Twin Flames: How to DETACH! 🥳😇 

Detach = kill your ego guys Be present. Think about yourself, your growth, do whatever makes you feel positive. He is you, you are them. If their figure appeared in your mind, just say "hi, me." And hug, and continue your favorite activity. Raise your vibration.

Meeting your twinflame is a nightmare. People think you have a choice. If you don't detach you will never be free from the obsessive energy.

The soul knows what the mind can’t comprehend. There is nothing to figure out, just being. ❤

My TF runner decided to jump into a marriage. So, I decided it's time to detach simply because I don't want to hurt anymore. He can do what he wants. I just don't care

It’s so hard to detach… it’s like a poison.. intoxicated.. it’s also hard to not “stalk” the social media.. and when you do and you see he is doing “good” without you.. then.. everything confirms that you have to switch your focus on you.. 😢

I shed tears, Kurt. It actually works. For weeks I try to figure out what you mean. I watched Samadhi, I watched Eckhart Tolle. You say the same thing over and over and over again in many of your videos, but I couldn’t understand, I didn’t believe you, I was afraid I might lose her. And even though I tried hard, I couldn’t. I love her. I want her, so badly.

I watched all three parts of the samadhi movie and I've read the power of now as you suggested. very helpful. as I was watching this video about detaching I noticed my mind trying to make sense of you saying you are not your mind, I just bust out laughing. thanks again for all your helpful video's

Here is the deal imo from my small research I have done and experienced you don’t need a tarot reading because in the end you both have free will if they want to make amends or changes they will if not hey best of luck to them do this for yourself. Don’t run circles and make it over complicated if you ever saw a tarot reading and said hey that’s how I feel or I used to do that that’s all you need to know that you two aren’t not a separate soul it only looks that way in the 3d You are gonna slowly realize though that the feelings aren’t going away and that you want to improve your self deep down you know your gonna be with them trust your intuition you have nothing left to do live your life and level up as best you can if you saw the synchronicity’s or weird stuff was happening to you that should all be a confirmation to you that everything is going well you are in the right place for what you want .

Yes so true! Kurt you’re a great guide for tf journey. So glad! 🙏

thank you for all that you do kurt!

Detox from your twin flame, that's how you cut the cord. You are amazing.

You are the best Kurt!

Thank you Kurt, it's starting to sink in but I need more. I'll watch the movie you suggested and read one of the books you mentioned! Thanks again

Have you ever seen the movie Hancock with Will Smith? It's about these people who are created in pairs and they can't be anywhere near each other or they get really sick. It reminds me of twin flames.

I'm with u kurt..u got it clear for me..now i fully understand when u say u r ur twin flame .now all ur words and statements makes sense to me..❤ thank you😊so much

I REALLY ENJOY THIS

Wow, thank you Kurt!!!!!!!! Penny is beginning to drop… I’m now trying to detach but My TF and I live in the same community and often ‘bump into each other’ and can’t resist having intimate moments with each other - probably not good for us at this stage but feels good at the time. Both in very similar “third party relationships”. Btw, can’t get the Billy Joel song out of my head - ‘It’s all about Soul’. Great song!!!!! I’ll think about this as I try to focus on my soul, consciousness and non-duality. Love and Light🤗

There's tons of subliminal messaging meditation videos out there that helps tremendously with detachment, I did my detox and got over my obsession phase in less than a month. It feels like I did years of work in just a short amount of time, but of course you still need to do the work as well, not just sit around and listen to the tracks. This just accelerates the process. It's a very effective and efficient way to make you the soul finally detach from your mind (a process that would usually take years). Kurt I think you should make your own version of those specifically for this, with your knowledge it can be the best out there. 😉

I have noticed the strangest thing. Whenever I become completely detached and forget all about it and move forward, I have the most intense dreams about him, as though he knows I've detached. It's happened a couple of times now. It's like he doesn't want me to move on. Thoughts?

