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Toxic Pastor Humiliates Wife In Sermon, She Leaves Him, Then Found Mysteriously Dead In River 

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@hotfishfromsharktale
@hotfishfromsharktale 2 дня назад
The sexism, woman-hating, incel talk is so obvious. It's scary seeing people like this have a following.
@The_Super_NOVA
@The_Super_NOVA 2 дня назад
The "if I look at another woman, it's her fault because she's immodest" speech was infuriating
@Truthorfib
@Truthorfib 2 дня назад
You’d be surprised how easily people can be manipulated. Heck even the general hate for Chinese and Muslims was a targeted form of mass manipulation that people dont really understand they were manipulated into hating or looking down on them.
@sarahusrey-ld4zu
@sarahusrey-ld4zu 2 дня назад
wolves in sheeps clothing
@addiegonzalez2567
@addiegonzalez2567 2 дня назад
False prophets. The writings in the wall 🚨💯
@bassssaasuuuup
@bassssaasuuuup День назад
Project 2025 is heavily endorsed by the church
@Pixelbxyz
@Pixelbxyz 3 дня назад
Honestly even if she just killed herself he still murdered her. He made her life hell and pushed her to a breaking point. He is the reason she is dead.
@mellowmallow4855
@mellowmallow4855 2 дня назад
​@@thr3monthrestart325you sound like someone who would tell a depressed person to "stop being sad and be happy". Did missed the fact that she was having trouble with her mental health and had this toxic person in her life since she was FIFTEEN and her brain was underdeveloped still. It is not easy to see the red flags that early. And it's harder when you have people giving him a pass for some of his action. For example, cheating on his wife.
@mskvllr
@mskvllr 2 дня назад
Murder & suicide is two completely different situation.
@mellowmallow4855
@mellowmallow4855 2 дня назад
@@mskvllr never said he murdered her. You just missed the point of the previous comment which was the fact that he may have allegedly pushed her into committing suicide through his deplorable actions.
@pinguufuuuu
@pinguufuuuu 2 дня назад
@@mskvllrif someone drives you to a point where you have to take your own life, is it really that much of a difference? you can still go to jail if you drive someone to commit.
@LunarEleven
@LunarEleven 2 дня назад
​​@@mellowmallow4855 Absolutely nailed it. The type who loves memes that say "Choose happiness" and believe that people who are depressed just don't want to be happy. Good for them, having never experienced clinical depression, thinking having the blues like everyone does is the same as black waves of darkness and nothingness crashing down on you over and over until you just can't stand up again. Must be nice to not know what it's like, and to not have the burden of understanding and empathy for those who do. What luck. 😊
@Alicest.
@Alicest. 2 дня назад
He met her when she was 15, and he was 29. That fact can't be contested. We have a verdict, your honor.
@CaseyMarie11-11
@CaseyMarie11-11 День назад
@@Alicest. Also Stephanie keeps saying 15, but everything else that I have heard and seen has said she was only 14.. That she was 14 when her family moved to South Carolina and join the church. That's when she met JP and he immediately began grooming her 😔 This poor woman never had a chance.
@treubaking
@treubaking День назад
⁠@@CaseyMarie11-11I don’t think it matters. 15 or 14 still too immature and too young to be trying to take away her choices so easily . no matter what age he was, he was a grown man and new better!! she had no choice like you said. no chance to live her own decisions and mistakes.
@Flamsterette
@Flamsterette День назад
@@treubaking It's a year difference.
@-myharlequinnsapphicarch-
@-myharlequinnsapphicarch- 9 часов назад
@@Flamsterettematurity wise there is not much difference, youre pretty much at the same maturity level at both of those ages.
@JAD94
@JAD94 2 дня назад
I’m also side eyeing the people who attended these “sermons” faithfully.. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@Aria-vy2dt
@Aria-vy2dt День назад
Fr I wonder if anyone called it out of just walked out of there
@juliaelrod2154
@juliaelrod2154 20 часов назад
Yea, I would have had a sermon of my own on the way out the door to find a better church.
@MariaIrbis
@MariaIrbis 2 дня назад
Mica said “if I end up with a bullet in my head its not me its JP!” SHE SAID THAT! Believe her!!
@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh
@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh 2 дня назад
no she didn't, no need to invent things
@melissamoonchild9216
@melissamoonchild9216 2 дня назад
​@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh uh, according to this account, she did. what do you know that her sister didn't?
@cvntryqueen
@cvntryqueen 2 дня назад
​@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh the video literally states that, no need to be so quick with your all knowing judgement 😅
@MariaIrbis
@MariaIrbis 2 дня назад
@@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh Mica’s sister said she told her that.
@CaseyMarie11-11
@CaseyMarie11-11 2 дня назад
She actually did say that to her sister,at least according to her sister.
@iSmileyPerson
@iSmileyPerson 3 дня назад
“I have a dominant personality! Guess who else has a dominant personality? Satan lmaooo!” Bro what
@maddievaris
@maddievaris 3 дня назад
I laughed out loud at "Satan, Hillary Clinton and Hitler". Like... Yeah. Dude told on himself on more levels than one.
@HellsFurby
@HellsFurby 2 дня назад
He is an absolutely deranged person, imo.
@dagbeet
@dagbeet 2 дня назад
if the shoe fits
@JS-yf9xh
@JS-yf9xh 2 дня назад
Right!
@lauraanderson8785
@lauraanderson8785 2 дня назад
I think that he also just told us his political beliefs since he named Hillary Clinton, but not Trump. Don't get me wrong, both of them are trash, and either or both of them could've been named. It's just funny how you can tell someone's political beliefs based on which one of those they decide to group in together with Satan 😂
@toyyatoy
@toyyatoy 2 дня назад
Wait, he’s gonna blast his dead wife’s texts into public. Wowwww. He killed her.
@oliverjohnson4146
@oliverjohnson4146 День назад
As someone from SC. He 10000000% did it. He’s so guilty it’s not even funny. His family is old money and has big roots. He knew he could get away with it
@jragon9215
@jragon9215 23 часа назад
Why does death, chaos, and destruction always follow women around everywhere they go?
@__aesthetic.__
@__aesthetic.__ 6 часов назад
@@jragon9215what do you mean by that? if you’re implying that it’s the women’s fault you’re a sick person
@chloiephillips1905
@chloiephillips1905 6 часов назад
@@jragon9215because of men like him
@HeisenbergFam
@HeisenbergFam 3 дня назад
Marriage is like a gamble: - marry the right person, life's 10x better - marry the wrong person, your life becomes hell
@ManiyaVinas
@ManiyaVinas 3 дня назад
more for women than moids, married moids life longer and earn more money, married women live shorter lives and are broke statistically single women are happier than single men
@Spooky_Platypus
@Spooky_Platypus 3 дня назад
That’s why I’ve never done it and never will
@K-xj3wj
@K-xj3wj 3 дня назад
Unfortunately seen the second one with multiple friends... Scares me to let someone in my life...
@avemskers
@avemskers 3 дня назад
@@K-xj3wj In gambling, basically a 9/10 chance you’ll lose.
@AlisonMendez-bx8tp
@AlisonMendez-bx8tp 3 дня назад
I understand where you’re coming from but there’s definitely steps that should be taken before one gets married. Sometimes ppl act like it’s all about good luck or bad luck, when the truth is that, everyone must do their due diligence!
@xmayoburkex
@xmayoburkex 3 дня назад
The police failed every victim that man harassed and assaulted. They need to be held accountability as well as their abuser.
@beanscream
@beanscream 3 дня назад
they’re likely abusers too. they tend to cover up for each other.
@damien678
@damien678 3 дня назад
​@@beanscream I will never get the case of that police department Steph covered out of my head. Never.
@adlan_kacak
@adlan_kacak 2 дня назад
that`s why some people already lost trust toward law enforcement .... =(
@spicynoodleman
@spicynoodleman 2 дня назад
the police chief being a part of his cult should tell you why he got away with everything
@bcross198334
@bcross198334 2 дня назад
So true. They really failed her and everyone before her.
