No reaction, no empathy and no apparent knowledge of her babies fathers, the last case was shocking, but her lack of any kind of remorse was the worst. I was heartfelt for the guy, but much more heartfelt for those two poor kids being raised by a mom like her
The last case is absolutely heartbreaking. I hope he leaves, I know he loves the kids but it's best to leave now before they get older and grow more attached - the fact she doesn't even know who could be the possible father for 6 month old is insane. He deserves someone who is going to love him completely, and build a trusted and loving family. It's definitely not her - she showed no remorse at all.
My heart also goes out to the young man in the last case, as he seems like a good person and was absolutely devastated... I Also have enormous sympathy for those 2 beautiful children, who will suffer having a colossal embarrassment for a mother.
Hopefully this doesn't take his confidence to talk to women or cause him to die from broken heart syndrome I sure hope he can get pass this or if not just be able to work with those feelings of a broken heart and that God will restore him with a beautiful woman as he is handsome that will love and respect him and be able to work through the layers of trust issues because she seen this show and knows that men like him are rare and that he's a diamond with 34 carrot gold a treasure only few women can find, God be with him.
You’re not the father but you’re still going to be there. SMH 🤦🏿♂️ this is why these chicks will continue to play y’all. Get DNA test at birth before you get attached to the kid for your peace of mind
Ur so right on this. 👍 Untill the men stand up and take action they will be paying for the other man's kids to these women. It's sad how kids r used in relationships but it's reality.
That last one got me in my feelings. She’s a skeezer and know he’s a good man and took advantage of that. Probably slept around while he’s keeping the child. I think she knows who the daddies are she just ashamed to say it.
That last case was heartbreaking for the guy. You can clearly see he loves that little girl like his own. Judge please stop asking these men to stay and take care of these children that are not theirs cause SOME of these women out here are clearly using these men to care for another man's baby.
I don't think she looks anything like his mom. 😢. I feel so bad for him he misses his mom and is a good guy he was just holding onto the hope and she knew he wasn't.😢😢. I wish him nothing but the best and you mam there is no words but evil and trifling. Karma will get you and I hope sooner then later.
i agree, stop asking these men to stay, they deserve better than to be trapped in a situation with women of her kind. let them move on, heal and start anew with a woman deserving of a decent man.
@@sandrafazio733well, apparently someone’s found him on facebook and although he’s split with his wife, he still has visiting rights with the children, and he’s in a new relationship. He has the children over regularly to go and play and take them to the park.
I wish these men will stop claiming children that are not theirs from these disrespectful women. Save your masculinity and move on. God got better ahead for your life to build your own bloodline and with a woman who will appreciate you as a man.
I don't understand why they claim other people's kids. These kids will grow up and go to look for their absentee fathers, after you have taken them through life and given them your all.
This last case blew me away. The mother is cruel. This is one ways good men are damaged. Gonna be hard for him to trust again. I hope he takes care of his mental health.
The little girl in the last case, she is so gorgeous! ❤I felt so heartbroken for the daddy 😢omg how can a woman treat a good man, like that? Shame on her! She’s disgusting 🤦🏼♀️😢
@@rook7mile well he’s heartbroken! Would you not cry if you would find out both of your children are not yours? He’s man enough raising someone else’s kids! Just saying
That smirk Ms. Mayo had on her face the whole time he was talking about these "documents" claiming she can't have kids, she knew what she was doing. She planned to have his child and it backfired, talkin bout he could've use da condo if he don't want kids but YOU already have kids ma'am you have to protect yourself cuz men can walk away most of the time. She played herself and put these kids at a disadvantage.
If he doesn't want kids, HE needs to protect himself. See what happens when you don't? That's a lot of power to give someone. They both should have done better.
Last case: Mr. Benning is the type of man you want you daughter to marry. I hope his heart has healed because you could hear it shatter when he heard the results. Meanwhile....Ms. Thang stood there totally emotionally detached. Then to make matters worse...she has no clue who fathered her child. That’s just nasty.
This woman in the last case makes me sick to my stomach 🤮🤮🤮women around the world could only wish to have such an amazing father in their children’s lives…
WOW... Those babies would have been so lucky to have a father like that. Instead, neither child is his and they're stuck with a mom who claims she doesn't know who either of their fathers are. His heart will forever be scarred.
I hope in the 3rd case that man wised up and got his name off those birth certificates and walked away from that woman and never looked back ! Staying with her is asking for a toxic life!!
