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In my experience, forgiving someone who hurt you just gives them an easy way to hurt you again The forgiveness is for yourself more than them, but it doesn't change anything about the wrongdoer
JESUS said 70×7...It means the offences won't stop,they will always come. if you can't deal with forgiving a person over and over again,then I'm sorry to say you're simply setting yourself up for an isolated life. oh! and don't forget, it'll be difficult to ask GOD for forgiveness too,cos we offend HIM almost on a daily...should HE avoid us too?💁🏾♀️
Some individuals are headache, stress even if you forgive they don't appreciate they still mock, harrass, mistreat.... nkt ; how do I deal with such people? 😳😳😁🙏🏾
Forgive means you forget what they do and love them again. You change the pain with love. That's why all of us need Jesus to forgive others or ourselves.
“As i walked out the prison gates that would lead me to my freedom, i knew if i didn’t leave my anger and hatred behind, i would still be in prison” - Nelson Mandela
It is very possible to forgive someone and still feel pain over what they did. Healing takes time and it’s an ongoing journey. Healing cannot be rushed. 🙏🏾
*The first to apologize, is the bravest. The first to forgive, is the strongest. And the first to forget: is the happiest. Forgive others. Not because they deserve forgiveness. But because you deserve peace.*
"God says I no longer remember your sins" IF you repented of your sins, God will no longer remember that. IF you don't repent and still continue your wrong doing, God will hold your actions against you and he will throw you in Hell if you continue in persistent disobedience. You're a religious nutcase that cannot think properly in life that you cannot recognize wrong doing anymore because you've been led to the path of "excessive righteousness" that you cannot acknowledge wrong doing anymore (Ecclesiastes 7:16)
Especially if they want to be the ones to console you! Like no that’s gross!!! You just hurt me , I can’t even look at you… and now want to hug it out? It’s such a mind perversion.
But I would suggest you my friend, it will take time and I'm going through the same phase, but please do it for yourself.. Or it will consume you and hurt you more.. The hurt will make you suffer. Forgive them and let them go.. God bless you.
Heavenly Father I pray that you forgive everyone's sin even if they refuse to repent and continue their wrong doing just like this religious lunatic forgive someone @mreater2923 because it looks he is more forgiving than you. All you need to say is the magic phrase "father forgive them" and poof! Everyone's sin is forgiven without faith and repentance therefore everybody will go to heaven no matter how diabolical sinners they are. No one will go to hell anymore!! Praise Jesus!!
Then you don't forgive; Forgiveness is forgetting, that means you're healed: Hebrews 10:17 And their sins and iniquities will I remember no more. Matthew 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
@Dream-Eternal87 Thank you; Sis, actually 😊 I forgive you, NO!😅, that is not, actually, forgiveness I have applied, but Grace - not even considering any wrong done 😊. I'm going to say something radical here! Few people knows it, even amongst the Church! Forgiveness can only be given when it is asked for - this is why the whole Bible is constantly saying, Repent, Repent - not even God can forgive us if we don't come into Him for repentance (Acts 2:38), and it is because of this lack of repentance why hell fire awaits mankind: 1Jo 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Now, does that mean that because someone doesn't say sorry for the wrong they did us, that we hold it against them? No. The Bible says we go to them and let them know that they have hurt us, giving the opportunity for them to say sorry - maybe they didn't even realize they stepped on your toe😊, God tells us our sin in His Word every day giving us the opportunity to repent. If we still keep breaking stick in our ears, that's where hell will, eventually, come in. If we tell a person that they did us wrong, and they still refuse to acknowledge and apologize, bring a witness - if still refuse to apologize, make it public - if still refuse to apologize, you done your job, done everything you could and freed yourself - write them off - consider it done and done! (Matt 18:16-18) Anytime somebody apologize, we ought to forgive them, and we are both accountable - it's not a case where you can say, well, he/she did me wrong, they got to come to me and apologize; God says if they won't come, go to them - make things right😊; God did it: Isaiah 1:18 Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool. These principles are just right for the church, which we become in salvation: Acts 2:38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
@@Dream-Eternal87 The reason to forgive: Matthew 6:14-15 14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: 15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
@@solidsnake8331brother i was just like you , at first i became angry , then comes ego , later vengeance.. you slowly become more immoral than the person that hurt you .. believe in god , read the literature, listen to your religious leaders and have faith and take care of yourself and everyone around you.
