@@rosiefaerie3315 They use as a reason to speak to you rudely whilst expecting to respond to them respectfully. Forgetting that respect is earned. Call em out on it watch their ego get hurt.
Adults seem to have this superiority complex for having you and paying bills, feeding you, etc., when that’s literally their job. Congrats. Stop being abusive and toxic to your children.
I cried during this video. I know first hand how this abuse affects these kids once they grow into adults! It is highly damaging! There is a reason why mental health is such a big deal today.
When I was 14 my dad asked me to do something with a rake other than raking leaves and I did not understand how to do it and I asked him to show me. He then said “ I’ll show you” then he hit me in the back and my legs with the spikes part of the rake. There were holes in my legs. I went inside the house to cool off then my sister started pushing me out the door because she did not want the baby to see my face. My dad heard us arguing and he came around the corner with bolt cutters and hit me with the sharp part. I ran to my favorite restaurant and hid behind the drink machine their he came in looking for me but did not see me. The same year he hit my mom in the face because she was talking with her finger in hid face. He shoved laxative pills down my sisters throat ( she had never swallowed a pill before)while my friend was there . Then kicked my sister and her baby out the house when she stood up for her younger sister getting pills shoved down her throat. Pinned me up against a wall when I was 17 and picked up a frying pan and threatened to hit me in the head with it for playfully bumping into my sister which she had done a few minutes earlier. He also is verbally abusive and I have lost a lot o go respect for my mom because she tries to downplay the severity of the situation.
Nah, you should’ve gone to the police straight. Your dad or your mom aren’t your parents anymore if any of them have hurt you like that. Dude, that’s sickening. I’m sorry that happened to you.
I would say a good chunk of the video were toxic situations but about a small portion were people being overdramatic or just not having the life experience to know better like the girl calling her mom crying when she was in the wrong. But Dee's right: it does bring some awareness and that's good
The jelly bracelets are like these thin silicons bracelets that you wear around your wrist it was popular like back in 2003-2007 or 2008 and was gaining popularity and everybody wanted them. Anywho in highschool there was a game call snap there was like different colors for the bracelets like Yellow: hugging Purple: kissing Red: lap dance Blue: oral sex Black: intercourse if a guy break off one of those bracelets off your wrist you and the guy will do them like for example: if the guy/girl break off the yellow bracelet you and the guy/girl proceeded to hug. The bracelets in highschool showed that your sexually available to do these things especially in a friends group. There would also be alot of girls/guys in those days would wear all the colors and waited for one to snap.
@@number3665 Lol i was in elementary school during those times that game was very popular i'm sure kids still play it sometimes around highschool or so
When kids are in situations where their brain is in turmoil, when they feel like they really could die this time, even if they're wrong, it's what they feel. So they start filming. Whether it's intended as evidence for investigators if something goes wrong or just proof for themselves if they start getting gaslit by the abusers after the fact. Some of the reasons kids will post them online during or after the fact include a cry for help to the world and the people in it, begging for relief from the constant and/or unrelenting pain and hurt. Another is validation from the outside world that what they are experiencing IS abuse, that the emotions they are experiencing are totally 'fair' in relation to the ordeal, and that their life is truly as shitty as they feel it is. And the most simple reason, that they're not alone in what they're going through. They have kin through their shared experiences. Often the kids just want someone to hear their cry for help. I have no doubt that there are attention seekers out there that fake being abused for sympathy and offers of help whether monetary or otherwise, but saying that kids who are truly being abused would hide it instead of asking for help is inaccurate. Everyone's experience is different so everyone's response is different also. Having a platform with established methods of getting what you want to get out there is enormously helpful. Thankyou for attending my TEDtalk:-)
yesterday my 20 yr sis started kicking and punching me (im 13 btw) for saying to my baby brother to come to me cuz he was crying when she was grabbing him away from going to me and i starting tearing up cuz that hurt(when she was kicking me)and my mom yelled at me to go to my room. like first off what did i do(btw im the middle child of 9)its not toxic but like🙄
Regarding the girl in the forest, if you look at it from a survival perspective, if something worse happens to her and/or she becomes M.I.A, people might notice she's not posting and may be able to notify someone or send help. Then regarding her dog: that's a hard decision to make. Obviously, anyone would want their dog to be safe, but being in the girl's shoes, she's a young woman all alone without safety or a place to go and very likely is not thinking rationally. A big dog like that could help if she was being attacked. If I was in any one of these people's situations I wouldn't know the first thing to do. Count your blessing people it's an awful world we live in.
