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@@pumpkin.spiced not old enough to tell me about life.....and I'm a millennial too. a lot of us just know hypes and relationship trends but didn't do the work yet for something foundational.
Most women like the woman in beige (who says she cheated on every man she dated before her hubs) THEY have back up plans. But women who are loyal and are searching for something serious do not have a back up plan.
Basically, they have placeholders! Sadly, this is why some ppl friend zone other ppl just to keep them in waiting just in case their relationship doesn't work. What a sad world!!!
Friend zone tf Noooo u know I'm dating 2 people til one commits He aint in no friend zone he knows damn well Friend zone is for a person i will never date or sleep with Not the same Dont pretend u know all women
It’s all about your relationship goals. If your dating for fun or to see what you can get out of a dude then yes. But if you date with the intent to find your husband than good luck. Because today males and females aren’t trying to grow together and marry they trying to see what they can get out the dating game. 🎯
That's a lie she just having fun If a dude ask her out n she not committed if she like him why say no.. You trying to put people in a box Ill drop a man with no back up Or ill date 2 people at once And ill be celibate no calls nothing for 2 years straight.. Stop trying to box people You don't know women like that Hell o talk to 5 dudes at once for 7 weeks aint sleep with nobody Had 2 men when i met my husband When he ask for a relationship dropped the other dude He never ever knew.. Stop trying to act like everybody basic
So you agree that men who've never been faithful to their ex girlfriends will also cheat on their wives? Well, I guess that's why they say: "Once a cheater, always a cheater".
I get your point, however, that's not always true unless that woman has no clue on the real definition of a friend. Only immature women keep these types of dudes on tap and try to pass them off as "friends" to their boyfriends as if they aren't smart enough to know the difference. #HeauxTales
Most ppl barely have friends. Who are these ppl with backup mean or women. While dating I see how it's possible. But while in an exclusive relationship before marriage, no. Why be exclusive if you have to keep others around just in case
I think having a backup plan says a lot about a person character... The kind of person you don't have true passionate love with because one foot in and one foot out isn't authentic. Because your attention is aimless and distracted Plan Bs Don't Stay If They're Not "Entertained"
If the "family structure" is important for the healthy raising of children, and a man divorcing a woman is a possibility, then women (especially those with children) should always have a backup. Not for her personal needs, but in an effort to maintain balance and structure in her home. Especially since the community structure that supports single mothers is usually somewhat broken and/or doesn't necessarily include strong male figures.
Lol dude said when you dating or in a relationship lol if you have options while your with someone in my opinion just stay single lol 😂 that sounds like some real insecurity talking in the words of Stan Smith there’s a lot of things that you have back up plans for but love isn’t one of them🖤✊🏻
This is bullsh*t. If I have a Plan B obviously Plan A isn’t special and I’m not committed. If I’m in a relationship, I’m *IN* a relationship. I don’t need a backup and I would never disrespect someone by asking or requiring him to play second. If my significant other and I break up, I’m secure enough to be okay with being by myself while I heal, get over it, and prepare myself for opening up to someone new.
Fool someone that likes you and gives you time will feel played even if they have someone they're trying to get with you but you see that they have someone so you don't commit and they feel played cause they wanted you
When you do something once your body makes a new connection in the brain. The more you do that thing the more solid that connection is in your brain so much so that it becomes like a deep valley. This is why habits are so common and so hard to stray away from. I would find it hard to believe that the woman in the beige doesn't think about cheating on her husband regularly. If you've cheated regularly on all your men for a decade how are you not going to be triggered by seeing other fine men or triggered when you're man angers and upsets you?? At that point it's like cigarettes
Not necessarily. Sounds like that woman was dating for fun and playing the field instead for finding "the one," especially when the dating pool you're fishing in is full of men whom you already know are nothing close to marriage material. She likely dated men who were also cheaters.
@@melaninmoxiellc963 you're probably right she probably was only dating for fun at that point. That doesn't change the fact though. Thought patterns are patterns. Habits are habits. Once a woman like that finds the one she'll have to undo those thought patterns and habits. The brain likes to do what it knows how to do
@@pumpkin.spiced sure she can change but thoughts happen whether you want them to or not. Addicts can change too but they still think about the thing they're addicted to and even desire it
@@JCDenten557 i hear you. But as a person in that situation it's not always the case what you think. I had toxic sexual habits yes. Yet I been going out with 1 guy, i don't even think he is the one. i think of other men yes. But not as far as wanting to sleep with them. I haven't cheated and I don't want to cheat because I like the peace and stability of my mind. He ain't shit
Every time he talk wisdom Every single time.. If u not fully committed U need a back up..period❤ The girl is brown is right too A woman will not cheat on a man she loves She'll drop men n hell never even know she had them in the early stages She dont make him guess.. Real men don't make u guess either They b focused N hardworking
Nooo.Nooo. am Not Interested. Kaysweet from the Bronx. My recent man was my only. A back up. Yes you may need. Sometimes your man will anc can act Right in all areas. But all men today seem the same. Jealous, Insecure, Think every woman is Cheating on them. To the Next chick come along and do them dirty. Now they are Looking to 1-day reach out.. sick in the head
U dont need a back up if you're committed.. If he act up You should start taking numbers though.. B prepared to move on Dont eliminate But if he good n you both committed n faithful u don't need a back up If yall break up A woman will go to the store meet a dude the next day She dont need a back up