Omg😂😂😂 it took me so so so long to figure this out and i have been tryung to understand this over and over...you have explained this phenomenally 🙏🙏🙏🙏...love you tons

Thank you thank you this video was just what I needed. ❤❤

I’ll be honest and say that I’m overwhelmed with all of this. It feels like a lot of work. I want out of this TF journey. Like why would God do this to me?! I feel tortured and tormented during most of this. I wax and wane on the awakening part of this. It’s just too overwhelming to care about any of it.

Thank you Kurt!

Thank you Kurt 🙏. Today I was stuck in my mind. And I notice now I am used to try to understand everything. Also that my TF is me. And I can't. And I know, by mind, what you tell me. He is me. But I don't innerstand it yet. My mind blocks that,i think. So I try (again) more meditation, more being, more observing,more not believing what the mind tells. But I have to confess... Its really hard sometimes. My mind is strong. And even that is a believe of my mind 😅 Thank you so much for your repetitive messages. Its needed here haha. 🙏

Thank you Kurt.

I don't think alot of ppl have noticed, but Eckhart Tolle is in union with his twin Kim Eng. it's not lovey dovy it's just zen.

Thank you Kurt

If I've survived decades without this tf until meeting them last yr, I can do without him as I detach from him. It's a great way to get rid of ego. Idgaf anymore.

it helps to have sb with a scientific mind explaining things so simply

Oh man! These triggers are driving me craaaazzzzyy. I have practiced detaching, so dealing with the deep emotions in relation to the triggers is where I am at right now. Progress is going to breakdown these old mind patterns, like Kurt said.

They are an aspect of our over soul ❤

Thank you. Hugs.

Thank you.. 💜💓💜

Thank you

Thanks for this vedio

Thank you.

Heaven is actually on earth, living in a non duality mode . Hell could be here as well, when you choose the impermanent 3D modality

I am so glad I found you!!! I was going crazy!!! Could you do a video about twin flames where one is a celebrity and the other non celebrity? And if that somehow affects on anything! Thank you 🙏

Yes I agree with that. I need a little bit of self love and peace from the toxins I can't seem to outrun. I'm not giving up at an' but I am definitely in the detachment forum😢

TF Chaser: You can RUN but you can’t detaaaach! Insert maniacal twin flame chaser laughter here. Also TF Chaser: 😐 FUCK ME!! 😣😣😣 LIKE FUCKING HELL, I CAN’T!! 😭😭😭

thanks a lot!!!! I am watching Samadhi.

Hi Kurt! Could you make a video talking about twin flames and avoidant attachment? Greerings from Buenos Aires - Argentina :x

I watch Anna brown cuz of youuu.. hahaha... I like her . Terimakasih ,Kurt 🤗

literally every time my ego ruins it and it's because I've approached it from manifesting.

I Love The Untethered Soul.

The ego wants separation

I have been on this journey for far too long. Over the last year I have found Kurt and really began to understand everything. I bought the course and have done/doing the work and have clarity to who I am and this experience. However, as I share a child with my other self I cannot completely be removed. I'm having a hard time seeing the ego and personality of the past life and being disappointed that is how I handled life and the unwillingness to help myself. Its almost a sense of shame. Which I know is only keeping me stuck.

You should've added this video to the program!

Wait! Future self? You mean I'm going to incarnate again!? I thought the whole point of this twin flame thing was so that my soul would reach enlightenment and I wouldn't have to do this again. oooh man, then what's all this about, because I surrender. I'm sure my higher self-had the best intentions when volunteering me for this, but sometimes I think I want cookies and cream ice-cream and start eating it, then change my mind. turns out Reese's Cup was a better decision. so, I think that's what happened here, and it's just a misunderstanding. so, if I could talk to the corporate of the universe, that would be great.

Hello...I'm so glad I ran into your videos... I REALLY need an answer here. I've already got the Samadhi videos on my Gaia website account so I'll watch them first then the book... I'm really hoping that this will put a lot of light on everything, not just my twin flame but why I've never been able to be in a serious relationship in the last 20 years, that is, ever since I separated from my ex-husband. It's never too late to start over again.... and right now I have time to dedicate to this. Thank you 🙂🙏🌺

You're so funny ❤

However, I do have a little more comfort after watching the whole thing. Because it’s possible but a bit overwhelming.

