Toxic In Laws | Joint Family System me Wife ko Kaise Rakhe | Meaning Full Bayan 

Mashallah mashallah very good 👍 Same mere jaisa mai b Aisa hi karee Alhumdulillah sab khush hai ji ji Bete k Kam hai Biwi nd parents ko barabar dekhey Alhumdulillah v good 👍 💞 Hum sab khush hai Islam k Hisab se

Joint family se khauf aane laga ..qki hm khud joint family me rehte he bcoz no privacy....a lot of interference... different behaviour..nature ki wajah se tolerate nhi kr pate ek dsre ke behaviour ko or jb bache ek saath khelte he tb unke. BEECH ki ladai ne jb bade bacho me ladai hojati. He .. isilye i am rrally fade up from this...ya Allah hm sbko seperate. Zaati makan ATA farmaye jo sukoon Wala ho barakato Wala Rehmato Wala Khushiyo bhara ghar ho AMEEN sumameen ya Rabbul Aalameen

Mam ny boht acha tariqa bataya,

Kisi ki 17 years main shadi m bawajood itni achievement hain, mashallah. Positivity👍

i also face toxic mother in law.or husbnd bilkul sath nhi dyty.Allah sas kohidayt dy .now a days mostly susralis are munafiq

Bahut zarooi topic h.

Toxic inlaws is nothing it is the husband who never support Who listens to moms their judgement who never gives time to his families

MashaAllah she is so nice , bohet Acha samjati hain. Bohet Acha bolti hain.❤❤

Assamualiakum most most honour able mam MaashaAllah

Ma Shaa Allah dear sister love you ❤

Mera bhi ye hi tajurba hai but agar ham deen ke hisab se chale to koi bhi preshni nahi hoti hai alhamdulillah me bhi aisi hi karti hu ek dusre se sas bahu allah ki makhlok samajh kar mohbbt kare galtio ko nazar andaz kare ghar me khushiya khushiya hi meri bhi shadi 17 age me ho gyi thi or bete ki shadi 22 me kardi alhamdulillah sab acha hai

Ma Sha Allah very nice sharing 👍👍💕👍😋

Jazakallah aap bht acha samjhati hain.

Bilkul sahi boley Alhumdulillah

MaashaAllah

Mashallah🎉🎉

MashaAllah best lecture

Sir plz focus on topic how to live with toxic daughter in law ???why u don’t point out as today there are cases with very good mother and father in law but the girl who is coming wants to live just according to herself and give no respect to elders advices etc

Ali Bhai Molana waheedudeen sahib ka aik lecture me ny suna tha joint family saas bahu toxic problem k Bary me onho ny aik sentence me hi problem solve kr dia k ap shariaat k mutabik life style rakhy .to hmy apna life style shariat k mutabic apna chaheay inshaAllah

Humare Prophet Muhammad (SAW) ki konsi beti in-laws men jakay rahi theen? Over sensitive nhi hona chahye PARENTS ko, make your children capable of coping with life and set them free. EXAMPLE YE KHATOON NHI HEN HUMARI, EXAMPLE UMMEHAATUL MOMINEEN HEN HUMARI. Allah-o-Akbar, may Allah help our daughters live peacefully and fully with complete deen and Dunya. My 9 year old son knows that he will leave to go and live with his wife just as his sisters will go to live with their husbands insha Allah. For me and my husband, Allah is our best companion, friend and provider insha Allah.

Maa se thodi na shaadi ki hai, jo unhe khush karte phire. Why doesn't she get adjusted with new generation? Its all about EGO ! The thing is the girl takes time to understand and get along with new environment. Some come from good family some from toxic it's hard for them to trust anyone easily so give her some space be kind to her and respect her parents her siblings treat them well. Trust me she will love you and care for you more than your own son. And also never humiliate her in public or before your own daughters. Inequality humiliation scaring her, physical abuse, disrespecting her parents treating her and her siblings as slaves all of these things will one day burst out and definitely you'll pay for that. Phir kehta hain bahu kharab, biwi buri. Koi kisi ka dushman nahi hota jab tak aap usko ek wajah na dedo. So please gentle and fair with your d.i.l and one day she will return it with kindness.

