I tell my husband thank you, EVERY day, multiple times a day, for big things and small things. I've told him I'm proud of you, on a few occasions, when I have really, really meant it. One of the first times I told him that he teared up and told me about how healing that was to hear after working so hard to hear it from his father for so many years.
Edifying your husband. They may not get gratitude or appreciation at their workplace, so getting this at home is much needed. This also goes from husband to wife. We must show how special our spouse is to us. Life is rough, so home life must be a safe space.
@sparker1414 so what? Troll me because I'm making a statement that it goes both ways? Or what? Nothing more, nothing less, not disagreeing with the content in the video either. So, telling me to start doing something without any relevant information about me, who i am, what my life is like or who I know/talk to, etc. is irrelevant to my statement of it being a two-way street.
@@Smithereens655 That’s not trolling, and I’m sorry you took it that way… But change always starts with us in every situation.. We can’t expect others to change when there’s things in us that need changing too..
You know how many women tell their husband's thank you or I'm proud of you and the husband just doesn't listen. Why would we waste our breath. It's hard enough to get them to listen to take out the trash.
If you think building your husband up, especially when you have absolutely no clue what is going on in his head, is wasting your breath, then you don’t deserve to have him.. A bit of selflessness will go a long way if you put his needs above your own and then watch him open up
