Sister, love those who love you. You don’t owe your mil and sil any money from your husband’s death benefit. Your in-laws didn’t even want you to have any money and forbid your husband and you from getting a life insurance policy on them. Your in-laws should be ashamed of themselves for going after you but no law in the US will be on their side. Yus tej nyiaj phij cuam xwb tseem muab tib si lawm mas ntxub yus tshaj plaws los xyov yog ntshaw nyiaj dhau lawm. Can’t believe this!
Glad you moved away from these toxic people. The in-laws trying to insert their traditional power, but forgot that this is not Laos anymore. 😂 Ruam thiag!
I forgive a lot and with that I forget about things. It's always good to be reminded and take a step back to remember how you became who you are. Thanks for this story.
Cas es tsis paub txaj muag li os cov nyiaj twb tsis yog nej cov es tseem muaj nrej muag mus txheeb nej tus nayb li nyiaj thiab na ua neeg nyob txawm yus yuav tshaw nyiaj npaum li cas los thov kom tshaw txij yus teej yus tug xwb tsis txhob npav mus txheeb lwm tus li nyiaj
My Sister you keep doing what you are doing. You care for you and your kids only no one else. I'm proud of you. I'm glad you continued to point out in your story that a person who hates another person will never change to like that person they hate. You are 100% right on that. Hmong people need to stop using the old age card. Even a 5 year old knows when he or she is being abused by adults. Good decent people have emotions okay but Hmong families like to all gang up and mistreat the one person they all want to suffer. I'm glad you did not let them continue to make you suffer. Never give them a dime.
I don’t understand why some brothers or sisters don’t help speak up or stand up for their nyab when they witnessed their nyab being mistreated ? I mean if you know and you’ve seen that your nyab is a good person and she treat your parents with respect then you should already know that your mom is the bad one not your nyab.
Lmfao. These inlaws are tripping thinking they are entitled to a cut of the life insurance!! 😅😅😅😅 You keep your money!! They're only wasting their time and running into dead ends. Her asking for $100,000 is way too greedy!!!
castusiab heev yus twb laus tag lawm xav tias tej zaum lawv yuav hlub yus dua no os cas mloog tag zaj neej neeg no mam nco txog os
Muaj tseeb li koj hais kawg os niam ntsuab teev aw zoo li kuv kiag thia os niam pog g nyiam kuv li ta si kuv ob tug niam ntxawm ho g pau tsav tsheb ces kuv ho pau ces niam pog thiaj ua zoo li koj hais kiag os
I'm so confused. Isn't it common sense that the life insurance is under wife's name so why would the mil and sil try to take her to court to get some money? 😂 C'mon now! Are people really that stupid!? If you never paid this life insurance policy, what makes you think you can fight for a portion of it?
Omg MOREEE they are perverted n so raunchy. My mom worked under the table n was asked to please help them serve n clean up after a party in st. Paul n omg they puked everywhere n THEY ARE LEGIT SWINGERS. Swapping partners when leaving. Ew.
Some of these Hmong families have no shame. Asking for insurance money as if they deserve to get a portion or something! Smh. Screw your ex in-laws! I’m glad you did you!
I don't understand why so many Hmong people go around telling others how much they got in life insurance money. It's nobody's business so tell anyone asking that it's not their business to know. If relatives ask for the purpose of funeral expenses, then just tell them the amount you can afford and leave it at that. It's disgusting how so many family members expect a cut of the life insurance money from the death of a sibling/child when that dead person specifically left the money to take care of the spouse and children that are left behind.
Niam laus aw txhob faib rau koj niam pog pheem kov os diab pheem tsaj nws cov nyab nws hlub jlub nws ho tsi mis taij nyiaj ntawm lawv es cas pheej yuav tuaj taij ntawm koj niam pog siab pheem li kov tsi hlub los tsi npam koj mog
Ab ca kv tseem g tau ntshe li koj es kv tseem mob siab rau qhov niam pog ntxub kv os ua tsaug koj zaj neej neeg kv mloog tag kv muaj kev paub ntau lawm os
Niam pog Xav Kom koj ua lub ntees me me xwb es Kom tshuav nyiaj ntau ntau es Kom koj faib ntau ntau rau nws ne. PEB tsis ruam os niam pog siab phem Aw. Kav tsij mus ua neej qrhua ntxhia tsis k k cov neeg phem tsev neeg os. Tsis faib faib nyiaj lis os. Cias Lawv khib nhyiav. You right.
