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In recent years stories of older British women hooking up with younger Gambian men have made the news headlines, from one-night stands to whirlwind weddings. But what's the truth behind the stories? Seyi Rhodes investigates.
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@user-qw3rm6tq5z
@user-qw3rm6tq5z 8 месяцев назад
I’m a Gambian woman, and what hurts me the most is that if a Gambian man wants to marry a Gambian woman who is two years older than him it beefs talk of the town or his parents won’t agree to it but for a white woman who is old enough to be his grandmother, it’s okay
@wollfaden1979
@wollfaden1979 7 месяцев назад
Its all about cash!
@oc4goal
@oc4goal 7 месяцев назад
So sad to hear, but the one with the money has it.
@crypton_8l87
@crypton_8l87 7 месяцев назад
Your comment says it all.
@YourXellency
@YourXellency 7 месяцев назад
Kind of like Asian women marrying a poor Asian man but instead she brings home a white foreigner. :/
@faafafineartist
@faafafineartist 7 месяцев назад
Money trumps all things when poverty is taking its toll.
@Imeraldgyrl
@Imeraldgyrl 8 месяцев назад
Extreme poverty meets extreme loneliness. Both parties are equally desperate, but the person with the money, ultimately has control.
@oscardunn4769
@oscardunn4769 8 месяцев назад
...not so sure about the control bit...most times that money slips away....strange how this body and mind can deceive us.
@mamarobyn
@mamarobyn 8 месяцев назад
Absolutely! this is the best comment....
@crystalchw
@crystalchw 8 месяцев назад
Perfectly stated
@HFK-uv3wr
@HFK-uv3wr 8 месяцев назад
Until she drinks the Kool-Aid… ie, gets scammed..😮
@kevettenoel3207
@kevettenoel3207 8 месяцев назад
The host is cool I like his POV!!
@livia8227
@livia8227 2 месяца назад
“We’ve never had an argument” of course not 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lady that man is not about to argue with you. Look at that house 🤣🤣
@dawei0077
@dawei0077 2 месяца назад
Totally agree 👍. "Don't bite the hand that feeds you".
@fatimaabubakari5695
@fatimaabubakari5695 2 месяца назад
He built the house
@livia8227
@livia8227 2 месяца назад
@@fatimaabubakari5695 oh you must didn’t see the for rent sign then
@fatimaabubakari5695
@fatimaabubakari5695 2 месяца назад
Saw that. But let's assume he really owns according to her she didn't contribute anything to building it that's why I said that
@lailaalanna315
@lailaalanna315 2 месяца назад
​@@livia8227he said hes an engineer. We can't make assumptions. He should have asked the guy about the rental sign. Maybe he rents it sometimes and lives in a smaller place.
@AdamBer-ir6eg
@AdamBer-ir6eg 15 дней назад
"Granbia" 😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀 already made me laugh before start watching the video
@amandab8433
@amandab8433 8 месяцев назад
It's no different than when senior men go to the Philippines, Taiwan, etc, to look for someone young to "marry". Except some of them are also looking for children too 🤬
@bnellaniyah
@bnellaniyah 8 месяцев назад
Same in Gambia... children are often targeted
@kevettenoel3207
@kevettenoel3207 8 месяцев назад
Yea that's so heartbreaking smh but like you stated it's definitely happening and the more money they have the easier it is to accomplish what they really want.
@AnthonyLauder
@AnthonyLauder 8 месяцев назад
The difference is that these old women divorced their husbands, and took everything from them, to go have wild times. Whereas the old men going to the Philippines has everything taken from them, and are now trying to mend their broken hearts with women who are more caring.
@faith780
@faith780 8 месяцев назад
@@AnthonyLauderno! Those men are there abusing children and preying on impoverished young woman. The biggest difference is that these women are probably targeting impoverished adult males.
@gwenshin
@gwenshin 8 месяцев назад
Keep telling yourself that, dude. How do you know these old women didn't work careers their entire lives, and it was their own money they decided to waste? No differrent than old men who seek brides overseas. You'll see how much those Philippine women "care" about these old men when the money runs out. Men are better at self delusion. Women at least call it for what it is@@AnthonyLauder
@margaretbaker6609
@margaretbaker6609 8 месяцев назад
I would have loved to see an interview with the local women of Gambia and hear their perspectives on it all.
@arrjee9474
@arrjee9474 8 месяцев назад
We’re also under the impression that all of the young men do this, I doubt that is true.
@humanbeing4368
@humanbeing4368 8 месяцев назад
The local Gambian men will have an entire family hidden from the holiday maker or even have you visit them under the disguise of being relatives.
@HoneyBunches100
@HoneyBunches100 8 месяцев назад
As long as they’re bringing the money home to them, they’re good with it 😊
@humanbeing4368
@humanbeing4368 8 месяцев назад
@@HoneyBunches100 That’s what they told you, right? 😂
@laikanbarth
@laikanbarth 8 месяцев назад
@@humanbeing4368Yep, you are right!!
@sandbach7195
@sandbach7195 2 месяца назад
As a white American woman, this is why I love RU-vid, never in a gazillion years would I ever have imagined this to be! I’m stunned!
@gbrickcommercialre
@gbrickcommercialre 7 дней назад
As a black American woman....same, sis.
@andreahunter5361
@andreahunter5361 6 дней назад
😂😂😂
@mscptizzy
@mscptizzy 5 дней назад
Really 😂 it's been known for years. If it happened back when "mail order brides" became a popular topic, we should assume it goes on all over these 3rd world countries (mainly) and from both male and female. As an American not white or black 😉
@justwatchingvideosLA
@justwatchingvideosLA 4 дня назад
Watch the SNL sketch with Adele
@sandbach7195
@sandbach7195 4 дня назад
@@gbrickcommercialre heehee, thx
@user-jo7kf2bj9s
@user-jo7kf2bj9s Месяц назад
Love the way the presenter was open, honest, and non-judgmental. It's fabulous. Really can't undersrand the dynamic, but if they are all adults, and its consensual, then wonderful.
@p0rnstarguardian.qiyana
@p0rnstarguardian.qiyana 7 месяцев назад
This is like 90 day fiance without the scripted fights
@yukisakura9582
@yukisakura9582 7 месяцев назад
Frrr
@sexiiniya22
@sexiiniya22 6 месяцев назад
Yesss😂
@delindawhited1385
@delindawhited1385 6 месяцев назад
Right!!
@davidrose88
@davidrose88 5 месяцев назад
jajjajajajajajajaj
@KingThabiso
@KingThabiso 4 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Lady--G
@Lady--G 9 месяцев назад
Host is so real and compassionate and has the same alarm bells as I do. Both women and men are using eachother.....!
@milascave2
@milascave2 8 месяцев назад
Well, if both of them are using each other, and both of them know it and are doing it voluntarily, what is the problem?
@angelaame6148
@angelaame6148 8 месяцев назад
Typical symbiotic relationship that exists all over the world, land, air and sea... Humans and all species of animals, feed off of each other....
@lolal2502
@lolal2502 8 месяцев назад
​@@angelaame6148💯
@rachelmora6227
@rachelmora6227 8 месяцев назад
Both sides are consenting adults. Someone is buying and someone is selling…
@kaioiamo1503
@kaioiamo1503 8 месяцев назад
No one doesn’t have a visa to leave their country. Get real. Nasty old hags
@margaretbrown6549
@margaretbrown6549 3 месяца назад
I absolutely enjoyed this video! I can identify with P! When I’m in Jamaica that salt water takes away all of my pain, no back aches , no cane or Walker needed I just feel good, young and vibrant! The Jamaican men are awesome as well! Once I return home to Indiana then the pains slowly come back! So yes there is a lot of truth to what Mz P said. 🙏🏾❤️
@emmymwanza6566
@emmymwanza6566 2 месяца назад
I can relate to Ms p every time im in Africa,my back ache stops and the moment I get to New York pain comes back .Africa is a blessed land .