You know what they say self-praise is no praise you're very good at praising yourself lack humility Kurt

How do I stop the obsessive thinking? This has been going on for almost 5 years.

Cutting soul ties....how to detach from your twin flame ? Well, its more like breaking free from tramabond from the narcissist

how does law of attraction work in non duality, if you are with your other half? if i think of my other half mentally they run. but if i think of lets say my dog, do they then also run? or is it that they run because of identification with mind, so once you disidentify with mind then you can "think"what ever and they wont run? i wrote another comment like this one but i think it glitched and disappeared so i had to write it again. if anyone knows let me know :)

kurt I have a request if you would so kindly do a video explaining your experience with detaching other than you just blocked her and she sent you flowers like could you go in depth with where u were in your head space like you did explaining dnos and how it was for you

Blocked my TF and feel great about it

Sometimes it feeling like the best thing that ever happened and other it’s the worst. I believe the worst is behind me as I feel so much more at peace with myself and don’t care as much and have an emotional breakdown if she not around. I’m almost to the point that I’m feeling better without her and should really just spend more time on self. I didn’t lot of pre work and believe I was already preparing my entire life for this, especially the last few years and then she came into my a little over a year ago.

To detach from your TF is to detach from your mind. (WELL SAID) This sustenance really resonated very well with my soul. You said that, and I had an aha moment. It's been 10 months since I've seen her but occasionally, (once every 2 or 3 weeks) she will send me a text. The text will usually say; I just wanted to check on you and see how you are doing, and just a little small talk. Nothing to deep. I used to be very goo goo gaga when I would respond to her but now, I'm very short and a little cold myself. When she sends me a text and if I don't respond to her in a timely manner (usually within a few minutes) she will respond with, "well I guess you have met someone, or Well I guess you have me blocked. She keeps saying she is just focusing on her and that there is no other man in her life, and I believe her because there is no other woman in my life, but I suppose it doesn't matter either way. paycheck

The browser on your desktop also has an incognito mode, not just the phone version ;)

Can you do a video talking about spirit vs soul, or just elaborate it in the comments if a video isn't that necessary. Just curious. UPDATE : Nevermind, apparently it is the same exact thing, UNLESS I've been miss informed, then correct me.

"Mind your own is-ness!"

Will the mind be empty or will there still be thoughts ? Not having any thoughts is nearly impossible

It is just like you said, Kirk I started to shift my focus on other things and then all of the sudden... Right before I started to watch this video, he my twin flame contacted me.... And my question is what do you do when they start saying things, about you that are not true and about things that you are not even thinking about doing upon them???

So…. Can you detach and still have a relationship with your TF? Or is it detach and stay detached? I just met mine… started the monkey mind (laughed out loud when I heard the symptoms cuz I was right there) I’ve had no intimate relationship yet but dreaming of it… now I’m thinking it’s not gonna be able to happen…

Some questions: Does everyone get to experience their twin flame? Why or why not? If not is it bc the mind didn’t seek therefore the soul never physically united? What if you met your flame but didn’t realize until 5 years later and then you go through a spiritual experience after accepting that we are alike/one. Are twin flames always going to be male & female? If we are all One since we come from the Creator than why can’t we all be twin flames to each other??

What if our health is not the best? Dont I need to heal first then??? I did alot of soulstuff and I have texted with mine 3 years on and off he had never blocked me. Snd Ive been focusing on him and on myself. But I told him to block me I regret it cause he actually did after 3 years texting and talking some on the Phone. The town I live in has loooow vibration... my town needs twinflames seriously... but some people are starting to awaken though 😃

“ it is not possible to love your twin flame unless you want them to run away from you”. I have heard that before, and I so struggled with that. How can it even be enjoyable to have a twin flame relationship if you’re not supposed to love them! Doesn’t make any sense!!! I don’t have the money for the coaching right now, so I just downloaded the book the power of now which I’m going to listen to. I’ve been listening to Kurt’s channel for several days now. Can someone please help me with this concept that you’re not supposed to love your twin flame. And by the way, I do understand that this is a soul journey and that it’s not supposed to make sense but still I’m a lover and I like to give love and receive love so how does this all work?