Yog kawg ua cas tseem muaj cov neeg uas thaum them mas tsis xav them li tab sis thaum tuag mas ho xav kom faib rau thiab cov neeg no xav tias tuag tu noob lawm no tab sis cas tseem tshuav coob ua luaj li thiab tiag .
Hais txog cov nyiaj insurance ua siab loj loj nws tsis yog koj them kheej txhua txhua lub penny, twb yog koj tus ua yog niam txiv tus tub them sad ua siab loj mej cas koj yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj thiab yog ua siab loj mas noj tsis tas tiamsis yog ua siab me mas tsis txaus noj kom tau taub thiab tau dib
Yeej yog thiab koj los ua luag ib zaug nyab phem zoo los koj yuav tau muab li 10 phav rau niam Pog vim yeej yog koj them thiab koj tus txiv them mas tab si kom koj Nco ntsoov tias yus los yuav luag tus tub ua luag tus nyab ib zaug mas tsis txhob ua phem li koj nawb tom ntej no koj yuav muaj kev khaum kev npam rau koj tus kheej muab rau ua txoj kev zoo xwb hos yog koj ua phem npaum li koj hais no mas kev npam tom ntej no koj yuav tau los rau koj lub neej yog niam Pog foom koj ces yeej npam me me thiab os vim koj tus txiv yog niam Pog yug nawb yog koj ua phem npaum li no tiag nyob li txoj kev cai hmoob koj yuav npam raws li txoj kev ua neeg
I feel your pain lady. I'd been through similar issue like yours before. They pushed you to the point you couldnot take it anymore and then when you pushed them back, they said you're the bad one. Instead, they don't want to admit their initiative wrong doing towards you. Lots of blind people out there were even believed in them too.
Yog. Peb hmoob yog cov ntxhais haus luam Yeeb thiab nrog cov hluas nraug haus luam Yeeb haus beer ces peb hmoob yeej level yog poj laib vim thaum lawv Mus. Poo cov hluas nraug zoo li no ces ntawv los lawv tsis xav kawm ces level qis heev tabsis cov coob ces thaum lawv Mus ua neej muaj mi tub minyuam ces lawv kuj Mus txiav tau luam Yeeb ua niam tsev rau lawv cov minyuam lawm hos ib txhia kuj txiav tsis tau thiab.
Omg...the audacity that your Monster-in-Law had! These uneducated people will never understand the policy & regulations of an Ins policy! Your MIL is one money hungry Mother!!! What You did is Right!
Ntuj aw cas txoj niag kev ua nyab no es nim los yuav tus yus hlub los nim los nyib rau luag ntxhub nyob rau luag rhuav tabsis yus pob nyiaj mas lawv xav tau tshaj plawv. Peb ib co hmoob tus niag cwj pwm qias2 neej no muab tso cia os.
I believe if the mil was kind and love this dil, I'm pretty sure she'll give her some like $10k but too bad, she was a evil mil and only get what she deserves.
Nyiaj yog yus tug lawm leej twg yuav hais li cas los yog yus tsis muab rau lawv leej twg yuav hais tau yus, nyob teb chaws no life insurance yog leej twg them leej twg npe ces leej twg tug xwb lwm tus yuav ua cas hais tau, yus ruam yus muab rau lawv ces lawv tau, yus ntse ces yus tsis muab ces lawv tsis tau xwb, tej niam pog txiv yawg phem li no thau yus life insurance rau nws yus twb tsis kom nws them ned, nws twb tsis kam yus yuav rau nws tsis k k li os. Nyiaj yog yus tug yus them yus, yus tsis muab yeej tsis txhaum leej twg li os.
Cas yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj. Xav tau ces mus khwv thiaj yog yus li. Txhob mus txeeb luag tug. Yog koj zoo ces koj tus tub yeej tseg ib qho rau koj lawm.