@courtneypham2928
@courtneypham2928 2 дня назад
JP telling Allison to “pray” when his mistress’s husband died was definitely a threat
@littlemisslipstick2999
@littlemisslipstick2999 2 дня назад
It's important to remember that in South Carolina you are legally required to be separated for one year before being allowed to divorce UNLESS you can prove in court a few very specific scenarios (infidelity, abuse, or substance dependency). It is my feeling that this is why the original divorce was dropped and replaced with the legal separation.
@tusaniabigby9715
@tusaniabigby9715 3 дня назад
Pastors like these bring shame to Christianity , they don't care about Jesus or God all they care about are their egos and material wealth . #JusticeforMica
@ivylinmoon7211
@ivylinmoon7211 3 дня назад
Hey you guys know about the miryang case in korea. It happened in 2004. Three female were gang raped by 44 middle schoolers in a span over one year. No one went to jail. The parents of the rpist blame the gurls. And college didn’t want to accept victims of rpe. But now it is a big thing in korea because a youtuber exposed the predators. Stephanie i hope you cover this case again please bring attention to it
@ivylinmoon7211
@ivylinmoon7211 3 дня назад
Hey you guys know about the miryang case in korea. It happened in 2004. Three female were gang raped by 44 middle schoolers in a span over one year. No one went to jail. The parents of the rpist blame the gurls. And college didn’t want to accept victims of rpe. But now it is a big thing in korea because a youtuber exposed the predators. Stephanie i hope you cover this case again please bring attention to it
@user-gd8ib3hv7e
@user-gd8ib3hv7e 3 дня назад
thats the majority of pastors lmao
@NotEvenLeah
@NotEvenLeah 3 дня назад
@@user-gd8ib3hv7eit ain’t but okay
@clvsterfvckofwhatthefvck7981
@clvsterfvckofwhatthefvck7981 3 дня назад
They're narcissists ...just like 'god'.
@hotfishfromsharktale
@hotfishfromsharktale 2 дня назад
The fact that this woman reached out to police for help multiple times and they outright refuse to help her, but he was able to so easily get her admitted in a mental facility is actually terrifying
@4bbb711
@4bbb711 2 дня назад
misogyny
@mollysministuff
@mollysministuff День назад
She did everything right by telling the police and having supportive family members, but this tragedy still happened :(
@catherinegrace2366
@catherinegrace2366 День назад
They treated JP’s wife before Mica the same. They refused to help her.
@Banana-lk7tf
@Banana-lk7tf День назад
But from what it sounds like, they really couldn't legally do anything because she was married to the guy. I dated a guy once who's ex started harassing him once she found out that he'd moved on. They'd purchased a house together, but she moved out once they'd split up. She literally threw a rock through the window one night, so he went to the cops, thinking they'd do something about it, but they told him that since her name was on the deed, she was not doing anything illegal by damaging her own property and they couldn't do a thing about it. She'd also just show up at the house whenever she wanted. She even peed in his truck and told him what she'd done, but the truck was legally hers as well, so again, the cops couldn't do a thing.
@nihilistcipher
@nihilistcipher День назад
@@Banana-lk7tflol peed in the truck
@gabriellesharp2436
@gabriellesharp2436 2 дня назад
I think the footage is probably old. Quick question... who tf filld their gas tank and leaves an entire untouched sandwich (ready to be eaten in the car upon returning to the car) when you plan to self exit?? It doesn't make sense to do things that point to the plan of future use
@JubbysDragons
@JubbysDragons 2 дня назад
I think this death is very suspicious but its is actually common for ppl who have set a date to exit to create plans for the future, like a planned meeting with family a week after or setting a dentist appointment. Even though they know they wont make it.
@OneVintageWitch
@OneVintageWitch 5 часов назад
It's not normal, and usually when women commit suwer slide they make sure there isn't a mess as to make it easy. And very rarely a gunshot wound.
@caittails
@caittails 2 часа назад
⁠@@OneVintageWitch It’s very normal, lol. It’s also not unheard of for women to use a gun, and there would be no mess if she falls into the water. I don’t think she did it, but there’s nothing in these details that rules it out.
@caittails
@caittails 2 часа назад
Those can totally be explained. She needed to fill her tank so she could get out there, and women often think ahead for things like “I should fill the tank so whoever finds the car can get it out.” She brought the sandwich because she was hungry but didn’t eat it because she realized it was pointless. She was definitely murdered, but everything can also be explained away as a self-exit. Nothing’s actually logical in that situation, and things you think don’t make sense are often common.
@sherriv4860
@sherriv4860 2 дня назад
All these "diagnoses" that JP "claims" she had were probably all his. The guy is a huge narcissist.
@crunchyxeggroll
@crunchyxeggroll Час назад
Right?? He was definitely self projecting. May she rest in peace
@marie3058
@marie3058 3 дня назад
As a person who was moved around to different churches. I learned most pastors tell on themselves in sermons all the time. For example one pastor said they struggled with materialism and money. Then they were later fired for embezzlement of church funds 💀
@adlan_kacak
@adlan_kacak 2 дня назад
the power of uno reverse card in real life, hahahaha! XD
@katt1257
@katt1257 2 дня назад
😂😂 lol
@laurevisagie678
@laurevisagie678 2 дня назад
Matthew 17 v15: “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits". And this guy has some real rotten fruits
@1dvs_bstd
@1dvs_bstd 2 дня назад
My step father is a Pastor and it's crazy how many of these monster's traits he has including publicly airing out marital problems disguised as sermons. Every. Damn. Time. Whenever the opportunity arises, he delights in telling any one who will listen how he's done this and that and how she's unrepentant, not born again, a sinner, etc etc. This shit was coming from a man secretly giving money to women in the church without my Mother's knowledge. I just cut to the chase and straight up told him, if anything happens to my Mother, I won't stop my revenge with him (I really, really hate the guy). He knows me enough to know I'm not bluffing.
@lawnmowercum
@lawnmowercum 2 дня назад
yeaa my best friend back in primary school's dad was a pastor and he was pretty abusive to her apparently, also when i went to a sleepover at her house i drew a smiley face on my friend's arm when she was sleeping and he started screaming at me that its bullying, like bro why are u yelling at a random 12 year old u never met
@Nermeen.
@Nermeen. 3 дня назад
I'm Muslim, I love how you aren't religious but when you make a video on a case that involves religions you're always making sure to be nice and to separate the beliefs from the actions ...I deeply respect you as you respect people and don't want to offend anyone, I'm not Christian but I know that what I'll hear in this case isn't a part from Christianity. Every group of people and every community and every belief and every place on earth will have good and evil humans.
@unknownunknown2576
@unknownunknown2576 3 дня назад
💯💯 "never forget to say FREE palestine " motaz azaiza iykyk ❤🇵🇸
@Nermeen.
@Nermeen. 3 дня назад
​@@unknownunknown2576 insha'Allah Palestine will be Free 🇵🇸 ❤
@Starfish-kx3du
@Starfish-kx3du 3 дня назад
Am I the only one who thought this was a real person?
@Nermeen.
@Nermeen. 3 дня назад
​@@Starfish-kx3du I didn't understand your comment, what do you mean?
@tiffany2130
@tiffany2130 2 дня назад
It doesn't matter what religion or which part of the world, sadly, there will always be bad people.
@jordanguillory7180
@jordanguillory7180 2 дня назад
He should still go to jail for abuse and grooming.
@ianweston310
@ianweston310 53 минуты назад
And murder, or arranging a murder.
@vell2994
@vell2994 День назад
Why are "pastors" diving into human psychology so much. Like stfup. From where do you get the right to talk about it. I'm saying this as a Christian.