@STAR-tj7qo
@STAR-tj7qo 2 месяца назад
🛑🛑🛑I WOULD WANT MY OWN MEN. BLK N BEAUTIFUL. IT IS GOID TO DATE UR OWN MEN, N MEN TO DATE THEIR OWN BLK WOMEN.....WHITE MEN LOVE THEIR OWN N BLK MEN SHOULD LIKE THEIR OWN TOO. IT MAKE SENSE.... 😇😇😇👩🏾‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾
@sarahmarie2911
@sarahmarie2911 Месяц назад
I am in Indiana too 🤗
@simonphelps5793
@simonphelps5793 Месяц назад
Its probably the sun and fresh air, neither of which you get in the UK.
@ivorysteele
@ivorysteele Месяц назад
I am from Jamaica but migrated to the USA many years ago. Yes you do feel pain free when you go back home. I love the beach
@lm8544
@lm8544 Месяц назад
What surprises me is that these women aren't afraid.
@johnnyharka6609
@johnnyharka6609 27 дней назад
If something bad happens to a single woman, it has effects on the whole tourism industry. So these women are almost above law even if govt publicly says prostiution doesn’t exist.
@TishCane
@TishCane 13 дней назад
@@johnnyharka6609not even in that sense. They don’t care about their health sleeping with men they have no idea what they’re doing
@johnnyharka6609
@johnnyharka6609 13 дней назад
@@TishCane i mean, they already have a leg in their graves 😂
@BhadVhibes
@BhadVhibes 6 дней назад
Afraid of what
@zahrak7072
@zahrak7072 5 дней назад
@@johnnyharka6609 🤣🤣🤣
@merida3160
@merida3160 6 месяцев назад
this is amazing. I've seen tons of videos about ''older women being scammed by african men'' but this completes the sad and real picture that, as the reporter put it ''you don't know who to feel sorry for''. The reporter was incredible. I hope to see more of him.
@SimonSverige
@SimonSverige 6 месяцев назад
you could argue that for any women seeking her "handsome prince". What i the difference between this story and "Cinderella"? WHy is it only OK when women are seeking a man to pay for them and transform their life?
@allenangaw4827
@allenangaw4827 6 месяцев назад
​@@SimonSverigegreat argument
@SaidarRising
@SaidarRising 6 месяцев назад
The difference between those two examples is the european women being scammed think they’re talking to rich european men, if they knew they were talking to poor african men they would want nothing to do with them. In this case the women know who the men are in person, and it’s who (what?) they want.
@galeleitch7497
@galeleitch7497 6 месяцев назад
It works both ways. Female African scam artists search for lonely older foreign men to scam money from while promising to meet them. A friend of a male friend of mine came into contact with a Gambian woman years ago and has been sending money to her for years. She makes up some fake excuse. She promised many times to visit him, but never has. He has sent her tens of thousands of dollars, but has never met her. All his friends have tried to tell him that she is a liar and a scam artist, but he keeps sending her money! He's in too deep.
@helena3631
@helena3631 6 месяцев назад
Right this is horrible
@amrangaye6940
@amrangaye6940 4 месяца назад
I’m Gambian and really appreciate how you treated us with respect in this piece and covered all sides without patronizing. Thank you 🙏
@charlesosimeon6375
@charlesosimeon6375 4 месяца назад
Am really not sure where the appreciation is coming from. Sad and embarrassing definitely yes
@loislane3972
@loislane3972 4 месяца назад
Bc U. Are. Nasty!!!!
@anthonygregory5150
@anthonygregory5150 4 месяца назад
⁠@@charlesosimeon6375I agree. The European women are sad and embarrassing. 🙄🙄
@gaelsdottir5046
@gaelsdottir5046 3 месяца назад
I have worked, in the US, with people from The Gambia and from Ghana. I would love to work always with such committed, intelligent, dedicated, problemsolving souls. That's the simple truth. The respect you received is respect you deserve. All through history, people everywhere on the planet have needed to rely on relationships in order to live. People get jobs because of who they know, as often as because they are truly suited for those jobs. People get into schools because their parents went there. People marry for many reasons, love being one among them - will he be a good provider? Do we both want children? Will she be there for me even if disaster strikes and I lose my health? Many reasons. There is no more shame in this, now, than there was in American women choosing among suitors on the basis of who could best provide for them. My heart went out to all involved. A world where all people have enough, have what they need, would be a lovely world but we aren't there yet. If that is what we dream of, we must keep trying.
@zakriariaz8919
@zakriariaz8919 3 месяца назад
No respect at all..
@user-qk1bq6no3v
@user-qk1bq6no3v 2 месяца назад
I would love it if they had interviewed Gambian women to see what their thoughts are on the matter
@ThereseDavidson
@ThereseDavidson Месяц назад
This is not relationships of love, this is relationships of convience
@mscptizzy
@mscptizzy 5 дней назад
As are most relationships. You get out of it what you put in. Some just put in money.
@ThereseDavidson
@ThereseDavidson 4 дня назад
@@mscptizzy Oh that makes me sad thinking that's where humanity is.
@cattymajiv
@cattymajiv 21 час назад
@@ThereseDavidson Always has been.
@tinastardust7793
@tinastardust7793 3 месяца назад
The host of this story seems like such a genuinely kind and caring soul. I wish all the best for him!
@kellyvaksengisser1672
@kellyvaksengisser1672 Месяц назад
@brigittgraves
@brigittgraves Месяц назад
fool
@tinastardust7793
@tinastardust7793 Месяц назад
@@brigittgraves What do you mean? Who is the fool? That is my assessment of the host. Deal with it.
@AbubakarisadikShani
@AbubakarisadikShani Месяц назад
​@@brigittgravesu 're the biggest one
@michaelpowell7120
@michaelpowell7120 21 день назад
and his accent
@TheWebRaven
@TheWebRaven 8 месяцев назад
This story was so well told. The host balanced fact finding, curiosity, compassion, and respect. Excellent work!!!
@beingblack
@beingblack 8 месяцев назад
I agree! Wonderful and rare journalism!
@miketdarnell
@miketdarnell 8 месяцев назад
He was a little biased
@ShanteRoxxane
@ShanteRoxxane 8 месяцев назад
@@miketdarnellEveryone has biases. But he was respectful and curious. He didn’t try to make anyone look or feel bad and it wasn’t edited in a negative way to make anyone look worse.
@margaretpijnaker9922
@margaretpijnaker9922 8 месяцев назад
They ask for money as one lady says she tells them if they want money they will not see her again
@margaretpijnaker9922
@margaretpijnaker9922 8 месяцев назад
This country would be impossible for young well behaved girls to have a holiday in peace makes the country impossible for family holidays they are loosing out on good tourison
@vanessaglenn4073
@vanessaglenn4073 3 месяца назад
“P” and Bob the Builders situationship or relationship seems to be the one most genuine and compatible in my opinion.
@dntskdnttll
@dntskdnttll 7 дней назад
I mean she was also black herself AND seeking men closer to her age, at least middle aged men, and so gotta be a bit of a different situation from these white women tourists robbing the cradle with male gigolos....
@ninalib
@ninalib 2 месяца назад
This is so enlightening... I am from the other side of the world, this is such a faraway reality, and yet, nothing about humans and human relationships should be alien... Thank you for your great work!
@lynno6546
@lynno6546 8 месяцев назад
The best thing about the video is the narrator`s insight. I love a thoughtful, intelligent person who genuinely tries to learn about and understand other cultures. He asked the best questions, has a strong sense of ethics, and is so candid in his responses. Brilliant!
@user-gu6vf3je1d
@user-gu6vf3je1d 8 месяцев назад
These people have no culture. It’s been destroyed by colonialism and corruption of their government.
@KristineMarieTxSPI
@KristineMarieTxSPI 8 месяцев назад
Yes, he's one of the best narrators I've ever seen.