Leej twg hais rau nej hais tias niam pog muaj cai na, tus poj niam yuav muaj ntaub muaj ntawv muaj cai 100% na. Hmong os hmoob nej mas thiaj ruam tshaj ruam lawm tiag tiag li hos….
The audacity of the mil and sisters..ain't your money from the beginning. You didn't fork a penny to pay for the life insurance what makes you think you're entitled to the life insurance money that belongs to his wife/children?
MI ntxhais aw koj pluag cuag kuv ntag os ,thaum kuv yuav poj niam muaj 180 npaj nyiaj xwb naj ! Sib yuav tau 50 xyoo lawd , Tam sij no muaj Vaj muaj tsev muaj tsheb caij 3 tug me nyuam kawm ntawv tiav get siab tag huv si zoo tsev lawm xwb os
I’m proud of you for doing the right thing and not giving them a dime. What makes them think they can get your money? I feel you, my ex mil and father in law done me wrong and not pay for my wedding, too.
Nyiaj tuag dua xwb! Es ua cas luag tej thiaj pheej paub hais tias yus tau nqi tuag ntau npaum cas no ma? Yus tsis qhib ncauj tshaj lus ces yeej tsis muaj neeg paub yuav tuaj nrog yus faib los sav. Es nej hmoob nim proudly announce tias - niag no tuag es peb tau tsheej hnab nyiaj - no los 🤔😶
True to that but this is from my experience, before any relatives will help out with the funeral, they will ask the person or in this case the nyab how much life insurance or money in general her and her husband have. Maybe she should kinda give them a white lie at this point but i guess she told them it is what it is. So, mil wanted a piece of the pie even though she has no right to it. Shame on the mil and sil. SMH.
In my opinion, I would hire a lawyer to hold my money and if anyone tries to take it, speak to my lawyer. They only want money but don’t want to give me any love. F them
It's so embarrassing how hmong people still don't understand that you're not "entitled" life insurance just because you're related or the mother. And to the lady of this story: you shouldn't have disclosed how much life insurance you got. Give them a small number only and act poor because you never know people's intentions.
Sister your mom n law is the same like my.. now i no care about her ..I stayed on my own lane my own house i don’t cared if she like me or my kids.. once you stopped caring you’re live happily ever after.. I’m glad I don’t have to cared or deal with her.😊
Niag niam pog thiab cov niag muam yeej paub hais tias lawv yeej faib tsis tau lawv ib pob nyiaj rau koj li os. Ua cas lawv pheej yuav yuam kom koj faib koj li rau lawv na? My goodness! The audacity of these people. Tsis paub cai li! Yes, sister! Run far away from those evil people. Plus, it doesn’t matter if you move away to go “follow” a boyfriend. It’s none of her business in the first place. You don’t owe her an explanation or need her approval.
Oyo hmoob mas ruam dhau lau!! Cov niam pog tsis hlub yus tsis kkk li os! Cov niag neeg siab phem li ko koj txawm muab los nws yeej ntxhub koj tsis muab ces nws haj yam ntxhub koj tshaj xwb! Tseg rau menyuam xwb txhob coj mus pub yawg nrauj thiab txiv mos ab noj thiab siv ceev faj rau cov dab dag noj dag haus no thiab es good luck rau koj os…zoo siab koj ua taus niam os!!
I am glad you did not give in to a mil who hated you. No need care for those mil who think they should be treated better when they never was loving towards you. Karma exists, not traditional respect just because she's a mil. Even on thier death bed they will continue to hate you. Once those mil hate they hate even in death
Niampog twb yog los ua nyab ua ntej xwb, hos cov muam mus nyab rau lwm xeem 1 yam. Txhob tsim2 cov ntxhais los ua nyab hauv nej tsevneeg. Nej cov tub twb yuav tsis tau nej cov ntxhais hauv tsev ne.
Ua neeg nyob yus yuav tsum paub yus tus kheej, lady you don't even know who you are. Now you are worse than your mother in law. She didn't like you but she kept it within the family. You don't like her and now you reveal your anger to the entire world on RU-vid
Omg Hmoob people are so stupid with life insurance money. If you do not pay it you have no say in it. Also it's rude to ask how much life insurance someone has when they pass and so sad to see family already waiting for that death certificate to go claim life insurance money instead of mourning the loss and arranging funeral 😂