Forgiveness is accepting a choice not accepting a behavior. Example you have to accept a person has a right to make decisions whether you agree with it or not. That doesn't mean you have to tolerate their behavior. Example is a person cheat on you in a marriage. Now you can't control a person choice so they can do what they want. You have accepted their choice but that doesn't mean you have to stay in the marriage. You have a right to divorce the person and get out of the marriage.
@Latrease Leah Yess it does because people become bitter and vengeful because of people decisions. For example, men have killed women and vice versa because they can't accept their decision too move on and get a divorce. Another choice is murder some people have never gotten over a person decision to murder a love one. That is why some have never gotten over it and can't let it go because they can never understand why they did it. What gets people a lot of times is breaking down and reasoning with themselves on why a person did what they did. You can never move on if you don't accept the choice first. I can never get another girl if im still stuck on why my ex-girlfriend left me. If i still try to figure out how to get her back, or i keep trying to contact her in order for her to give me closure. I will never move on and make myself available for the next girl. You have to accept their choice also because they sometimes will not give you an honest answer. You have to free yourself, and it starts with accepting someone choice. You have to accept some people not going to like or accept you in life. If you also want to accept it by people, you are going to be miserable. People don't need to give a good reason to do anything to you. They can simply do it because they want to. People also have motivates on why they do things, and you will never figure it out.
@Latrease Leah One question: How do you heal? You can't say time because their are people who never gotten over things that happened 10 or 15 years ago.
One of life hard lessons, to forgive - is an act of self love, if one can't forgive another then do it for yourself, forgive the other for your peace of mind so that you can move on to better times. Peace ✌️🌟💫
@@reg8297for self preservation. to live ... other wise it’s like poison . That will eat u up . Like decomposing of your flesh . It’s become so painful u rather dies. So , let go and live the life u deserve to live 😮
@@reg8297 I hope you don't get normalized upon wrong doing though, this kind of forgiveness will make you think it's okay if people do wrong to you. In this world, there are a lot of wolves, and these people are not willing to change.
If you don't acknowledge their wrong doing, you'll get yourself normalized upon wrong doing that it's okay if people do that to you. In this world, there are a lot of wolves, and these people are not willing to change. Watch out for them, don't get yourself susceptible.
Agree. My challenge is to trust myself to walk away. Forgive for me, Forget for me, will happen when I fully trust myself to act in my best interest in any situation. And therefore the energy of the thing they did stays with them.
I will definitely try to forgive and if not definitely forget and move on to my better life for sure. Mr. Steve Harvey, Thanks for this amazing quote. I am feeling so better. Thanks so much.
Very true I had a long list of people who hurt me and yes I had a plan for revenge but I recently learned I don’t have to fight when someone much bigger is fighting for me
Yup! "Father forgive them" right? So it's safe to assume that those people who crucified Jesus went to heaven, right? Even Gestas, the one who mocks Jesus on the cross and refuses to repent, he goes to heaven as well right? I bet he is still mocking Jesus in heaven but Jesus forgave him so that devil went to heaven. How I wish Jesus would just say "father forgive them" and forgive everyone without faith and repentance so that no one will go to hell anymore. Everybody will go to heaven no matter how diabolical sinners they are. Christians are surely being driven to religious lunacy that they cannot think properly anymore for they had been led to the path of "excessive righteousness" (Ecclesiastes 7:16)
yeah it's love your enemies and even ask God to bless them without being mean like even tho they don't deserve it none of us do we all fall short. but ya idk i have a hard time with the ones thst still affect u lomg term even well after or yrs later or permanently etc it makes it harder to forgive n move on m let go when u feel the pain everyday from what they did. it sucks but idk how else to solve it but to pray.
