I'm a cis, straight woman that's been queer and sex positive my entire life, starting from my teens in the hateful 80s. I fully appreciate how much better it's gotten since then but have no delusions about it being anything like good enough today. I have never, EVER felt jealously or threated or anything of that ridiculous sort towards trans women nor any other gorgeous femme-queer person either. I've also dedicated the better part of the last 20 years to several types of activism (i.e. helping others) and so I was honestly a bit offended by the reductive way you're speaking about women here. I've never watched any of your videos, so I have no context for the things you're talking about here and I found it hard to follow but it popped up randomly in my feed (probably because I've always been queer positive). Many of the things you bring up about disparities between male and females in society, role expectations, etc.. honestly just falls under the umbrella of patriarchy being toxic BS for everybody, IMO. And in my experience solely as a "friendly" (it's up to queer folx to call me "ally" if they feel it fits), what you're describing as your experience actually reminds me mostly of what I've heard from "twin spirit" peoples. Unfortunately I don't think there's an equivalent term for twin spirits outide of indigenous cultures but that's where it comes from and it's been acknowledged and even celebrated/honored for hundreds if not thousands of years by many indigenous peoples. I think of gender as a spectrum and everybody feels it differently, which of course means everybody experiencing life outside the binary wil have their own needs and ways to navigate it. That is to say that I don't think there is any one way that is wrong or bad or "extreme" as you put it and so I'd like to suggest to you that opening your mind to others' needs and ways being *rightfully*, wildly diverse might help you fully unlock your own.
'if your watching these and not interacting, you've got serious issues' ... based off what? Genuinely curious how you came to that conclusion. Is there no possibility the title caught their attention, they clicked, it didnt hold their attention, so they left and carried on with something else? Also, regarding the main subject here, a huge majority of those dealing with gender dysphoria have a deeply rooted issue that has been left untreated for who knows how long. Consuming any kind of content will affect you subconsciously. When you consume a lot of *this* kind of content, what do you think that is going to do to you? Or was your human body wired differently to everyone elses and therefore you retain 100% control of your sub-conscious?