Mashallah ❤❤❤

Joint Family system is a big khuf , Mam Asiya did set nice domestic system 👍💯👍👍👍👍💚💚💚🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️💛💛💛💙💙💙

Nice 👍

Mashaallah ❤️❤️❤️

ماشاءاللہ اتنی پیاری ساس کہاں ملتی ھیں

Same situation

In-laws especially saas can never b happy ..never ever

Zilat he zilat hai shadi mai or saural.hai bss or kch ni

Sheikh wahid sahib good analysis

good job ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Mari inlaw ma zada tar baho deprason ki pacient han

Why a divorced sister in law is on mission to seperate her brother from his wife? While the wife has been played a role of sister/ therapist/ wellwisher at her tough time if divorce. Is there any solution?

Agar buree Maa bap ne alag hi rehna he sub kam khud krne he to por insan olad na peda kre???

Ap caption lgayan k kese ( joint family me better trekay se raha jae. )

Separate ghr k lye koi dua btaden pls

Mam phir ap kis ky sth rhtee hain, r jis ka beta he ak ho us ka kitchn alag ho ga to ap kia krean g

Jo mrd na ahl hote he Woh apni zmedari biwi pr daal kr khud masum bn jate he One sided mrd bhut bura hota he Biwi ko respect nhi depata

Useful video bhai,but some plces their are the issue of BHABHI,saas ke jagah hai qk saas nahi hai tu sub unke baat mante hai. , she is disturbing our home..

Please ap log caption achi lgaya krein video ki. Itni piari batein or caption itni negative achi nhi lgti

Ap sab keh sakti hyn kar skti hyn mgar wo kese kryn Jo greeb hn chota sa ghr os me ik maa e ho wo b bmar ho ya bap ho bas m ye kahu gi ap shukr kro Allah pak ka ap logon k liy mushkilat khri na kro

Assalamalaikum mam ,I'm from India and I live in my portion then also time to time my in laws specially brother in law interferes in my life passess comments along with his mother and they have taken all control of my husband ,without the permission of mother and brother my husband cannot take me and my son even for outing or to my parent's house.

Is mamly ka mukhtsir khulasa yehi Hy har bv maa bnti Hy

Meray shoher her baat ma ko bataey haen agar khana bhi khaen bhair to bataey haen mamas boy 😢

Me 3 devar sas susar or 5 nando ki joint family me rehti hu sub ki shadya ho gi he 15 sal meri shadi ko ho gy he. Me apne tjarbe se bta ri hu k her jga fayde b he or nuqsan b he.... Chahe vo sepret ho ya joint.. Caments me mene zada tar sub ka sepret hi pera he lekin muje ye btay k pir vo burhe Maa baap kha jay.... Ap k pas vasayl the ap ne bacho ko alag kr dya jis k pas ni he vo kya kre.....

Attention please Kya khali in-laws toxic hosakty hain daughter in law nahi .

Assalam o alikum sir me india se hun mera naam Roohi khan h me in aunty or Ali bhai se baat krna choti hun kese kren hm apney masail ap kt kese ponhcay

Or agar husband kee mother bahoo kelyi alag kitchen delwani pi aiteraz kare to kia karna chayea???

Kya ye mugheera luqman sahab ki walida hein?

Rehna hi chahye Allah pak ki kasam azaab hai join faimly system

Is she is mother of mugarah luqman?

But aysy nh krty na mard mry husband nh krty aysy main bht ladli the apny baba k Ghar but susral main bht mushkil time Hain mri shdi ko 4 month hony ko Hain main pregnant b Hun but main Roz roti Hun mujy nh smj arha Allah pak mri help kb kry ga mujy bs apny Rab sai umeed Hain bs mry husband apni Maa ke sunty Hain

Brother the topic is ausum but every person has their point of view but mostly after marriage son change befor marriage he is difference after marriage mind changed son forget all the thing parents has sacrifice in his life the reason wife changed mind put negative thing in mind about son parents and if the boy is simple in nature hd don't have balance tu handle the situation bring this topic

Hr jaga toasy ghr nhihoty

Vo Maa paab jis hamre shoher ko peda kya bara kya shadi ki is lye k bv k ate hi alag ho jy

Ab to saas sasur nndo ki family ki khidmath krni padti hy😢😢😢😢

Wo jo 8 ghnty bchy hyn. Us me soyen na?

Mam i want to talk to u how would i?

