Tsis Paub Ntseeg Leej Twg. 4/25/24 

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Son, listening to this story and being a hmong woman myself, I know how HARD it is to be a nyab. Especially when your husband's side doesn't like you. It sounds to me like your father and your grandparents filled you with lies. They are doing EVERYTHING they can to keep you away from your mother. You need to understand that when the parents don't like the daughter in law, they will do whatever they can to destroy their son's marriage. Hmong parents from that era are VERY TOXIC!!! My parents are one of them. If they can't control you, they'd rather disown you. To them, it's all about control. They don't want to see their children happy. They'd rather choose their daughter in law whether the son likes her or not. Trust your mother. She wouldn't lie to you.

Kv ntseeg kj niam yog tus yog tus hlub kj ❤ kj txiv thiab kj pog yawg nkawv siab phem heev yuav pham

Tham ntau ntau ces yeej yuav tsum muaj qhov yuam kev os…

Ntshe twb yog tim koj txiv koj pog lawv es koj txiv thiaj tau koj niam tus mob ntag ma

Koj txiv tsev neeg phem xwb mi tub txhob tu siab mog lawv tsi hu los ua ib siab rau rau siab ua yus lub neej xwb mog mi tub ❤❤❤❤

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Cas koj twb yuav poj niam sav los, cas hais hais txog thaum koj niam yuav tuag ho tias tsis tau yuav no na. Lis yog kuv mloog yuav kev na😂😂😂😂

Koj txiv koj yawg dag lawm peb ntseeg koj niam lawm

So sad...

Confusing.

Koj zaj neej neeg no zoo li mloog mas yog tim koj pog , yawg thiab koj txiv lawv lawm os me tub .ua cas nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os.

This is a story where children need to stay in their place. There's no need for you to pick side. Regardless of the circumstances, you should love and care for the people who raised you. There's no need to cut out the other side either. Keep your head up and love them independently. As for religion, don't go to church because you need help. Go if you believe in its core value and teachings.

Niaj phauj ntawm los tsis ntsim nyog hu uas phauj lawm thiaj os uas cas uas neeg nyob yuav xav kom txhau yam zoo rau yus tsev neeg tabsim xav kom qhov phem poob mus rau luag neeg siab phem ma yeej siab phem li ntawm cia lub ntuj ma los coj niaj phauj es tuaj hais tej lus ntawm

tsi Muaj ib leeg niam ua yuav tsi hlubTus me nyuam li os TU me nus

Kaj tsij mus ntsseg VajTswv...txhob laig tsev niag neeg siab phem li ntawd o me Tub ...koj niam hlub koj plaws..koj niam thiaj li tso txhua yam uas nws muaj rau koj na me tub ...

Ntseeg koj niam thiaj yog qhov tseeb, vim koj txiv twb tias koj pog thiab koj yawg nkawv tsis nyiam koj niam thiab no ces koj niam qhov yog qhov tseeb lawm mog. Thiab yog tsis tseeb no koj txiv yeej tsis raug kev npam li koj niam hais tseg.

los ntseeg VAJTSWV zoo dua txhob mus thab cov niag laus nkaus nkaus ko laj siab dua

Zaj dab neeg txaus tu siab kawg. Tab sis ua cas koj tsis ua zoo hais kom peb tau taub. Koj hais pev hais tov hais nrav. Hais mus hais los li as 😂

Your mom thiaj yogbtus hlub koj os. Koj niam yeej nco koj hlub koj. Cov laus tsis txawj sib hlub muaj kev khib kev ntxub rau each other xwb.

Koj niam yeej yog tus hlub koj dua luwm os mi tub aw leej twg los yeej tsis npaum li leej niam txoj kev hlub os mog😢

Puas yog tiag tiag

Txoj neej neeg no yeej zoo tu siab kawg tabsis may koj muab hais ua rov ua rais es tsis nkag siab zoo hlo xwb os!😊

I believe your mom’s side of the story

Qhov lawv tsis hlub koj vim txoj kev khib xwb vim koj niam tuag tseg nyiaj ntau 2 rau koj ne.ces lawv thiaj txhob txwm ntxub koj xwb . Txawm li cas los nco tsoov tias peb nyob mekas teb yog lawv tsis nyiam yus ces yeej meem txav kom deb thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem os.

Being a Hmong daughter, a Hmong nyab, and a Hmong sister, I know your mom would never have abandoned you. Your grandparents would do anything to brainwash you against your mother. You knew the facts that your father and step-mom tried to change your birth certificate to look like your mother never existed. How can a mother who your grandparents claimed was so bad and didn’t love you left all she had for you? Your mother loved you and still watches over you. It’s your uncles and aunts and your father’s side of the family’s loss for disowning you. Rau rau siab ua koj lub neej rau koj thiab koj tus poj niam me nyuam xwb. This is what your mother would’ve want.