Michael Singer have a great podcast on Sounds True Chanel 😉

What should you do when ur tf approaches you , once they come again I fall for them so much and I feel they move away from me and their in and out behaviour confuses me so much.. Now I'm focusing on me ,the consciousness .. but how should i behave when my tf approaches me

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I had a weird thought - if souls can incarnate twice in a lifetime, can a souls incarnate more than twice??

I Do wonder whether my tf have any idea abt this spiritual connection? Once if I stop focusing on them ,will they comeback or do they have any idea about the connecting?

Kurt i have a question The soul is presence,i know The soul is in the now A few times i did a day long affirmations in my mind,but you do them in the now And 3 times i did this,and same day my tf contacted me, how do you explain this, do "they " feel it in the soul or subconcious?

Are there different symptoms for a soul mate connection?

@newworldallstar I’ve watch Samadhi pt 1 twice. Thank you! Still considering to sign up but wanted to thank you for this suggestion. Strong message in pt 1 🙏🪶

I don't get it, why they pull away if you think about them. I want to understand it!

I have been noticing that I am the noticer lol I would ask myself why am I doing this??? I'm obsessively thinking about this guy! Why???? This isn't normal for me so snap out of it 🥴 it's been a journey but I am at a neutral place now 💖

My twin flame never block me at all, he after comeback from separate, hot and cool behaviour 😒 Something I can feel better from him. Me and my twin flame different countries!

