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Facts!

Leave this paragraph intact, just change “trad” to “LGBT” and see how bitter you sound about someone else’s lifestyle.

To me it's called a trophy wife. Idk why they're changing the word

That's because you live online and see the world as that instead of speaking to women who actually want or have that lifestyle.

​@@TheTonyspikNo. A trophy wife is a women a man marries who is incredibly beautiful so he can show her off to make him look better. A traditional wife isn't eye candy for other men and women and isn't used to make the husband look good. She would dress conservatively and would mainly stay at home. There is a huge difference. You have no idea what you are talking about.

@marytenn378 black business always getting destroyed by racist white folks.

Kids with fathers

@marytenn378those are facts!!! Look what happened now!! The majority with broken homes and multiple baby daddies

I thought for real, then I started counting, 50 years ago was 1976. Now I need to go and look up what life was like for homemakers (women) then, aside from the terrible crime of negligence in investigations where grape kits are concerned. It’s no wonder SA crimes are blowing back up in people’s face and they’re using the Salem Witch trials as a crutch. Using revelations about the evil, Christian people were doing, violating one of the 10 commandments, by killing women as a veil over their transgressions against humanity. The easiest way to make people believe you seems to be by claiming some kind of relatedness to oppressed people. Woke means you begin to understand one’s intentions by their actions, after a while the pattern reveals the intention. No different than the lynchings that happened to black people, and now people use “cancel culture” as a digital lynching. It’s whack! It’s very clear what evil is, and letting people get away with evil, is problematic. It’s evil that we’re right back to where we left off, since we made major progress with the election of Obama, twice. The quest continues of the ultimate evil, to intentionally want to cause someone pain, knowing that it indeed will be painful. There are a lot of lawmakers who look the other way. Vote no when it should be yes, and yes when it would be no. Welcome to Earth. The land of hypocrisies and contradictions…that can be exciting and also be hurtful. But we can solve our problems, if we were truly ready. Until the next wave of progress, hopefully that’s the next 100 years and beyond, equal or greater than the last ones. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

1974? The black community was thriving and most families had 2 parents

It's archaic go work have your own money 💰 ladies.

Yeah, then Raegan happened!

This doesn't happen when one person is employed doing two or more different jobs getting different pay checks.

...and we could define what a woman is

...and didn't pay the woman for her work at home. I am so lucky that these times are over because I would never allow a woman to do my things at home. And I also don't fall tor the relationship trap. I am glad to see that other men sacrifice themselves for that.

​@marytenn378Same 60 years ago was the Civil Rights era, so yeah, I can see why people who lived through that era do not want to go back to it.

There wasn't less of these things actually, just less coverage and awareness of it. This coupled with structural segregation sheltered "traditional" families (i.e. white religious heterosexual 2-parent) from having to see and acknowledge other types of people and any societal problems. And yes, 2-parent homes were more common - because it's generally hard for women to leave abusive/neglectful husbands & households when you legally can't work, hold a credit card, or own property. The main (& ironic) thing people don't seem to understand about this argument is that the children who were growing up 60 years ago and being raised in this "moral society" you speak of are now 65-80 years old, which means they and their values & morals shaped society and culture from maybe the mid/late-70s until now where they are at the tail end of cultural and political influence. All that to say, based on your argument and others like it, perhaps it is actually these same people who are the ones responsible for the changes in society? That maybe society 60 years ago is the type of energy we should actually avoid, not replicate? These are just rhetorical questions for you to hopefully think about from time to time, not ones where I'm trying to fight or shame you. Sometimes we just don't know what we don't know. @marytenn378

​​@marytenn378What an incredibly brilliant, evidence-oriented and fact-based comeback.

It used to be. Now it’s about crazy feminists telling other women what they can and can’t do.

Women do have choices now, but you people are still trying to push one choice over another. What Joy said is correct, no matter what women do, men have never stepped up in the home.

