The way a 3 operates can be perceived a little harshly or misinterpreted by others but of course, I’M A TYPE 3 so I care about how I’m being perceived in general lol. But when we’re more integrated into type 6 there becomes a simple wish or small tweak of terminology for deeper understanding, rather than this ultimate desire to really convince & hammer the truth home to others in a ‘desperate to be understood & approved of’ way. So I really appreciated how simple & straight forward this video is, especially when exploring the very tender, loving, & loyal side to a 3. It points to this idea of “I’m not this robotic work horse obsessed with goals that puts on masks because I’m vain & want everyone to think I’m great”. Rather, “I’ve taken a lot of time necessary to love myself outside of my goals, & can now show up authentically for the ones I love & also see inherent value in, regardless of what THEY achieve alongside me”. Helping someone level up isn’t always because they’re incompetent, it’s sometimes because we see them clearly & offer suggestions to make them happy in a deeper way- but that should be only if THEY are receptive & agreeable to exploring those same ideas. Great video.
That's good. I'm a Self-Pres 3 and I think that this subtype is actually the most robotic because of our workaholism. Sexual (1:1) 3s for example are a little more available in my opinion. Do you know which subtype you are?
I'd start by asking them what they really want (as opposed to what others want them to be). Ask them, "if you didn't care about approval, what would you most want?" You could also ask them about when they feel the most shame or get embarrassed. That can draw out some of their inner-emotions.
