Txuj moo yeej muaj kawg. We don’t choose our parents and family. Some people are much luckier to be born to parents who love and support them and has the financial means to provide them with things they need. It’s easier to excel in life with support and resources.
Lady, why did you start your story by attacking people who complained that poor people are lazy and that you were both poor and rich? This story is all about relationship between your 2 husbands. It's clear that you were not poor and definitely not rich. You didn't have enough money because your first husband spent money on foolish things and your second husband saved money. It has nothing to do with people complaining that poor people are lazy.
I think a lot of people believe poor people are lazy and that’s why they don’t have things. She probably experienced people saying that to her and even though she doesn’t go into details about it, she’s sharing her story to explain that it’s more than people being lazy that contributes to financial struggles.
@@zaubab4023agree with your statement. But throughout the story, nobody judged her. She judged herself poor with a foolish husband and rich with saving husband.
Your ex-husband sounds like a bad cancer, I'm not sure why you didn't cut it off sooner. At the end of the day, only you know what best for you and kids. I don't understand why some women stay in a relationship when you know it's cancerous and there's no future with it. You are absolutely right that relatives and families only see you when you know your self worth. They only recognize you if are selfish enough to walk away to give yourself another chance for a better future. Glad you walked away and found happiness. That was a lot time wasted in a cancerous relationship.
I love that you have a happy ending. Someone to love you and your children and a happy family. It is so scary just knowing there are ppl like your ex. You are my role model. Thanks for sharing your story. Stay bless.
I have been through 3 ladies, but none of them wanted to have a good life. They cheated, lazy and liked to start arguments every time. Poj niam zoo hauv qabntuj no tag lawm lov?
Sim neej no yog tau ib tug txiv tsis tsheej haj ma ua neej nyuaj siab lwj siab tshaj. Cas ntuj tsis txawj ua ntuj li es tsis muab tus liam rau tus liam tus zoo rau tus zoo.
I am happy that you stood your ground and left! There is always someone out there that will loves and cherish us. I am in your shoes right now and I am so happy I found my husband now. He loves and care about me and our kids. He does things for me without me asking him. He goes places with me without me asking him. Life is always better when our partners helps us out.
Tus neeg .. tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej..uas nws ua lub neeg pheej txoj hmoo tsis nco ntshai tsam luag dag yus.ces yog tus neeg yuav ua lub neej tiag.hlub tiag..li koj tus no ntag mas..zoo kawg os.