@michaelwa9833
@michaelwa9833 8 месяцев назад
What a nice and senseful person
@franziskaklaiber5768
@franziskaklaiber5768 7 месяцев назад
His cringing face.hahahaha
@sheranlanger247
@sheranlanger247 6 месяцев назад
​@@franziskaklaiber5768 Like 😬
@commonman711
@commonman711 4 месяца назад
When dude said he was in love with an 85 year old, I cracked a grin and chuckled. You can lie to us, but stop lying to yourself bro!!!
@bobspacon
@bobspacon 2 месяца назад
Yo, I kept yelling "n**ga!!!". He said it with a straight face😂, saying he gets hurt when they leave 😂😂. I wonder how he gets an erection for an 85 year old
@livia8227
@livia8227 2 месяца назад
Bro is committed to the scam! 🤣🤣🤣 make your money bro!
@artistpr5386
@artistpr5386 2 месяца назад
He is in love. He appreciates what she's done for him. Men in the West can learn a thing from some of these men..
@commonman711
@commonman711 2 месяца назад
@@artistpr5386 I surely hope you are playing, but if not, go ahead and count yourself as one of the D-U-M-M-I-E-S !
@adrianovasco3096
@adrianovasco3096 2 месяца назад
@@commonman711 I''m sure your mama is very proud of you. Your dad as well, of course.
@slbellue6874
@slbellue6874 2 месяца назад
My cousin married a woman 24 years his senior. He always had an attraction for older women. His wife just passed and he’s devastated.
@lisasternenkind6467
@lisasternenkind6467 Месяц назад
My last partner is also 21 years younger than me, but he is German as I am. We're still close friends, yet we both didn't actually search for someone with that age gap, it just happened. We were together for more than 9 years.
@monikam9069
@monikam9069 21 день назад
@@lisasternenkind6467 Ok, you are close culturally. What does a European women have in common with a man from Africa or Asia - nothing
@user-fs2zf1in1o
@user-fs2zf1in1o 15 дней назад
​@@monikam9069 EXACTLY
@AngieF8
@AngieF8 14 дней назад
​@@monikam9069Difference is the spice of life. I've always been attracted to someone from different cultures or different personalities, I find my culture boring and enjoy a personality that complements and balances mine. Only close-minded people stick with their own traditions and their own culture. That's why the world is always in conflict let's blend everybody we're all human ❤️
@TishCane
@TishCane 13 дней назад
@@AngieF8”only close minded people stick with their own 😂😂. Sorry we don’t agree with the age gap lmao dating someone who wasn’t even born when you graduated is sick
@marsnyder2610
@marsnyder2610 29 дней назад
If older men can date younger women and are happy, older women can do it too. Im happy for both the older women and their young boyfriends. If they are happy, then Im happy for them. We only live once. Go for it and find your happiness.❤
@abundance1232
@abundance1232 12 дней назад
Exactly
@NameLast-wm5je
@NameLast-wm5je 10 дней назад
yay find it with fucktons of lube
@k.h.7575
@k.h.7575 7 дней назад
Yes, but is it happiness? Or is it using the situation that someone is poor?
@eileensullivan4924
@eileensullivan4924 День назад
@@k.h.7575 You know, these men cannot have the respect of their families if they have no money to help look out for them. A wife of whatever age who understands their committment to family would be a great help to any man who wants to fulfill his role of protector.
@yugenknows740
@yugenknows740 8 месяцев назад
I love that moment when he says "I dont know who to feel sorry for anymore!" I'd say that sums up the whole situation perfectly. For me, I don't think I could get over the fact that this is where slaves were captured and the big houses used to belong to slave lords and then here you come as a European to pick out your young man. 😬
@charlotteschreiner2305
@charlotteschreiner2305 8 месяцев назад
Nope - the "big houses" belong to Gambians selling drugs in Europe for MANY years! 😅😂🤣
@richasay9077
@richasay9077 8 месяцев назад
I’m not going to excuse the European slave traders, but according to my reading, most of the capturing of slaves was done by the native Mandikas who traveled inland using the Gambia River as the corridor. Neither Islam nor Christianity would condone the lifestyles of the “male prostitution” that is taking place in this documentary. The decay of morality is not going to elevate the society and quality of life in the Gambia. Investment in infrastructure, education and industry will facilitate the rise from poverty. Exploitation is exploitation and no one wins in the end.
@DSmith-gs4tr
@DSmith-gs4tr 8 месяцев назад
Except now the men have a choice. They are willing participants.
@yugenknows740
@yugenknows740 8 месяцев назад
@@charlotteschreiner2305 oh.... I thought he said slave traders in the video. My mistake!
@karencalhoun2503
@karencalhoun2503 8 месяцев назад
Yes, it's like you're sleeping with your slave owner. You're on the other spectrum in of it and it's filthy and nasty. This is not what God called for a relationship. Where are the women of Gambia? I don't want to hear a black Gambian. Man. Say I don't want to marry a poor Gambian woman. Then build her up. Because getting with a slave owner is sickening.
@ultrajorge
@ultrajorge 4 месяца назад
Why is nobody talking about the fact that the guy's name is KARL MARX? LOL
@makaylacree2965
@makaylacree2965 3 месяца назад
I thought the same thing!!!
@mrsrussell
@mrsrussell 3 месяца назад
Right
@enchanted1800
@enchanted1800 3 месяца назад
Well since the elites are now all communist trash no one bats and eye anymore.
@binbingam
@binbingam 3 месяца назад
Its a nick name
@PraiseOnMyLips
@PraiseOnMyLips 3 месяца назад
Because not all of us are nerds. We genuinely don’t care about that.
@artistpr5386
@artistpr5386 2 месяца назад
When the one lady said her back and leg pain comes back once she lands back in the UK, all my judgment left. Let these ladies live. The western world is cold and superficial. The men their age with $$ date younger women with less money. What's good for the goose..
@ReshonBryant
@ReshonBryant Месяц назад
Hey, free is free at the end of the day. Everybody grown ain't no laws being broken. Then bye Western world🙋🏽
@lesliedishslayer
@lesliedishslayer 7 дней назад
If this was a series I would watch. Well done showing multiple sides of a complex story!
@briantbmoth6472
@briantbmoth6472 8 месяцев назад
He said “I’m an poor Gambian, I don’t want to marry another poor person.” 😂 A lot of relationships with poor foreigners are like this.
@nomaddiaries9790
@nomaddiaries9790 7 месяцев назад
lol
@AtlantaModernHomes
@AtlantaModernHomes 5 месяцев назад
almost all marriages are like this even in developed countries.
@Arealprizeguy
@Arealprizeguy 5 месяцев назад
Can’t blame him
@brendawright2870
@brendawright2870 5 месяцев назад
Too bad, can’t build together
@brendawright2870
@brendawright2870 5 месяцев назад
Sure, every one can be happy
@erinbrantley6857
@erinbrantley6857 7 месяцев назад
This makes me feel very sad. My ex husband is Gambian. There are only two years difference between us and we met here in the states. However as soon as he didn’t need me anymore financially he decided he wanted a second wife in Africa. We divorced. He married a woman from his culture and moved her here. I think the entire concept of love and marriage is different there.
@Alison-ku5ko
@Alison-ku5ko 7 месяцев назад
This should be seen as fraud.
@Opinlinz
@Opinlinz 7 месяцев назад
​@@Alison-ku5ko It's done everyday in the U.S. by females who want to secure financial security and they aren't prosecuted for fraud. So how is that any different?
@Azulakayes
@Azulakayes 7 месяцев назад
I am sorry to say this but most African men, not just the Gambians consider African women to be their true wives/loves. Unless you meet a 2nd generation migrant/ one who has been culturally westernised, you will never be truly loved. I am an African woman and I know our men. They will tell you sweet nothings and all you want to hear but their hearts are back home. It is better to just avoid them. I am sorry for what you went through but we live and learn.