Easier said than done, especially when the pain is excruciating... One is not in that person's shoes, what rights does one have to tell the person to just let go, one has not experienced what the person has gone through...
Amen!!! Je hebt gelijk. Maar Steve heeft ook gelijk. Vergeving is meer voor jezelf dan voor die persoon. Niet vergeven kan behoorlijk schadelijk zijn voor je eigen gezondheid.
We can't all find peace through forgiveness. This is real, not something sappy emotional drama preaching idealised Christian propaganda For some peace of mind from the wrongdoer is vengeance
Forgiveness is forgiving yourself for even entertaining the situation. And forgiving yourself even if the individual doesn't forgive you! Forgiveness stop your blessing!No one is WORTH stopping your blessing It set you free in your mind, body & spirit! Don't let no one live rent free in your energy, time, space or body. Forgiveness is like letting someone to HOLD POWER & CONTROL over you? No one is WORTH THAT!! Stay Bless y'all 💫🙏🏻👏🏻
I recently said I forgave someone and it only mad me feel worse and more mad at them because I felt they owed me and apology. I wish they could just say sorry instead of always playing victim.
Some will and some not. You better not endanger yourself with this kind of forgiveness. You will most likely fail to recognize wrong doing and will lead you to a lot of foolishness in life because you're too superstitious that everyone will change.
Steve Harvey. You’re right. As much as I don’t want it to be true, I have gone to the depths of hell not knowing or being able to forgive. It is complete hell and torture and pain with a chronic illness of 10 years. I pray I be restored completely as I forgive and get my life back
People are cruel all day and everyday regardless of whether someone scolds them. that’s why it’s up to you to find healing and comfort in yourself so that you can be free from that person and what they did mentally.
You cannot really follow this kind of forgiveness of what Steve Harvey is saying. This kind of forgiveness is so fictitious that it can't allow you to recognize wrong doing. I'm telling you, in this world, there's a lot of dangerous wolves. If you choose to forgive them out of the blue, you'll be vulnerable to a lot of foolishness in life.
you can forgive a person and still hurt because some things are terribly painful especially narcissistic abuse you cant just forget what happened and remembering triggers depression and feelings of remorse for even allowing the abuse unaware that you're hated and being manipulated
I believe that when you turn over the anger & hurt over to the higher power. Expel whatever demonic entity that caused your suffering to exit your surroundings forever. Move forward, thank God for your lessons in wisdom, move forward in life & never look back. God & time heals all anger & hurt. Take it to the Lord & leave it there, is what I learned as a child. That's how I let go. I let God. 🎉
Hello beautiful how are you doing I hope you're doing great so please can I have your WhatsApp number or telegram so we can talk more better if you don't mind
You may forgive people and let go and try to move on, but the constant flash back memory reminding you of all the pain, no matter what you do , you are still the same place. May God erase it from your mind
Absolutely Correct! Forgiveness doesn’t mean unconditional tolerance of abusive behavior. Even after verbally confronting a person they will not stop and do not respect boundaries. So some people find it best to go low or no contact for self preservation.
Forgiveness is being able to sleep at night, leaving someone in the past where they belong without having to ruin their reputation, it’s up to god and karma for what they will do with that someone.
@@jordiogando695 It's been two months since I was ghosted. I'm still trying to sleep through the night. I hope they are not doing well. I'm hoping for a answer.
Hello beautiful how are you doing I hope you're doing great so please can I have your WhatsApp number or telegram number so we can talk more better if you don't mind ❤❤❤❤❤
This kind of forgiveness Steve Harvey is saying is a lie and detrimental. If you forgive and forget, you'll get yourself normalized upon wrong doing that you cannot recognize wrong doing anymore. In this world, there's a lot of wolves and those people are not willing to change. You'll be susceptible upon them which will lead you in a terrible situation.