@commanderwaddles3483
@commanderwaddles3483 2 дня назад
Your pastor pressuring you to become a fleshlight & not say anything critical to your spouse is a fatttt red flag lmao
@Ganymedia9
@Ganymedia9 2 дня назад
Don't be silly, he did say something critical about them! Men are weak and prone to stray, which is why it's so important that women sacrifice and submit and bend over backwards for them. No no, that doesn't mean that women should be in charge, that'd be crazy, but he did call out men for sinful thoughts and leaving the cabinet door open! (Sarcasm, if that wasn't clear)
@fvckfascists
@fvckfascists День назад
I really don't get why you wouldn't want your wife to be an individual with their own thoughts and needs. I'd feel so icky if I knew that my wife was only staying quiet and sleeping with me whenever I want just to appease me. They just frfr see women as sex toys that can get pregnant and clean.
@KarenMicha
@KarenMicha 2 дня назад
Anyone else just loving Stephanie’s attitude during this video? She was so over his BS before she even started filming. Thanks for going through the exhausting task of researching this case so we don’t have to!
@madellynpineda5020
@madellynpineda5020 2 дня назад
I noticed too. I was as well. Just from reading headlines of news articles lol. They say it all. Thanks Stephanie for making a very through video about this case.
@lizstrom5439
@lizstrom5439 2 дня назад
She might be burning out. She's been so diligent in her uploads, and it's so much heavy material. I hope she takes a break here soon and is taking care of herself. Just watching and listening to her makes me feel protective. You can tell she's a good person.
@total.calamity33
@total.calamity33 День назад
I literally said “oh, miss sassy pants! Yasss!” at point where her feelings definitely showed through. I don’t remember the exact part, but I do know I agreed with her sentiment.
@treubaking
@treubaking День назад
@@lizstrom5439Yeah. If she feels like that hopefully she does take some time. I’m sure she has to fund her research teams and her life.
@ssmith968
@ssmith968 День назад
Actually, no. She kept saying "allegedly, that's an opinion". Those statements don't sound like no BS. It sounds like she's unsure about him being an a$$ and is almost defensive of him. Just my opinion.
@ohaiyoashchan
@ohaiyoashchan 2 дня назад
abusers will keep you awake at night because it makes you easier to manipulate. after arguing for hours at night, you're willing to submit to a lot that you wouldn't in the right mind. it's horrible and traumatic to experience
@Panda_Roll
@Panda_Roll 2 дня назад
I think it's telling that in the /walk away/ vid their priorities show. She: "WALK. AWAY." He: " This will be on facebook in a few hours" She: "You'll be in jail in a few hours." She is clearly worried about her safety while he wants attention and validation from "the public" by trying to make her look bad.
@alostkoi
@alostkoi 3 дня назад
"Only God can judge (me), BUT! As a pastor, let me judge every single person in my congregation under the excuse of a 'sermon' :)" Because yeah, clearly that's the godly way.
@seratoninny
@seratoninny 2 дня назад
that man is FAR from God, let me tell you
@jessicapassey2471
@jessicapassey2471 2 дня назад
Such a dumb quote cause I stay judging everyone. No one is safe, especially not him 😂
@v.vivienne3762
@v.vivienne3762 2 дня назад
I get you 😂. People nowadays be worshipping Pastors and not God. If only people read the bible for themselves then they'd see the deception from a mile away.
@KeciAh-sb7dq
@KeciAh-sb7dq 2 дня назад
Disgusting, I don't know how people sit there and not literally walk away from it. The first thing I look at sermons in different religions, if the pastor/father is only talking about personal experiences rather than talking about the experiences of the bible characters and learning from it?. Straight up exit. Or maybe they do share something relatable but always, just always use bible verses as a solution and answer for those
@clark2491
@clark2491 2 дня назад
​@@v.vivienne3762alot.of.people have no discernment. And dont have the wisdom to ask for it either
@Me-hf4ii
@Me-hf4ii 3 дня назад
The video of Mica telling JP to walk away: He was threatening to post a topless picture of her on Facebook… which he did do, and she filed a police report over it.
@itsalwaysteatime3803
@itsalwaysteatime3803 2 дня назад
Would he not be placed on the sex offenders register for doing that ?? In Ireland and the UK . If you do that you have to register as a sex offender. Rightly so!
@katelynbrown98
@katelynbrown98 2 дня назад
​@itsalwaysteatime3803 unfortunately, no. I live in South Carolina, and the cops told Mica that since JP blurred out her nipples, the picture doesn't count as SA. Also since it was posted anonymously, the cops told Mica that there's no way of finding out who posted it. Our laws really need to catch up with the current times.
@itsalwaysteatime3803
@itsalwaysteatime3803 2 дня назад
@@katelynbrown98 that's awful poor mica . Well at least when people commit violent murder in the USA usually when they get life in prison..it means life in prison. In Ireland the sentences for violent and sexualcrimes are shockingly low !
@blue_02
@blue_02 2 дня назад
@@katelynbrown98but he confessed to doing it the "i'm sorry i just wanted to hurt you" can't she not use it as evidence? then it wouldn't be "anonymous" anymore....if that happens could she have filed for like a restraint against him?
@katelynbrown98
@katelynbrown98 День назад
Maybe? I'm really not sure. ​@@blue_02
@sherriv4860
@sherriv4860 2 дня назад
Never ever send or let someone take nude pictures of you. It is easy for someone to blackmail you. Been through it. It's ridiculous.
@piya6929
@piya6929 2 дня назад
yeah...i know people send it or allow it because they trust that person but its better to be safe...and if that person genuinely cares about you they won't be upset if you don't send such pictures
@pinklori13
@pinklori13 2 дня назад
He killed her. Cant change my mind on this he reminds me of Chris Watts.
@MaryGen-xo6zf
@MaryGen-xo6zf 3 дня назад
He gaslights and guilt trips her with religion, yet ignores Ephesians 5:22 “ Husbands, love your wives as Jesus loves the church” Edit: one thing I’ve noticed is that he is incorrectly using his platform to talk about issues that do not relate to God. Those sermon are not Sermons, they are ramblings and rants.
@LolaAndretti
@LolaAndretti 2 дня назад
Also edit *Love
@e.normastits00000
@e.normastits00000 2 дня назад
he talks the most but says the least
@rawfermews4186
@rawfermews4186 2 дня назад
That’s why Christianity sucks. Full of frauds and liars.
@L10N017
@L10N017 2 дня назад
Yes this was definitely rambling. It was disturbing that people are just smiling and listening and clapping for it.
@seratoninny
@seratoninny 2 дня назад
the way he threw shade at women for "talking" so much when he yaps for a living was the funniest hypocritical moment
@toiper8968
@toiper8968 3 дня назад
It’s so crazy that he is so outspoken about abusing women. But It shows what years of not being held accountable and praised does to a person like him. People like him are so scary …
@elizabethphillips7838
@elizabethphillips7838 2 дня назад
As well as all those that ignore what they know has happened/happening. He wasn't fired for any of it including the recent Embezzlement the FBI is investigating him for. He gave a bullshit he is taking time to heal blah,blah, blah!💔😠
@madellynpineda5020
@madellynpineda5020 2 дня назад
I'm more angry at the people who let themselves be blinded and brainwashed by people like this guy. He's not a man of Christianity, or Jesus, he's just a narcissistic evil human who fou d the perfect scenario to carry out his evil life. I'm not even religious, maybe that's why it's so easy for me to see through their brainwashing techniques...
@Laf-gl4mn
@Laf-gl4mn 2 дня назад
Narcissists are dangerous and evil people
@theephemerality3761
@theephemerality3761 2 дня назад
He is just downright vile. It's disgusting to think that someone like that is allowed to be in a position of influence, or even allowed out in society at all.
@Ebizzill
@Ebizzill 2 дня назад
yo.... I whole heartedly believe men are the biggest gossipers. Like I don't know why we're not admitting it.
