Understanding Narcissism in Islam 

Why don't our Scholars talk about this more.He is so accurate in describing wht one goes on in a narcissistic marriage. I have lived with covert narc for 33 years and never have i heard any Islamic perspective about this.

Lets pray for those who r dealing with narcissitic people. May Allah give patient, strenght, wisdom, and protection to all the victim. O Allah who knows better our struggles n the real situation, If this problem is a test to improve ouself, may Allah increase our position in jannah, if not, please forgive us from our past,present, n future sins. Aminn.

i just have divorced with my narcissistic wife... My life was hell ..... i was on the verge of dying . suffering from anxiety ,depression and panic attacks 😢

The victims may end up having their hearts hardened from the amount of silent abuse they endure..May Allah soften our hearts for HIS sake.

I divorced my narc spouse and came out of this toxicity. I made the best decision in my life Alhamdulillah

My father was a narcissist and he died a terrible death . God is Great

Much respect to you sir ..narcissists get worse as they get older they pure evil people they will never admit they are wrong

Many people watching this video are victims and not the perpetrators. So true.

I have lived 20+years in this situation. Trying to remain patient and making dua for a way out from my pain. JazzakumAllah khairan for this video because I have never found an Islamic prospective on this issue. Our sheikhs do not give us a divorce because this abuse leaves no physical evidence. It is unjust. Why are woman expected to be patient and are made to feel guilt when they finally break and can't be silent any longer 😭💔

Sisters who are victim of this please please understand you can't change anything of him. But you can set boundaries, keep away from discussing anything with them, avoid arguing with them, In case you can't have divorce, BUT if you can khulaa that's better for you.

If you have left the narcissist, u did good. Forgive, heal, let go and do your best for yourself. Build your imaan, your life and move on from it. Allah gave you this trial for a reason, you have learned so much and grown in so many ways. May Allah bless you ❤

Nah, they wont change. Been married to a malignant narcissist for 8 years. Being played, used, abused over & over again. No more. Just filed a divorce, broke but determined to be free. I know the best way to heal is to forgive but I am too much in pain to forgive. I will claim this on Judgement Day in front of Allah I hope karma will bite them good. Real good

Finally an open 'conversation'... narcissistic behaviour is abuse on ALL levels, be it spiritual, physical or mental...and then the parents conveniently hear no evil, and see no evil... that in itself is EVIL !!! Thinking they are doing the right thing culturally and islamically.... when in reality they are just uncaring and ignorant ... thus giving them a free pass not to support their child in their time of need....

My father and husband was narcissist.I know them very well..Allah save people from them..

I am crying.... it hurts so bad to suffer this way. I don't have courage but I always pray to Allah for His Guidence.

So happy someone spoke about this from an Islamic point of view.

Subhan’Allah!! I’m so thankful that I came across this video, especially when the brother said ‘run’. I had to give my husband of 22 years an ultimatum as he was engaging in an emotional affair which he would not give up. This is when his ‘mask’ fell off and he became a disgusting tyrant. Only Allah can change their hearts 😔

Our scholars really need to address this. Every word you said it’s exactly how so many victims suffered. You nailed it. I am so happy you came out and spoke about it. We really need support groups. These victims are so stuck and a solution for narcissism.

SubhahAllah! So grateful to come across this video. Narcissism is so wide spread and such a taboo that it is being hidden under a rug. NO muslim scholar addresses it, esp when it has to do with parents. I am so glad that you are breaking this wall. May Allah reward you and your family for this immense strength that you have showed. Healing others is serving humanity! I am a victim too and in my quest to find answers, I have instead found God. It is easier to find Allah Subhana Wa Tallah, than to find answers. I encourage all my muslim brothers and sisters to try. Jazak Allah!

Jazak Allaho khayran for this video. Our scholars really need to speak and make people aware of how dangerous narcissistic are especially those who hide behind religion. Alhamdulillah, I manage to get rid of my ex after 23 years marriage. Much respect to you sir.

Alhamdulillah finally someone in the Muslim community who is tackling a very serious issue that happens a lot with Pakistani guys in particular who get seriously spoiled by their mothers and that is the main problem why they became narcs. My best friend of 30 years is a narc and I ended up removing him out of my life. Yes they are very manipulative, devious and play too many games. I've tried to help him for 10 years but in the end he didn't change and got a lot worse so I got rid of him completely.