Nothing about toxic bahu yet Yeh bhi aik issue hai

mujhy ye samjh nhi ati jb parents old aur weak ho jaen to sons ny he unka Sahara banna hota ha zimadari uthani hoti ha ye kya stupid solution ha k gher me unka kitchen alag kr do.bety to jobs pr chly jaty hain to kya old mother khana bnaye g?

Manko Khush na karen Allah ko Khush karen baqi sab se mil jul kar rahen apni hadud men rehte howe

What's the name of this lady

I did not listen the whole think , add is playing now but I can surely say that in this video they will advise the “bahu” to have patients and husn e alhlaq.They never give a practical solution.

Assalamoalaikum, mujhay pata chala hai agar aap apnay saas aur susar ko ammi aur abu kahtay hain tu un ki dua aap kay liye sagay maa baap ki tarah hu jati hai. Is pakistan main bohat si khawateen masail shikaar hoti hain kyunkay saas aur susar bud dua day rahay hotay hain aur woh buri baiti mashoor hu rahi hoti hsin. Is liye maira mushwara hai uncle aunty, chacha chachi, mamon mami wagaira kahain.

Kitchen alg hony k ilawa b trbiat bta ri hoti k yeh tor kr rakhny wali jor kr rakhny wali ni

If husband is not at home live in abroad

Aurat her roop mai toxic he hoti hai agar uski tarbiat kharab hai aur tarbiat kaun karti hai aik aurat jo ya maa hoti hai ya behen ya koi friend

Agar ghar mai 1akeli maa hai usse bhi alag rahene ko bolte

Separate is best

Joint system hona hi ni chahea

Aik larki jo itny rishty pyar krny waly chor kr aai hai agar aik husband uska krta hai to SAS sy brdasht nai hota hai wo hr time apny baity ko tany dyti hai tum aysy nai thy tum wesy nai thy 24 25 sal apny maiky guzari zindagi larki ny us sy chaha jata hai 1 month mein unky rules smjh jaye or wahin apni baiti same situation apny susral daikhti hai to maa dukhi hojati hai or apna dukh b sunati hai k tera bhai aysy to teri bhawaj aysy mtlb glt bahu nai susral hota hai woe bahu jo apko paka kr dyti hai SB krti jo Farz b nai uska sirf naiki hai phir b byty ko glt kaha jaye or yeh k bytiya kam aati hain to juty maro aysy logon k sir mein tafarqa khud dala ab ro baith kr

Aqila rashid ki wording hi bta ri k kitni achi bahu ha jo k khud jahil ha isi lye sas ko jahil keh ri ,now adays lrkio ki koi trbiat ni unyn srf paisa ur ayashi chaye ahtera m ur dusron ki respect ni seekhi ,swal hi paida ni hota ap dusro ko izat den to ap ko izat nA mily , lrky ko jo bat ni hoti jis ki haqeeqat koi ni hoti khud sy ghr kr bd guman krtin rehtin ,bilkul un k sath b agy chl k asa kuch ho ga ,kahen saso ki ghlti ha aj kl bahuno ki ghlti zaida ha ,jo jorny ni torny ati han ,

O hello please ye discussion su sun ke Pak gayi hu There should be something for which women's should fight for their rights. Especially those who r suffering frm husband and inlaws They dont have support frm their fathers house pls help out instead of giving lectures

Or Jo shaks kaha apna mu sa k ma biwi ki izat ni kra skta or biwi sa kaha k ma ani ma k sath ho tmna rehna ha to raho ni to tera Jesi bari

Wohi maa bap biyah kar laty hyn

Lekin aaj ki ladkiyon ko tu koi bhi sath nahi chahiye

Don't say toxic, it's a very negative word

Ap apni mat btay ap iman wali h jo nhi kre kuch biwi ko toh

Islam ki roots se deviate krenge to adapt the Hindu joint family ways from the subcontinent and you will be ruining the lives of so many who listen to your show for guidance. Allah-o-Akbar! You should not bring this lady to your shows. She is delusional about her household, we don't know how her daughter-in-law really feels. She stated herself I sometimes end up interfering, just a spark is enough to start a fire in a relationship. May Allah guide us on the most righteous ways, I NEVER want to be the cause of such hurt especially to someone else's daughter who is meant to be my son's life-partner.

Yeh srf nmood onumaish ka program ha is mh b lrkio ki trbiat ka koi anser ni , rating just