Toxic things I had to unlearn to unlock my best life

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I became a better husband, a better father, a better leader, and a better creator when I realized that there were some things I needed to unlearn that I innately picked up on in my environment and in my childhood. But I also needed to learn some things that I taught myself. In this video, I'm sharing what those things are.
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@RonaldLBanks Год назад

What are some limiting beliefs you have? Share your top 2 and let’s talk about them!

@rileywiebe3512 7 месяцев назад

I’m a late person. And I won’t like my room even if it’s clean.

@matthewalexanderkatsock Год назад

Something that’s helped me be my authentic self is quitting alcohol. I’m only 9 days in so here’s to the rest of my life! I’ve started researching healthier diets, packing salads for work, reconnecting with friends. Hoping to pick up journaling again. I always knew what was right and what was wrong, but quitting alcohol has allowed me to put my well intentions into action. Thanks for continuing to enable all of us in a healthy sustainable way. Best wishes to you and the family!

@reeree882 Год назад

Congratulations! Best wishes on your journey!

@cathylynnpietranton Год назад

Congratulations. You can do this.

@emilyhudspeth2004 Год назад

Congratulations to you on your decision to make a new and wonderful change in your life. I've been through something similar to this just not with alcohol, and during my journey I did find that Journaling did help me a lot to get through this. And I still 5 years later after making my decision to change will still find myself writing in my journal when I'm having a rough day, or even a great day that I just want to write down about to make sure I always have that memory. And also having a great support system of people who encourage you in your decision as well, like some family members, or friends. I myself didn't have a family I could turn to for that support, and at the time my friends were the ones that I didn't need to be around because they were still engaging in the very things I was trying to get away from. So that's why my journal helped so much and almost was like a friend to me in a sense. But I did eventually branch out and met some new friends and everything worked out for the best. I wish you all the best of luck on your new change and hope it all goes great for you. And yes definitely journal you won't regret it. 🫶👍

@rajathiyagakarthick3131 Год назад

I’m on a journey to unlearn things and learn new things and be the best version of myself. I didn’t know we have to learn the languages to communicate with different people.

@emilyalbee568 Год назад

My biggest limiting belief is that my anxiety will always hold me back from the goals I want to accomplish.

@mbaylee1974 Год назад

Always appreciate your wisdom, even at your young age of 30. 😊 I’m finally learning at the age of 48 to change my belief system…meaning, the things I have told myself many years about myself and believed they were truths…were really just skewed beliefs and thoughts that formulated because of insecurity and negativity in my life. It’s freeing to truly become you.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You’re absolutely right! It is freeing to truly become you! I’m happy you’ve unlearned some of your own beliefs that, like yon said, we’re skewed and formulated because of insecurities and negativity. Keep growing on your journey Melinda! I’m rooting for you!

@claudiakotouc6748 Год назад

Wonderful thoughts. Thank you. It is always a joy listening to you. For me, fear of failure or rejection is a very limiting belief.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

I can relate! Fear of failure is a big one for me! I even wrote a poem a few years back about my relationship with fear and breaking free from it. You got this Claudia. Remember this: F.E.A.R = False Evidence Appearing Real.

@theabbychronicles-p Год назад

This video resonated with me and a limiting belief that I had was with my parents. I'm am on a healing journey and just recently had to go no contact with a parent. My limiting belief was that you needed both parents in your life to be whole but what I found out after going no contact is that I needed to heal in order to heal before pursuing a relationship. It is sort of like the airplane analogy where you put the oxygen mask on you before you put it on someone else.

@startpage717 Год назад

Agree on the language part for the partner because delicately, with respect but not making yourself small either is a beautiful, safe, caring relationship it makes.

@fdoctor79 Год назад

I am in the process of addressing these limited beliefs. I aspire to develop a growth mindset and implement a routine that allows for productivity, peace, and success. Tfs, Ron.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

I love this! If I can help you in any way don’t hesitate to reach out. I put together a video about different mindsets shifts we should make in our life. Adopting a growth mindset is one of them. Here is a link in case you haven’t seen it: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Gm4_qhF5JrI.html

@Vicariouslythroughme Год назад

Every single time I’m overwhelmed by my goals and the things my husband and I have outlined as things to accomplish in order to have a brighter future, I watch one of your videos and I’m given a sense of calm and it renews a quiet motivation to keep pressing forward. It’s not as complicated as my head makes it out to be. Just gotta stay focused and do it. Thank you.

@cathylynnpietranton Год назад

Hi Ron what resonates with me was not being my authentic self. When I was younger I always felt I didn't fit in. I have changed my beliefs and habits. I really don't care now what others think. Thanks Ron ❤

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Love it Cathy! 🙌🏾 I’m happy this resonated with you!

@louissionn6146 Год назад

Such an important message. We so often get caught telling ourselves, we can't do such and such because it doesn't "align" with our person. All that is doing is limiting ourselves. Remember: you are the only person who knows yourself and what makes you, you. You are in charge whenever you want to "adjust" your person by doing and learning something new.