Im a man and i want to stay at home too

@@Lilah1848 What an insult to all the men who take risky and dangerous jobs just to support their families to have women like you who have no idea what men sacrifice for their family tell them they’ve never stepped up.

lol says the man

Not in my world 😒

I am a stay-at-home mother too. I also take care of the farm animals too. I do everything. I am up before anyone else and I am the last one to go to bed. I also homeschool my kids too. I also run the garden and can the food. I am everything to my family. The kids help with some of the work but it comes down to me, and I love it. I never really leave my house. There is nothing in this world more satisfying and important to me than my family. I may not be the wealthy person but I am the richest person in the world because I have a family that has my back and I have theirs. I don’t need any but them.

RUBBISH! Stay at Home/Homemakers is non paid job the worst type of work no modern women today would want Men alive has never stepped up to help women like you around the house even when he comes home from work.

in my family happily married both sides with profound respect - we have each others back no matter what we follow the family order of God Man Woman Child it works ❤️💯

What’s yours is yours, what’s theirs is yours. Spoken like a true toxic woman.

​@@BillBarr4President I hear therapy helps. Try it ASAP!

@@BillBarr4President You think women should stay at home, sacrifice their time and energy and have nothing to show for it? No security? YOU WISH

@@BillBarr4President- leave it to an idiot (in case you couldn’t figure it out, I’m talking about you) not to actually hear what a woman is saying and make assumptions.

Yes, don't rely on anyone financially. Secure your marriage rights.

No one is forcing you to be one

The important part for me is that women have choices. If a woman wants to stay home and raise her children it’s not a bad thing. If a woman wants a career that’s okay too. As long as they understand what they are doing and why. No one should be wagging their fingers in women’s faces with the judgements. We all are different and need to respect each other’s choices.

The hardest job I’ve ever done, but the most rewarding in the long run

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Such hard work 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yet if you decide to be a career women, you still have to do the same things but yet have a career in top of it. This is why TradWife has made a comeback.

Did she respect the hard work he did?

Way to give one side of the story. Lets hear the fathers side

@@Checkmate9moves OK, he was an alcoholic, Coal Miner, called his Children names other than their names. He was a good provider, but a HORRIBLE Father.

And that is happening through ignorance.

Men never had much choice either ....

THIS is important

That's horrible.

Yup while Maude had the luxury of being a stay-at-home feminist, Florida had no choice but to work, even if that meant taking care of another family’s home to feed her own.

Learn your history

You really need to learn your history. It wasn't only black women.

That's why it's a bad idea. Men will sell you down the river.

She’s just dumb for not having security in place

Yup!

@@Lilah1848and if they do the courts are there to protect you… and seeing as women initiate most divorces this is some fallacy

@@user-ql9it8go2j Women initiate most divorces because they're not in happy marriages. Most are working and still come home to domestic labour because like Joy said, men haven't ever stepped up in that way. Family life would be so much better if everyone did their part equally. And the courts protect no one but who has the most money and influence.

💯

Like men have their own money…lol. They sign their finances away the day they get married.

@@BillBarr4President Men have Money and make Money after Divorce and remarry.

@@TheBrownIsland and have their kids stripped away from them, pay child support for kids they barely get to see and alimony to ex’s for years. No one wins in a divorce but men often get dragged over the coals big time

@@BillBarr4President Oh bull, that's not always true, my dad chose to not see us, he really didn't want to, my mom didn't ask for alimony, but she did ask for maintenance for the kids, because after all, like it or not, he helped bring us into the world, but it was only a pittance anyway.

You don't need to make food from scratch, you can create your own dynamic that suits you and your partner.

Yeah and food was way more healthy and had more nutrients because of that

They’re probably shocked how little you care and are proud of it.

@@BillBarr4President 👀😬

Men who know better, do better. A lot of Guys saw their Moms go through a lot by themselves with no help and do things differently. Some are raised that way by women who want the Next Generation of Men to do better, to be able to take care of themselves while Single, and help take care of their Family when they're married.

