아 진짜 내가 저기서 왼쪽에 있는 사람이었으면 진짜 멘붕 오지게 왔을 것 같음 살면서 실제로는 잘 못 보는 사람들을 한꺼번에 보고 영상 제목은 절대 악플이 달리지 않을 것 이라잖아,,, 어떻게 해야 말을 잘 할 수 있을까,,, 하는 생각하고,,, 근데 검은색 옷 입은 분 말 완전 예쁘게 하심,,,ㅠ
bluush why are they messed up? I think they make a valid point. When people walk on eggshells around you it makes you feel uncomfortable like you’re the elephant in the room. It’s like you’re indirectly treating them differently than you’d treat anyone else.
153 CM Still, she was trying her hardest to be respectful. Saying “I felt the most offended by her.” would make her feel bad as well. The person didn’t mind it either, because she was just trying to ignore the obvious fact that there’s something physically different about them and is trying to see what their actual personality is like.
The girl in the red dress and the guy with the glasses are both really attractive. I think the girl in black is the nicest though and most open-minded.
@@EmmaCieKocha cisgender is someone who identifies with the gender they were assigned at birth. Example: I was assigned female at birth so I identify as a woman.
@topknotch but they are tho..? Literally a kid gets born the doctor looks at it and goes its a boy/girl! And then they're assigned that gender, what do you think happens?
The girl wearing black was the best in my opinion, she did so well in talking to them! She reminds me of Do Hana from A-teen too lol, she was so thoughtful and even asked them if she said something offensive that she didn’t notice
@@mossybricks8682 where I am it depends. I often get people who are uncomfortable or don't know what it means and older people tend to ask pretty invasive questions
that’s how to deal with trans people!!! don’t be like “oh that’s so cool” or “you’re the first trans person i’ve met” or ask personal details about their transition etc ... just be normal! we’re people too
왜 한건지 진짜 모르겠네요. 알고리즘 때문에 보게됐는데 안경안쓰신 남성분 마지막 말이 공감이 되네요. 이런 상황을 만들어 놓고 약간 몰아가는 식으로 하니까 어쩔 수 없이 이야기 또는 답변을 하는거지 일상생활에서 봤으면 별 생각없이 충분히 그냥 지나칠만한 상황인거같은데요. 세상에는 여러 사람이 있고 다 똑같을 순 없는거니까요. 다름을 다 이해하고 존중하는 사람들이 더 많으니까 혹시나 나오신 분들도 너무 걱정 안하셔도 될거같아요...
i was looking for a comment about her because she was so nice about everything... she went out of her way to be considerate even though the people knew they were there to get reactions out of people
그런데 또 마지막에 출연진들이 말하는 부분을 의도적으로 자른게 출연진들이 과연 진짜로 불편한 부분이 있었을지 없었을지를 시청하는 우리로선 알 수 없게 만든것 같아요. 우리가 아무리 댓글로 저 출연진은 저 말에서 분명히 불편함을 느꼈을것이다, 아니다 안그럴것이다 왈가왈부해도 정말 불편함을 느꼈을지는 출연진 본인만 알게끔 돼있는거죠. 과연 출연진들이 우리 시청자들 생각대로 상처받은 부분이 있다고 확신할 수 있을까요?
Is anyone gonna not talk about how smooth the cosplayer was? Her: if your girlfriend cosplayed, what would you do? Him: I guess I'd cosplay with her Her: would you like to cosplay with me?
why do I feel like she has a very judgy look especially when the cosplay girl came up and like the way she looked at her idk maybe she just has fiercer eyes
저는 오히려...사적으로만났으면 오히려 이상한 눈초리를 주거나 별로 대화하고싶지않아하는 사람들이 많지않을까싶네요. 방송이니까 저런게 아닐까란 생각. 사람들이 아닌척해도 사소한거가지고도 "쟨왜저래?" 거리기 바쁜세상인데...실제였다면 진심으로 편하게 대화할수있는 사람들은 극소수였을듯.
Siickroze haha I thought so too at first but now I think that may just be her face (resting bitch face, I have it too :( ) and her eyes are a bit intense
우리들이 하는 '배려'는 온전히 그 사람을 위한 행동일까? 욕 먹기 싫어서, 좋은 사람으로 보이고 싶어서 하는 '나'를 위한 행동 아닌지? 영상 마지막, 소수자들의 소리 없는 아우성은.. 당장 눈 앞에 있는 그 들보다 실체없는 군중에게 더 귀 기울였던 우리를 반성하게 한다
정말 좋은 말이고 날카로운 말이지만 극도로 날카로워서 저기 계셨던 분들의 마음을 베어 나름의 배려라고 생각한 행동이 타인에게 좋은사람으로 보이고 싶어 행동하는 본인을 위한 행동이라는 말까지 듣게되는게 좀 그렇네요 그런 말을 들을정도로 어긋나게 행동한 것도 아니고 보통 상식과 다른 상황에 마주하면 익숙하고 편하게 행동하는 것이 머리론 되어도 행동으론 힘든데...
The man with the superman shirt on, I could tell they were a man 3 seconds after looking at them. Jawline and cheekbones are rather hard to change. Not cute at all.