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As parents, thy shall not conceal thy child's other parent. Such actions ye shall respond to thy creator. Trust your instinct and learn from their mistakes. You're put on this earth to love and return to your creator.

Tsis thov lawv li os, tsev neeg siab phem lim hiam ntawv na txav kom deb2 zoo dua nawb. Tsev neeg ntawv yeej siab phem tiag2 li hos yog yeej muaj tiag li koj hais na.

Koj pog lawv tsis hlub koj niam..ces koj txiv ho tsis tiv thaiv koj niam thiab ..ces koj niam thiaj ua phem rau koj txiv los mas..

HMoob cai yog dev npua cai

Koj txiv thiaj yog tus phem txhob muab rau koj txiv nawb koj txiv zoo koj txiv yeej tsis hais li ntawd rau koj ib zaug li os koj txiv yeej siab phem li kojniam hais os tos koj txiv mob nas ok ntseeg koj niam thiaj yog tus hlub koj tiag vim nws tso koob hmoo tseg rau koj nawb me tub aw koj yawg lawv los yeej phem tag tus os.

May forgot the story because she already said he married and let his father take of his wedding and then the hospital called him. When he visited her in hospital she encouraged him to get married.

Yus niam thiaj hlub yus tiag xwb og tsis muaj ib leej niam yuav muab yus tug me nyuam tua

Koj tseem tos leejtwg qhia kev hlub rau koj na koj twb paub thiab pom tias koj niam lub neej txojsia tu kiag nws tej nyiaj txhua yam nws tso tag rau koj es koj txiv tseem yuav los nrog koj faib tej nyiaj ntawv mus rau nws noj koj tsimnyog paub lawm tias leejtwg hlub koj tshaj koj tsis tas yuav muab koj lub neej mus yoog koj txiv lawv tsevneeg lawm tsimnyog yus twb laus yus yuav ua taus yus ib yim neeg tsis tos leejtwg lawm hlub koj tus niam tsev thiab tej menyuam xwb txaus. Koj yawg lawv tsev hmong tsis yog neeg zoo txog qhov lawv koom tes uas rau koj niam nyob tsis taus thiab raug kaw lawv yog neeg phem

After listening to this, there's some truth to what your mom said and there's also some truth what your dad and his family's say too. However in this culture, don't trust your dad and his family too much. They are always one sided and always bash on the nyab.

Don’t be deceived. It’s the works of the devil.

I love your music and this picture are so beautiful.

I am as confused as his chaotic life.

She tired lol

Niam nrsuab teev aw cas kuv mloog koj zaj dab neeg no es tus tub ko yuav poj niam ob peb zaug diam es yog li cas tiag na koj sim rov muab mloog dua seb puas yog li kuv hais

May this is the second story es goes back and forth tsis make sense nas lol 😅 He was married and his dad did his wedding and then later on you’re saying his mom says he needs to get marry and then after his dad died he went to his brother to help him with his wedding. Like what?

Your dad used you as a threat against your mom only. They never loved each other. Move on and carry on your mother’s blessing with you and your future

Pab hlub koj niam kawg od nws nim nkim tag lub neej yuam no tsis muaj ib lib neej Los twb muaj koj ces zoo heev lawm od

😂😂😂 I heard snoring at 35:08

Cas kij ruam ua luaj na koj Niam yeej in txwm hlub koj o koj txiv Thiab koj txiv tsev neeg Yog neeg phem

Tsis nyiam koj tso lub suab paj tshuag nrog thaum koj tham cov lus

As a mother myself even if your mom did not win in court and there is no restraining order she should have still tried to be in your life and explain to you what happened. How could she just give up after losing you in court. If she love you she would have still continue to be in your life even if she didn’t win you in court this is the America. Your dad is selfish for making you pick between your mom and dad.

Cas haisua ntej ua qab li ne

Brother in life no one love you like your own mother. A father love is different from a mother love. A father love when he has a new wife’s he is no longer your father.

Cov neeg siab phem lis ntawm tsis tos lis más ua neeg nyob tsis muaj lawv yus yeej tsis tuag on mog txog nyem los tsis tuag os kuv tij hmoob. Txiv yawm rau yus txiv lawm phem lis ntawm ces muaj Xav nrog yawm nplas thiab poj nplas xwb mas 😂. Koj niam thiab hlub kok xwb Mog koj txiv ces Xav tau koj niam cov nyiag xwb tsis yog tus hub yus mog.

You question your mom’s love, but she left you her life insurance. That should tell you that she loved you and perhaps you shouldn’t believe all you hear from your dad and grandma.

May we are very confused about this story.

Kuv twb yog ib leeg niam kuv yeej paub zoo ib leej niam nw hlub nw tej me nyuam npaum nw txoj sia. Tu tub no zoo li g meej phem me tsawg thiab mu lwm tu tshaj tseem tu neeg muab txoj sia rau nw lawm.