I was concluding the same as you. I have a blog I was documenting everything and jolting down all my monkey brain thought. I was on a spiritual path late 1990s and early 2000s. It seems I had a missing link and perhaps the true reason for going off path. Monkey brain had an interest in a particular person, yet I still had a hard time believing in something as delusional as soulmates. I came across the idea of Twin Souls/Flame before with the author Elizabeth Clair Prophet and another book. But it was being talked about to the extent like it has been on social media and the Internet. I dropped off along the path sometime around 2005. I dropped everything, even being vegan. I said F this Sh#t. Worked on my own music album for 3 years, with my own money. Got burnt out after I finished it and eventually started a relationship with a man (that happens to have the same first name as my TF. Imagine that! And his street address end up being TF birthdate but I didn’t notice it at the time until all of this started for me. I guess I noticed in 2016, the address even though I was living with him since 2008. Had our son in 2009. So, there’s the end of my music career lol. Oh well. Did not learn that I was TF until 2015 and even then I was like, nah but something inside me was like yes, that’s my issue and my “thing for this man. Hahaha. It was weird how it just “clicked” and at the same time, nah, this is too good to be true. My first stop was Gold Ray Twin Flame Mel is the first online YTer I found and I was not the FB groups. I was already in my TF fan groups and feeling that blissful bubble that’s all talked about. I was like, wow. Never felt this before, or perhaps I did early on when I was reading NDW books and that early spiritual path I took and just didn’t see it as anything important and I can’t recall feeling like I did. But the thing I knew that always stuck was that constant thought of him and why he won’t leave. I just took it as being in the mood to listen to music even though I largely never went to a show. I was content with listening and dancing to his music. I took things as a message "perhaps he’s showing me as where my interest and its something I should folllow" so I learned to play the guitar (I have a brother born the same year as TF and babies daddy that also played since childhood.) I just kind of accepted over time that TF is just a part of me and probably will be forever (and perhaps if I ever had a one night stand with him, I’d get over it 😃 and never want him again!) It took me a while, after 2 kids where I was like, I’m joining his fan community online in the FB groups. I didn’t feel like I was doing anything different from everyone else. I was in a few other fan communities of a few others, but ya know, it just didn’t feel right and was short-lived. I think in 2012, I liked TF page as a music interest but I rarely looked at it or interact with it. I mean I just had my daughter that year as well. My interactions didn't fully start until 2014. Yeah. I was in the fan groups on FB. I even started my own. I was booted in the larger fan group. I recall it was about 6000+ members. I learned he had a Twitter and, not immediately, but I soon followed him. One day he followed me back but there was some odd ball excuse he posted as to why he followed some people and was a mistake blah blah blah and he still followed. I had a few fan friends that followed me. So, I was just randomly post loving crap and stuff. I just know I loved him and felt like I was following my heart, following my bliss. I was already kicked out of the large fan community. Miserable people didn't like my positivity. I was attacked in my own group. But, I followed him on Twitter and he followed back. But then I was blocked and some BS drama played out. I already had my tickets to a show he was playing and VIP. I didn't take the online stuff too seriously. I mean, it was Twitter, I just got a new account hahaha. Still mad, though, and the confusion of what happened apparently didn't effect how I felt. I went to the show and was really feeling it. I just took it as I'm all in this energy because it's my first official day out on my own WITHOUT the kids since I became a mother! I miss being with them all the time, but such is life. I have all this stuff in my blog I typed out. He has been cyber stalking me this entire time. He would post indirectly. I'm thinking he might be letting go of the online stalking. No help from me though lol. I deleted FB and IG 2 years ago.. I was never a tarot person but I somehow started watching them maybe 4 years ago. Yeah, it's like an addiction. And I can't say but I do feel there may be a few haters that are readers that know me and him and are fans. I finally found a spectualtion to be confirmed where a reader was wearing a fan t-shirt. I can agree with you on readers, you just never know you might be following someone who don't want to see you with your person. They are just bitter. But at the same time you might have a few support groups. But in the end, we need to do our own inner guiding. I know TF was all into tarot readings, and for years. I went to a show in 2016 and someone I met that was at VIP told me that someone's mom does his readings. I decided to go to a Christmas party he was having at his tea house and it appears his one friend was asking me if I wanted my palm read. I declined. Nope. No lines are going to tell me where my heart is. I don't need another stupid thing lingering in my head and who's to say he's not being truthful and just randomly pulling crap out his azzz. Perhaps I had to go down the rabbit holes I had to and whatnots, especially now the world crap that's been happening the past 3 years. I was doing my own form of "mirror exercises" I did not agree with many of the other teachings I was hearing in the groups. I did take on the celibate path from the get go. I don't need any more of that mixing of body energies. And even Sadguru teaches about body memory. I'm most certain my TF has his share of mixing all these energies and creating all these body memories and soul ties with multiple peoples.They do anything and everything just not with you, thinking is so full of hookup culture. I can't follow him anymore and just watch from afar. Now we have this transgender movement. My TF wants to make him out to be feminine, which according to his astrological chart, he is and mine is definitely more masculine, but he wants me to keep chasing him. As I mentioned I already been there, some that and he kept wanting to throw shade at me every time or have karmic with him. I had to learn about Narcissm in 2019, finding it by accident because I never heard the term, but it's definitely what he's been doing. The last time I went to him was 2017? He already created so gs and he tried to have a child on my birthday, but God wasn't allowing him. The birth announcement was the day before. It's sick and he's been very manipulative. I do agree that it's definitely a spiritual path but then again all of life should be anyway regardless of the TF. At least I have my answers. I've also been pulling back from too much YT. My TF wants to play the female card and why I must chase him, I'm sure the matrix will approve of his decision. You want to run and pull the female card, here, cut it off i agree body mind and soul. My body was born female so i can experience being a female, not play the male role. Km most convinced that the movement is an attack to the TF community. Especially from the runners. I won't be surprised this is God's message to the runners who want to pull the opposite gender card and not do the work. And that they want to play the hook up culture by smashing anything and anyone that isn't the divine counterpart. Celibacy is important, we don't need all that body memory and added karma. I watched the first video, yes, everything I remember from before. It seems that for me, it is more about cleaning my vibrational energy, as Abraham Hicks would say. Thanks for sharing your message and confirming what I was also reaching. I took down my blog, still there,just not my focus a d I don't want to be a TF coach/healer whatever. I don't want all that extra attachment energy. I'm doing my own thi g and doing my own work. I'll watch the other 2 videos later. I've had the power of now book for a while. I have t read it, just only started it. I've read other books over the years. Just refocusing. Thanks so much for taking the role as coach and teaching the truth path.

