@@user-oz9vz2to4x he would rather loose everyone in his life that was important to elena or himself than her be dead. if thagd not selfish idk what is. he has made stefans life miserable because katherine loves stefan more than damon. if thats not selfish idk what is. damon kills when he doesnt get what he wants if thats not selfish idk what is. he has said multiple times "im selfish". he doesnt care, he doesnt respect people. so yea damons selfish
@@thatoneasian28 delena was not based on lust, even if stefan was a better person doesn't mean he was better for elena, and Caroline was much better for stefan than elena. Stefan brought elena back to life but damon showed her how to live it
@@omenaolusina-hr7kj their relationship was based on lust and so sexually motivated. caroline and stefan should have stayed friends because why turn a loving friendship into more. cant they just be best friends? and stefan brought elena back to life when she needed it the most, and damon was just the person who was there for her during the transition. he didnt want elena to be human he was selfish and wanted her just how she was. elena made damon happy, and all these feelings making him a better person (somewhat) but what did it do to elena. it made her worse, made her bend her morals, lose all her integrity, willing to put her friends in danger. excused everything damon did bad, because she "loves" him. well news flash! love shouldnt change who you are. it shouldnt make you feel like your doing the wrong things. with stefan both elena and him were benefitted in the relationship. he opened her eyes to be happy again and understand being in love. and she helped him have a reason to live. she gave him someone he could rely on and trust no matter what. damon and elena lack trust, respect, compassion, and over all a healthy- toxic balanced relationship. sorry for yapping...
@@thatoneasian28 I don't see their relationship as toxic but more realistic, stefan and elena portrayed " Disney " kind of love, her prince charming which doesn't really exist in real life, damon and elena show no matter what they come through. And everyone did bad things for the ppl they love, e.g Caroline kill 12 witches knowing it will bring silas about to save bonnie and all the witches were trying to do was free bonnie from expression ( dark magic) Guess I started yapping too😂
@@omenaolusina-hr7kj i get what your saying about fake love or whatever, but elena and stefans relationship were no where near perfect. damon and elenas was anything but perfect. ik everyone has done their fair shares of bad things, but when it comes to damon no one beats him. i would be all for damon and elena if the relationship was reciprocated to elenas side. their love is pure, and consuming, and it drives them crazy. i just so happen to be a team conrad girl as well and i love those problematic relationships where love overcomes all. and im not saying damon and elena dont have the connection, they just lack all of the other components in a thriving relationship. i respect your opinion tho and im not judge whatsoever.
It always annoys me when people say that Stefan was selfless and Damon was the selfish one when Stefan fell in love with Elena because she looked like Katherine and Damon fell in love with her because she wasn't Katherine, he fell in love with her being not her looks. And before Stelena fans come after me I'm not saying that Stefan stayed with Elena because she looked like Katherine, I'm saying that is what drew him in
Damon never be selfish for Elena. He let Stephen Salvatore have her even though his love for her will never stop ❤❤ They are the best couple Nina and lan ❤❤
