demands anything. Anyway, I enjoyed watching their story.
HEELLLOOOOO DEAREST RU-vid USERS How are everyone's day going today? 😂😂😂😂😂 who else here is also cracking laughing From the huge discrepancy encountered here in this amazing inspirational documentary ? There are two points where we definitely should talk about. Otherwise is so pointless to such complex public internet even exist.. Start talk about 32:40 Who is up? VOLUNTEERS WANTED please Let's put our brains to work together We can do it
My nephew went to Dominican Republic to marry a girl but it happened she was a "professional" before marriage and a gold digger after. Many people told him it was a mistake because he did not know anything about the girl and now she divorced him, of course, because he was not "providing" enough to support everybody in Dominican Republic. Well, he is now a retired police officer and she kept half his pension. She knew right from the beginning how to play the game and she knew when it was time to go. She was very well trained about her plan like having a child and demanding child support. 99.9% of those women are gold diggers and stupid the man who believes they "love" him. Now my nephew is angry, upset, depressed, frustrated and poor. Hopefully he learned something from the lesson.
@@gino3286true... Poverty is a relative Word... Starving to death is even quite rare, even if the Media are transmitting us a different opinion... These guys are probably feeling more happy, free and with less problems than We in the first World... And they have Our woman with Partly our money😅
@@gino3286 Yeah man, thanks for explanation and scholarship. 👍🏻 I agree. Lets waist no time and start with the excercices, I will start too with my legt hand.
He said, "NO BEAUTY CRITERIA," He implied they are unattractive. But there is a money criteria, he made that clear. Fantasy for sale 💵. Proverty is just a horrid situation.
She's submissive to a boy, but she'll never be submissive to her husband in Italy. This documentary is killing me.🤣🤣🤣🤣. All that mothering and submissiveness will end immediately if he ever goes to Italy with her.
Men started this shit. Stop trying to act like women have been doing it long before men. Matter of fact! Women do what men did and if it wasn't foe men, women would still be living in a jungle with a leaf over their head!
What these women need to understand is that the man they are with is on the clock, he is working when he is with you, being with you is his job. You cannot compare him to your ex.
What about if you can take the man on the clock to your own country. The woman will get at least 2-3 years of quality time something she would not have received in 20-30 years. This women are smart they know what they want and what they are investing in.
@@zakariafarah1101 I would strongly advise against that. As if you take a man like that to your country, you lose the leverage you have on him. I am sure he will start looking for bettter options. Zero loyalty.
It’s funny how she says she’s paying until he finds work 🤣 he’s never going to look for work. She’s the job. When the money runs out he’s out the door.
Bingo. And in time she will lose respect for the man without a good income and start nagging. It ends up him going with some other woman and her talking bitterly about men in general but still going hunting for more sex and creating the market that is.
The sad part about this is there are plenty of men in their own countries who would give them what they want...but they don't give those guys the time of day
@@leod-sigefastas an outsider , you guys truly amaze me , every other race and group out there keep their women in check , cheating and hookups are not tolerated under any circumstances, and certainly none of this shit , I don't understand , why do you guys put up with this shit ?
I really wish their government would do something about this, these young men should not have to resort to this. After all, their supposed to be the future of a country aren't they?
It is not looking for love, it is living and enjoying the good things in life with total freedom, and women also have that right, fun, sex, good food, a paradisiacal atmosphere, warm nights and good music, without a doubt they renew the desire of difficult routines and work stress oh of studying!! Excellent decision, enjoy that you only live once!!
I’m a black male with naturally curly hair so I kinda look different. Straight out of high school into the marines I was stationed in a place similar. Country boy from the south so I don’t know much. Went to the beach with my boys and you wouldn’t believe the number of older women that approached me as if I was for sale. Some would run their hands through my hair or down my chest. These guys aren’t the predators… believe me
clearly most tourists there mixed the definition of love and lust a lot!!! it's been all along history and still, and it will never cease to make me smirk
these dudes just know what women want to hear, it's not easy work. They actually put in a lot of time and effort to create this illusion of "love" for these ladies. I'm also Dominican and we have a bad reputation around the world as "players" but i believe is a cultural thing, as we like to get the woman emotionally invested first when ultimately we just want to to hit it, it's about the the dance, the buildup, the goal, the victory.