@annie_xo
@annie_xo 7 месяцев назад
@@Opinlinzit isn’t? And it’s just as wrong. No one is saying it’s ok for either gender
@Opinlinz
@Opinlinz 7 месяцев назад
@@annie_xo Well obviously some people do think its socially acceptable in society or I wouldn't have pointed it out. I've seen females everyday cosign this behavior when other females do it. With no regard for the male.
@dee1024
@dee1024 2 месяца назад
P is such a doll...what a beautiful soul
@joshuajlewis1575
@joshuajlewis1575 Месяц назад
Yea I like her too
@BrightAura777
@BrightAura777 4 дня назад
She’s gorgeous inside and out. Wish her the best ❤
@NathanVu
@NathanVu 3 месяца назад
Starting at 19:30, that guy is too honest and straight forward and a nice guy too. Respect!
@belle9360
@belle9360 6 месяцев назад
I’m impressed with the presenter. He’s a great balance of open-minded and skeptical, and his analysis allows for nuance and compassion without sacrificing realism. His analysis at 27:56 about believing the guy’s current sincerity, but also that it’s unlikely to last into the future is a surprisingly nuanced view being expressed by a presenter - we don’t get that often in this format of documentary. He also flags when people’s stories don’t add up, which is refreshing and insightful. He rightly spells out the history of colonialism and draws the link with the current situation, as well as makes plain that poverty drives this dynamic. The only piece of analysis that I wish he’d mentioned is that this same dynamic plays out all the time the world over but usually older men and younger women - this just feels more notable because it’s an unusual reversal of gender dynamics.
@giggs112008
@giggs112008 6 месяцев назад
Well said!!
@ausendundeinenacht1
@ausendundeinenacht1 6 месяцев назад
"The only piece of analysis that I wish he’d mentioned is that this same dynamic plays out all the time the world over but usually older men and younger women - this just feels more notable because it’s an unusual reversal of gender dynamics." EXACTLY Normally ...its men That Rule The Roast" Yep TOTALLY AGREE , yep the presenter seems nuanced and ok, doesn t he?
@trevormccarthy9019
@trevormccarthy9019 6 месяцев назад
Indeed, and he shows a great deal of concern for his fellow Brits., balanced with understanding of realities of life in Africa for young African men.
@LaiaBertran
@LaiaBertran 6 месяцев назад
I was going to make a similar comment. Seyi is perfect balancing respect and skepticism :)
@pulakification
@pulakification 6 месяцев назад
He asked all the right questions.
@SunSailandSand
@SunSailandSand 4 месяца назад
Grand Pa goes to Thailand and Grand Ma goes to Gambia.
@12BY6
@12BY6 3 месяца назад
Yep
@babyramses5066
@babyramses5066 2 месяца назад
🤮
@lailaalanna315
@lailaalanna315 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂 indeed
@user-cv1ci3ul3h
@user-cv1ci3ul3h 7 дней назад
well said
@michaelhodge2104
@michaelhodge2104 2 месяца назад
Thanx for shinning a light on this subject. I'm surprised that this is a thing.
@christinestewart960
@christinestewart960 19 дней назад
Well the men in England go the Thailand and Filipines and married these young girls no one blink an eye but if the women's do it is another story
@feliciapena9952
@feliciapena9952 9 месяцев назад
😢😢 This is so sad. Africa the Continent with so many resources. And so much Poverty.
@mistrooth
@mistrooth 8 месяцев назад
like latin america 🤔
@shawnab9940
@shawnab9940 8 месяцев назад
Colonizer effect. The damage is profound and the lingering attitude of superiority, white supremacism is repulsive.
@jurassicthunder
@jurassicthunder 8 месяцев назад
it's all because of government corruption. few gets what everyone needs.
@emeraldkaysgarden
@emeraldkaysgarden 7 месяцев назад
I wonder why???
@briansummers843
@briansummers843 7 месяцев назад
@@emeraldkaysgarden No military power the big numeral kind I say know more
@kenny3269
@kenny3269 8 месяцев назад
“As soon as I land back in the UK, I’m back in pain.” That line changed my small, judgmental mind about what both sides are doing. Everyone has a right to happiness- even if it looks a lot different than what we may consider normal. Life seems to offer limited opportunities to truly feel free and happy. I hope everyone finds what they genuinely need and no one is hurt or scammed.
@vincelemaire
@vincelemaire 8 месяцев назад
I’m curious: what is the law that states that everyone has a right to happiness?
@beverleyheadley-glover371
@beverleyheadley-glover371 8 месяцев назад
​​@@vincelemaireWell. well as humans. L😢aw or no law , i so believe HAPPINESS CAN BE A RELATIVE word or term .
@Me-ir7ls
@Me-ir7ls 8 месяцев назад
Beautiful comment ❤
@kenny3269
@kenny3269 8 месяцев назад
@@vincelemaire you aren’t curious- you are an a&@hole. Positive vibes only. Find another comment thread.
@belaayya5094
@belaayya5094 8 месяцев назад
​@vincelemaire -- if the OP is American, then it kinda is law. At least the right to pursue happiness. It's the foundation of our constitution-- life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Heck, even Bhutan, such a tiny nation, measures their GDP in happiness. So let people pursue their dream and their happiness. If a woman has the money to support a man, and he has the moral code to keep her happy and loved, then let them be happy. Same as if a rich older man here marries a beautiful trophy wife, or if a European man marries a woman from Thailand or Vietnam.
@breathnstop
@breathnstop 2 месяца назад
Nobodys getting hurt here. They are making each other happy. Win win.
@miamoser2389
@miamoser2389 25 дней назад
I would feel hurt when I would be so poor to have to sleep with an old man 😅
@user-ow7xy9iv1n
@user-ow7xy9iv1n 2 месяца назад
Very talented interviewer and presenter. Interesting doc I’ve never known about this. The men are so kind and very charismatic I can see how the grannies get roped in. Sad all around but interesting.
@eileensullivan4924
@eileensullivan4924 День назад
The grannies may not be prepared for their partners' need to share the bounty with their family members.
@milaninodada849
@milaninodada849 5 месяцев назад
This has to be one of the best investigators I've seen in a while. He's so personable; his confusion, his guilt, his anger. It feels like he's watching it all unfold with the viewers. This whole situation is genuinely creepy though.
@ingridakerblom7577
@ingridakerblom7577 3 месяца назад
It's even worse the other way around. When men go to asian countries to find a wife.
@twisi6318
@twisi6318 3 месяца назад
@@ingridakerblom7577 whys that?
@lorencelaflair4306
@lorencelaflair4306 3 месяца назад
​@@ingridakerblom7577lol it's even worse because men are doing it? It's equally F up
@kuritheking
@kuritheking 2 месяца назад
@@twisi6318it’s usually done in a predatory fashion that exploits a power dynamic
@TM-hc4nb
@TM-hc4nb 5 месяцев назад
"Nice to be nice, man brother" is now going to be a permanent fixture in my vocabulary
@kayk2899
@kayk2899 3 месяца назад
😂😂
@LeslieCYPRESS536
@LeslieCYPRESS536 2 месяца назад
Yup !!!!!
@lailaalanna315
@lailaalanna315 2 месяца назад
Alka seems like such a great guy. Love that line 😂
@Brooklynquietmoney
@Brooklynquietmoney Месяц назад
😂😂
@Zvynb
@Zvynb 20 дней назад
😂😂
@user-eb2it1gj8o
@user-eb2it1gj8o 2 месяца назад
Very Honest and brilliant reporter..I salute him for helping other Nationalities and making sure their safety,there are less people in this world like u brother 🙏 👍 love from Northeast India
@olimpiacastillo2996
@olimpiacastillo2996 2 месяца назад
What an interesting story . Powerful.. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@NIKKICTV-nq4io
@NIKKICTV-nq4io 7 месяцев назад
They don’t even call it looking for “love” or a “relationship” they call it an OPPORTUNITY for Gods sake 🤦🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️
@Shay45
@Shay45 7 месяцев назад
I like the honesty. Don’t call it “love” or a “relationship” if it is not.
