I'm 21. And i can tell you being around bad people takes a toll on you even though you're doing nothing wrong. I've always been pulled back from the edge by Allah subhan Tala. I've been saved multiple times and I finally know that avoiding bad company is the only solution you can stay safe.
Brothers and sisters please make dua for me. I live in western community, as u know how hard there is to wear hijjab outside. But I will do my best not to think about people's thoughts. All I want is to make My beloved ( Allah) one happy. That's all for what I'm now struggling for.
Just remember Patience is a kind of blessing and worship, Allah (swt) rewards those who have patience even in hardest of times. Disobedience is a kind of disbelief so never disobey Allah (swt) Let em say stuff or laugh, Everytime they say stuff or laugh just think your final destination is in the Hereafter and in the Hereafter who will be laughing at who :) Good Luck sister and be proud. We are Muslims, we are amazing. Don't struggle, everytime it gets hard for you in any situation, Remember Allah(swt), What I personally do is I say " Bismillah, Subhanallah, Allahmdulillah, la ilaha illallah, Astaghfirullah, Allahu Akbar" in my head and I am easily able to get through it all. I get the same challenge in my college (People looking at me, One Muslim guy, with suspicious eyes and laughing ). I ignore em all cause Allah(swt) Loves us more than they can ever Hate.
Ameen sister, I live in a Muslim country and many women wear hijab, but not the appropriate one you see what I mean, so I understand the struggle kinda
lOVE ALLAH oh mashallah my beloved sister... How blessed you are that Allah chose you to bring out of darkness when thousand of other should are there out... May Allah give you and us the strength and taufik proper hijab... We are really proud of you ♥️❤️ People like you are an inspiration for us.... 💖 Keep doing hijab and please Allah not the others... As they say that if you know how quick people forget the dead, you would never try to impress them. 💔 Life is full of struggles and Allah choose his beloved people to test them.. This is your test and we all pray that you pass successfully with flying colours 🥀❤️ Our love and support is always with you and the others out there struggling.. May Allah give you great reward for it♥️🍁🌹
I've seen a lot of Christian brothers and sisters on our muslim knowledge videos nowadays. I thank you for your curiosity, as I too frequent christian reminder videos, and find much wisdom in them as well. Islam says that we are brothers in humanity, and may God protect us from Satan.
@@Despotic_Waffle No, Islam didn't say that Muslims and Christians are brothers in any way, you need to learn more about Islam and especially 'العقيدة', that's why it would be a good idea to learn Arabic in order to be able to learn from reliable Scholars.
I used to hang out with my friends at bar for the same reason that I was fooling my self that it is not haram since I was not drinking. But Alhamdulillah the more my iman grow the more disgusted I started to feel in that environment and their meaningless discussions in that state.
He won't because he is a holy perfect God. Without paying all penny you won't get out from hell. It's just like a criminal who as raped cheated and murdered and asking the judge to forgive him and let him go because he has changed his mind!!?!? How on earth it is possible ? Think if you being just a man think of Righteous judgment how much more God who created you!! His justice to all who broke his holy Law is eternal punishment in Lake of fire without God , where the worm will not die pain will not cease. Think of the court scene which I mentioned above, if any other man was willing to take the criminals punishment the judge would accept it and he would declare the criminal that he is free to go. But there will certain conditions for the free criminal he has to change is mind and do good and not be the same old man. Now think of judge's own son had committed Robbery , as a judge he will order him to pay the fine and take punishment. The same judge is a Dad to him at his house he loves his son so he himself will sign a cheque and give his son so that he will pay and be free!! That is what God did, God so loved the world that he sent is only begotten son whosoever beleives in him shall be saved. John 3:16 It is God alone who is without sin So he was born in virgin Mary because he was to take the sins of you and me so it was necessary to him that sin should not enter him through Adam. He was born and God crucified him through his haters and punished him in place of us , God saw Jesus as sin and his wrath was satisfied on him. So now there is no forgiveness of sin without shedding blood . Hebrews 9:12 You have a conscience which bears witness before God who created you, and you have a conflicting thoughts which accuse you or even excuse you. And God through Jesus Christ judges on the judgement day the secrets of your heart. Romans 2:15 I am 💯% sure you and me all who have commented and made vedios have not