Oh, sweet-sweet Jermaine. So much love and trust is due to you and it will come to you. You absolutely deserve every good thing life has to offer. Your integrity will be rewarded. Much love you, you pure soul.
Ladies when these guys tell you they don't want kids, you need to listen! You can't automatically have children and make them become "instant" fathers 😶!!
LAST CASE: “Benning vs Bodine” is very heartbreaking. How could Ms. Bodine be so cold, do this and take advantage of him?😡 She’s really heartless. I feel Mr. Benning’s pain.😭😢 May he be comforted and blessed with his own children from a loving and caring wife. 🙏🏽
Case #1- He says he felt trapped. So how big was that gun she held to his head? When my Parents were 22, they had 4 babies. 1st son born 2/18/57; 2nd & 3rd son born 1/18/58 (3 months premature); 4th baby born 12/14/58. All from the same Parents!!! We are now 66, 65 (only one - the other twin has passed away), & 64. While our Parents weren't perfect by any means, they did their best, & for the most part, we turned out pretty good.
And it's so crazy that there are not more women that are siding with men that are like this women always say where are all the good men at and this is the reason why the good men go to other countries because there's so many more women in this world that's like this woman here in the third case that we just don't want to be bothered and it's sad I wish there was more women that actually spoke out about this kind of stuff.
The last man... I feel for him, that's the problem of today's society you see, there ARE good men! But women dont respect that, there are GOOD women but men still goes to someone else... But him, he is a good FATHER, it's not only her cheating that wouldve broke her heart, but knowing the babies he always thought were his and has a connection with, now turning out not to be his! Man that must've broken his spirit.
The "woman" (and I use that term loosely) in the last case is DISGUSTING & DESPICABLE! And then had the nerve to not show even a speck of remorse! I know he loves the kids but for your own sake brother, PLZZZ LEAVE HER!!!
How about the fact that she knew this man for two months and she just names this child after this man.... That's like something you do in a marriage.... She must have come from a single parent household...
@A_Well_Traveled_Man 1st point. What does her knowing him for 2 months or not being married have to do with naming a child after him if the child is his? 2nd point don't pull statics out without fact. She may or not come from a single family household but who are you to judge her for that?
How could anyone be as heartless as the last case. That poor father was heartbroken and even though he now knows that both children are not his biological children he is still wanting to be the amazing father that he has been. Men like this beautiful loving gentle caring men are hard to find. I pray for him from my very soul that the lord God will give him strength to carry on being there for the children and he finds happiness through this..God bless you. God bless your children and I pray that the lord God helps this young mother to mend her ways and morals x
It's his child but he has to give her the babies baby shower gifts smh Why can't the baby enjoy its gifts at the fathers house? Very biased judgement that considering fathers are supposed to have equal rights.
Even though he is annoying because everytime he talks he have to yell i do not agree with making a man feel bad for not taking care of a baby that could possibly not be his.
It’s about avoiding the regret in the event that the children are his that’s what she’s talking about. That’s why she feels like it’s better to have done some thing than nothing and all this time that’s what she’s talking about.
In the last case, she told on herself before the results were even read! If you listen closely, you can hear her say "There's no doubt in my mind or my heart that he's NOT his!" Selfish and heartless
The mother is complaining but she asked for this… she laid down with a clown! What did she expect? Now she’s got her hands full and she’s hating life…. Oh well… what is a “scroller”?
In the last case he can do is leave her as fast as he can get away from her neither child belong to her boyfriend that ashame and she is cold as ice. I feel for this young man who believe those children was his children this is sad.
We as a people have to do better. Really. Men and women, if we don’t want kids, or plan not to have kids, whether at a specific time, or even at all, we must take those preventative measures seriously, use protection, or contraceptives birth certificates control or be abstinent
1st case- she trapped him, plain and simple. Yes he shoulda protected himself but he said he wanted no kids. She made all the effort to sit him down and show him paperwork that she couldn’t have children!! I feel for him because he was a good friend with benefits and had ONE ask. He don’t want any kids!!