@phroge1866
@phroge1866 6 месяцев назад
@@Shay45 exactly. I don't see men having the same insightfulness when they are in these same situations.
@yes12337
@yes12337 5 месяцев назад
And the lady saying about his Gambian fiance that he's a "human being" 🤦 🫠
@solidstate9451
@solidstate9451 4 месяца назад
@@yes12337 At least. I know people here in Germany who don't consider people beyond a certain darkness of the skin as humans. :(
@BrianBrayMedia
@BrianBrayMedia 4 месяца назад
An opportunity for both parties.
@juanitafortune5106
@juanitafortune5106 8 месяцев назад
I'd say any "preying" going on is mutual. The old ladies have a need they want fulfilled.. just as the young men do. They're grown folks .They know exactly what they're doing. I think it's a pretty sad situation on both ends. This was very interesting. I'm Black American and I'd honestly not heard about this happening in Gambia. Thank you, so much, for this video. Very enlightening. Be well. Be safe. God bless. 🙏🙏🙏
@cabayern9416
@cabayern9416 8 месяцев назад
Both sides are immoral. The women are delusional and the men actors/scammers.
@donnaevans5131
@donnaevans5131 8 месяцев назад
Same here.
@geewizwiz3
@geewizwiz3 8 месяцев назад
The same thing is happening in Jamaica as well.
@zawadiyahb.7982
@zawadiyahb.7982 8 месяцев назад
I heard from the 80’s what happens between tourists and Gambians. Gambian men need to get some self respect and stop being cheap and nasty.
@asiam1528
@asiam1528 8 месяцев назад
Exactly win win for everyone adult involved
@Rahel8811
@Rahel8811 Месяц назад
I loved this thanks ❤ so much things to reflect on I don’t even know what to write very enjoyable thanks ❤
@molamindemba6221
@molamindemba6221 19 дней назад
What did you learn from interview?
@taethatboyarebel
@taethatboyarebel 2 месяца назад
"nice to be nice man" has been added to my vocabulary 😆
@Ms.Francis
@Ms.Francis 8 месяцев назад
P seems like genuinely nice lady! I wish her all the luck in the world, plus she seems to be with someone her own age. The guy she is with is not exactly young. An eye-opening documentary. Well done!
@CedellaPopoTM
@CedellaPopoTM 8 месяцев назад
🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲
@blacksilverchair3315
@blacksilverchair3315 8 месяцев назад
Nice lady preying on young black men who are in poverty. Very nice lady indeed. This is a predator you call "nice lady".
@yugenknows740
@yugenknows740 8 месяцев назад
That's what I thought.... a 50 year old man and 58 year old woman is not exactly a granny preying on a young man!
@countrickter
@countrickter 8 месяцев назад
P reminds of people back here in the US in my family. small world filled people looking for love. we all the same out here no matter gambia uk or the states.
@babsybabsy2822
@babsybabsy2822 8 месяцев назад
But HE doesn’t look 50! He looks younger. But SHE looks 65 and not attractive That’s the difference. Now the man can live without having to ever work again thanks to granny!
@ShaniceN
@ShaniceN 7 месяцев назад
I am Jamaican, and I know for a fact in Jamaica that this happens in tourists destinations too. I personally believe this is directly tied to slavery and the legacy of it.
@unbalumba
@unbalumba 7 месяцев назад
That's not true...because in Gambia there was no slavery
@Mehki227
@Mehki227 7 месяцев назад
​@@unbalumbaMaybe so, but the fact is many people, especially whites are very much in the master-slave, superior/inferior concept. One of the reasons why whites go around the world to Asian and black countries seeking to fulfill their flesh at the exploitation of the vulnerable - men, women and children. Open your eyes and face reality. Whites think black and brown people are on earth to serve them, including sexually.
@ulli5328
@ulli5328 7 месяцев назад
I don’t agree. They come to get laid, because caribean men would lay them.
@briopalumpus8676
@briopalumpus8676 6 месяцев назад
The power relations. They get the left over European women.
@unbalumba
@unbalumba 6 месяцев назад
@@briopalumpus8676 the demon of lust has control over these women
@mayaretreat6179
@mayaretreat6179 2 месяца назад
"I want her to die in my arms" is the sweetest thing I heard. ❤
@Mantras-and-Mystics
@Mantras-and-Mystics Месяц назад
Because then he can make sure she's dead and get the loot.
@anngore3842
@anngore3842 29 дней назад
​@@Mantras-and-Mystics😂😂😂😂😂
@bib6594
@bib6594 21 день назад
😂😂😂 that way he can get that inheritance 🤣
@gracedayo6624
@gracedayo6624 2 месяца назад
The plumbers mansion left me witj too many unanswered questions
@shebaby44
@shebaby44 Месяц назад
He's lying. He's doing something else. Probably not even his house, more like living in someone else's house he getting paid to fix up. No kitchen and he's been in it for 2 years. 🤔
@RetroDutch77
@RetroDutch77 6 месяцев назад
The ladies want s3x and companionship, the men want money. How far you take it is your own risk. No one is in the position to judge. P looked so young & vibrant it was incredible. I almost cried. The questions & insight were spot on. I really didn’t expect this to be this good, man.
@Thedoublechamp
@Thedoublechamp 6 месяцев назад
Absolutely right bro its like an ecosystem in Gambia
@temmiepet4183
@temmiepet4183 6 месяцев назад
It's prostitution just like how it is in some Asian countries
@hzlkelly
@hzlkelly 6 месяцев назад
The fact that some are married
@tinadepratto603
@tinadepratto603 5 месяцев назад
​@@hzlkellyAlka died in 2021 he drowned in the ocean while his wife watched him float away they found his body days later.R.I.P Alka🙏
@ashasweetyu
@ashasweetyu 5 месяцев назад
White women don’t give money…they man want an opportunity to travel abroad not money as white ppl don’t usually give out money
@ayubahmed550
@ayubahmed550 7 месяцев назад
Bro I'm 23 years old African boy based in kenya. but i will never sleep with a woman way older than me just for money even if I'm broke right now and struggling with my life, I won't degrade myself that way, , its really heartbreaking to see my fellow Africans men in Gambia falling for materialistic things
@mystuff8579
@mystuff8579 7 месяцев назад
May God see you through🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Dah42
@Dah42 7 месяцев назад
Sir, maybe in your native language (not sure if English is your native language) 23 year olds are described as "boys".. But I think in most English speaking nations, we refer to 23 year old males as "men". Having said this, I agree with the other things that you said.
@Dah42
@Dah42 7 месяцев назад
@@kaelsurtour Well, it's very strange if there are cultures where they think that 23 year old males are "boys". UNLESS we are talking about a culture where people live 200 years! However, according to what I found on Google, In Kenya, the life expectancy for males is 58.94 years..So, how are they going to label as a "boy", someone who has already lived around 40% of his life expectancy?.. I also found that in order to join the Army in Kenya you must ""be at least 18 years of age, but not exceeding 26 years of age.".. So, they allow "boys" to join the Army?
@Macinachick
@Macinachick 7 месяцев назад
This made me laugh😂😂😂
@katstix6572
@katstix6572 7 месяцев назад
You are judging. One thing about life, we didn't all come to earth to live the same life. Regardless of what that looks like.
@benjaminelton6586
@benjaminelton6586 Месяц назад
Well done my brother. This was an interesting watch.
@molamindemba6221
@molamindemba6221 19 дней назад
P , thank you for the interview , one love Gambia
@paulgoebertp
@paulgoebertp 7 месяцев назад
I really like this piece. I didn't trust the couple with the rented house, I felt she might be in on some scam with him together. She got nervous and started fudging the ages herself, it seemed off. The reporter is excellent and I hope to see more of his work.