@laurynholling2309
@laurynholling2309 День назад
Have you ever been around a group of welders or electricians? They turn into hens
@Ebizzill
@Ebizzill 21 час назад
@@laurynholling2309 THAT'S exactly who im talking about! My brother had one of those apprentiship gigs for a trade skill. On his third day he knew what was going on with 60 % of our church, who was messing with whom, who was preggers, who ... ex'd their preggers... bruh. some men stay messy.
@laurynholling2309
@laurynholling2309 10 часов назад
@@Ebizzill 😂😂😂 I used to build struts and was a first woman hire for a company that consisted of half the men being welders. I’d worked with almost all women before and I didn’t hear nearly the amount of gossip I did around those welders lol
@beachesincali7606
@beachesincali7606 6 часов назад
Actually they are. There was this study that showed that men think women talk more than they do. But men actually talk the majority of the time. When women talk for 20 percent of the time they assume they're taking up the whole conversation lol
@Liztastaney7
@Liztastaney7 5 часов назад
True. They use family gossip to gain empathy. Women dont like talking about family. They want to seem happy to everyone.
@gayliljaehyun
@gayliljaehyun 2 дня назад
the way that man texted her family after her death is so fucking disgusting. what an awful person.
@clashwithwords
@clashwithwords День назад
I love the family member that said “fuck outta here!” tho. i’m sure they were far over his bullshit.
@mwah233
@mwah233 3 дня назад
As a Christian that man doesn't have Jesus in him but something else. Breaks my heart ppl like this with issues are preaching 😐
@samwhite414
@samwhite414 3 дня назад
💯 I have a fake preacher in my family
@marana.th4
@marana.th4 3 дня назад
@@em83998 it's actually successfully practiced in a lot of communities, you have to realize american christians are not the only christians in the entire world
@trainingrifle
@trainingrifle 3 дня назад
@@em83998 you'll be humbled and cry out to the Lord later in life. it's always like that.
@MariLionheart
@MariLionheart 3 дня назад
Many people with issues latch onto religion to excuse their actions and behavoors. My dad was one of them, he was a narcissist, religion seems to attrsct those people but i dont blame them. We are very flawed so no wonder why but at the same time its dangerous for them or theyll delude themselves
@ashleyduckworthyt3224
@ashleyduckworthyt3224 3 дня назад
⁠@@em83998it’s so RARE for me to find ex Mennonites! My Dads side of the family are all very active in the church… I’ve heard the most ATROCIOUS sermons in those churches. Racism and bigotry ran amok. I’m still hoping some of my family members will break free….
@thescentedhome
@thescentedhome 2 дня назад
I don’t understand how the congregation just stood there and obeyed him? What a loss of a beautiful person, he has no remorse. This is what narcissism looks like and evil. I can’t stand his voice! Anyways Stephanie I’ve seen this story around and your version was the most comprehensive and thorough. I love your videos- vlogs too.
@Gray.Karen333
@Gray.Karen333 2 дня назад
"He yaps alot." Lmao!!!!!!! Stephanie is so done with JP!
@estelalala
@estelalala 3 дня назад
oh gosh i hate when "pastors" use religion to get away with saying and doing the most disgusting shxt.
@ZoeBay-vn1hc
@ZoeBay-vn1hc 2 дня назад
FORSURE!
@Birdladyyy
@Birdladyyy 2 дня назад
People use religion as a crutch; they think it’s a shortcut to being a moral person. There’s no such thing as “making the religion look bad” -- these kind of people ARE BAD people, preying on those who have been groomed or willfully brainwashed. Narcissists know where to find people who will give them power, no matter who you are or what you believe.
@4bbb711
@4bbb711 2 дня назад
you mean men?
@BasicSolar
@BasicSolar 2 дня назад
​@@4bbb711 just saying but like this is sexist too
@zizikadoh9468
@zizikadoh9468 2 дня назад
​@@4bbb711 this is the most sexist thing I've ever heard
@SKZemiliaSTAY
@SKZemiliaSTAY 2 дня назад
Mika's dad said the gun was found 40 meters from her body. It was also reported that the water was practically still so how could her heavy body or the heavy gun "float" away when the water is essentially still? And just because she "calmly called" the police doesn't mean there wasn't someone pointing a gun to her head to make her do that. And the fact she let people know that if she's found with a bullet in her head...it's him. Also, as a victim of abuse myself from a narcissistic sociopath, they gaslight you to the point when you literally don't even want to live, so even if she did do it herself, he's 100% responsible. She most likely had little to no mental health issues until she married him. I can say that with personal experience. I was never mentally ill until I met my abusive ex. He drove me to mental illness. You have no idea to what extent immense mental and physical abuse can do to the human mind. It's absolute torture. I believe this man is guilty regardless of whether she did it herself or he did it to her (in my opinion). It's extremely obvious.
@JubbysDragons
@JubbysDragons 2 дня назад
The teo used casings, if one was used in her, it would mske sense that the second one was used prior to the call, to make sure she stays calm on the call, maybe making her recite it and when her voice waivered he shot next to her. Then after the call he shot her dead. Maybe
@strawberryshortquake
@strawberryshortquake День назад
See I remember her sister saying she said if she gets shot or killed it’s him not her. So what I’m thinking maybe he did hire someone or did it himself and she was at the point where she just didn’t want to fight anymore with this monster. OR my other thought was maybe when she was on the phone talking calm it was because he or whoever was hired threatened to hurt someone close to her like her family and she might have felt defeated I noticed too when I listened to the 911 call she talks slow in some parts and also pauses like she might be with someone and she sounded as if she was trying to drop hints that someone was with her. I saw somewhere too that she bought the gun for her protection and HE KNEW IT! He knew she was gonna buy a gun and himself or again someone he hired followed her that day to the store. Again even if she did in the end take her own life…her blood is on his hands for the way he psychologically and physically abused her.
@ErinMason-pl6om
@ErinMason-pl6om День назад
I had the thought about the security footage of her going into that store to purchase the gun,and having a large tattoo of a cross on her hand.Now when shown standing at the counter,both hands were placed on top of the counter. That shot of both her hands were pretty easy to see and there was absolutely no sign of a large,probably quite dark colored tattoo of a cross on either hand. What if it wasn't her entering the store to buy a gun but the woman he was alleged to have cheated with Sue. Just a thought but enquiring minds would be interested to know if anyone else had the same thought.
@MirnaČudićŽgela
@MirnaČudićŽgela 4 часа назад
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@stephanien374
@stephanien374 День назад
Mr. Mango keep saying “He’s still talking” 😂😂😂 got me laughing so hard
@katlia5681
@katlia5681 2 дня назад
i can’t believe that the members of his church just sit in there, listen and believe him. what is wrong with those people.
@juliaelrod2154
@juliaelrod2154 20 часов назад
These are the same type of folks who think voting for Trump is a good idea.
@MidnightFightr
@MidnightFightr 2 дня назад
I work very very close to this church and a few of my regulars attend/attended this church. One thing I'd like to mention just to show how fucked up that church is, Bernard Kenerson, someone who was in a leadership position at that church up until this case blew up, is a child sex offender. He was charged with sodomy with child, indecent liberties with child and indecent acts with another. The girl was 8 years old and the documents state it was a family member. It happened a long time ago but in my personal opinion, as well as people in the community i've talked to, it's absolutely disgusting that the church let him have a leadership position at that church where he's going to be working with children. that church is just sketchy and weird in a lot of ways.
@AshAniyah1125
@AshAniyah1125 2 дня назад
Wow. I'm sorry you had to work with someone so disgusting and rancid. That "man" shouldn't be considered a human being.
@annieannie2887
@annieannie2887 2 дня назад
Haven't come across a decent church. Haven't come across a righteous pastor. Haven't come across an honest politician. Still haven't met a "good" Christian.
@Altoclarineto
@Altoclarineto 2 дня назад
It’s always those types of people defending each other to keep each other in power. There’s probably people who relate to the higher ups and want them to stay being in power🙁
@catherinegrace2366
@catherinegrace2366 День назад
Yes and even he had to come out against JP. I count 5 child molesters in that church.