Shouldn't have bit the hands that fed you. The sacrifice that your father and grandparents did for you should supercide the life insurance money.

Ua cas thaum niam tsis tau tuag twb hais tias yuav poj niam no. Cas thaum niam thiab txiv tuag tag hos yuav poj niam dua thiab es yog li cas tiag ne.

You can tell who was the bad people in this story. Run away from your dad side of the family as far as you can.

Koj yuav tau so me ntsis txhob hais every day es koj thiaj hais tau koj cov dab neeg make sense os😂😂

Life is not like a text book. This kid can only understand text book materials.

This story is so confusing!! First he went to college when he was 14 and when his mom was dying she told him to get marry, wasn’t he already married? And he let his dad do his wedding?? You’re losing it May Niam Ntsaub Teem🤔🤔🤔

Ntuj os teb Aw ! koj twb kawm ntawv siab li no thiab twb loj tiav txiv li no lawm koj tseem tsis paub yuav ntseeg leej twg ? Txawm koj tsis pom tsis paub txog ntawm koj niam koj txiv nkawd lub neej yav tas los tias yog tim leej twg los yog koj ntse thiab muaj hlwb ces koj tig los soj ntsuam xyuas hnub no koj niam cov lus thiab koj txiv, koj yawg lawv cov lus nrog rau lawv lub siab thiab tus cwj pwm seb lawv coj li cas xwb ces koj muaj peev xwm txhom thiab paub tau tias tus twg yog tus hais cov lus tseeb thiab tus hlub koj tiag yog koj niam los sis yog koj txiv ? Koj yog ib niag tub ruam koj niam tej zaum yuav hlub koj tab sis koj txiv ces thaum ua neej nyob nws twb tsis hlub koj tsis hais thaum tuag lawm es yuav hlub koj, koj yuav tau meej pem tshaj qhov no.

A mother that does not want you will not reach out to you again… a father that tells you to stay away from your birth mother is the bad one. Your mother didn’t tell you to leave your father for her… You have bad judgment! Should have loved and believed your mom before it was too late for you. Too late now…

Kuv xav mas koj niam hais yog qhov tseeb koj txiv thiab koj pog lawv hais ces dag xwb vim qhov teeb meem li koj niam hais kuv pom muaj ua ntu zus los.

The story teller made it so confusing for the listeners to understood but one thing was that why you actually college’s graduates, not under aged any more why letting someone else controlling you from stepping out from your comfort zone to find out the truth?. How did she knew to come visit you at your school if she didn’t know you’re actually her son from the beginning?

Twb tias yuav poj niam leej txiv nta, tab sis ho tias thaum tus niam tuav tuag ho tsis tau yuav poj niam, hais hais dab neeg xiam hlwb tag li lawm tiag

Brother, you don’t have to separate your mom and dad whenever you’re feeding them. You can feed both of them inside your house.

Your mom left bc she has bad in laws and your dad cant be a man. Everybody is telling their side of the story, theres a little bit of truth in both but not all. If your mom was a good mom, out of the 4x she went to court she would have won you back. Maybe she wasnt stable enough to keep you. And your dad and grandparents brainwash you too much, also putting false truth about ur mom in your head. We, as listener are as confused as u too. Both your parents pass away in stranger and similar circumstances, so both receive their karma. The past is gone, done and over with. Just cherish what u have right now and live life. Tu siab los txhob tu tag tag thiab.

Your mom should have all the paperwork to proof to you

His dad's family is unbelievable. They have no shame. Yus twb foom lwm tus tseem muaj ntsej muag chim rau tus tub thiab. Shame on the family, aunt and uncles.

Cov niag txiv neej hmoob uas cem leej niam rau tus me nyuam mloog ..Mas tus txiv ntawd siab phem siab dub tshaj plaws...nws Mas phem tshaj Dab...nws twb ntshaw ntog nws leej niam nyob ...tabsis nws ho muab tus leej niam cem thiab dag ...txhua yam rau tus me nyuam mloog ....nej Mas phem ..thiab dag tshaj Dab lawm ...nej Mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws li...

Wt... get the story straight. Your going back and forth.

How many time did this guy gets married? lol he got married when he let his dad do his wedding so his mom couldn’t attend. Then when his mom was about to died she told him to get married. Last toward the end he got married after he left his dad side of the family lol.

These 2 last stories are so confused. Sounds like May need a long time vacation. Hais mus hais los tsis make sense li.

Aub kuv xav tus hais dab neeg no hais tau lwm dhau lawm os ua rau kuv tsis to taub li ........

I wouldn't believe your dad everything cause your mom is not here to tell her side of the story. Keep your mom's life insurance money to yourself she didn't leave for him. What goes around comes around..I don't feel bad for your dad. Your mom was right about your dad's family. You don't need them son.