How do i, do it when she is my collega? I she hear twice a week.

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I have so many questions about your philosophy on this. If by focusing on your twin flame, they run, how is it that anyone can be in union with their twin flame? How does sex work? Sorry I can’t focus on you rn because if I do you’ll be repelled by me, gotta meditate and only focus on self while we do it 🤣 Do you just act like an aloof a**hole all the time? Lol how does this practically work 😂

So it's actually detaching from everything else in order to connect with your TF.

What happens when you’re clairaudient? 😂❤️✌️

My twin flame do send good morning almost everyday and doesnt talk much, how to detach?

is it normal twin flame situation where after the bubble phase my DM suddenly runs and saying lets just be friend?

I still cant, maybe not now, please help me it's so hurtful 😭😭😭😭😭

What if you have obsessive thinking about an alien?

Whats is the difference between a true and false Twin Flame?

I can say this. My Twin flame is Nuts and I am too but in a different way. I Knew not too long after we connected we had to stay away from each other. I may never meet my Twin here on this planet and maybe thats just as well. so as they say it's all good. My twin would say Say La Ve c];-)

My tf is a coworker which I meet once a week and during the week we have mail and phone communication. Its one year now to have my heart broken every week over and over again. I try to deattach... but I cannot succeed if we have to meet every week.😢

Do twin flames always separate and if they do is it forever 😢

Q: when they (dm) come back, wouldn't it be their attachment to us and not love?

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It will be quite the challenge for me to detach from my TF runner since she is a workmate, and when I do see her around, well I'm back to square one. Watched all 3 Samadhi movies, and I noticed myself falling into a deep trance-like state at times. I guess I need to keep re-watching that and allow myself to fall into the trance more. I'm also in an uphill battle against my mind cuz it's hungry for validation and observing 3D manifestations of progress. It's like a 2nd layer obsession. Obsessed about beinf obsessed. I really am trying. Or maybe I should be surrendering. Maybe when my mind breaks down my will too.

So then you are not really detaching from twin flame you are detaching from the mind. The mind thinks that immediately if some kind of love or bond is felt or known it is time to do something or what comes next like it’s conditional like everything else was always conditional. Tf I am getting it its just an is it’s the way it is that’s it . Other things can come out of it but the foundation that it is this way and there’s nothing to do. so it’s attachment to the mind that always wants to do something or struggle with something. That is why no matter how hard it is the mind is drawn to that person because that person is within you already or their soul is you already.. I know Kurt you’re not supposed to be thinking of dreams but I it’s so hard when you have so many. I recently had a dream that my neighbor mentioned my tfs name and then said oh yeah I know him he’s already here he’s already in your house he’s already here …so this is true wisdom. You were never aware of being a part of someone else’s soul and you can’t separate from your soul but you can separate from the conditional living that’s in your mind. And now I know why it takes a long time to get this because this is not what we are used to at all.

Kurt, did you know Esther Hicks (aka Abraham) was married to Jerry Hicks until he passed away. They were / are twin flames. I listened to a very cool podcast by her years ago, wish I could find it. She spoke about the age gap and all their synchronicities which we all experience in our own way. 😊#hadtosay

In theory, I and all in this journey know that I'm a soul, not the body or the mind. But I'm yet to reach the stage when I identify myself as just a soul. I meditate almost regularly, had spiritual awakening after meeting tf, DNOTS that lasted for 1.5 yrs. I'm still not sure, if this person is my tf. Is there any was to know for sure if the person is ur tf or just a spiritual catalyst. Many times I feel he doesnt even love me.