followed God's law. Because Bible says All have sinned and falled short for the Glory of God. And there is not even one righteous. No one understands God and seeks God. .Romans 3:20 For by works of law no human being will be justified in his sight, since through the law comes the knowledge of sin. Romans 5:12-17 Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned. Yet death reigned from Adam to Moses even over those whose sinnning was not like the transgression of Adam, who was a type of the one who was to come. But the free gift is not like the trespass. For if many died through one man's trespass, much more have the Grace of God and free gift by the Grace of that one man Jesus Christ abounded for many. And if free gift is not like the result of that one man's trespass. For the judgement following one trespass brought condemnation, but the free Gift following many trespasses brought justification. For if , because of one man's trespass brought condemnation, but free Gift following many trespasses brought justification. For if, because of one man's trespass, death reigned through that man, much more will those who receive the abundance of Grace and the free gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man Jesus Christ. Romans 5:19 For as by the one man's disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man's obedience the many will be made righteous. My friend search for yourself in Bible and seek truth you will find it , said Jesus the Son of God. If you are really sad about your sins Go to God and ask for forgiveness Hebrews 8:12 says "FOR I WILL BE MERCIFUL TO THEIR INIQUITIES, AND I WILL REMEMBER THEIR SINS NO MORE." Come to Christ and be saved my dear friend and far brother for we all are children of Adam.
@@abinlouis3747 with all due respect brother but if you think that paying a Dunya worthless currency to save yourself from Akhira then you have the wrong message. Allah doesn’t care if you give him 1 penny or 1 billion dollars, it depends on your good deeds and if you worship him or not. I’m not telling you become a Muslim, but please consider researching about it because it is truly a miracle subhanallah. Alhamdulillah
The shaytan normal tricks me by making me think that ‘oh shaytan will get me one day so why not do it now’ and this is what makes me loose hope. But when I stick to my salah I feel protected from shaytan.
This is so important. Things rarely change radically, most of the time it's us getting used to a certain level of comfort that deludes us, it's a process. That's not just something that applies to religion only, it's something we should always remember as a society, like with capitalism. We want and more and more but don't realize how much it changes us over time.
*Repent & left Islam/ the paganism Babilonia whom worshiping SATAN moon cresent... Ka'bah symbol of KABalAH ZIONIST... mosques= temple of satan 🌙 moon cresent*
Thank you Brother Nouman Ali Khan. I agree that we must be fully mindful of Iblis’s mischief. I think we must be vigilant and aware that Iblis will attack us because that is his mission. What we will need are inner “defence mechanisms” to protect ourselves from him and be consciously aware of his ominous plans. This I belief, will most certainly help us, InshaAllah
That's so right. I had bulimia, but ElhamdulillAllah I overcome. I almost sometimes spend my time by eating and it all start with a whisper like "it was nothing at all" So, step by step sheytan ruining us... But with regretness and asking Allah to help us, İnshaAllah Allah will help us.
I am a 23 year old male that 2 years back stopped shaking hands with women, and that led to my good which is to completely cut off chilling with with other women "friends", but I am always faced with the awkward moments, stares, feeling judged which led to a somewhat low self esteem.... i feel cast out, but I love the people around me in my community whether they are not serious practicing women and men, or no I should say they lack the physical orthopraxy (hijab etc...) , and they might be a million times better than me in the eyes of Allah, i can't judge, but for some reason now I am convinced to go back to my old ways shaking hands with women just because i feel i want acceptance from my community and other people in the work place.... I feel i can be more of the sociable person I am in my career, and that I would save my self from a whole lot of awkwardness, I mean maybe I should only want acceptance from Allah, and not care about what other people think of me, but I am an open and sociable person and I hate feeling outcasted from people and looked at as "the mysterious guy", am I being tricked by satan??? I feel like I maybe am, but I cant get around this hand shaking thing thats been bothering me for a long time.... FYI the women in my community are relatives cousins, neighbors, workplace.... can someone help me?
"I mean maybe I should only want acceptance from Allah, and not care about what other people think of me". I think you answered your own question. :) I say it to you to remind myself also.