@volcanicfae
@volcanicfae День назад
@@annieannie2887are you from the US?
@theempath2428
@theempath2428 3 дня назад
I got into an argument with my boyfriend (now ex, you’ll see why) a few months ago and it was about the bear versus man thing. And by the end of the debate, I realized that he felt exactly like this about women. One of the many terrible things he said to me was “if women were in power, we would still be in the dark ages because women are less intelligent than men” he actually believes that men are better than women in every way. And we had been together for a long time at this point. How did I never know that he felt this way about women? He has a good relationship with his mom too. Another one of the terrible things he said was that all women were w***s and liars and that’s all they would ever be. The only thing they are good for having kids. That’s their only purpose. That and S3X. I lost all respect for him that day, but turns out he never had an ounce of respect for me to begin with.
@adyamonologues
@adyamonologues 3 дня назад
More power to u girl... such people need to be left alone the minute they yap out their reality.
@rmcrave651
@rmcrave651 3 дня назад
glad you got a terrible person out your life
@Kalolelo
@Kalolelo 3 дня назад
It could come from his mom. That’s how my grandma raised my dad and uncles. Instead of teaching them to be real men, responsible, protectors, good sons, brothers, friends, husbands and fathers. She instead would criticize their girlfriends and wife’s and even made some divorce because they were “w****s”. My grandpa was a womanizer charmer and though a terrible example I think she’s the worst.
@Narine7326
@Narine7326 3 дня назад
@@em83998 LMAOOO but she does have a point but the men ofc should be held accountable as they are adults and should be able to think for themselves and change from those ways taught by their mother
@Narine7326
@Narine7326 3 дня назад
@@em83998 very fucking true, nobody holds grown ass men accountable for their actions and always find excuses for them
@maximumdinosaur
@maximumdinosaur 2 дня назад
Mica seems like such a lovely person and it's soul crushing that JP absolutely demolished her life like this, he groomed and manipulated her until she had nothing left :( RIP and you deserve Justice Mica 💕 Edit: i 1000% believe that JP did it. The footage from the pawn shop is so sketchy and her mental health was not even close to being as much of a problem compared to JPs.
@keesh6697
@keesh6697 День назад
As someone who grew up in a similar religious community, it's alarming how unsurprised I am by this pastor's behavior. This is very normal "Christian male" behavior.
@srose1088
@srose1088 2 дня назад
He doesn't look possessed. He acts like a child, and those are tantrums. Like a child that "gets what he wants."
@ssmith968
@ssmith968 День назад
It's both. If you're possessed/oppressed, growth is impossible.
@caittails
@caittails 2 часа назад
I honestly assumed it was heroin at first. He definitely sounds like he’s constantly on some kind of drugs (not prescribed for mental health), which I think makes his behavior look even more dangerous.
@taylorc.6196
@taylorc.6196 3 дня назад
This is my home town. The way the Robeson county police department handled this situation was very odd. Lots of information has changed or new things have been added. we’re all suspicious, Pastor JP. #JusticeForMica 😢
@BR-tm3tk
@BR-tm3tk 2 дня назад
Police was defs paid off
@user-fc8cj9ld8i
@user-fc8cj9ld8i 2 дня назад
This must be more upstate SC. I live in the low country and never heard of this guy.
@sensenyajoseph8401
@sensenyajoseph8401 2 дня назад
They gave him a special "Pastor" badge, there's no way they're gonna go after him fairly ever.
@In.A.Bind.
@In.A.Bind. 2 дня назад
Its in North Carolina near the SC border. Its not in SC. ​@user-fc8cj9ld8i
@taylorc.6196
@taylorc.6196 2 дня назад
Mica was found in Orrum, North Carolina. My home town is in Robeson which was the police department that took on the case. Burnis Wilkins has been in hot water this year already and this case didn’t help at allll
@wynettpearce3235
@wynettpearce3235 День назад
I'm a Christen woman, this church sounds like a cult
@shadowrocksmysocks
@shadowrocksmysocks День назад
Even if she committed self-exit, he no doubt drove her to it. It's murder by proxy.
@daedric_sandwich
@daedric_sandwich 3 дня назад
Bro has cult leader mentality 💀
@areyouahomesegshu7427
@areyouahomesegshu7427 3 дня назад
I’m not religious but if Gods real and he actually has good morals, this man is going to one of the deepest parts of hell.
@Wobbles_09
@Wobbles_09 3 дня назад
100%. Even if he didn’t murder her, the way he treated her was horrible and sick. I really don’t understand how he can be so loyal to God but still do horrible things like this. The deepest pit of hell definitely awaits him
@ReadilyAvailibleChomper
@ReadilyAvailibleChomper 2 дня назад
The bible literally says “Not all who say “Lord, Lord” will go to heaven”. It’s easy to fake being a lover of God, but in the end he will show who the real ones are.
@leftalone9881
@leftalone9881 2 дня назад
He was high on power. Imagine being in his position… He gets up on stage and dozens of people eat up whatever he says- every week. People praise him. It’s fame and power. Glorious to a narcissist.
@annieannie2887
@annieannie2887 2 дня назад
"to the church he owns btw".... Girl, I laughed🤣
@fadingfrost2617
@fadingfrost2617 2 дня назад
Her playing chess alone is normal. Her speaking to herself or people not there is a clear sign of a victim of abuse. Being so isolated, one turns inward. I believe, at some point, as an effort of self-preservation, one seeks reassurances, likely from pretending those known to really love them are there, if only in mind. I'm no psychiatrist, but I do speak from extensive first-hand experience. For all we know, she was praying and he damn well knew it.
@MackenzieNerdyEMT
@MackenzieNerdyEMT 2 дня назад
I've played chess alone many many times. When I was younger I also frequently talked to myself because I was the only person I had to speak to. I didn't speak out loud but I very much so conversed with myself often.
@robinshort5743
@robinshort5743 3 дня назад
IMO JP may not have killed Mica himself, but that doesn’t mean he didn’t arrange her demise. It is said that the fisherman who “found” her items made a call to JP’s friend after her death. The police did a minor investigation immediately assuring the self exiting. Too many things have created unanswered questions. Her body was found too far away from the multiple shell casings. How did her body get so far away in a still body of water. Her father said there was bruising on her hands…so many discrepancies unanswered. There needs to be justice for Mica, and JP needs to answer for his actions.
@KaileyB616
@KaileyB616 2 дня назад
That fisherman is suspect AF! First of all, who in the hell would pick up some random person's stuff that they spotted on the shore from their fishing boat, go through all of it, take it with them back to their vehicle, drive off with it, and come back later in a different vehicle with the stuff to give to the police?? he claims he left because he needed a lighter, but why did he come back in a different vehicle??
@user-kx5en8dg7u
@user-kx5en8dg7u 2 дня назад
@@KaileyB616 also, hearing a gunshot in a non hunting area and not calling the police? maybe its bc im a woman, but if im in an area that is not for hunting and i hear a gunshot, i wouldnt investigate but i would immediately call 911 and try to get to safety
@karenhill4136
@karenhill4136 День назад
How convenient that jps friend was in the vicinity when Micah "offs " herself.....
@NikkiC777
@NikkiC777 5 часов назад
And it's not just the shell casings her body was suspiciously far away from either. Her father said in an interview that her body was over 100 feet away from the actual firearm and also not anywhere near her purse either. So I agree it's super sketchy and more of and investigation should have been done. They owed her that much, to at least give her death a decent investigation, before making their assumptions based off that call.
@user-dh1fv2sq9d
@user-dh1fv2sq9d 3 дня назад
Pastors like this bring shame to every religion, May that sweet young lady rest in peace. Justice for Mica.I apologize on behalf of all Follwers of Christ. Thank you, Stephanie, for bringing us this case. I do want to say I am a Christian who suffered from very serious religious trauma and a Christians actions doesn't represent God. A true Christian would never and should never do anything to spread hate or to harm anyone. God bless you all.❤ And remeber God says women should be loved, cared for, and respected, women are equal to men. And those who struggle remeber God says come as you are.❤.
