Great story and a learning experience to take from. I am a guy who has not marry yet but this story will make me learn how to love my parents even more.
The audacity of this dad! You don’t deserve love from your daughters. Remember that a “son is a son, until he gets a wife. A daughter is a daughter for life!”
@@kellielee9829 Those are the sons who wear a skirt in his marriage. The sons who actually are the head of his household will make sure to treat both parents fairly for special occasions.
Another story to teach us that Hmoob men are terrible role models. Hmoob Clan leaders are providing us guidance to follow and lead by good examples, but they can't live up to their own standards. As I get older, I'm starting to understand that our elders are the biggest hypocrites.
I don’t understand what this OG want us to feel for him. Sad or happy? I don’t feel sad for him at all. Why is he feel jealous? He got what he always wanted. He got a second wife and live his life with his wife and his new kids. What is wrong with this OG. No feeling at for his OG
This father still don’t love his daughters but envy the love the daughters give to his first wife have only. He lucky his daughter have compassion to love him now. Hopefully this kinda of bias ends with our older generations of Hmong men.
Don’t expect love in return when you didn’t love them or their mother from the get-go. This is a good lesson for all parents who favor sons over daughters.
Koj ua txiv tau kev nlub nmo ntuj luwm ces koj tus poj niam tau kev nlub ntuab nmub luwm koj tau kev zoo siab txob tu siab mog kojtxoj yog txoj zoo heev li
@@xuelao778 so you expect your daughters to still love you when you careless and aren’t there for them 😂 everyone have their own opinion on this situation. I don’t expect anything from anyone for what I’ve done for them but if you expect something for doing nothing for me, don’t help me 😜🤭
Wow koj cov ntxhais mam ua tau ntxim siab tshaj plaws li. Ua cas koj tseem muaj ntshej muag hais tias koj tu siab koj cov ntxhais dab tsi!!!!! Koj twb yeej tsis tau HLUB!!!! Koj cov ntxhais li na!!!!! Nrog koj tu siab kawg li nawb.
I'm just glad to be hearing more of these stories. The fact that our fathers are learning these life lessons b4 they die. That they learned this n are able to share their stories n pass it onto others. I hope more learn from these stories
Kv nima tsi muaj tub li thiab os kv niam ntshaw2 ib tug tub lo ua kv niam noj niaj hnb no nyb lub neej lwj2 siab vim mloog tej kwv tej tij hai e nim muab peb cov ntxhai no seeb hlo tawm ntawm lub neej. Kv niam kv txiv tej liaj tej teb nim tsi pub rau peb cov ntxhai e hnub no kj cov kwv tej ca lawv ho ua kj tu tu siab os kv niam. Kv xav kom kj paub tia peb yg ntxhai lo peb yeej hlub2 kj kawg kv hlub kj os kv niam
Lub ntuj tso koj cov tubs rau koj ua Kab npam vim koj Txoj kev phem ntshaw tubs . Karma is real! On the bright side, I’m glad you see , know now and learned the hard way. GL to you.
😁 Zoo Kawg, tia nos koj hlub luag li cas, ces lawm hlub koj li ntawd. Rau rau siab hlub niam yaus thiab koj cov tub nawb. Koj cov life insurance puas muaj koj cov ntxhais npe, yog tsi pub sib luag rau laws tag nhro ces txhob paub paub tu siab....
Kj tia kj tu siab tab si kj poj niam thiab kj cov ntxhais lawv tseem tu siab tshaj kj Os vim kj twb tau niam yau los puag lawm ho kj poj niam nws tsuas tau kev hlub los ntawm cov ntxhais xwb twb tsis tau kj li kev hlub ne ua neeg nyob ces leej twg los yeej ntshaw kv hlub los ntawm tus txij nkawm thiab e thiaj li puv 100% o
Niag raum aw. Txhob tu siab os. Koj twb tau qhov koj tshaw lawm ne. Koj tus niam loj twb tsis tau koj txoj kev hlub ne. Koj twb nrog koj tus niam yau xwb ne. Npam xwb os. Tsis txhob tu tu siab os tus yawv txiv es.