A narc can become a narc because his/her parent/parents were narcs. A victim also comes from a family with narc/narcs in many cases. It's a complicated issue of our time. The main focus should be on trying to stop this from growing. In today's society the individual has become the focus while also living our lives behind closed doors (detached physically). These are all ingrediënts for narcs. May Allah protect us from eachother and ourselves.

We need more discussions on this topic,

Allahmdulilah for this talk. It’s so hard when the narcissist is your mom and you still want to follow Allah’s word to respect, care, cherish and be there for your mother. Very conflicting and draining.

Masya Allah for 40 years I am dealing with a false self wife..having double image..play victim and cheating behind my back..jazakallah this is the first time I hear from my brother muslim..keep telling the society!

Crying my broken heart out, all this is true may Allah bless you and all the victims may Allah give the narcissists tawfiq to change and protect humanity from this Ameen

You are so so true . I have gone through exactly the same with the exact cycle of abuse as you have described. Alhamdulillah I am staying away from him, but he is held me hanging out in society. This too shall pass.

Am soo in love with this Sheikh. Its not easy at all Its soo common among muslim ummah. Am ready to help in any way that i can help the society

Thank you so much brother, for this talk. Only people who have gone through this type of abuse can relate. Being patient and forgiving does not get you to a better place with these individuals. Instead, your forgiveness is their free pass to cross more and more bounderies. They get worse as they get older and harm those most close to them, because they feel they can get away with their destructive behaviors.

Thank you brother 🙏🙏🙏 I am going through this for last 27 years finally I got courage to leave.

I've been in a narcissistic relationship for years, I've tried to be the dutifully child but no more, am testing waters of retaliation and maybe disconnecting, cause the trauma is destroying my life. I lost my iman for a while, but the fear of fire brought me back.

It is important, as brother Zuhair mentions, to remember that narcissistic behaviour roots from trauma experienced by the narcissist. This person needs to heal and i pray they heal in sha Allah. However, they may not be willing to heal that by accepting they are narcissistic because of the very fact they are narcissistic.

I have a narcissistic husband who is on another level. He shows everyone that he doesn't have any problems but it's me who doesn't recognise the freedom he has given me. He questions everything I do everyone I speak to, he wants to know what we spoke about. Then he manipulates everything I say and interprets it to how he wants to and has me questioning myself.

Thank you, finally someone speaks out the truth!

I’m a revert and got married to an evil narcissist:( Worst day of my life ! 12 years later - I can’t get away He’s destroyed me !! My Duas with Allah azzawaljal

Thankyou for bringing this to light! Many women including myself have suffered in these types of marriages and unable to understand their spouses abusive behaviour. This subject should be talked about in mosques and not brushed aside.

It has been absolutely soothing to my heart to have listened to this today. The astounding heaviness of multiple types of abuse by narcissistic Muslims is so widespread and also so silenced. Alhumduhlillah this has been amazing to listen to, I appreciate this video very much and the work you are doing. May Allah be pleased.

I pray from my entire soul for Allah to reward this man in every way. ما شاء الله

my brother you just spoke my life

Wow finally someone speaks on these predators smh

I don't know what hurts more anymore the abuse or that the abuse is coming from my life partner someone who Allah has made my protecter

Yessss a true man realizes what is authentic beliefs

Thank you so much brother Zuhair for covering this very sensitive subject , unfortunatley our culture is full of narcissts, who have little to no idea about what suffering they have put another through...The victim not only sufferers from the narcisst but also from external family who close their eyes, ears and their minds to what is happening...Leaving the victim to suffer unending misery and pain..

Finally someone addressing NPD narcissistic personality disorder JazaakAllah

I feel sorry for myself for not knowing about it earlier. Every word of you looks like you are narrating my feelings my story... Living wth a narcissistic husbnd Wallah hi everything is true to its core Alhamdolilah for listening to this

Victims' healing should be placed on a way higher priority list than any narcissist. And so long as the victim isn't 100% healed and restored, the narc shouldn't be healed, either.