Ua Neeg nyob CES Tus Neeg twg tsis nyiam Tus Neeg sab tod lawm CES luag yeej hais Tus sab tod CES lawv yeej txhob txwm hais phem2 tshum Tus sab tod xwb NWS tsuas hais luag sab Xwb NWS yeej tsis hais NWS sab li os, mloog cov lus CES yog koj pog thiab koj yawg thiab koj txiv lawv cov lus cem koj Niam CES yog ib co lus ntxo xwb os, tsis muaj ib leej Niam yuav tsis hlub nws tus mi nyuam li os mog😢

Niam ntsuab teev aw koj muab ib tshooj los rau koj cov lub lag luam nyob os es koj txhob muab los tshaj rau hauv tshooj dab neeg no laj laj mloog li

He got married twice? You said his father did a wedding for him and then towards the end, you said his dab baug did it for him.

Your story already told you that you dad side of the family is bad and evil

I know how evil in laws can be. When they don’t like you, they will make sure your kids hates you. I feel bad for you if you don’t believe your mom.

This story is so confusing - he got married 2-3 times, no truth ever came out…

Koj txiv tus mob tsis yog Tim koj niam os nws qhov mob yog cancer prostate xwb , ruam dhau lawm os hmoob 🤦🤦

True colors from showed from his dads side of the family after his dad’s death. I think we know who’s right and wrong now.

All these hints and he still cant figure his answers. He still fails to understand who loves him and who does not. He still fails to understand who’s the good and bad people after his own clan disowned him. Shouldnt it be obvious who’s the bad clan already. His coward dad remarried and jailed his ex wife as a mama’s boy. His dad got karma for his actions and his mother left her wealth to him. All these hints and he still claimed his dad loves him equal as his mom. lol His dad only wants him until he can breed more kids. His mom always there for him in school although she was on strictions. It’s obvious his mother is the ONLY person who loved him in this world.

tus kwv tij aw muab cov laus nkaus nkaus ntawm ko lawb pov tseg los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV zoo dua os mog

Koj los ntseeg vaj tswv es muaj ib hnub koj tiaj tau nrog koj niam nyob os mog

Thaub aw yog yug tau yus es ib lo ob lo los npav foom yus xwb ces ntxov lawj ntxov zoo dua. Never do that to your kids. Been there down that road and you will never be happy. Sooner or later your wife and kids yuav raug foom ib yam thiab. Mark my words for it you can not do what your dad wants.

Haha sound like this guy married three time😅😅 in this story confused

Tej zaum kj niam yeej hlb kj thiab og tab vim kj ntxiv lawv nquag lawv thiab xb

Niag tub ruam tsis muaj peev xwm. Cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os thaub aw

Niam ntsuab teev aw koj yuav tau tseg qhov hai neej neeg tham dab neeg nawb koj tham tham ce koj xiam hlwb tag lawm os koj tham ntau tshaj no koj yuav xiam hlwb tiag tiag lis vim koj twb tom ntej tom qab lawm xwb

I'm sorry but if I was you I choose not to believe my Father. A father who's tries to keep you from bonding with your mother is the evil one. Issues are within your parents and grandparents. Like you said your mother's was always by you her love was always there for you but you were too blind to see it.

Koj niam yog tu zoo yog tu hlub koj na cas koj ruam ua luaj li lau

Cas koj yuav paub lig ua luaj..

Me tub uaca koj yuav ruam ualuaj koj mus ntseev VAJTSW ce koj thiajj yuav dim koj txiv lawv txoj kev npam kev khaum yog hai tia koj txiv tsi tau ua txhaum rau koj miam ce koj txiv yeej tsi npam lis os tiamsi koj txiv thiab yawg lawv yeej tau ua qhov tsi zoo rau koj niam lawm es koj txiv thiaj mob npam xwb no ne koj txiv twb qhia rau koj lis ntawm nev puas yog uaca koj tseem tsi paub kiag lis thiab no koj muab ruam dau heev lawm os me tub kev ua dab ce yeej daws tsi tau cov kev npam kev khaum ntawm lis os.

Tsev niag hmoob phem ko ces kav tsij muab quav laig xwb os me nus aw

U look so pretty in this picture May!!! ❤️ Btw, are you able to share the intro music u used in this story? It’s so tu tu siab. Please.

You're an adult now, be a man and make your decision! Look up her criminal records if you don't believe her & believe those liars! You stated that she was with you during your education years...wouldn't that proof how much she cares about you?!!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

😂😂 someone is smoking weed. Confusing

Lub sij hawm caij nyoog yuav coj qhov tseeb tseeb tsum tsum los qhia rau koj paub xwb. Neeg lub siab thiab lub qhov ncauj ces ntseeg tsis tau. Koj pog koj yawg thiab koj txiv yog 1 pab pawg neeg phem.