If you leave something for the sake of Allâh, believe that Allâh will give you something better In Shaa Allâh. May Allâh do it easy for you and all of us. Âmeen.
MashaAllah well done for doing what you are doing. You are only 23 and your protecting yourself so much!!! Alhamdulillah keep it up!!! May Allah continue to give: you, me, and the ummah the strength to protect ourselves from Haram. Aameen Brother this is your test. You have given something up for Allah, so be expected to feel the way you do. And I think from the advice by brother Nouman in the video which does suggest Shaytan working with us little by little and so it seems that this is whats happening with the thoughts that you are getting. So, just Ignore them and keep fighting for Allah. Remember, society might see you to be the "Mysterious guy", but Allah might be seeing you has His "Beloved Servant". Keep going. May Allah grant you Jannah for this. Aameen. Salam
Prohet PBUH said " Islam came as a stranger and it will become a stranger. So congratulate the strangers." So if you're being seen as the mysterious guy then you are amongst the one the Prophet congratulated. Be proud of yourself brother. I know what you have done is not easy. May Allah increase your rank in the dunya and hereafter.
He has sabr because he values time as in his eyes from the time he disobeyed Allah to the Day of judgment isn't much of a long time. We don't value our time as we think we have plenty of time before we die.
Asalam alikum Jazakallah bhai your videos serve me at times like Allah's guidance. May Allah bless you in both world's Can you find another way to post your videos....may Allah guide you to my minds quest.
Are you still so dull?" "Don't you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man `unclean.' For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. These are what make a man `unclean'; but eating with unwashed hands does not make him `unclean.'"
Island sea I lve Salam sis, just want you to know the deen has all of the answers. I am speaking from experience. Anxiety- find the source of it, usually it’s something that you’re afraid of that you’re worrying about. You know who is making this worrisome for you? Shaytaan. Seek refuge every time you have a worry or get scared, it’s him. As for your depression, he will make you feel like you’re alone and hopeless. Even though allah is with you, and is waiting on you so call on him! You need to practice patience, in sha allah Allah will get you through it, but you need to do a lot of self work away from shaytaans tricks . Practice gratitude. Ask yourself every time you feel sad or anxious, why am I feeling so down? I have a,b,c to be thankful for! Keep thanking allah and praying to him, he hears you. Also practice sabr
Try tahajjud prayers for atleast 1 week including recitation of Quran for 5 minutes, I promise you will have no depression the day you do this. Try this our for a week after your tried everything out. Tahajjud will be best if you wake up and hour before fajr. Less sleep at that time will be the cost of your happiness will that be possible for you??
Praise be to Allaah. Fasting six days of Shawwaal after the obligatory fast of Ramadaan is Sunnah Mustahabbah, not waajib. It is recommended for the Muslim to fast six days of Shawwaal, and in this there is great virtue and an immense reward. Whoever fasts these six days will have recorded for him a reward as if he had fasted a whole year, as was reported in a saheeh hadeeth from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Abu Ayyoob (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever fasts Ramadaan and follows it with six days of Shawwaal, it will be as if he fasted for a lifetime.” (Narrated by Muslim, Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nisaa’i and Ibn Maajah).
I agree with everything he said. Except for the “slipping it into the drink” part. No. We can’t put the blame on others. That’s what Shayttan does. At a certain point we have to take responsibilities for the choices we make and sins we commit. What I mean is, slipping anything into anyone’s drink isn’t friendly behaviour and is seen as low behaviour even by those who drink. Essentially the person in his example (and in real life) made conscious choice to drink and if they were spiked than who ever “slipped something” in their drink is no friend. I have many non Muslim friends and they have far too much respect for me and my faith to go and “slip something” into my drink. Even if it was for a laugh.
I actually hear basically same thing from Christian teacher it is pretty good message because devil is a liar an he will try to trick you into do bad things with little temptations until you are in over your head
The same is the commandment of Allah is "don't come near to zinah" at first shaitan tricks us its not that bad to talk little bit to opposite gender and eventually it tricks us to start hanging out and eventually ends up committing zinah during the process we don't realize intentions of shaitan but when we end up committing haram we feel sad and ashamed of ourselves ... May Allah SWT protect us from iblees