Jazak Allah Gheir!! Alghamdulilaah 🤲 for your channel for muslims especially woman,my ex made me believe he is such a piuos person, make salaah 5times a day, recite Quran, went on Ghadj, all holier in Ramadan.. in the meantime he was cheating, lying, manipulating, gaslight, mind games the time.. i came to a point where i was questioning my own sanity,but then i would think something must be wrong with me, the more i humble myself the more he used me, mental abuse..Alghamdulilaah when we send me Talaq paper he got married within less than 2months with a woman that he been having affair with in his first marriage and then in our marriage.. she told me he made a mistake in married me, he was suppose to marry her, Alghamdulilaah im happy for her, he cheated with so many woman in his first marriage and second.. Alghamdulilaah i am at peace, i leave him in Allahs ✋️

thank you, I was told that in islam there’s no narcissism or any other mental abuse as that, so I questioned my experience a lot. thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Aslm, I'm currently in a marriage of 20 years, listening to several videos including yours, and the advise of many of my psychologists I'm definitely married to a narcissist. We've been for counseling and I've always seemed to be the problem. I've approached my brothers, but they're not interested, I've approached our local imam's nobody's willing to help, I've approached mjc for a fasagh but no replies or no outcome yet, meanwhile my eldest son has left, my other two are also seeing psychologists. My parents are no longer alive, I have no one else to approach for help. I'm working, and paying 3/4 of the household necessaties, but still I'm seen as a bad wife. I'm glad you mentioned that some of them where thoubs and long beards and go to mosque all day, therefore our local imam refuses to even listen to me....i have no where else to go...... What can I do??

Ameen to all your dua’s, May Allah bless you khair and aafiyah for all the hard work you’re doing.. Alhamdulillah I’m so glad I came across your video, And I’m in exactly this position, been married 37 years, but this personality has come about around when his brother died, it feels like some insecurities he has, so by controlling me, his wife , to stay in the house, not to call my family, although,I can call when he’s not around,tried to to take all the car keys, so that I can’t drive… I am still with him and willing to give him a chance. Of course he doesn’t accept these qualities he has, everybody but himself are wrong.. good piece of advice .. may Allah bless you and your family.. request for dua’s..

Yes, i wud luv to see tat topic abt child abuse as no1 wants to acknowledge it esp. the older generation...

SubhanAllah! I want to spill my heart out but Allah swt knows and that should be enough.. So i really want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video and i hope that every muslim and muslima suffering from this in any kind of way sees your video and knows they are not alone and should do something about the situation instead of thinking the right way is to have sabr and waiting for the next world.. NO! Like you said.. Children suffer from this and its going from generation to generation! Children are our amanah, subhanAllah! How can we be so fooled and think we just have to have sabr instead of knowing our relegion and knowing what our obligations are towards Allah swt, towards ourselves, our children and everyone around us. When your environment is sick how can you reach purity, subhanAllah! Just like the shaytaan tries to Come between husband and wife.. I think that when a marriage is toxic, the shaytaan wants us to stay together because he knows the outcome of that. Allahoe a3lem! May Allah swt forgive me and everyone for speaking something that isnt true ore hurting someone unintentionally etc.. May Allah swt forgive uss al and guide us to the straight path and Jenna! Ameen!❤

Jazakallah khair for this video.May Allah bless u and ur family.Duas for victims.May Allah protect us

Oh brother u give me faith back in my religion, I’ve been denied so much that I started hate towards the deem because my husband narc & family & others hide behind it & no one sees or believes a word

Without fail, this amazing religion always has an answer & solution. So thankful for this as are the many others who find their way here I’m sure. Ppl develop illnesses, lose their iman as sheik says, and contemplate taking their lives over this type of abuse. Always search for an answer in the deen as it is vast ♥️Alhamdulillah ☪️

Finally someone who can speak the truth. Respect to u brother.