I was born completely deaf and I've been wearing hearing aids since I was 3 yrs old after a miracle surgery that enabled me to be hard of hearing. I am 58 yrs old. Hearing aids do NOT cost $40k, even for both ears. She's a bit off on that price. Furthermore, if the baby is indeed DEAF and she has to learn sign language to communicate with the baby as she grows, umm how would hearing aids benefit her? They won't. As for the cochlear implants, not everyone can be a good candidate for them. I was not able to get them simply because my ears are too damaged, etc.. So those, at this time, is in the air for the baby. I have a friend of mine I've known since college with the same issues as I've had and she was able to get the implants and she has never had to wear hearing aids after that. Like I said, it just depends on the patient/child whether they can or cannot be a good candidate for the implants.
The terrible part is many females talk down on their kids father but never recognize men like this who are amazing fathers and treat them wrong damaging them so next woman who come to their life’s get a broken man just cause of them shame on her I’m disgusted by her
At 45:14 somebody in the audience yelled “OH MY GOD!” That made me feel even worse for him cuz he loves those babies you can tell….I’m almost certain that she had a good idea they weren’t his and she wasn’t saying that they weren’t just to hurt his feelings
The guilt dripping is real in these videos. If a man is uncertain that the child maybe/may not be his, let the potential parents get tested ASAP or atleast 1 to 2 months after birth.
In this last case where the guy was not the father for neither one of the kids I would go back to my home state with these results get my name off the birth certificate and leave it would hurt to leave the kids but I would be done I will also make sure even though it would hurt but make sure she tells both the kids the truth if she doesn’t I would make sure to have a recording of this case and a copy of all the proof so when my kids get old enough to understand I would show them all the proof but only if their mom didn’t tell them the truth
I hate this culture of everyone just blaming the women for supposedly trying to "trap" these men with babies. Last time I checked, it takes 2 to make a baby. These men need to take accountability for not using protection! You can't always just assume a woman is on contraception and if you really don't want to make a baby with her, wrap it up!
what you should hate is the culture of people not having enough respect for future children to ensure they have two stable parents, for a woman to have enough respect not to give herself to men she is not married to, and for a man who even bothers to get with a woman he has no intention of being with (until scenarios like this happen)... this whole hooking up culture is sickening and it's sickening that men/women are distracted by blaming the other rather than realizing the only thing they can control is themselves... looking at it from only one side (to just take the side of the women just because) is honestly what brought it all down to begin with... like it or not
You know what they say nowadays : "her baby, his maybe". I guess in that last case, those "maybe"s kept adding up until it made no sense, yet he chose to stay. And people wonder why broken families still exist. The babies will pick up on that toxicity between them, and they'll be affected in the future by it. If you love those kids, let go and move on, you're just shopping for pain if you stay.
Sandy, he should leave the kids now? He’s a better person for those kids than she is. There’s nothing worse than a game player-her. She doesn’t deserve him
The first woman sounds ridiculous. The man told you from the very beginning that he didn’t want kids. So complaining about doing things “by yourself” sounds like you’re playing victim of a situation that you knew you’d be in
That last case. Ugh. Disgusting. “I cannot I WILL not break my daughters heart like that. I’m not that type of person.” Only when it’s a dude and you get blessed with a bad memory….that poor guy 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺that’s how you ruin three lives in one.
She's just using that man for money You can definitely tell She knew all that time that those children were his You can tell she wasn't even nervous when she read the results She knew😢.. It's some pookie or Ray Ray or Tyrone's kid that she know he won't take care of the kids and she said oh I'll just get my pathetic boyfriend to take care of the kids... Just scandalous
Oh my goodness, the last case was something else. The 2 kids have no resemblance. You can tell they're from 2 different dads. She must've got cemens in there doing rock, paper, scissors.
The last case, IMHO the mother is as cold as ice. She says she couldn't break her little girl's heart by telling her her Daddy isn't coming home, while at the same time totally destroying the plaintiff who loves her kids as much as any Daddy could.
The lady on the last case was taking advantage of that man 💯. Jesus😢 nd those kids are so beautiful. I hope he got up nd left her asap for his sanity because the cycle of cheating won't end anytime soon.
Last case. She has zero emotions and he has all the emotions. He needs to tear that bandaid off and allow her to take responsibility for her actions. Forcing her to deal with finding their fathers
OMG that last guy my heart hurt for him you know what he is a wonderful human being and them gorgeous children their future will be full of light if he stays to take care of them🇬🇧❤️
The first case…while I don’t condone much of anything that these two are doing, I’ve got to believe the man that the woman gave him papers that she couldn’t have anymore children. For a man, that’s it, that’s all he needs to know.
