I am so scared for the girl who bled for a year straight because that could lead to being infertile, and I have had 3 miscarriages so I hope the best for her
The depo shot did that to me and it's so hard for me to get pregnant and now I very rarely even have periods and I'm haven't been on birth control since then and when i do bleed its so uncertin when it will stop so yea it's scary
@@thisistheday597 yea thst don't tell you the side affects outright just expect to be cured by the thing that created the problem. I was only 16 I didn't know anything about that. I was toldbot was a bleeding disorder and they tried to give me a blood transfusion which I refused. They told me it was a stomach ulcer that could be cured by BC and they gave it to me before even checking to see if it was and when they did they was like it's gone now and I was like how do you know if it was even there in the first place. Can't stand these "only for the money" doctors. I haven't had any type of intimacy in the last 6 years cause I'm scared that I could start bleeding or find out I'm permenantly infertile. It's ridiculous. I'd never suggest it to my daughter. Maybe a implant that just blocks but any hormonal BC nope
@@jazznazz4203 yea that's scary for that age smh. They told me it could be a sign of pcos so I was like ok even thou I didn't know what it was til I looked it up smh
The part about assault at the end really got to me. My first time, we had agreed to use a condom. But when it actually happened, he didn’t put one on and I was too anxious to even speak (selective mutism/social anxiety). And then the next day, while he was at work, I saw a brand new box of condoms in his room...so I’ve always felt kinda strange about that. But the second person I was with wouldn’t stop texting me until I agreed to go out with him. And I said I only wanted to go get some coffee and I was completely uncomfortable with going to his house...and then we ended up at his house. And when I think about that, even though I said no multiple times and was pushing him away, I still feel like maybe it was my fault for even going out with him in the first place. I’ve convinced myself that nothing is really wrong. Even after the second time I saw him, when he told me that it was my fault because I was just too beautiful. They really don’t teach you how to handle situations where you actually like the person. They make it seem like it’s only a thing that can happen between complete strangers that you have no feelings for.
I'm so sorry that happened to you those guys are fucking jerks don't ever feel like it was your fault if you meet people like them cut them off the moment you see a red flag
@@blinkfeverjjlr5059 thank you💖💖 both these things happened a few months ago so I’m still struggling with feeling guilty about it. I’m 19 and I have terrible taste in men, it seems haha
@@jailyn5085 man that’s so sad hopefully u can get over it at some point and move on. U seem like ur doing pretty well so far hope u meet the right person
-jailyn You have NO reason to feel guilty, both of those situations are rape, you were taken advantage of. So sorry you had to experience that. My suggestion is if you see things going a certain way, explicitly say "I like you but in no shape or form am I interested in sex today" if it continues and you're saying no (you have to say no, sex is adulting and adulting calls for some hard nos) literally say "this is how rape begins". Sometimes the word rape brings people back down to earth. If not, start screaming :( if you're feeling uncomfortable make them feel uncomfortable.
Pure respect. I have a 4 year old & when she gets to the age of discussing sex, this video will initiate the conversation. So interesting & opens up the dialogue.
@@thekid7831 Obviously, your grammar is shit. But what a silly statement. Education is key. How to put a condom on. Birth control. U probably have 27 kids.
@@rahnia8803 yes, education is key especially regarding this topic that doesn’t seem to be normalized. They are probably cringing because they were never approached about this topic and society made it seem like it was wrong and awkward to talk about this. As a parent, you should be educating your child and not letting them figure it out themselves. Usually children follow their curiosity and start watching porn at very young age, that is traumatizing and damaging to the brain and their mindset. You are doing good by educating your child
Just by watching this video it has opened my mind a little more and made me rethink a couple things in my head. This video gave me some insight on how I can be better for my partner in our relationship
My first time was so painful I couldn't go through with it, and they guy stopped talking to me afterwards making me feel used AF. So definitely be with a guy who will take his time with you and not just shove it in like tool.
Dee, I used to always watch videos of other girls around my age (15-17) and they always talked about pain and bleeding and I was so scared bc I can't even use tampons but luckily I saw ur video about ur experience. Thx so much for clarifying
@@roddrickcarter2805 it was in fact funny, the little remarks Dee made here and there however the circumstances and content wasn’t which I knew wouldn’t be, as a female myself I know losing your virginity is a serious topic and wouldn’t laugh nor smirk about anything of that nature, if you scroll in the comments you’ll even see lines people dropped that were funny.
@@ajaneeason9373 I made that comment in addition to yours. It was never to imply anything that you said. Only saying it's really good to hear different perspectives from different women on a personal subject matter.
the black woman with short hair in this video was also in the video about what it's like to be a virgin. If I remember correctly she was also wearing the same shirt. I'm not sure if it made sense to have her in the first time video if she was still a virgin at the time of recording.
Assault is a legal term. Do you understand how horrifying that is that despite consent you can legally say you were assaulted based on how you feel??? That's not "deep" that crazy.
You gotta understand, if you feel uncomfortable you should always speak up. I know people and me myself I have anxiety and people have other things that makes to scared to talk. You can revoke consent anytime you want
I am one of them few who had sex just before my girl got her period and she was beyond a freak. She was doing all kinds of things I never thought of. Woke up and she had her period, ran her shower then got her into the bath and changed the sheets.
@@marshmwllo here couldn’t find it at first.If you look in the comments you should find someone who mark the place she starts talking ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FcrWSWkuSfg.html
@@elisvec4613 Her comments in her video just brought me back to Bi girls I have come across in my own life and the response I had towards them. Good for her though if she is Bi. And I am not trying to date her so its not a problem.
9:00 coercion definitely a problem, especially when the perpetrator or both are under the influence. Idk if I would call it assault, more bullying, but its mosdef rape.