@ivylinmoon7211
@ivylinmoon7211 3 дня назад
Hey you guys know about the miryang case in korea. It happened in 2004. Three female were gang raped by 44 middle schoolers in a span over one year. No one went to jail. The parents of the rpist blame the gurls. And college didn’t want to accept victims of rpe. But now it is a big thing in korea because a youtuber exposed the predators. Stephanie i hope you cover this case again please bring attention to it
@user-dh1fv2sq9d
@user-dh1fv2sq9d 3 дня назад
​@@ivylinmoon7211 that sounds so awful, i hope she covers it.
@ManiyaVinas
@ManiyaVinas 3 дня назад
You want to imply that Gawd wouldn't approve of this? On which basis?
@user-dh1fv2sq9d
@user-dh1fv2sq9d 3 дня назад
​​​@@ManiyaVinasIn the bible God said no hand should shed innocent blood, also, God says women are treasures, and should be loved, cared for and respected, it's also stated we should love each other, without prejudice.God bless you❤ ❤️
@valeriethechaotic
@valeriethechaotic 3 дня назад
@@ManiyaVinasplease don’t start an argument under a true crime video please.
@brian09989
@brian09989 День назад
How is it that his own patrons can’t see what a manipulating narcissist he is? This guy is really dangerous!
@clashwithwords
@clashwithwords День назад
🐑 sadly
@creamyyy18
@creamyyy18 День назад
When you were talking about mermaid girl and said “she stopped responding after he told her who he was” I CACKLED
@Iam_shawna_
@Iam_shawna_ 3 дня назад
Imagine staying with someone who literally won’t let you sleep. He is the definition of a narcissist
@itsalwaysteatime3803
@itsalwaysteatime3803 2 дня назад
My ex partner would do this and then would wait until I fell asleep and then jump on me and attack me . I'm 5ft2 and around 100 pounds . He was 6ft and he weighted 195 pounds and he boxed . This sometimes would go on for days with him attacking me until he was so out of breath he would collapse into the sofa. He would do this over days and days I was so exhausted and in such pain and so afraid of him I just did what he said . I tried to escape a few times I jumped out the bedroom window onto the porch roof and ran through my neighbour hood he ran after me tackled me in the street and dragged me back into the house and people where watching and took their kids inside.. Another time he punched me repeatedly while driving at like 70 mph he nearly crashed into the motorway barrier. He threw me out of a moving car and threw a massive suitcase on top of me and was kicking me back down into the ditch and ripping my clothes off the only reason he stopped is because a truck full of Irish Gypsy men stopped and threatened him . I had to plan my escape because his dad would help track me down when I ran away. Eventually I got away from him because he went to prison on drugs charges but he still tries to stalk my social media and my families social media.we split up 12 years ago . Police never helped me only asked why I didn't just leave..while I had broken ribs and clumps of hair missing my thighs were black from him pinching and punching my inner thighs while he was driving. I now have a nice partner who my ex is afraid of . And I have a big Pitbull who loves me and protects me so I'm not afraid anymore but I still think if he ever has a breakdown I'm Gona need to take extra measures to protect myself. I've told all my friends if I ever go missing or anything happens to me that's suspicious..it was my ex and his father helped him. To be honest I think I have PTSD from it all because he did so many things to over the years that I couldn't even remember everything until I was away from him for a few years . But my comment was more to demonstrate that the reasons why people don't leave is because it's dangerous for them . He would threaten my little sister all the time and that scared me so much and I wanted to keep his violence away from my family and I was ashamed. All his friends and family thought he was a really nice and cool guy . Some men (very few) did see through him but he always distanced from those men, he was a coward. He would never try bully another man like he did to me I'm not ashamed now and I talk about it because so many people go threw these things in silence and if I had of heard another women speaking about her violent partner and openly maybe I wouldn't of felt so ashamed and that I could of gotten more help to leave.
@cherryuu24
@cherryuu24 2 дня назад
@@itsalwaysteatime3803 thank you for sharing with us tea, i do hope and pray you able to always stay safe both you and your family, i hope you know that your experiences and struggles are valid, and i agree with narcissistic has such disgusting dangerous way to always chained you up, even when its over.. sending so much love and hugs to your way, i hope you able to heal slowly by time
@itsalwaysteatime3803
@itsalwaysteatime3803 2 дня назад
@@cherryuu24 thank you for your kind comment❤️ I'm in a good place now and able to talk about it , it took time. Hopefully Mica is at peace now ❤️
@piesolorosos
@piesolorosos 2 дня назад
​@@itsalwaysteatime3803 im really sorry, he is a horrible coward monster who is totally useless! so infuriating people like that exist and authorities dont help
@AikoFox
@AikoFox 2 дня назад
They do that to wear you down, drain you in all ways, your strength, your identity to where they try to make it impossible to leave. They always want to keep you off balance which makes it easier to control a person. You know something is wrong and should or are trying to leave but the person is still trying their best to keep you as broken down and isolated as possible in the process. Then theres the shame and other complex emotions involved. You have to move mountains or have family and loved ones that will move mountains for you so that you can escape alive. Or at the very least, get out hopefully before at least physical ab*se begins. I've had an experience to where I was so ashamed and blamed myself for years. Couldn't even talk about it for fear of being ridiculed and not understood. They also tend to have so many freaking "friends" that would never believe it or at least have a small sense of the 'maybe he/she could' in the back of their mind but will be a ride or d'e for that person. Makes their smear campaigns easier with their flying monkeys. The one time I was involved with an ab'sive narcissist and there was also an age gap...he would not let me sleep if he was in a bad mood whether it was perceived to be my fault or not and would not stop the scary hysterics until he got s*x I didn't want to have even if I was barely awake from sleep deprivation. It wasn't just s*x if you know what I mean, but at the time I was too ashamed to admit to myself or anyone else what it was bc how could I let that happen to myself when I've heard so many other stories about those types of ab'sers, studied it and should know the signs. Its alot more going on than the "why didn't she just leave" that some ppl say willy nilly. It affects every aspect of you, and you're not completely that super strong willed "you" for some time. I found out that he was also cheating and taking adderall that was not prescribed to him in order to be able to stay up all night like that. I feel so bad for Mica bc she seems like she was so full of light and even in her darkest times still trying to shine and be free and he was an evil anchor....that's all monsters like that are- evil anchors. Always trying to dull, ab*se and not let her have any peace. She really did try and to me, it seems like the entire system as well as that looney bin church failed her. She made reports to the police (showed them proof on top of it) and the church and "community" knew what he was doing to her. Even if she pulled the trigger, he still has blood on his hands. He played the main part starting when she was only 15 years old.
@kirstenbush6058
@kirstenbush6058 2 дня назад
Gaslighting and manipulation at its finest. He is so disgusting. He might not have physically pulled the trigger, innocent until proven guilty and all, but he definitely is psychologically responsible. His behavior is so gross and I really hope she gets justice because he needs to be stopped before he ruins anymore lives.
@shristi1970
@shristi1970 2 дня назад
The police need to take a look at them self. Wtf . The police blamed the victim . They didn't protect her when he psycho husband was stalking her .
@erinahara4115
@erinahara4115 2 дня назад
There's many men like this in the world. Stay safe out there ladies
@shandibobandi
@shandibobandi 3 дня назад
He is a NARCISSIST 💯 😢 Sooo Sad. He can’t take ACCOUNTABILITY for any of his actions, and gaslights her for HIS actions.
@Angel-nk4jm
@Angel-nk4jm 3 дня назад
Exactly. The way he added her friend as an audience to the chat while he sends defamatory text. Making him sound like a victim when he is the aggressor.