Thaub laus koj tu siab dab tsi nawj koj twb tau qhov koj xav2 tau lawm nev zaum no koj twb tau qhov chaw tuag lawm ces zoo siab twj ywm xwb cov ntxhais ntawd lawv tsis muaj nuj nqes rau koj lawv txawm yuav hlu koj thiab tsis hlub los nyob nawm lawv xav ua kuv thov pab koj tu siab tias ua cas koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj thiab li ntawd mas pauj tsis tau txoj kev koj tsis hlub lawv. You deserve it old man
This story teaches us to show and teach our kids how to love. Not just tell but lead by example. If you expect your children to be present, be authentic, and be kind, learn to be that.
Tiam tshiab no, cov ntxhais tig mus ua tub ho cov tub tig mus ua nyab lawm os. Txhob cem cem thiab thuam thuam cov ntxhais nawb. Thaum kawg, cov ntxhais yuav yog cov thiaj hlub tau lawv niam lawv txiv os.
Mej cov ua txiv tsi tsim nyog tu sab nawb mej tsuas nrog Mej tsi txawj ua txiv tej mivnyuas tsi has leejtwg cov le cov leejtwg txiv yeej coj zoo tuab yaam nkaug mej txhaj tsi tau mivnyuas txuj kev hlub
Dev laus koj puas xav tias cov ntxhais tu siab rau koj npaum li cas……niam loj tu siab npaum li cas…….dev laus ko tseem tu siab thiab,,,,,,khib koj kawg yom……tsis tsimnyog los kuamuag nawv vim yus limhiam rau niam loj cov ntxhais
Thaub Tsi txhob tu siab koj hlub luag li cas ces koj tau txais kev hlub li ntawm xwb os koj Tsi hlub lawv kiag lawv hlub koj li ko ces twb yog hmoov hwv os
Txhob tu siab os tus kwv tij aw Kom koj muab xav tias zoo li tus lag luam es thaum lawv pib lawv twb Kom yus nrog lawv tso nyiaj yus twb tsis kam ces thaum lawv tau paj los yeej tsis kam faib rau yus ib yam thiab ua neeg nyob ces yus li cas rau luag ces yus tsuas tau txais li ntawv xwb os tsis txhob tu siab rau leej twg yuav tau tu siab rau yus tus kheej xwb os.
These OG still the carry the mentality that boy is inferior to girl, that is so in the past. Hmong men most definitely needed to Chang, otherwise their regret will definitely follow this grandpa’s footsteps.
The entitlement that this man has. Your daughters, don't have to love you because you didn't love them. You are lucky they even bother. You did this to yourself.
Tus me yawm txiv aw txhob tu siab ma tos koj cov vauv yog neeg txawj hlub neeg los vim lawv muaj zoo niam zoo txiv qhuab qhia thiab muab kev hlub zoo rau lawv ne vim koj tsis txawj ua txiv es koj thiaj tu siab rau yav laus li no os
Txhob tu siab os twb tau niam yau lawm os koj nrog niam yau koj siav thiaj loj os koj niam loj ces koj siav me2 li os tau kev hlub li ko lo twb yog hmoov kawg lawm os mus zov yus cov tub xwb ma
cov txiv ua tu niam yug tau ntxhai xwb pheej mu tham hlua nkauj e yuav dua ib tug mas siab phem tshaj li cas ho paub tu siab nas hlub li cas tau li ntawv xwb
Txhob tus siab os tus txiv dev laus aw. Yus teem yus ces me nyuam tsis hlub los you got what you deserved. Relationship in general is a two ways street. You love them and they love you. Qhov no yog ib txhia txiv neej hmoob xiam hlub lub niam Tswv yim xa tau ntau lub qhov los tuav ncuav. 😊😊
I don't get Hmong men.. Why is it that the men are the one marrying so many wives and hurt his 1st wife and kids but every time they "ua neeg" they always say that the man is "tu siab".. just tells you how big of a cry baby a man is..smh Have a txiv tseg ever ua neeg for his wife and see how heart broken she is?