Great effort, JazakAllah Khair. May Allah (SWT) reward you for your efforts. If I may so, what was missed out was that narcissistic abuse can be enabled by siblings and the Muslim neighbourhood. On the former, we are told in the Quran and every Friday Khutba to be Just i.e. Allah comes first too but siblings tend to still support parents in their emotional abuse, physical abuse and neglect on the trust from Allah(SWT). On the latter, one of the attributes of Narcissists is that they love to do smear campaigns on the Victim. The Muslim neighbourhood rarely use the words "I don't want to know" and are Gossip thirsty without verifying too. Thus the Muslim neighbourhood become enablers instead of stopping the Oppressor as per the teachings of the Quran. In conjunction, the Muslim community do not help the Oppressed rather do gaslighting with ignorant comments and hurting the Victim more - despite teachings to not leave Oppressed alone. In my situation, it was the English folk who followed teachings of the Quran and the few Muslims who initially came to help wanted money in return. A huge regret I went to the Muslim Community for the first time in my life. The other observation is we do not have to actually maintain family ties. A narcissistic family system can be created which can involve physical stalking too. The answer and teaching is to go No Contact with the flying monkey's too so that the Victim can live a happy emotional and spiritual life including healing from the narcissistic abuse. The Victim has to keep boundaries with the enablers too and to not engage with them. In my situation, both narcissistic parents were attracted to me because of my potential and capability - so their sole aim in life has been to destroy me, destroy my dreams and limit my potential including deliberately not letting my marriage happen and now age of 41 - the Muslim community enabled the sins and participated in them to get them on their own records. Most have had the karma and been getting punished as they were warned for not stopping the Oppressors. They have hated my Hifz of the Quran and had no interest how I was to blessed and use to hate me going to the mosque 5 times a day with such a smile. Having lost 10 years of my life with their deception, they only love to Control, imitate, jealousy, envy, curse, evil eye, and use for their needs and then discard and devalue. Also big up their other children and other people's children in front of me. Then try to love bomb and hoover for their needs again - narcissist cycle. The patterns do not ever change as Narcissists can never have self-awareness and surrounded by enablers too. We have to go to the Police like I did and go to Court for a non molestation order to protect ourselves. Ulema's in my town shy away from giving true guidance as per teachings of Islam. If I can leave for good this time having been manipulated too often to forgive etc I hope to set something up to help other Victims including Shelter and provide the right guidance. For the love of Allah(SWT) we forgive but we never forget - no one should even give a 2nd chance to a Narcissist - you will regret it as I did all too often. I would be in a better position than any Imam having survived narcissistic abuse for 28 years now. I am hoping more will rise up too as we are experts are brushing matters under the carpet when the norm is to make ourselves look very religious with the outward appearance. f I may say so Victims need clear advice as per Islam. In the 1st Video it was said to "Run" - and now emphasis on still trying to be kind etc to them. The latter does not work with Narcissists and the Victim can end up putting themselves in a dangerous situation by giving chance after chance. Also, Allah (SWT) does not expect the Victim to suffer in silence as per Quran, but enablers in Muslim neighbourhood can shout ignorant comments such as someone will call you mad for speaking out, or even Muslim worshippers just go mad when they get old. Whilst shouting a palace is waiting for them in Paradise and chilling out with their Wives in the comfort of their own homes. Mufti Menk has covered some of the topic by saying they lose the guardianship and to go to the police. So if the Muslim community plays ignorant the Victim has done their bit a per Islam of being proactive and in sha Allah will get the reward of patience too. Whilst the Muslim community gets the punishment in this life and next as per Islam - "O' you who believe stand firm for Justice" - Allah (SWT) comes first and if you don't stand firm for Justice one has lost their hereafter. I urge all Victims to boot their knowledge by tuning into Dr Ramani's videos on Narcissists and to protect yourselves - our safety and dignity always comes first in Islam. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-z1JVHyTBAbw.html - Muslim Scholars would imo shy away from doing such sermons despite desperately needed in the Muslim Community.

Thank you for being honest brother. Narcissism is becoming an Epidemic in today’s world no doubt & is the root cause of many family feuds and breakups esp. divorces. You have approached this subject with a Fairness that is sadly very hard to find in the Muslim community today - there is a lot of confusion, fear and shame surrounding these issues and that only hurts the victims more - an open and meaningful discussion is necessary to overcome these hurdles otherwise we will likely remain where we already are. I really appreciate your sincerity and honesty as you reflect on these difficult matters. I have subscribed to your channel and look forward to more meaning discussions such as this one. Thank you again.

JazakaAllah kheir your lecture todays has had a huge impact in me and May Allah bless you and help those who are suffering from this kind of human being

it has probably reached a crisis when you are wishing not to wake up the next day, or wish the person dies, or that you want to do something to them and your Iman is being so affected that you just get through the day. Alhamdulillah, I experienced all of these and now I am disconnected for over a year.