@monekos1094
@monekos1094 2 дня назад
​@@Angel-nk4jm Yep. I believe it's called Triangulation, which is a tool narcissists love to use!
@charissa6648
@charissa6648 2 дня назад
One of first times where that word applies. Yes, he is
@DianaOsazenaye
@DianaOsazenaye 2 дня назад
they always do that
@degenerateangel6891
@degenerateangel6891 3 дня назад
Him telling Allison that his mistress's husband drowned seemed vaguely threatening to me. Idk
@nintenL0
@nintenL0 21 час назад
I lived in this city for 8 years and my mom still lives there, actually only about 15 minutes from the area where the church is located. I could not believe this story when I first heard about it, and I'm SO GLAD one of my favorite true crime podcasts/channels is covering it, as you all always discuss the issues so deeply. You did an incredible job on this horrifically tragic story.
@siaoliao
@siaoliao 13 часов назад
The fact that Alison tried to report JP's sexual abuse of minors to the police and the police said nothing could be done??? What...on earth?!
@chinaking918
@chinaking918 3 дня назад
All the “shows” he put on was just him trying to create a storyline/paper trial. He wanted everyone to think she was crazy so when he kills her (allegedly) he can say well I already told y’all she was off her meds and crazy etc. The whole adding her bf to the group chat while accusing her of all kinds of things was his way of creating a witness. He a serial cheater yet a pastor?!?!? Guilt tripping her with religion knowing she’s a devout Christian. Such a disgusting man. He did this idc what anybody say HE DID THIS!
@alisonmercer5946
@alisonmercer5946 2 дня назад
100 percent he did it
@madellynpineda5020
@madellynpineda5020 2 дня назад
We all know he did this. The ones who don't are probably his church brainwashed left over members. Because even the police know he did this and are helping him get away with murder.
@laurierice7687
@laurierice7687 2 дня назад
@@chinaking918 I think it was his ex wife he added to the chat. Not a bf.
@chinaking918
@chinaking918 2 дня назад
@@laurierice7687 bf as in Mica bestfriend.
@squidiki
@squidiki 2 дня назад
Hey so. I have Bipolar 2. Obviously this is a case of domestic abuse, and mental health can range on severity. But Bipolar 2 exhibits hypomania and long term depression. When I experience hypomania, I feel "normal" and jolly before fluctuating back to depression. Hypomania literally means little mania. The mania that this guy preaches about is exhibited in Bipolar 1 not 2. It's a small detail but I feel like it shows a story that he's spun rather than her reality.
@maddievaris
@maddievaris 2 дня назад
@@squidikiOh gods THANK YOU, fellow BP2er here. I almost typed out this very comment several times but was too frustrated to finish it every time. He did describe psychotic/manic behavior but that does NOT occur with BP2. He was lying through his teeth. Also his comments on lithium are very weird to me, weight gain maybe but I've never heard of anyone slurring their speech due to it, and I'm on more lithium than either one of them (according to his claims).
@ChestnutDynamo
@ChestnutDynamo День назад
Fellow BP2er and 3rd year student mental health nurse here. I absolutely agree that the psychosis and mania he appears to be trying to allege are much more like BP1, I have never seen a patient with BP2 exhibit symptoms like that, not to the extent he speaks about. However, I have worked with patients with schizophrenia who have become very unwell and psychotic, where they don’t recognise family etc, but they are never only on lithium if they have both BP and schizophrenia ; all of the symptoms when they become very unwell and need assistance are generally extremely noticeable but can be treated. I’m just not sure about his allegations, more people would notice when someone becomes so unwell, also, slurred speech can be an extrapyramidal side effect of atypical antipsychotics, but then he’s saying she wasn’t taking her medication so even that doesn’t make sense. I mean none of us could know for sure but there are just a lot of peculiar things purely surrounding his information on mental health. Then there is EVERYTHING else…..
@elliart7432
@elliart7432 День назад
Yah for real I know someone with bipolar 2 closely and their mania does noticeably effect impulse control and give them harmful intrusive thoughts they're in danger of acting on, but it wasn't an insurmountable task to put precautions in place once a diagnosis was made. (They also do have delusions and hallucinations while unmedicated but this is only andecdotal)
@jayac1391
@jayac1391 22 часа назад
He influenced her wrongful death, doesn't matter if he physically did it. Justice must be served. It is disgusting how people like JP have a position of power to further influence the mass public who follow these awful humans.
@sheez7530
@sheez7530 22 часа назад
Agreed.
@bliss2998
@bliss2998 2 дня назад
I usually never say anything but I just started reconnecting with my faith and with God. I just want to say that they're good and bad people out there, this man is not a reflection of what true Christianity is and what the church stands for. There will always be bad people in every organisation, so do not let what you hear stop you from reconneith your faith if you are already on that part ❤
@commanderwaddles3483
@commanderwaddles3483 2 дня назад
THE IMPLICATION THAT NO MEN OVERTHINK OR HAVE ANXIETY IS WILD 😂😂
@Jt-Jt
@Jt-Jt 3 дня назад
This man is insufferable. RIP Mica.
@riana8829
@riana8829 День назад
She should be the pastor. "He took the abuse so you don't have to. So why are you taking it?" She's more of an inspiration. This is why I in my very humble opinion female pastors are better.
@bree45beal
@bree45beal 2 дня назад
Oh boy. Been a minute since I've heard about this one. The cartel one was so so heavy. Been worried over you and your team over these heavy stories. Thank you for continuing to share these stories that no one else dare to shed light on. But take care of yourselves too. 💞
@labhrais6957
@labhrais6957 2 дня назад
She didn't have a mental illness. She had that poor excuse of a man for a husband.
@ivylinmoon7211
@ivylinmoon7211 3 дня назад
Hey you guys know about the miryang case in korea. It happened in 2004. Three female were gang raped by 44 middle schoolers in a span over one year. No one went to jail. The parents of the rpist blame the gurls. And college didn’t want to accept victims of rpe. But now it is a big thing in korea because a youtuber exposed the predators. Stephanie i hope you cover this case again please bring attention to it
@ginmarie6299
@ginmarie6299 3 дня назад
Those poor girls. I'm glad they are outing the perpetrators. I hope she covers this.
@SLDFMechWarrior
@SLDFMechWarrior 3 дня назад
I think she already did
@ferarrialamanda3608
@ferarrialamanda3608 3 дня назад
She did it on spotify. Episode 173.
@unknownunknown2576
@unknownunknown2576 3 дня назад
She's covered this
@janniecorrect3972
@janniecorrect3972 2 дня назад
Oh wow. That’s crazy. And so sad
@reallyrics3177
@reallyrics3177 2 дня назад
Can’t believe how many people are that church listening to that guy 😑
@LeXyStAr77
@LeXyStAr77 2 дня назад
I know there was a 911 call from her that day before she died. And I'm sure that's why they are pretty positive it was a self exit. But could there be a chance that he used an AI app to spoof her voice and called?!
@kele5036
@kele5036 3 дня назад
Many including myself believe he had a hand in her death. May not be physical but psychologically, he is insufferable and pushed her to her edge.
@regu7637
@regu7637 3 дня назад
No shit? He obviosly abused her in every way possible for years and years before taking her life!
@LunarEleven
@LunarEleven 2 дня назад
I don't think it makes any sense to even entertain the idea she killed herself when she had a fanny pack with $500, cards, car keys, Bible etc. I don't see any explanation other than she tried to escape, he caught her, chased her down and shot her. She probably dropped or threw the pack while running in the hopes it would be a loud hint but it wasn't enough. I mean, she had even said if she was shot in the head it was JP, not her. I don't know how investigators could be confident in her death being her own choice. The money? The location? No note?? Constant threats whenever she tried to escape him? It's ridiculous.
@Blueell
@Blueell 2 дня назад
Me, five minutes into this episode finding out there are no charges and no official suspects: aw, naw, he’s guilty as SIN. Edit: having watched the episode, he’s three times more guilty than I could have imagined.