@Squintillions Год назад

People might want to look into Non-violent communication by Marshall Rosenberg as a different way to communicate with others.

@MsGirliegrl Год назад

This video definitely resonated with me. As a woman of color growing up in a non traditional household, there were plenty of things I needed to unlearn. I didn’t realize it until I became a parent and that’s when the real work began. I could no longer think or act a certain way and expect people to accept me because "That’s just the way I am” or "I was raised differently”. I had to be responsible for a little human being and I wanted him to be his authentic self all while I was unlearning some beliefs and healing. I now have better relationships with people and able to set boundaries, especially with family that are still stuck in their old ways of thinking. I’m still evolving but definitely living an intentional authentic life. Thank you Ronald

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

I love this! As a new dad myself…I want my son to embrace his authentic self as well plus I’m unlearning a few things so he doesn’t pick them up from me. It’s a very interesting life experience but I happy to see you’ve experienced something similar! Sounds like you’re on the right path for you now. Love it!! 🙌🏾

@christinemurphy4367 11 месяцев назад

😊 Thank you 😊. You make a lot of sense and are easy to understand.

@ambikawolf664 Год назад

I just moved from. Chicago to a mountain on TN and find I can be more my authentic self here. I definitely can relate to your video.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Awesome! I happy you were able to relate to this video my friend. Keep growing on your journey. Sounds like moving was a great decision for you!

@amyhoover9 Год назад

A while back this month, I had a conversation with a friend about habits and choices... I haven't fully finished watching the video yet, but one thing that comes to mind when it comes to growth and getting out of certain habits or choices is that it's okay to have setbacks. It's okay if every now and then, certain old habits or mental blocks take longer to heal or outgrow. I feel like it's easy for us as humans sometimes to suddenly become down on ourselves when we say or do things that has this opposite effect on us, and overlooking the concept of making mistakes or errors in judgment as if growth and change is only linear. Thank you for making this very insightful video, Ron!

@danalawrence8272 Год назад

I love your perspective on things, thank you so much. Love your channel!

@user-lj2ho8bz9u Год назад

Thank you so much🧘🏿‍♀️

@rachelemazza8623 Год назад

✋ TY for all the insightful videos! Hugs, Rachele

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

You’re very welcome Rachele! Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share these videos with you.

@tamlynrn Год назад

I think your communication style is more thoughtful or insightful rather than “smooth”

@dreamchaser5758 Год назад

Profound and nuanced insights in this video. I am reading T. Harv Eker's bestseller "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind". The book focuses on the concept of our internal money blueprint. We all essentially have a financial comfort zone. We sabotage our own success and even make decisions which validate our internal limiting dialogue. I tracked my income over the last five years.....no upward trajectory. Failed to cultivate different income streams. I grew up where there was never enough. I create lack and survival is an accomplishment. I want to move beyond this mentality.

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

This is deep! Definitely a conversation we need to have in this community because I can tell you know that you are not alone in these thoughts. “I create lack and survival is an accomplishment.” Wow! Now you have me reflecting on other limiting beliefs I’ve had over the years. I may have to borrow this thought for a conversation because it deep and real for a lot of people!

@lennonmoore2847 Год назад

Powerful truth as always! Thank you Ronald!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thanks for listening my friend!

@craigmerkey8518 Год назад

Really really great, self awareness is so important!

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Absolutely Craig. It’s extremely important and it can help you navigate life and your decisions!

@magorzata6613 Год назад

You are a great person, i love your channel and the content you present. They helped me a lot to understand myself. Greetings from Poland

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Awesome and thank you!! I love that you’re loving my content. I hope to continue to help you on your journey. Keep growing my friend!

@Mysteriousyimaorgmailcom Год назад

Keep the work. I love watching your videos...

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

Thank you! I love that you’re enjoying my content and getting value from it! Keep growing and learning on your journey my friend!

@teenoso4069 Год назад

when you point, there are 3 fingers pointing back

@mercyuchendu Год назад

❤

@koiiiy Год назад

thks for this video, i started my healing journy a year ago and the top of this video clik me in a completely diferent way, im 100% surte that this will help me to became the best version of my self thks

@RonaldLBanks Год назад

I’m happy this resonated with! I hope your healing journey is going well also. Becoming the best version of ourselves makes a big difference in our quality of life. Keep growing on your journey!

@ajscott9528 Год назад

Limiting Belief #1 It is never a good idea to approach a woman in public Limiting Belief #2 I don't have what it takes to be rich

@nancymosby7369 Год назад

Are u and ur a religious man? Just curious!😉

@rileywiebe3512 7 месяцев назад

He’s said a couple things in episodes about Church, but it was vague and not an absolute yes. I think he is though.

@iamlyrics9118 Год назад

💪🏼💯💥👑🤎

@9latinumStudioz Год назад

Wow paid off 23k in 1 yr 🤾 that's impressive 👌✨ really practice what you preach 🤙⚡ I like that 🧐 "everytime you learn something or hit a milestone - unlearn a limiting belief 🤔"