@rockhaven4435
@rockhaven4435 7 месяцев назад
Yup. At first it seemed like she was a victim of her husband's deception. But after a while it seemed like she was engaging in some deception herself... (self-deception at the very least, because it seemed like there was some hidden truth that was starting to rise to the surface, but she didn't want to see it).
@smome7773
@smome7773 6 месяцев назад
I think she wants to build him up to be some kind of "entrepreneur" or capable of his own income bc that way she doesnt get painted as funding his lifestyle.
@schadenfreude000
@schadenfreude000 6 месяцев назад
I bet she's feeding into the lie that this house is all "his" money so she can commit some kind of tax evasion in the UK.
@LDeniseJackson
@LDeniseJackson 6 месяцев назад
Right
@specialk4455
@specialk4455 6 месяцев назад
The house was a beautiful place..rented or not
@K_Hip
@K_Hip 4 месяца назад
The rapper laughing at British women getting fleeced 😂
@viewandchew
@viewandchew 3 месяца назад
That was perfect! I've always wondered why can't people accept and acknowledge that they're easy prey
@eileensullivan4924
@eileensullivan4924 День назад
I thought that was nasty. It seemed to me that he was young and immature.
@photoguyinPEI
@photoguyinPEI 3 месяца назад
I'd like to fill in the blanks on a quote from the film ... " As soon as" he saw my money", we were in love" 🤣
@sherrymiller1822
@sherrymiller1822 23 дня назад
Im so excited to see two sides to this story...any story! Awesome interviewer.
@jboepro1
@jboepro1 5 месяцев назад
This was a roller coaster ride of emotions watching this. Some parts were hilarious, others were extremely sad
@davidvento5481
@davidvento5481 5 месяцев назад
TBH I think the couple in the “Italian villa” house are just renting it for holidays. Why is that sign up saying it’s to let otherwise? You don’t just leave a “for rent” sign up and I doubt as she said “it was up before I came.” That doesn’t add up, nor does the lack of furnishings.
@1980tiffani
@1980tiffani 5 месяцев назад
It was… very interesting to watch. 😩, when dude on the beach said he didn’t want to marry a black, that crushed me. I understand the economic drive to be with a financially stable white woman in that type of environment… so so sad.
@CassiesCattopia
@CassiesCattopia 5 месяцев назад
Passport Girls ❤
@dorothybassey8134
@dorothybassey8134 4 месяца назад
Sad is the word. Very sad indeed. Twisted situation where young men think an elderly foreign woman is the key to better living...
@siennamiel-wb7nl
@siennamiel-wb7nl 4 месяца назад
None was hilarious if the roles were reversed they’d say we were stealing their women and they needed to protect them.
@ms.anderson7064
@ms.anderson7064 9 месяцев назад
I'm an older woman. What can I offer a man my nephews age - (young adult) ? It sounds like the men are impoverished and the women are paying for attention from the men. Older men pay for attention from younger women all the time. This is a similar situation and it is sad. Why don't older men and women help younger adult couples and not utilitize them for their own purposes. That would be better.
@AMYP6
@AMYP6 8 месяцев назад
Low self-esteem and competition.
@Missylikessongs
@Missylikessongs 8 месяцев назад
@@AMYP6 they are also selfish and unable to see the other person's struggle
@christigoth
@christigoth 8 месяцев назад
old man + old woman. that is better, a 10-12 year age gap is still same generation.
@MiguelDLewis
@MiguelDLewis 8 месяцев назад
@@christigoth Old rich men want children though, and old women can't have children. Agape is the only way. Ephesians 5:25✝
@insertname2035
@insertname2035 8 месяцев назад
​@@MiguelDLewisold rich men already have children 😂 they just have more with younger woman because she doesn't have any yet
@perseverancekope6645
@perseverancekope6645 2 месяца назад
Thoroughly enjoyed the video with no judgement or being biased
@GreenTees
@GreenTees 4 дня назад
This is so interesting !! I wish there is a part 2 & 3 etc
@phyllisnunn2061
@phyllisnunn2061 7 месяцев назад
Interesting reversal. He says it feels degrading to see the men standing and waiting to be chosen. Imagine the thousands of women who've been through this very same thing, often because they, too, had no other options.
@Xx5thofHennyxX
@Xx5thofHennyxX 5 месяцев назад
It would still feel degrading.
@adrianmainz2716
@adrianmainz2716 4 месяца назад
somehow you are claiming that those women are victims. They are not
@phyllisnunn2061
@phyllisnunn2061 4 месяца назад
No, I am not.​@@adrianmainz2716
@anthrocene2907
@anthrocene2907 3 месяца назад
@@adrianmainz2716 he's not talking about these wealthy white women, but other countries (including those in the west) where female prostitution is prevalent and equally dangerous, with an added layer or mysoginy and systemic violence towards women.
@Roses-lilac
@Roses-lilac 3 месяца назад
Like a slave market
@FeistyShlomit
@FeistyShlomit 8 месяцев назад
This is fascinating and disturbing. Thanks for covering this issue.
@AbsentWithoutLeaving
@AbsentWithoutLeaving 8 месяцев назад
But really, why is it disturbing? Everybody seems to be getting what they want, and everybody seems to be happy about it. Yes, the principal attraction for the men is the money, but they find no shame (nor should they) in getting it by providing a loving relationship to lonely women who clearly want what they can offer.
@talcareyifill5937
@talcareyifill5937 8 месяцев назад
Disturbing in what way grown people you talking about ..not kids
@pierrerochon7271
@pierrerochon7271 8 месяцев назад
FEISTY- DISTURBING- LEAVE IT ALONE- PLEASE
@FeistyShlomit
@FeistyShlomit 8 месяцев назад
@@AbsentWithoutLeaving see comment below by Lmyrald
@larajones175
@larajones175 8 месяцев назад
Totally agree.
@eulaleegray8383
@eulaleegray8383 2 месяца назад
I loved watching this i really would like more of a follow up
@taijohnson4133
@taijohnson4133 3 месяца назад
That conversation at 34:10 was very telling. She knows too little about this man to be married to him.
@LifeguardBluelagoon1999
@LifeguardBluelagoon1999 3 месяца назад
Yes exactly, you can tell shes also getting anxious and nervous so much that it sounds like lies😭
@nicki66
@nicki66 8 месяцев назад
This was an important documentary. I see in the comments some people saying that it is mutual but I see it as exploitation of people’s misfortune. Given the history of the Gambia and slavery it is even more disturbing. You do not get a sense that anyone is truly being authentic about what they want and need with the exception of 2 of the ladies.
@jessy1982
@jessy1982 7 месяцев назад
The couple that never fights is a red flag to me. It doesn't mean they have nothing to fight about, but maybe that the man doesn't feel comfortable fighting to defend himself.
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 6 месяцев назад
I agree
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 6 месяцев назад
@@jessy1982or that the relationship is so superficial they have nothing to fight about
@charmingjinx9379
@charmingjinx9379 6 месяцев назад
These women are a particular type. They NEED social interaction. They always NEED, always take advantage of others to fill their own needs, and have never been fully self-reliant, so they are susceptible. But I don't feel sorry for them. They're either gullible or delusional, or both. I highly doubt they've ever been in mature, respectable, romantic partnerships. I doubt they have healthy, appropriate relationships with their own children. The whole thing is sad. But, these situations are not the same as a gold digging, young, WESTERN woman searching for an old rich man. That's absolutely NOT the same thing. Western women have many more opportunities to enrich themselves than people from poor nations do, like these young men, so their gold digging is more predatory than desperate. These older women are definitely taking advantage of people who have no choice about poverty. They should know better and have higher expectations of themselves rather than choosing to use other people as toys. It's healthy to accept yourself as you are, age included. But there's an expectation of behaviour that goes with age. I'm a senior woman, BTW.
@ubiquitousblacks
@ubiquitousblacks 5 месяцев назад
There are people saying is mutual? 😂😂😂 wow
@letitialoughmiller1802
@letitialoughmiller1802 9 месяцев назад
It's the same as men going to the Philippines and hooking up with the young local girls.