My daughter was in preschool when my twins were born. My husband took paternity leave so during that time he was always the one who did preschool drop off (while I stayed home with the babies). The teachers praised him and marvelled every day at how good of a dad he is/must be. Then a couple months later when he went back to work, I went back to doing preschool drop off. I’d walk in, on time every morning might I add lol, sleep deprived and covered in breastmilk and baby puke, carrying an infant car seat in each arm, to drop my daughter off. Staff would “ooh” and “awe” over the babies but I NEVER got any praise or compliment for being a good mom 😂 Not that I needed/wanted praise. But it was funny how my husband won Dad of the Year awards every day just for getting his kid to school on time. But when it’s a mom (who, from the outside looking in, clearly had more on her plate than he ever did) - nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️😅

That's because men have not taken on much housework and child care despite the ever-increasing number of women who have to work.

Who tf cares

What if he leaves? What are you going to do?

@@ShaSha-eu5hp Ain't got no skills, no resume, he probably handles the money, red flags all over.

I think if your family is financially stable there's nothing wrong with it at all. I was raised by a SAHM.

I was, too, but then pops left and mom was destitute. I still think every person gets to choose what works best for them. I do agree on that, no doubt. @volcrazy89

Research has shown that women are less happy now. Go figure.

@marytenn378 I was there 50 years ago, were you? There was plenty of crime, injustice, racism, antisemitism, homophobia, sexual hypocrisy, poverty, and corruption. It was hidden. All the unpleasantness was swept under the rug. The nightly news “white washed” events, until the war in Vietnam, the civil rights movement, the women’s movement, Gay rights woke people up.

Traditional Wives have always been working their Azzez off and SO DO WORKING WOMEN WHO ARE WIVES & MOTHERS. They have to do BOTH. Shout Out to ALL WOMEN wether they Seek a Career or Homemaker.

It is a lot of work and it is a very important work that is needed. A mother should be able to nurture her children and raise them with the support of the father.

No it’s not. Than I gave 2 jobs

Rubbish, all the stay at home moms I know have plenty of time. Working takes up A LOT of time.

@@cindyt8278 Exactly, you have 2 jobs, but only getting paid for one 😒

@@idotgotitme3280 youre saying you should be paid for the kids that YOU DECIDED to have??

@@SupportTheArts-yo8ox No, that's not what I'm saying, just stating facts, and who said that I decided to have kids?

Your mom is a real woman. I absolutely cannot understand modern day mentality where people act like adults, get themselves into serious commitments, then they decide regret. People need to grow up!

Wait......... What do you mean by "Your mom is a real woman"?? Do you mean to say that career women/wives who are taking care of the home and working to earn money aren't "REAL WOMEN"?? WTF???!! Note this: EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT. EVERY WIFE IS DIFFERENT. What works for one woman would not work for another. Same way what works for one wife doesn't work for another. That means some women prefer the "Trad wife" lifestyle, another prefers to blend the two and others also prefer to be a career woman than a wife. It doesn't mean one is "real and the other(s) is/are not. If you prefer to be a stay home wife, good for you but don't push your preferences on every other woman. EVERY WOMAN IS A REAL WOMAN IN HER OWN WAY.

She had money. That life looks incredibly different in a household with less money. Also she wasn't abused. A lot of women in the traditional role also put up with rape and abuse. Yes it was legal to rape your wife back then.

​@@linger4605 You need to grow up too. If you don't understand anything, ask them. What works for you can't work for every woman on Earth. Stop judging them with your prejudices cos EVERY WOMAN IS A REAL WOMAN I THEIR OWN WAY.

@@destinynanaakrong8584 You clearly lack any form of reading comprehension and instead rely on emotions to comprehend and react. Read the last two sentences over and over until you finally understand

Whoopi has done this for years. And I hate when she does it. Joy is 13 years older than you, stop it. How the heck do you vividly remember this subject matter when you turned 4 years old @ the end of 1959. The only reason I can think why she does this is to make herself seem older and wiser.

So frustrating trying to hear what everyone is saying when they constantly interrupt one another.

She referenced 1970.

I mean I do it. But yeah. It can be tough.

Don’t get married. Stay single and scuff along through life like other people

Buy she did get back on her feet. Today, women have so many skills and knowledge, and rights. So choosing to stay at home in these times is different. Women are making the deliberate choice to be at home. The only thing is men still cheat and be abusive... but that's really across the board no matter what life a woman chooses. So sad.