@pronoydutta614
@pronoydutta614 2 дня назад
This pastor was way too much of an overt sociopath to pull any of this off without the silent acceptance if the community. I hope they learn from this.
@ronwhite3121
@ronwhite3121 День назад
If she would talk to people who wasn't there, play chess with no one across the board, and the other things he said she did. Did anyone else see anything of the sort. I don't think you can choose when things like that happen, like only at the house alone with him.
@madsxg
@madsxg 2 дня назад
the police failed her. once again, failing victims. she reached out MULTIPLE times for help yet she still ended up dead. even if she did kill herself, if he was apprehended she wouldn’t have been hurt for so much longer than she was.
@Sunnieintheclouds
@Sunnieintheclouds 3 дня назад
That whole segment about what JP was teaching the church during what men and women deal with in marriage, all I heard was basically how to coddle a grown ass man. Gtfo of here with that 😒. I can congratulate and praise as much as I want as long as it’s deserving and I feel like it due to my love of someone. If it’s not warranted (outside of me saying so just because, ie. “I love you”) I’m not gonna do it. Just as I’m not gonna nitpick if it’s minor enough. But coddle a grown anyone let alone a grown man outside of obvious reasons, absolutely not. Pick up your fkn socks, especially if I’ve _been_ asking for a year and a day. I’m not your maid.
@damien678
@damien678 2 дня назад
He also verbatim said a woman's thoughts are worse than *the devil*, as a Christian. Truly astonishing.
@katrinascarlet5637
@katrinascarlet5637 2 дня назад
Seriously! If a man cheats on me for asking him to close cabinets then that's obviously not a man worth keeping.
@Sunnieintheclouds
@Sunnieintheclouds 2 дня назад
@@damien678 He makes me gag! Or when he was “complaining” about how he ranked in the D.I.S.C test? There were a million and one people he could’ve put down that got D as well, but the Devil? Stop flattering yourself, bro 😭😭😭
@Sunnieintheclouds
@Sunnieintheclouds 2 дня назад
@@katrinascarlet5637 🙌🏽 Now that’s something I can yell hallelujah about, that’s for sure 😂
@lauraanderson8785
@lauraanderson8785 2 дня назад
Exactly, and I love how he framed it as a shortcoming on the wife's part if she has to keep asking her husband to pick up his socks or to close the cabinet doors. How exactly is the wife in the wrong here? The husband in the scenario is an adult, picking up his socks and closing the cabinet doors should not be too difficult for him, assuming that he's able-bodied. He advises women to just let it go since it's so minor and for her to just do it herself (i.e. pick up after him). But if it's so minor, why shouldn't he do it? If it's so minor for a husband to close the cabinet door once he’s opened it or to throw his socks in the hamper instead of the floor, why shouldn't he do it? Why should he cause conflict with his wife by deliberately not doing something minor that most adults and even children do?
@summmmer5041
@summmmer5041 День назад
Here I was thinking there was no one out there like my ex husband, but I keep on hearing the things that JP said and they are literally exact to my husband words, when I wanted to leave him for continuous infidelity, I’d constantly be told, “ you not forgiving” “we could be perfect if you could focus on the future”, “why would you focus on small things? Do I not provide for this family? “ “I’ll do therapy and get us fixed, (that time he was cheating while in Therapy 🙄)” He got engaged to another woman while we were still married. It stung but I’m glad he’s no longer my problem . Same as the first wife, I’m not mad at the “other woman”, I wish her the best with that nut case! For the sake of my daughter atleast.
@Che_SB
@Che_SB 2 дня назад
Thank you for covering this story. I love your detailed stories
@rigor_21
@rigor_21 3 дня назад
Pastors like this are crazy. Full of ego and using the words of God and Jesus for no good. Hypocrite
@Birdladyyy
@Birdladyyy 2 дня назад
People use religion as a crutch; they think it’s a shortcut to being a moral person. There’s no such thing as “making the religion look bad” -- these kind of people ARE BAD people, preying on those who have been groomed or willfully brainwashed. Narcissists know where to find people who will give them power, no matter who you are or what you believe.
@gAmEoVeR_ChRiStOpHeR
@gAmEoVeR_ChRiStOpHeR 2 дня назад
Exactly
@NTtbag
@NTtbag 3 дня назад
If my coworker isn't found alive I'd want you to make a case on her. She went missing June 19th of this year... it's been almost 17 days since she's been missing.
@labhrais6957
@labhrais6957 2 дня назад
Oh no, I hope she's found safe and sound 🙏
@JS-yf9xh
@JS-yf9xh 2 дня назад
What is her name?
@seratoninny
@seratoninny 2 дня назад
oh no..
@Maya_hee
@Maya_hee 2 дня назад
Has there been a case? Any reports? What's her name so we can spread some awareness?
@Ganymedia9
@Ganymedia9 2 дня назад
Oh no! I'm commenting so I get notifications on this because I want to know more and help if I can.
@Kahslhwlwnsyel
@Kahslhwlwnsyel 2 дня назад
Such a self obsessed narcissist.. Literally this man pisses me off idk how these people are even alive
@zekova
@zekova 2 дня назад
Religion has the capacity to enable some of the purest forms of evil imaginable.
@robgau2501
@robgau2501 2 дня назад
Sounds like he was vomiting his own issues and personal therapy on his congregation.
@horizonkage
@horizonkage 3 дня назад
Im sick of these cults.
@nexxus1011
@nexxus1011 10 часов назад
Your coverage on every case is just amazing. I’ve heard about this heartbreaking story a few times, and it saddens me each time but you always add details and take the time to share more than most. Thanks to you and your team for your hard work! And your husband is the best. He says and asks questions that a lot of time I’m thinking as well.
@kaitlanparks8061
@kaitlanparks8061 2 дня назад
I’m telling you as a former co-parent (he lost his rights), I ONLY trusted his pregnant girlfriend and subsequent fiancé. This is ABSOLUTELY a reflection of the “parent” with which I had a custody agreement.
@sydneysovern
@sydneysovern 2 дня назад
It blows my mind that people can sit in those services and be like “oh yeah that must be a demon texting me through my friend” and not “oh this guy is insane” it’s so clear that he’s trying to set them up to not believe anything negative about him! Not to mention the whole- conditioning women to allow cheating and other awful behavior by men, shut up and be grateful that your husband gives me his money every month- thing 😭
@Anna-vl2ni
@Anna-vl2ni 2 дня назад
I’ve seen so many pastors say OUTLANDISH things and the congregation always just… claps… I find them to be a hopeless group of ppl.
@Flyonyourwall
@Flyonyourwall 3 дня назад
Lumber River Park is known to the locals as suicide park. Law enforcement Ignores calls from there and the ME doesn’t do a fair job and rules everything as suicide too. I pray LE is actually investigating to bring Justice to Mica, and JP is held accountable
@TimberBlitzen
@TimberBlitzen 22 часа назад
I almost didn't click on this because I've seen a few videos about Mica now and thought I've heard it all. But you've covered her story so well and with so much more detail than others on YT. May she rest in peace.
@Amanda-ev1xz
@Amanda-ev1xz 2 дня назад
Do you remember that guy who was brought up on ‘thought crimes’? Also the girl who pushed her boyfriend to self exit? It’s a slippery slope but honestly it applies here!
@labeskimo
@labeskimo 3 дня назад
So disgusting for anyone to weaponize mental health…
@ScreaamJaniii
@ScreaamJaniii 3 дня назад
And this is why I say your relationship with God is NOT dependent on wether you go to church or not. So many people idolizing their pastors...
@alexandriasalazar8522
@alexandriasalazar8522 2 дня назад
Thank you for covering this beautifully without even being bigoted. You said this perfectly
@XChoclateThunderX
@XChoclateThunderX 2 дня назад
I heard reports that the mistresses husband was a swarfer. He was part of a group that helps paraplegic get back to the weather. He used to swim often
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