It is not that hard, those women are european leftovers. Almost any girl which is 8/10, 9/10, 10/10 will laugh if someone like those guys will approach.. cuz they already get tons of attention from Tall, Fit, and wealthy white guys. Same applies for european guys - desperate, short, obese, old or unhealthy goes for less developed countries trying to find someone over there.
Hahahaha the first Dominion I ever met was hilarious, yeah English was a lil broken but I swear if there was a camcorder we would have had the funniest movie...other Spanish speaking cultures when they get to US they're timid and shy but a Dominican shows up with confidence and all the women were attracted to it, it's confidence and a free spirit...it was an awesome Summer
Like the lyrics to that old song goes, "Everyone needs somebody sometimes..." The smart educated women are usually the loneliest and I guess they do what they feel like they gotta do to fulfill that need, whether it's right or wrong or moral or immoral.
I did that when I was in my early 20s in Hawaii back in the 1980s. Played up the "Hawaiian surfer boy" role for quite a few attractive white tourist women from the mainland. Gave them surfing lessons. Showed them the town. They knew I was still in college and had no money, so they always paid for everything. It was a mutually satisfactory arrangement. Ah, the good ol' days. 🥰
Yep. A colleague at my first job when I was young (tourist resort) did the same thing. He went with all these rich ladies on their boats and made them fall in love and milking them for money. We were all making fun of him but yeah he did get his benefits lol.
You'd think someone smart enough to be a lawyer would be able to see and understand that an 18 year old who grew up VERY different than her, that he's not in a relationship (if you can call it a relationship) for true love like she thinks! And, I'm glad that the Embassy has such strict rules! Whether that lady will realize it or not, they more than likely saved her a ton of money and time wasted on that guy! I mean, pretty much the same day that she left, he was back out on the beach trying to get with someone else!
She is a morally deprived western woman diseased and mentally ill with feminism. Plenty are in her own country in the same dire financial position she could do the same. Does not make sense at all.
من الأفضل ان المرأه الجميله تتزوج رجل حتى لوكان فقير وتعيش معاه الحب دائما افضل من شراء الحب لساعات والتنقل بجسمها بالحرام من شخص لأخر ماأجمل الاسلام الذي حفظ للأنسان كرامته واخلاقه وانسابه واعراضه اكبر نعمه نعمة الأسلام
Ça c'est ta vie à toi et À tes semblables Les autres sont libres De faire ce qu'ils veulent Si ça te dérange tourne la tête hein et bouche toi les oreilles
in 2005 my Mother, at the age of 57 went to the Dominican Republic for two weeks with a friend. I never thought anything of it. But now that I have seen this RU-vid video and seen that it is full of beach and black men, it has me wondering a few things.
What a horrible way to live, for both the European women and the Dominican men they date. I never knew loneliness and desperation could be such good friends.
What they are doing might not be the smartest thing, but sometimes you have no control over who you fall in love/lust with. When I was in my late 20's I was looking for a wife to settle down with. I would meet these women that checked all of the boxes. Attractive, financially stable etc.. Yet, nothing would come of it after all was said and done. Just no chemistry between us. I learned the hard way that love is not a strategic decision to make. It happens or it doesn't. Some people will never find it or experience it, because they don't want to open up and let the chips fall where they may. These women are ones that followed their hearts and took a leap of faith. Even though it is likely to fail, they tried. From our perspective the men they choose are desperately poor with nothing to offer. Yet, they probably make the women feel a way that men in their own country don't. I don't think it is all about sex either. Even if the sexual stereotypes of black men are true, the women could have looked for black men in Europe, right? It would have been easier for the 30 year old Italian to find an older black man living in Italy, who speaks fluent Italian and is familiar with the culture. She did'nt!