Corporations and companies don't want to pay their employees enough to have that kind of life here in America , but yet some people want people to have more children...that they can't afford...Vicious cycle.

It's 2024 you can work from home or part time, just make sure as a adult you have your own money even if it's a small amount. No grown as adults should be 100 dependent on another adult unless they can't work for health reasons

@@mustafaa965 And feminism is brainwashing women that anything else but working and be single is opressive or slavery

It's so much easier to just not have kids, then things are equal between the couple and someone else isn't raising the kids, everyone is much happier, it's a win win 😉

Wrong. Didn’t you hear Joy? You were enjoying martinis and being bad man.

@@Ray03595 Joy must be projecting.

Thats BS. Housing, transportation, food all cost money.

It’s not the hardest job ever. If it was, wouldn’t people in charge of day cares have a harder job than you? It’s not unpaid labor. You want to be compensated for taking care of your own child??? What is so hard about your life exactly? There are people with actual problems. Taking care of your own child and staying in your house half the day isn’t a real one.

I like what Alyssa said better

Joy is not very clever, always goes for the low hanging fruit.

That's true, there's some good ones out there, but I think Joy hasn't seen those men in her world? I'm guessing 🤔

You must be single

Mine has, I make more money than he did and my job came with health insurance so when we did the math and found that if he worked all his income would go right to childcare it was better for him to take a few yrs off to stay home with the kids. He cleans and I cook. We don't do extra stuff and we live on a budget. It works for us.

BS... You're just picking the wrong men.

Khodam101, I don't think Joy is correct. All of the families I know the men have stepped up and help with everything.

I think that is a myth and it undermines the many great guys out there that do step up. Sure, many trash men out there but you can say the same for women. So I don't think it's productive to generalize so much on this issue.

In 1970 a married woman could not get a credit card in her own name. A married woman could not get a tabulation with the husband's consent.

So the men in their lives just come home and sit on the couch and watch TV or play video games? They do not do car & house maintenance, mow the lawn and whatever dirty job outside that needs to be done. I bet most men do just as much as women do when they get home.

Yes and when there’s an oil spill anywhere, gas prices rise immediately but it’s takes years, if ever, to go back to reasonable prices. Once these corporations know they can get your $ without consequences, it’s game over for consumers. #VoteBlue

Why? I am honestly curious.

@@user-kx9yd9ih3r because it’s still unpaid labor

@@Christian80806 Its your child and/or children? that can be shared upon both partners.

@@user-kx9yd9ih3r statistically it’s not shared. And it’s still labor regardless. Being a personal chef, a child care provider, a nurse, a secretary, a personal assistant, teacher, etc are all paid professions with a singular occupation. Being a traditional wife does all of these things and then some and goes unpaid and often under appreciated. It’s a labor and hard work.

@@user-kx9yd9ih3r the crazy thing is our government pays those who have disabled children or relatives to take care of them even though it’s their kids... because nursing care is labor regardless if it’s your child or not. It’s not easy.

A good education, good nutrition, good health care and a home in a good neighborhood prioritize the family unit, but they're not affordable on one income in 2024.

@marytenn378 than I have 2 jobs. I’m still better.

@@cindyt8278 as a woman why do this? Why put down other women?

@@Weezy1975 women by nature don’t like each other. Men aren’t like this. You put women in a group setting and before you know it insults starts. That’s how we are… 🤷‍♀️

@@Weezy1975 if they would stop deleting comments I can tell you why?

Its a misandrist show, the women that watch this show listened to music artist like Beyoncé which told them to be strong and independent (which after being cheated on she still stayed with the same guy) and they watch shows like handmaids tale all of which tells them be strong and independent. Modern Feminism has ruined dating for any guy, Feminist will bash men to feel empowered and they will bash other women to make themselves feel better. They have got into Hollywood, Disney, Gaming Industry, and just got Funds to target things on RU-vid.

75% of black kids are being raised in fatherless homes.

This is the exception not the rule.

Sir, you are exceptional!😊