TRYING TO CONCEIVE JOURNEY - raw & emotional 

This video is so comforting to watch and so relatable. My husband and I were trying for 16 months. We did hormones tests, ultrasounds, sperm analysis and everything came back normal. After many tears, BFN’s and ovulation tracking, FINALLY after 16 months we got our BFP. Sending baby dust to everyone who needs it ✨ 🧚‍♀️

I cant tell you how grateful i am for this video. You have expressed literally every thought. Each month, I look for ANY and EVERY sign that I could be pregnant. I changed my diet, take the pill every day, dont drink alcohol etc.... 5 couples around me are pregnant, and one of them didn't even want it, and another are havinf twins. I cry every month. We're on month 6 trying. My birthday is tomorrow. Im beyond depressed and jealous. So. Thank you. You are helping me feel less alone, and feel that my feelings are validated.

I first watched this video when I was still ttc. ‘Trying, but not’ because my partner didn’t want to fully try. It’s honestly really defeating watching people fall so easily. I was really upset in Jan telling my partner I was sad because if I didn’t get pregnant in the next two months it would be a 24’ baby. Literally 2 weeks later I got my BFP. I went down the wormhole, learned everything. Even when not tracking I knew when things were happening. Took us 9 months.

Thank you so much for posting this! My husband and I are trying to conceive now and it’s just so emotional! I try not to get my hopes up every month but I still do and it’s so hard seeing that negative result. I appreciate that you were willing to be raw in front of us. It helps me see that I’m not the only one with this struggle

I think we are taught in school that it’ll happen just once which I guess is true in some cases but as an adult who was ttc that piece of information crushed me because it probably took us 18 months. I broke down each and every month wondering what was wrong with us because it didn’t happen straight away like a lot of my friends it happened on accident / instantly

Too many people talk about it like once you decide to get pregnant, next time you do it, BOOM pregs. So happy for you both!

Thank you so much for this video. I'm on cycle #6 of ttc my second baby I'm crying along with you. I'm so happy you got pregnant ♥️

this video has honestly helped me so much, my husband and I are in the Same boat 7 months of trying with no luck and we are the same age as you guys, I’m so happy for you both and wish you a happy and safe pregnancy ❤️❤️

Thank you for posting Bek, this is how I feel and it's so comforting to feel less alone xx

Thank you for this. So so happy for you.

Thank you for this Bek, currently on month #4 of trying and this was so helpful ❤️✨

Who else shed a little tear at the end. So happy for you two!!!

I needed this. It’s been one year of trying this month and I’m really feeling the feels.. thank you for helping me not feel so alone ❤

So relatable, and your story is very similar to ours! It took us 10 cycles of actively trying to conceive and I remember feeling the same rollercoaster of emotions. Thank you for sharing your journey and i’m so, so happy for you both! 🤍

This video meant so much to me because I’ve felt exactly the same. We’ve been trying for around 8 months actively but around 12/13 in total! Seeing your two lines gave me so much hope but I felt your heartache every time you got that negative ❤️ thank you so much for sharing and congratulations to you guys 🎉❤️

Well done for sharing guys ♥

Social media is really difficult isn’t it? Thank you for sharing your very honest journey ❤ it’s difficult, and it helps for others to know they aren’t alone

❤️ awww such raw emotions 😢. Love you guys and so can’t wait to meet our little Grandbaby 🥰

there truly are NO videos on this so THANK YOU! xx

Thank you for sharing. This has helped me. I know how you were feeling! 😢but congratulations 🤰

‘Very much negative. Love that for me!’ Can relate.

Thank you for sharing. Congratulations! My husband and I have been trying for almost 3 years with multiple early miscarriages and no explanation as to why. Very frustrating

🥹 Crying because I am going through this right now and I have needed this reminder so much. I am so so happy for you both ❤️

Thank you for sharing your TTC journey, we had a similar journey and I'm now 34 weeks with our baby boy! It's such an emotional rollercoaster trying but all worth it in the end :) congratulations!!! x

This is so relatable and so similar to me and my fiancés story 🥺. We have been trying all year with no luck despite tracking, actively trying etc. I’m getting so over it. So drained all the time, so upset, frustrated etc. Like you, I fully understand it takes time but when you want it so bad it feels like forever. I hope I’ll be pregnant soon. Congratulations guys 💕💕💕

Thank you for opening up to us and sharing your experience because this is real and it does take time and it does take work on us to eat better, sleep, drink water, take vitamins, etc so I saw your pregnancy video before this one but I am so happy for you and your so strong and the patience makes it worth it mama! Congratulations 🎉

Thank you

Bek I am so happy for you and Cody that you are expecting 💚 we have also walked a hard fertility journey and I know that feeling of loneliness. Enjoy your pregnancy 💜

Thank you so much for being open about your journey. There’s a lot of women trying and although it isn’t fun going thru any form of infertility, it’s reassuring that to hear these stories. And nice to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you 🤍

I somehow convinced myself that I didn't want kids and that this was God telling me that my purpose is elsewhere..but I have faith and hope that God has a plan for this infertile period in my life....my husband and I are newly wed, so we are taking this time to just grow closer to each other and learning how to have more faith ❤

This video was helpful. I missed my period for 3 months and wasn’t pregnant. Finally got my period back and I’m so afraid I will go another 3 months without it. You’re not alone.

❤️Amen

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My partner and I are in this boat, he has a brain tumour which effects his fertility 😔 although we know why we cant get pregnant i cant help but feel exactly this way 😔 this has made me feel less alone ❤️

I’m 26 and I’ve been really ttc for these last 9 months. Very upsetting so I’m currently relating

I felt that, when you said everyone around you is pregnant but you. Five friends on my fb have announced their first well really their second baby, but me. We arent trying though because we are having issues buyin a house because of the ridiculous market right now but im old and want a healthy baby soooo badly and feel i wont ever get my chance 😢😢😢

It is very frustrating when you do everything. Taking supplements, planing intercourse, tracking your cycle and doing that on repeat just to get the same fucking negative test :(

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Took my husband and I 8 years to conceive our baby girl we moved into ivf did 1 round and I was lucky to get pregnant.

Me ttc since 2008 😢 it’s 2023 now 😢

I also wish to get pregnant this month, just hoping for a positive result 🤞🏻🤞🏻

I’m just curious you said that at the 12 month mark you were tracking but you weren’t sure you were ovulating. Were you checking your LH at home at all? (Not just ovulation test sticks)

I got pregnant on the first try but had a miscarriage at 5 weeks 💔 We started trying again straight away after that but now we can’t conceive! Its been 4 months after miscarriage. So many down moments 💔😭 I feel you!

Currently onto month 6 and I keep thinking this wait means god doesn’t want me to be a mom or that I’ll never get pregnant, such a crazy journey we are all on lol!

Expect Good news by Dec2022.

Thank you for sharing your journey. We aren’t looking at trying to conceive any time soon but I always have this in the back of my mind when we are ready. Whether you have been trying a few months or a few years your feelings are valid 🫶🏽