I knew two redheads who went to the Caribbean on a regular basis looking for "love" like these French women. They would show pictures of their "boyfriends" the two met on vacation. Six months later they would be back meeting another love interest.
Sex addicts. They'll probably become single mothers and never marry because even the most pathetic American simp-man doesn't want to be seen raising kids that are obviously not his. When the women retire from their teacher jobs at 64, they'll go to DR once more for old times sake and after that, straight to the euthanasia clinic to check out before they have to face the reality of being an old broken down female alone in our sick, hard, western dystopia.
DR is wild!!! On my first day during my visit, I was approached by several beautiful girls in Boca Chica, while just walking around taking in the sights. Some Dominican, and some Haitian. They knew I was a foreigner and made their moves quickly. I was worn out by the third day. Some foreign women also approached me, but as soon as they discovered I was not a local, they lost interest.
Men and women are very different, and I agree there should be different standards for sex, but these women purposefully went to an island to find a young man in need of money to service them, and yet these men are still referred to as the predators looking for a victim. Come ohhnnn!
That is true, they are no better than men who pay for sex! That women in her 30’s with someone who just turned 18 and she was with him for awhile! Then they say boys as young as 14 ….. ewe 🤢🤢🤢 so disgusting! No shame whatsoever!
Felt all kinds of emotions, good and bad , i felt bad when she left and jus laughed when the other women wanted to console him but overally loved the narrator felt like i was watching NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰😍😍😍😍😍
Imagine a 33yr old man picking an 18yr old girl from the beach to house,feed and later fall in love with her,it will be tag as"taking advantage of her situation" but since it a woman it called "love". Cruel world to thr king's 😢😢
This documentary is very old, perhaps recorded more than 10 years ago; however, what it conveys is very clear and timeless. The carefree life and easy sex are part of tourism everywhere in the world, not just here in Santo Domingo, República Dominicana.
@DonnellxxOkafor si es viejo te das cuenta mirando la calidad de la camara y el ambiente el pais a cambiado mucho desde entoces y esas mujeres a estas alturas deben tener como 50 años
The European women (French, German, Scandinavian) usually go to a country called Senegal and less to another called Tanzania, where they say there are large black turnips abundant and at very reasonable prices,
Haven’t you heard? They’re living it up in Europe. She’s now the mother of half a dozen of his kids, working 12-hour lawyer shifts, and spoiling him with designer clothes, collectible sneakers, bling, the latest gaming consoles, and of course, the newest iPhone. He’s living proof that when love is strong, it’s not just in the air-it’s in the closet, the shoe rack, and the tech drawer.
Giovana the Italian lady is a hero-she tried to give the boy passage to Italy but it failed.She stood in line with him but it could not go through.Any woman who is willing to take another man to her country is full of love which no one else can give. She is a very rare woman.I wonder where she is now and if she managed to take the boy to Italy and live happily ever after.Does anyone know?
@@nonopavanda830 No she doesn't. She is a 33-year old professional woman who should have known better. The only thing she deserves is a broken heart and a lifetime of shame and embarrassment over her absolute stupidity. The eternity of the internet will memorialize her bad mistakes for the rest of human existence.
J'eprouve un p'tit chagrin pour Giovanna ! Tu as pris ce que tu as pu, ne t'arrête pas sur les commentaires, leurs auteurs ne valent pas mieux que toi ! Je t'embrasse tres fort ❤️ 💖 ! Un papy de 74 ans de Guadeloupe résidant en région parisienne France
They know that, in the same way she goes back to her life, he have to keep eating... she knows.. all this women knows.. but this type of love have no strings on the women because she does not see (literally) they dont see what happen AFTER and they dont want to see it. Also they have full control Cuz they have the money... happiness fam.
In Tunisia and Turkey , the guys see the woman off at the airport and the next woman they are seeing arrived on the same plane and he goes back to hotel with them . These women are so stupid and delusional