@maryrose2757
@maryrose2757 8 месяцев назад
Why Philippines only? Those predators are in your own country preying on your american prostitutes which are everywhere left and right. They just go to asia cause it's "cheaper". But in reality they are in your own backyard. You should watch prostitute videos in your own country with your own race prostitutes.
@maurreese
@maurreese 8 месяцев назад
Exactly!!
@claudinegerard5
@claudinegerard5 8 месяцев назад
In the Phiippines , they are underage. Pedophiles goes to the Philippines.
@toddshaw9441
@toddshaw9441 8 месяцев назад
I know it ain't right but it DOES seem worse when us men do it tho!! 😂 Idk y!
@julian_1111
@julian_1111 8 месяцев назад
It’s the same as men going to Colombia, Thailand or Philippines. Just let these women be happy. They’re in their later years so enjoy the company.
@chrislewis845
@chrislewis845 2 месяца назад
Having knowledge about history, psychology, and socioeconomic this video helps me garner much understanding as to why we see things as this. In can sum in few words-- circumstances make us humans who we are. Here, older women can't find love and companion among their own race . On the other hand, young Gambians are living in poverty hellscape . Now, both worlds merge -- commodity. Something is in it for all parties.
@MyDataBasebyErrolGuard-rr5rl
@MyDataBasebyErrolGuard-rr5rl Месяц назад
Excellent work really very interesting, never if knew this about Gambia, lovely people.
@Nosey_Rosie_Posie_
@Nosey_Rosie_Posie_ 5 месяцев назад
This work you are doing is so important. I've been watching documentaries about older British women scammed by young men they meet while on vacation in various countries across Africa. The British women are always portrayed as the victims. However, I can't help but consider whether they would be considered victims if they were white men dating very young girls in Southeast Asia. We need more unbiased perspectives such as your own that show both sides of the story. Well done-please keep up the great work!
@carolynnalvarez
@carolynnalvarez 5 месяцев назад
Took the thought out of my brain girl!!
@Morrosoy28
@Morrosoy28 5 месяцев назад
But these are woman and not men, race is irrelevant.
@redpillsatori3020
@redpillsatori3020 4 месяца назад
Normally I would agree, but this documentary is obviously thinnly-veiled anti-yt-ism. It's a joke to think that grandmas, in a foreign country, are somehow "predators".
@whowho1769
@whowho1769 4 месяца назад
​@@Morrosoy28 Gender is. Race? Not so much... quit being wilfully oblivious. It's ALWAYS about race. And by the way, you can thank the Europeans for that.
@ankushchauhan2049
@ankushchauhan2049 4 месяца назад
Your comparison is a little off. Older men with money date younger women from all over the world, not just old white men and not only the Southeast Asia. Rich and old men date more white women than Southeast Asian. Sugar daddies/mommies is the frequent term used in the scenario. Both the sides enjoy their reason for the relationship. If old British women dating young Gambian women is frowned upon, then all relationships in the world where older men date young women should be too. If your reason of comparison was that western men are seeking wives abroad, that is a totally different scenario, they find love, marry, and together start a family where they can be financially stable. No one exploits the other in that relationship, and many a times both the partners earn.
@kreh1100
@kreh1100 9 месяцев назад
This host covers some great situations. I really enjoy his documentaries ❤
@marcoprolo1488
@marcoprolo1488 9 месяцев назад
Bad mouthing his own friends. ??????
@camore5422
@camore5422 9 месяцев назад
@@marcoprolo1488 bad mouthing whom?
@michaeldrakessoG
@michaeldrakessoG 8 месяцев назад
He is too medling. He needs to keep out of the business of others. If you are trying to find out something do your research but don't try to influence the outcome of others. Mind yoir business and allow others to live the lives they choose. On the other hand, does he really know these people? And what does he really know about them?
@kelliott7864
@kelliott7864 8 месяцев назад
He intentionally stirs up drama and pretends it was by accident.
@rodrigosays
@rodrigosays 2 месяца назад
Why is it that when I click on your channel all you have are weight watchers videos? I'm trying to look for the docs you guys produce, I don't understand what this trickery is about? Edit: it still takes me to a separate channel when you click Only Human next to subscribe, but the links in the transcript in the description takes us to the proper channel. You might want to fix that?
@ehidiamenmichaele.4082
@ehidiamenmichaele.4082 Месяц назад
"I don't think I've got the full picture here 🤔" 😂
@cmessett11
@cmessett11 8 месяцев назад
Oh boy, the host is spilling ALL the tea! Telling the dude's mom about the marriage, the house with the rental sign; it's risky business getting involved in other people's relationships!
@Loyale1229
@Loyale1229 8 месяцев назад
Yeah… he’s a sneaky instigator… I was looking at him sideways throughout this whole interview
@mystuff8579
@mystuff8579 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@rodericksmith859
@rodericksmith859 День назад
He messy af. He's too biased even though he's trying not to but he is
@talishak100
@talishak100 9 месяцев назад
P and Bob the Builder are hilarious!! They seem just fine Bob has a grey beard and neither seems they are using each other. They are having fun. Michelle is delusional and her husband's family knows all about it. 🤣🤣
@zamo9266
@zamo9266 8 месяцев назад
The "Engineer" aka "Plumber" aka "Painter", She's also a liar. She lied about his age, then the rental. Every time she was caught she'd bite her nails or get defensive
@GypsyGirl317
@GypsyGirl317 8 месяцев назад
Yes, that one is an interesting situation. I think she will end up very vulnerable.
@AK27inAZ
@AK27inAZ 8 месяцев назад
Yeah, there's clearly something wrong with Michelle. She and that dude she married can't even keep their lies straight.
@donnaevans5131
@donnaevans5131 8 месяцев назад
I’m worried for Michelle too.
@spinrash6000
@spinrash6000 8 месяцев назад
@@zamo9266i hope she is not their slave somethings are off with that situation. I hope her family sees this and gets her help. The guy tried helping her showing her the picture of the rental. She lies like a victim.
@peacelove7706
@peacelove7706 21 день назад
Looks like beautiful beaches, but I’ll never ever go there now. I’m not going anywhere to be constantly harassed by young men….To me that would be very frightening after being abused as I’ve been by men. That would totally freak me out!
@user-kk8pq2nl4n
@user-kk8pq2nl4n 6 дней назад
I, as a man, could not lie and cheat in order for someone to support me .when that time comes, and I can no longer support myself. I will end my life before I become anything like these guys.
@xenostim
@xenostim 4 месяца назад
11:25 omg the granny taking her disco-nap in the middle of the club 😂😭🤣
@LastEmperor86
@LastEmperor86 3 месяца назад
Maybe she is even ded😂😂
@tinastardust7793
@tinastardust7793 3 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂
@tinastardust7793
@tinastardust7793 3 месяца назад
This mess is SAD. What about the white hair granny with the cane, standing on the curb??! 😂 They deserve to be scammed!
@amanuel9596
@amanuel9596 3 месяца назад
​@@tinastardust7793 I think of it more as End of Life Care
@nosreg9514
@nosreg9514 3 месяца назад
LMAOF!
@emilypenick9414
@emilypenick9414 8 месяцев назад
Wow. What an amazing piece. I'd love to hear Gambian women speak about this as well. Perhaps it could be the next chapter in the docu-series?
@nomaddiaries9790
@nomaddiaries9790 7 месяцев назад
Gambian women dreaming for white man too
@Nethanda
@Nethanda 7 месяцев назад
Why is that? Lmao. They don't need to. They're counting the cash earned by their brothers and boyfriends from naive old women.
@lindamallia1486
@lindamallia1486 8 дней назад
This Deserves a subscription. Very good .enjoyed it ,,
@vassilikikyriakopoulou6283
@vassilikikyriakopoulou6283 11 дней назад
This makes me feel so sad about both. But mostly for the people that are from Gambia ...