Alastair Goldberg You’re so disrespectful. It’s so much money to transition yet you still say stuff like this. She’s trying her best to look like what she sees herself as in her mind yet as soon as she says “I’m trans” people like you completely change the way you view her. It’s so hard to be trans, dysphoria is a feeling that’s so painful, worse than heartbreak. You don’t have to accept it, we don’t need your input, just keep your mouth shut and leave if you don’t like it.
Have anyone of ya watched "Rainbow Days" or "Nijiiro Days". There's a couple of a female cosplayer and a (iirc) a tall, intelligent kinda guy. Those two reminded me of them.
He has a male voice trying to talk like a female. His vocal strings couldn't handle the pressure of sounding that high so it got unstable. Thats why the ahhh sounded like a dying chicken
the woman that was trans... trans woman: When did you know I was trans? lady in red: when you laughed, your tone of voice trans woman: ah, my tone of voice? *high pitched screech*
Corvid H the only complaint I had this entire vid was the trans women looked so real i thought it was an actual women lol. It was so uncomfortable afterwards
The girl in the red looks like she had a lot of negative things to say but was consciously trying very hard. The girl in black seemed natural and wasnt trying to be a suck up either.
Prince Rain I think the girl in the red wasn’t necessarily having negative things to say, but rather was scared she would say something that didn’t come out right and she’s trying to be very careful with her wording so it isn’t misinterpreted. After all, the goal of this video is not to get hate comments. Also, she could be socially awkward or have social anxiety or something making her just nervous in social situations like these.
It's always hard to not offend anyone. I find it funny how they tried so hard and their 'oh' 'eh' expression after they said something and realized "oh sh*t this not it"
The girl wearing black was the least offensive, in my opinion, because she was the most straightforward but thoughtful in her comments. It was most fluid and genuine. The guy in the glasses was the most offensive because I felt he was the opposite. It was awkward and he did not want to acknowledge the obvious ie. when the man with dwarfism came up and he said his personality stood out
How is it offensive if he's still trying to be nice, civil and polite. You are basicly hating someone because they dont put in effort to make you feel good about yourself. With that narciscist judgemental attitute arent you not worse than the things you accuse others of?
Tr when you avoid the obvious answer to try and skip around what the topic is, it comes off as not genuine. And he can still be nice, civil, and polite while seeming not genuine.
Hard agree on this. When he said the guy's personality stood out the most, he just wanted to avoid everything. The guy with dwarfism literally just met him and they haven't even spoken. To say his personality stood out most was pretty offensive
전 좋은 컨탠츠 같아요. 말로만 우린 모두 똑같다 그러지만 저렇게 마주하게 되면 이 사람이 보통과는 다른데 어떻게 말해야 상처를 안받을까?? 라고 생각할 수 밖에 없게 되는걸 적나라하게 보여주는 좋은 기회인거같습니다. 은연중에 정상 비정상을 나누고 있다는 걸 알게 해주는거 같아요. 모두가 평등하고 똑같은 사람이라면 전 키큰사람이 좋아요 근데 그쪽은 키가 작네요?? 라고 그냥 말하지 않을까요. 키는 본인의 취향일 뿐 사람에게 있어서는 전혀 문제가 되지 않는다고 생각할테니까요.
@책상아래코딱지 안좋다고 생각하진 않아요. 모든 사람은 다 다른게 당연한거고 저분들도 모두 다른 사람들중 일부니까요. 단지 저는 이 채널이 이 동영상을 제작한 이유에 대해 의문을 품었을 뿐이에요. 과연 악플이 달리지 않고 사회적인 시선을 개선하기 위해 이 영상을 만든거라면 이런식으로 ‘다르다고 악플이 달리면 안된다’ ‘저들은 다르지만 존중받아야한다’ 라는 저분들 스스로 다르다는 걸 인지하게 만드는 메세지를 던져주기보다 ‘이 사람들도 지극히 평범한 우리 사회의 일부이다’ 라는 메세지를 주어야 했다고 생각해요!
근데 그걸 의도적으로 담아내려 한 게 아닐까 싶기도 하네요. 일반적인 사람과 일반적이지 않은 사람을 나누고 악플을 기피하면서 어색한 친절을 베푸는 것을 보면 현재 사회에서 위선적인 모습을 보여주고 있는 것 같기도 하고요. 아웃트로에 관해 말한 다른 댓글도 읽다가 느꼈어요. 여러모로 재밌는 영상임
it's actually such a relaxing tone I think! Deep voiced women are quite common whether they be trans women or not so it's nice to see people not assuming based on just one factor
I knew she was transgender right away when she spoke. It's not to be rude. I'm a transgender male and my girlfriend is transgender as well. As someone who's been a part of the trans-"community" for a while, you just kind of know. :')
@@park710 댓글 1개더썻는데 지워져서 다시쓴다 옛날 10년전만해도 게이 트젠 이런 얘기나오면 다들 극도로 싫어하고 혐오햇엇는데 지금은 뭐 동성결혼도되고 게이 트젠을 존중해줘야된다고?ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 인간성을 져버리는 행동인데 아주그냥 미쳣구나 사람들 인식수준이 정말역겹다 정부에서 규탄해야된다고본다. 진짜 역겹다
The concept of this video is mindblowing for me. This is the best video I've seen in a while. Can't wait for the next video. Even though I feel is impossible to not receive hate comments on the internet, the message is worth spreading.