Dear brother in faith! Thank you very much for this video. As someone who was married with narcissist I can disagree with you saying its not a spiritual thing. It is! I saw it and sure felt it. This was the reason why I convert to Islam in the first place.

I have grownup as a daughter being a victim, but alhmdulillah I am trying to heal myself by detaching myself from XYZ of my family whenever he starts his narcissism

SubhanAllah, so. on. point. Signed every single word. Jazakumullahu khayr!

May Allah reward you for this video I am getting out of mine

Really important subject to discuss thank you for talking about it 🙏🏽

Thank you for speaking up...may Allah bless you... For being a speaker of truth and light. your words are of a true Muslim 🙏 as it should be....praying and power without good deeds and selfishness...is not a true Muslim or any other kind of religion. 🕊💔 May Allah/God help and protect the victims and give a chance to repent to abusers or who don't see there bad actions...intentionally or unintentionally. Come back to light. 💙

Very inspiring. Jazakallah for sharing

Jazak Allah khair brother

Brother thank you so much for talking about this topic. I have been learning about narcissists bc I was a victim once . As I have learn about this character in trades I find so many Muslim men are very much the same.

🌟سبحان الله , your talk is so true , Alhamdulillah you speak from an Islamic perspective…… my experience with a narc spouse has damaged my heart , soul , spirit , mental and physical health …. I am petrified of living in this duniya …. That’s how deep his poison has reached . I survive with my hope in Allahs mercy .

Jazak allahu khayr. Also they love reverts especially new reverts who don’t have much knowlegde in lslam yet, they use hadiths and verses of the Quran to manipulate. AND they don’t mind about raising their children, they will care only if it benefits them, uses them for image purposes... subhan Allah

Thank you so much for this “suffering in silence” speaks to me deeply.

Jazak Allahu khairun. Narcissistic abuse from parents, friends and even children also exists.

Duas for you hard work siddi and for all the awareness that you do and awareness of narcissism and helping victims aswel as my self duas for you and for all victims/for all ummah

May Allah bless you. Run is the best advice a Muslim scholar has given . 🏃‍♂️

Great Speech, thank you very much!😀👏🌷

Thank you, Imam Zuhair, for this thoughtful reminder on our duties of fairness and objectivity towards our families. I’ve met so many of these types of people, not just in our Islamic groups, but society in general these days-which cause young students and children to have a broken-seeming consciousness, (until some healing is done, by Allah’s mercy).May Allah cure us all as we submit to His Hikmat/Medicines of the Soul. “No compassion and care …manipulations…” are so commonplace in today’s era. May Allah continue to bless and reward you, your wisdom, and family.

My mother is a narcist. I broke with her. I am a mother also. I have a daughter. She is 10 years old. I can only make dua for her. I do not want to contact her anymore. We never been a family. I am tired and ill because of her. My life was like a hell. It took 40 years of my life. Now I am 46. My ex husband was also a narcist, some girlfriends too. I thought this is normal. I have been raised like that. I want to live my own life and want to focus on myself and my daughter. I want to discover myself, because I do not know who I am. 😓

May u stay blessed for sharing goodness. Ameen

Well Spoken, brother. SubhanALLAH

What about if your own mother is the narcissist? I’m an adult woman in her early 30s with my own children and I have only now acknowledged my mother’s narcissism. It’s extremely painful and even more in knowing that I have entangled my life so much with hers that I can’t escape. She lives with me. Allah help me.

Aamiin to all ur du'as & may Allah protect u & ur family & help u in ur work

Wat a beautiful lecture iv learnt soooo much from u brother may Allah bless u ameen

“They have to go back to the drawing board” Subhanallah 🎉 You sir, have explained very well from Islamic point of view. Please give me your contact details. I am a Muslim female health professional looking for people like yourself to assist me to interpret some areas of Quran that I feel address narcissism. You have touched so many untouched areas. Mashallah Allah keep you well guided and humble,

Thank you so much for this video. There should be more about narcissism in Islam, especially when it pertains to men. A lot of them are claiming it to be part of the religion but I disagree, it's got more to do with the culture surrounding Islam. To attribute this way of treating others to Islam should be a terrible, terrible sin.