@AdADglgmutShevanel
@AdADglgmutShevanel 3 месяца назад
I love the reporter. He's good at speaking and hearing all sides.
@ReshonBryant
@ReshonBryant Месяц назад
Ngl thought that was John Forte in the thumbnail. On some tf?🚬🧐
@kitiowa
@kitiowa Месяц назад
I notice how conservatively he is dressed. I get the impression he is trying to not "fit in" with the prospective partners. Imagine coping with tropical heat wearing long pants/trousers after leaving winter in Europe.
@ReshonBryant
@ReshonBryant Месяц назад
@@kitiowa I don't recall the man sweating at all🌝
@b.1162
@b.1162 9 месяцев назад
Transactional relationships come in all forms across the globe. In fact, that's the norm throughout history. Marrying for "love" is a very recent concept. As long as all involved are adults and have no cognitive issues, who's to judge.
@shanazblacksun7201
@shanazblacksun7201 9 месяцев назад
A fulll grown man should never be in the relationship and can't provide...
@lolaispure4296
@lolaispure4296 9 месяцев назад
​@@shanazblacksun7201tell that to the grannies with the goodies. You think they dont know money dictates power dynamics?😂😂
@bre_la_bennett
@bre_la_bennett 9 месяцев назад
And that all individuals involved are willing participants.
@organicforlife597
@organicforlife597 9 месяцев назад
The parties in this regard do have cognitive issues, the women are typically codependent and the men covert narcissists! Trauma bonds, exploitation all the way!
@christigoth
@christigoth 8 месяцев назад
yeah, because old women often do have cognitive issues.
@gbattle8926
@gbattle8926 2 месяца назад
This is not a scam. It's no difference when women hook up with older men. They aren't going to the UK. The older women are going to Gambia for a hookup. If they like it, I love it. If all parties are happy, who are we to judge.
@joannelabastide9008
@joannelabastide9008 2 месяца назад
We have similar issues in the Caribbean. 😢
@Millesolovely
@Millesolovely 5 месяцев назад
This man is incredibly compassionate. ❤ This ended up being something very different than I expected.
@katherinewagoner741
@katherinewagoner741 5 месяцев назад
I gathered that he is pure in heart. Gorgeous Soul!
@partridgefamilybus2021
@partridgefamilybus2021 4 месяца назад
Not at all. This operations is a scam run by grown men, taking advantage of old and lonely women for their money - yet this fool tries to convince you of the opposite. Insanity.
@tinastardust7793
@tinastardust7793 3 месяца назад
​@@partridgefamilybus2021 A fool? You're the fool! He did nothing of the sort---he questioned their motives all along! How stupid of you that you don't have enough brains to follow the story!!
@xdranzer0004
@xdranzer0004 3 месяца назад
Flip the sexes around
@jessyba3471
@jessyba3471 3 месяца назад
Wow you're incredibly misinformed.​@@partridgefamilybus2021
@9empresswear
@9empresswear 4 месяца назад
These are the passport girls, lmao!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MyNameIsUnavailable
@MyNameIsUnavailable 3 месяца назад
Basically 😂 Ran through and useless at home
@9empresswear
@9empresswear 3 месяца назад
@MyNameIsUnavailable , Is this the same for the passport boys ?!!!
@Sjood-qs8ol
@Sjood-qs8ol 3 месяца назад
@@9empresswearthey’re just mad no rich sugar mommy wants to sweep them off their feet because they have nothing to offer but bitterness
@Phironyx
@Phironyx 3 месяца назад
Passport grannies
@SeminarioMAE
@SeminarioMAE 3 месяца назад
passport fossils
@DarlinReal
@DarlinReal 2 месяца назад
I really enjoyed this vid. The guy with the 68 year old girlfriend keeps saying he loves the "European bank" but he's pointing out the property saying, "this is MY property". She looks good for her age. P looks really good. Her teeth stands out. It's automatic to look at it. I can't help but remember my experience with a British dentist.
@molamindemba6221
@molamindemba6221 19 дней назад
Great
@fairdose
@fairdose 2 месяца назад
I used to teach English in Turkey about 25 years ago and back then, it was British, German, Dutch, Russian, Ukrainian, Danish women in their 50s+ who would hook up with a a 21 year old Turkish guy. In fact some of my male students, when I asked them why they wanted to learn English, they openly said, "so I can work at a hotel or resort and meet a rich German woman who will look after me." I guess Turkey isn't a cheap as it used to be so now the women have moved on to Western Africa.
@acjfiddler
@acjfiddler 8 месяцев назад
How can it be an equal exchange of like minded people when the men are impoverished. You do what you have to do and make the best of it. I can't help but feel that Gambian women are being cheated out of a future with a Gambian man.
@spinrash6000
@spinrash6000 8 месяцев назад
Right it’s not black and white All the men are lying the wife and kids are at the other house
@AbsentWithoutLeaving
@AbsentWithoutLeaving 8 месяцев назад
acjfiddler - Well, but not really. In set-ups like this, the man most likely will have (if he doesn't already have) a second relationship - with a Gambian woman/wife as well, and they will raise a family. And it's highly probably (if not certain) that everybody will be aware of the arrangement, even if it may go unspoken for their whole lives.
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 8 месяцев назад
What about lonely old white men that buy love from poor countries
@suziecreamcheese211
@suziecreamcheese211 8 месяцев назад
The Gambian women are in on it.
@jurassicthunder
@jurassicthunder 8 месяцев назад
if they marry with Gambian women then the poverty line will just circulate forever making it harder for everyone now and future generations. It's a compromise they have to make
@Catherine-2008
@Catherine-2008 8 месяцев назад
I really like the interviewer! He seems very caring and compassionate.
@georgecostanza2695
@georgecostanza2695 16 дней назад
What an incredible story, great insight!
@diannawoodard9777
@diannawoodard9777 7 дней назад
This was one of the most eye opening, what goes on!!! Racial imbalance, an is it scam, or real! Thank you much for this!
@AMYP6
@AMYP6 8 месяцев назад
I feel sorry for the native women there. It’s terrible.
@ariamason7406
@ariamason7406 8 месяцев назад
Trust me the native women are just fine, these men for sure aren't celibate when those old women aren't around.
@janeclayton151
@janeclayton151 8 месяцев назад
I feel sorry for everyone needing prescription antibiotics for their sexually transmitted diseases. @@ariamason7406
@lyrics2022
@lyrics2022 8 месяцев назад
Those women's feel young with those gambian mens
@InglesAlaMexicana
@InglesAlaMexicana 8 месяцев назад
@AMYP6 These ladies are paying for the attention they are not getting in Britain because their male counterparts have been chasing the pretty young things in developing countries for the longest time.
@EmmanuelGodson
@EmmanuelGodson 8 месяцев назад
Don’t feel sorry for the women cause it’s vice versa, the younger Gambian females too hunt older white male tourists
@albionswede
@albionswede 10 месяцев назад
AKA men who take money from older women and pretend it's about "love." Neither of these people are having a real romantic relationship. It's all transactional.
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 9 месяцев назад
Just like it is with young women who take money from older men. It is transactional and cross generational. Points to bigger issues of employment and governance in general
@HaggisMuncher-69-420
@HaggisMuncher-69-420 9 месяцев назад
As long as both parties understand it's transactional then that's fine.
@marcoprolo1488
@marcoprolo1488 9 месяцев назад
All relationships are transactional. And ?
@claudesantolini6335
@claudesantolini6335 9 месяцев назад
These couples seem to be enjoying themselves, good luck to them, even if the women only have a few years to live, it seems to be a lovely place to be happy in. What is love, anyway, mutual attraction and enjoying being together. Bless them all.
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 9 месяцев назад
@@claudesantolini6335 life is too short. Let them enjoy it.
@kkeyz1344
@kkeyz1344 Месяц назад
This was very interesting and respectful
@abdiiddmohamed6384
@abdiiddmohamed6384 2 месяца назад
Very good work man u are the real guy
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