Luag tej tub tos hlub niam pog txiv yawg, hlub niam tais los vim luag niam luag txiv txawj qhuab qhia luag ua neej li koj tus niam loj qhia nws cov ntxhais mus ua lawv lub neej. Koj li tos koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los vim koj tsis txawj qhuab qhia lawv ne. Koj pab tub tsis hlub koj los txaus txaus siab tias koj tau koj txoj kev ntshaw.
Txhob tu siab mg tu me yawm txiv aw kv lo kuj yog ib tug me ntxhai lo ntawm kv txiv tu niam loj thiab o kv hlub kv niam ntau dua kv txiv thiab o vim kv txiv tsim txom kv niam thaum kv tseem me yau lo lawm kv thiaj xav ib yam li kj cov ntxhai thiab o txhob tu siab mg tim yu xwb o mg
.. cog zaub ces tau zaub noj is ...Kev phem tsim lwm Tus neeg phem ntaub npaum twg ces tau txais npaum ntaws rov is, cov phawj ywg... ...cas paub ntshaw Kev Hlub ntawm cov koj pov tsev thiab os
Ua ib leej txiv coj tsis ncaj ces twb yog koj Pab ntxhais thiaj li hlub koj li no ces yog hmoov nyiaj hmoov kub lawm os mog. Nrog koj Ua niam zoo siab tias koj Txawj yug kawg li os mog
Sons or daughters, we are the same here in America. In America, it is how you teach their hearts is how good they become to you. Back in the days girls abilities were limited because they were dependent on their husbands for a way of living. Now that we are in a land that flourishes, girls can shine better. They have always been like that just put down due to traditions.
Great life story!! Yog koj txhob tas kev cia siab rau koj tus niam loj thiab koj cov ntxhais es yuav niam yau los yug tub ces tus leej txiv tau kev hlub puv npo hnub no twb yog koj lawm.
Txiv neej tsis yog ntshaw tub thiaj yuav niam yau qhov tseeb yog ntshaw qov hauv xwb thaum hluas ces tsawg qhov los xav kom tau sim tsawg qhov los xav kom tau ua tos koj cov ntxhais tsis hlub koj los tsim nyog lawm siab phem ntuj thiaj lem
I am so proud of your daughters for loving their mother. As for you, your daughters had no value to you, it's why you married a second wife. You even admitted it yourself so why do expect love from them? You are a selfish person. It doesn't matter if you are their dad. They are not obligated to love you if you have never love them. It's easy for a man to give a woman a baby but takes a whole village to raise a child. You want love, tell your sons. I do not feel sorry for you.
Tus txiv tsev koj los lus hais tias kom koj tus niam loj txhob tusiab no ce yog lam hais lawm xwb vim qhov tusiab twb tu tag lawm ne...thim tsis tau lig dhau lawm tus yuav tusiab ces yog koj es yeejmeem tu tusiab kom txog hnub tuag xwb os...
To the guys listening to this story, please don't be an idiot like this man. I'm sure if we all combined all the tears from all his daughters from the first wife, they would make many Mekong and Amazon rivers. This man was great in making babies but horrible as a parent and forgot to live by the golden rule of treating others like how you want to be treated. He got what he wanted through his actions and mistreatment of his daughters. I'm surprised they are very forgiving and still treat him as their father. Probably the older generation but definitely not now.
I'm glad some of these older generations are beginning to realize that daughters are just as important as sons. Too bad it took this long for this father to realize that.
I don’t get these OG they leave there first wife because they want sons and stop loving there kids and expect love and respect from the kids they left. Stop blaming your kids and blame yourself.
He was sad that the first wife didn't offer her cloths to his second wife and she only give when the second wife asked. Sorry grandpa, your second wife have his own kids. All that clothes your first wife have was from her daughters giving to her as gift to their loving mother. A gift is a gift and no matter how much she have she will value and cherish it. I wouldn't give a gift away to anyone. You two are lucky the girls includes you and your second wife. Be greatful and thankful.