wow these videos are scary and sad. Damn I'm grateful to God for blessing me with a loving and caring family. The love of God in my parent's hearts has made them into great parents that I hope to be like when I have my own family someday. They've never cussed, verbally abused, nor physically abused me and my brother. Can't imagine what it feels like to live with an abusive family.
I thought I'm the only one who knows who's coming up the stairs and I'm realizing I might be in a abusive household. Most of the statements in the tiktoks I could relate too. My household can be physically abusive but it's like a slap. And I definitely know they are mentally abusive. I'm only 14 so I can't leave what do i do?
Just stay in there, find some positive this and try to know your worth , they keep trying to bring you down if they repeatedly do it, remember and say to yourself that you will get out of this and you'll show them in the future that hey, you have been the best person you will ever know, but dont have kids, i just wantt to tell you, cause deep inside your emotionally unstable,
If there’s a family member who can take you in, then try to do so. I’ve been through a lot and had to wait until I was in my 20s for an opportunity to get out on my own. Abuse is terrible and it stays with you for the rest of your life. Stay positive, reach out to family if you can and bring it up to someone you really trust. You’re not alone.
My step dad was very very mean always yelling at me and my sister's. Yelling at my mom and saying bad words to her but he never hit her. I still respect him and he teach me how to fix's vehicles, and show me how to work. But my step dad was a father figure and I'm thankful for him.
It's a Good to know your not the only one tht goes through this type of shit i could relate to almost everything in this video except the gun and etcc...
Ik abuse is serious but some of these kids are Wildin. And Why post shit on TikTok instead of asking for help. Crying over ur parents taking ur phone is ridiculous. It’s different if u own ur stuff but if u don’t, you can’t get mad if they take it away as a punishment.
Indian parents don't argue they just beat you with a slipper and then talk nice to you afterwards .... Why bcuz slipper hurts you for a day but abusive words may hurt you mentally and affect you physically forever
I wouldn’t say my mother is toxic because Ik she loves me, she only can’t control her anger, but it normal because she has anger issues. But sometime her words will hurt me and yeah she sometimes beat me up, I get used to it, something I wish that I can move out but I can’t I’m in a country that doesn’t allow you to move out, if your parents didn’t let you then you can’t, only if you tell the police about the situation you are in, I try to do that but I couldn’t I guess I still care about her feelings, even though I’m 22 I can’t move out sadly lol, ohh if you will ask me how did you know that your mother love you, Ik that because she buy me the things I love like snakes and clothes. Why she get angry? She get angry if she was on a bad mood or if my father don’t give her the attention that she want and she will get angry I accidentally broke something or even if Accidentally made a mess even if it water she will kill me lol I swear she get mad at everything
Not so sure anymore in 2020.... lots of examples and cases where people are setting other people up with a 5 min. video after abusing them for years, faking it to be part of a movement or just to get plain attention.
I feel like a lot of times the parents are being assholes because the kids are disrespectful then start recording. There is no context in a lot of these.
I will remember this comment to all the people who hurt me physically, mentally and emotionally...and for those who always makes me wanna kill myself..but I'm a bad Bxtch and don't give them anything..This is my promise that someday I will be rich and follow my dreams..And live the life that I always wanted away from this TOXIC PEOPLE...
I remember one time my mom got trash from the bathroom and the kitchen then threw it in my sis and I's room and told us to pick it up with our mouth (we didn't of course)
