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Angithathe lelithuba ngibingele Philan Luwantshi ngicela ukubuza Uma uzalwa ngabazali abangashadile kodwa ubaba ulobolile ngikhululele kubo kababa

ngicela alex nike nikhulume ngengane ayathi izalwa yakhulela kubokamfana kungenziwe lutho nalezi ngane ezishiwa onina kubokamfane ngale kokulandela imigudu efanele asibonge

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Siyabonga kakhulu ukusivula inqondo Luvuno

Ndabezitha uthinta eyamakhambi ukususa abanye,yzi ngike ngayizwa angayikholwa manje sengichazelekile

Another Topic @Alex is imali yelobola yenzwani or iyakubani

Ngicela ukubuza uyayishisa yini impepho uma sowusele wedwa komalume

1.ngicela ukubuza:: umalume wathola ingane kasisi wami wayixosha,wathi ubani uzogeza umuzi uma ingane ingashonela egcekeni? 2. Igoduso yami ngiyithole inengane ,kanti abazali bakhe sebashona. Ngicela ukubuza uma kungenzeka ibhubhu la egcekeni kuzofanele bawugeze yini umuzi wami? Nawukuthi izozilelwa kuphi ingane noma abazukulu/nezingane bayo

Kujuliwe lapha.

ANOKE NISICACISELE UKUTHI LENTO YOKULOBOLA UKHIPHE IZINKOMO UMA INGANE IKHISHWA NOMALUME. MANJE NJENGOBA SIKE SITSHELWE UKUTHI ILOBOLO BEKUBA INTO ENJENGOKUDLA NEZIPHO, NOMA INANI LEZINKIMO EZITHOLAKELE,. SEKUBUYAPHI UKUTHI UMA NGOKUKA SHEPSTONE SELABA ZINKOMO EZIBEKIWE, KUNGANI BESE NANGOKWASEMSAMO KUTHIWE KUYISIKO KODWWA SIBE SAKUNIKWA ABAMHLOPHE KUNGATHI SOHLAZA IZINCITHABUCHOPHO ZAKHO KUMELE KE ZIYOCWANINGA ZIBUYE NENTO EZWAKALAYO

Eyokuthenga ingane ka nkosikaz omfice nayo ibe izalwa enye indoda ngiyafisa ibe yitopic yangelinye ilanga. Ngihlale ngizwa kuthiwa Uma umakoti Erika nengane yentombazane yakwesinye isbongo uStep father unalo ilungelo lokuyithenga leyongane yonkinto yenzelwe kwakhe lokho basuka benzelukuth uStep father adle izinkomo because wayikholhela wayithenga wayiphelelisa ingane but indaba ivele ibe la ngabe omalume bayo lengane bathini ngobaba wengane weqiniso kudayiswe ingane yabo idayiselwe abantu abangayizali mzukwana uyise wa lengane Eva nawo amandla okuyihlawula ingane kubese kuthiwani lapho?? Thanx for your show

Ngicela ukubuza ukuthi uma washonelwa izingane zacwatshwa ekhaya kuka yise wenzenjani uma usukhishwa ngokosiko kanye nalaba abaphilayo kwenziwa njani ngoba ngicabanga ukuthi lezi eziphilayo ziyakhishwa ngisiko lezi ezikubo already yenziwa njani into yazo zikhishwa kanjani or ziyayekwa ngoba sivele zikubo?

Ngicela ukubuza, ngizoshada kodwa ngizalele ekhaya abafana ababili sahlukana no baba wabo, ubaba wabo ufuna ukubalobola, angaba lobola ngomalini? Izingane sizebensiza isbongo sam and azifuni ukushintsha isbongo kuvumelekile na even though ubaba wabo eseba lobolile?

Ngbingelele kobaba bonke estudio. Sacela ukbuza in cases like ukhulele kini and umama nobaba wakho bagcina ngokbhala then wena all u know ukuthi uzalelwe emshadweni then u later find out ukuthi kwaylesbongo sakini osaziyo wena aksiso esababa wakho naye wayefike nonina azogana naye la wagcina embiza ngalesbongo what do u do uklungisa lesosimo? Okunye engicela ukukwazi kobaba ukuthi ukhulele ekhaya komama waktshela isbongo sababa wakho and kwi ID ubiza isbongo salobaba but after umama wakho edlula emhlebeni uthola izinto zakho ziya ngokvaleka then u later find out mawhamba abantu ukuthi lesbongo sababa wakho aksiyena ubaba lowakhula umazi wena but unobaba wakho nje ongakaze utshelwe ngaye and uthola ukuthi usubangwa zidalwa ezintathu okungesasekhaya komama esala wakhula wazi ukuthi ungowakhona nalesi osanda kthola ngaso manje ukuthi isona sbongo sakho. Uylungisa kanjan leyonkinga? Ngingabonga kakhulu if ubaba kebeybuyekeze indaba yalama topic coz baningi abantu abadidekile ngalendlela yokuthi they end up taking their own lives just because izinto zabo azlungi

Hayi niyayibeka lentotho ndinimamele

Mpunga noMntwana, uma kungukuthi ukhulele kumalume wafaka isphandla sakhona kodwa wabiza esikababa epasini, kuyazimosha yini izinto ukubiza ipasi likababa ube kanti ubikwe emsamo wakomalume???

Bongani Mseleku... ngicela ukubuza mina umama washada kodwa mina naye asikhishwanga komalume...nanko umbuzo njengoba umalume engasebenzi..ngingazithengela mina isilwane noma kumele kube umalume othenga isilwane?

Angibingelele kobaba Uma umama womntwana wayisa umntwana kubaba okungasiye ngenhla yezinhloso zakhe. Ingane bayihlawula and bazikhulisela noma bengayithenganga but yenziwa wonke amasiko akhona. Kanti ingane ifana nse nobabayo lowegazi. Ithi besikhulile bese kuyavela ukuthi eyakuphi. Ubaba lowayikhulisa washona ekumalungiselelo okuyithenga ngokugcwele ukuze ishadelwe kusona isibongo sakhe. Ilungiswa kanjani leyonto? Obabomncane bayaqubeka ngalokhu ebesekuqalile ubaba ivese inyathelwe nje lento, Ingane iqubeka ngaso isibonga sababa oyikhulisile or ibuyela kwesomalume? Iyiphi imigudu yesintu elandelwayo?

Uma ingane izalelwe ekhaya kwendziwa njani mase imithisa I ntombi? Ingaba indaba yokumithisa kwayo ixoxwa NOMA ilungiswa njani uma ibikhuliswe uGogo noMkhulu kodwa ibilokhe ivakssha kaboyise.

Ngicela ukubuza umama washona engaganile ehlala kubo, ubaba angimazi.kodwa wathi ngingowakhwa Zulu nalapho esengithathela ipasi wasebenzisa umuntu wakwa Zulu kwaba nguye ongenzela ipasi.kodwa ngihlala ekhaya kwamama .ubuzo wami uthi uma sengifuna ukuphuma ekhaya kwamama ngizosebenzisa siphi isbongo.ngoba epasini ngibiza u ZULU ?

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