How you deal with once very close family members that are narcissistic and are not Muslim? I have talked to my sister for almost 2 years and I told her I love her today because of Allah! 💯✅ she is not Muslim I just hope she change for the better she is way older then me too.. ❤️

Salaam eilekom I really loved this video. U told us to run away from the narcissist. But what if it is one of your parents? Barakalahoe fikom

An unholy spirit i think the best thing to do is dump the situation and save yourself

Salam dear brother, it is truely good to find your video and and to hear a muslim brother inform about this very important issue. Narcissistic abuse is VERY REAL and to be found on all levels. Mental, emotional and domestic violence have at their root very often individuals with this kind of disposition. I have missed accomplished people on the path taking a stance and talking about these issues and their causes. We need more expert brothers and sisters talking about it. Your explanation and angling with islamic perspective including tazkiyah ,our potential within and healing is SO needed in the muslim community. All put very well mashaAllah. Thank you.

subhan'alllah. really beneficial. may Allah protect all the innocent people from such cruel narcissists. aameen 🤍

Ameen .. unfortunately and sad to say that there are.more than less... normal concious people.will recognise the harm because the heart and spirit will highlight it..but unfortunately having had alot of experience because they very convincing and by the time you recognise they not willing to genuinely look internally, onces emotions are invested and the hope they will hold themselves accountable.... but have come away with insights.. unfortunately it is a HUGE problem in pur ummah...there are many people that are incredibly valnurable and not able to bounce back, but will say very strong boundaries are needed if its some one one cant totally leave.... a person has to take charge and not feel so bound or made to feel guilty..... many also are not aware that this is a mental personality disorder ( doesnt excuse their action's) These people are incrediblly toxic and strategic, have a very distorted view and delusional... great topic and yes it is energy draining.. hence the description they given as *vampires*.. Thats exacltynwhat they do....do not build you up but tear you down so they can control you...

Precisely conveyed

Sheigh shukr for advising us. Im married to a man that had all signs of narsisst i ran away few dsys start on own with my kids nd we are so happy Alhamdulilah. He msgs me he miss me nd he cant start his day or night without me. When i tell him of the things he done he will tell me that my mouth is a problem nd im mad bt he wans to control my money telling me hes my husband nd when i ask my money he would gaslight nd start beating me putting me in the corner nd choak me this has been going on for 2 years i confronted him about his mental illness nd he laugh nd say im mad . Please how do i get over this man i really love hm nd hope Allah give him hidiyah nd help him. Can he change or should i just let it go

They provoke you to the edges n then blame you when you react. He is putting my adult children against me

As a blind man living in the UK, when I first got married to a woman who I thought was pious. She made me believe that she was religious in her heart and I never questioned her not once. She did not wear the head covering but I did not want to force her, I believed with time that will change. With the permission of Allah. She never prayed once, even during Ramadan she refuses to fast. She will make excuses constantly. Then I noticed that after the initial loving stage she stars to be cold and withhold intimacy then seek attention from other men only to then tell me that there is something wrong with me and that I need therapy, that’s going blind over the years has had a traumatic affect on me and that I am confused, even though I have seen more than enough and heard more than enough to clarify and justify my thoughts. She wanted to go and drink in the pub with her work colleagues, that she would stay away from alcohol and I did not permit it and told her those that are in the company of alcoholics will end up just like those people. She held that against me for years saying that I was some kind of killjoy. I allowed her once during Ramadan, to go to one of those places, it wasn’t a pub it was an inset meeting and it was going to be held on a boat. Whilst my family and I will fasting she went and drank what she claimed to me non-alcoholic beverage, only for my mum to be here and point out that she was swaying slightly and that her breath smelt of champagne. She tried to justify this by explaining that she asked for a non-alcoholic beverage but they must have mixed her drink up by mistake. We have two beautiful children and they realise from our conversations and arguments that there is tension between us but they do not know why. What can I possibly do such a woman? Do I run for the hills or do I stay until my children are at least 18? The things she has done and said are so vast, I tried to blame myself for years that I was the problem but I know no after 12 years that it really isn’t me, I’m trying my best I’m giving her everything but it’s no use.

I am amazed by your knowledge mash Allah! Keep doing these kind of vids🌱

Jizakallah sheik b for talking about this

Just like any disease, even if there's a cure it is useless if you don't believe u need any treatment. Very scary dealing with this.

Married to a covert narcissist for 44yrs. Finally leaving him. They don't change. 😢😢

Growing sickness. Don't waste time on them