Today we're gonna be taking a look at an encounter someone had with a creepy guy who had a temper tantrum after getting rejected Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
Snotty women with their nose up in the air... Like be Nice... He was trying to b nice... They are bitches... How can't u see that.. Ofcoarse he went way to far.. don't set somebody off... You don't know what their dealing with...
This happens A LOT. I was 17, and a grown man literally tried to fight me because I told him I had a boyfriend. This happened in front of DOZENS of people, and NOBODY helped. Nobody. If I didn't know how to bob and weave and could run faster than him, Lord knows what would've happened. I screamed for help and everything. Once I got away, I always carried a knife until I was able to carry a firearm. Never leave home without it.
!!!!!! i see a similar video but a young lady was attacked in an elevator, all the men stood around like bozos and it was another woman who stepped in and literally had to bite him.
@Josh-py9rq ur dumb. Everybody has an obligation to help each other in distress. It's all about how you would like someone to treat you. If you were in her situation and powerless to stop it, you would definitely, with no doubt, want someone to come to your aid. If you lie and say you wouldn't, it is just because you are bitter and hurt.
They call women all these names, and how they’re loose, ran through, all these different things, but they get mad when the woman reject them. Aren’t these so-called high value men supposed to have options, so what are you get mad for😂😩
Mr ‘Nice Guy’ is in the streets and for the streets. But got rejected in the streets. Then got arrested in the streets. He will have time to think about life.
He's the type that blames his singleness on "these 304s only want bad guys" not realizing he himself is the bad guy and women who have a healthy self esteem want nothing to do with the likes of him.
I mean, yeah but I didn't care for her acting like every man in the vicinity just by virtue of being a man needed to do something about it. Skipping over the part about it being just kind of sexist in and of itself, those guys aren't are really obligated to do anything and clearly there was a crowd of concerned men apparently of all demographic designations standing around just waiting for him to either leave or actually create a real reason for them to step in. All these people are out doing whatever it is recreationally and they don't really need to escalate things or become aggressors and potentially wind up arrested themselves. I think those silent statues handled it appropriately as possible.
@@sneakyviewing4391 Real men step up when they see something immoral and unjust. It takes men to discourage rude and obnoxious behaviors from other men. I see Mr. Obnoxious didn’t try to get close to the woman because men were there who obviously didn’t like the way he was acting.
don’t men usually go on and on about what they would do in a situation like this? So I don’t blame her for saying that especially when she’s scared and he’s genuinely creating a scene and gaining a crowd of men just staring at him harass her a defenseless woman who is literally just minding her business
Yep, he won't take accountability. His type never do, it's always the womens fault, and how "nice guys" like him always get played....same shit, different toilet.
@@Djohnson89that's terrifying to think about. If we accept them, they want to abuse us, if we reject them, they want to abuse. We're damned if we do, damed if we don't. We get the short end of the stick either way, so why even bother dating them.
Are you dumb? I’m in the military & I even had to fear for my life rejecting women or even in a break up .. y’all aren’t these “special case” humans that should be coddled
I mean their is a fear of rejection Then you realise it's the most miniscule thing I get more worried about a bill I forget to pay a pound on xD Although yeah some people are ridiculous now Can't belive people act like this and can't believe no one said anything I get it can be a scary situation but if multiple guys are there I thought surely if one says something others will But alas no one says a thing unfortunately
@@torossia you’re wrong bc it varies state by state. I can’t legally own a gun in my state bc I was diagnosed w depression, my records clean. Ig they were worried I’d unalive but ig they dgaf if I end up murder- Ed. Lol (edited dum to beat YT censors)
Him saying that “if you don’t want anyone to say anything, don’t put it one…just wear a bath robe” made me had to jump in. The majority of the time I get hit on or approached is when I’m looking like a slob with no make up. It does not matter what a girl wears & we don’t dress for you. Ever think we like to look cute for ourselves? This man needs to stay home, get some therapy because he is easily triggered. 🙄😳
Yeah! Like sure I appreciate a nice simple compliment once in a while, but like, understand that just because I look good, doesn't mean I'm single or available. Do they expect woman to start looking ugly as soon as we have a partner? 😅 like, do I need a tattoo that says "I'm taken" ??
omg yes reminded me of once when I took my dogs to the park and hadn't showered so I put my hair in a high pony to hide the grease (obviously showered after the park). a guy (I assume just being friendly but I have no gauge) asked, "oh, you going somewhere nice after?" LOL no, sir are you crazy I'm filthy 😅 🚿
It's always when I'm looking my absolute worst that everyone and their mother starts coming out of the woodwork 🤣 I have literally been sick af, unwashed, visibly underweight, and wearing ratty pj's all at the same time and still gotten approached! 🤦♀️ It's like they're specifically after the weak 🫤
The pivot from “I could put you in my trunk and the next time people heard about you would be on forensic files” to “why are you acting like this when I was just being NICE” is crazy. No self awareness.
You know, when she mentioned how no one was saying anything I had the same thought. This man is threatening to kill this woman, using vulgar and sexist insults, and he's lost his damn mind. Like I heard kids in the background and this dude did not care at all.
Unfortunately, there have been so many cases where people have stepped in to defend someone from some type of harassment, and they died for it. Two guy tried to save a lady who was being followed and yelled at, and the perpetrator pulled out a knife and killed them. This was at a train-station with a lot of people around, and the guy was so unhinged that he didn't care. It's not alway that people just dont care or couldn't be bothered. It's because, if this man is so confidently talking about how he's going to murder her despite all those people being witnesses, then there could possibly be some weapon on him and people don't want to make it worse by engaging.
@@ddaniels295 that’s easier said than done. With people like this, it’s just not as easy as “walking away”. For example: He can follow her, to which adds a lot of safety steps you have to take into account. Dead of night, so what place could be open for me to go to? Don’t want to go to my car unless I have multiple people with me. She can’t go home with him on her tail. Can’t go anywhere alone obviously, so if anything, she’s walking around crowds of people for a sense of security. Simply walking away isn’t 100% a good strategy because it’s HIM who won’t leave her
I came home one day and there were some guys parked in a car in front of my building. One guy tried to “holla” at me, but I wasn’t interested. As I entered the vestibule of my building, he got out the car and followed me in. I had to lie and say that he’d better go because my husband was upstairs. Glad that worked because I was a single college student and I did not have a husband! This was decades ago, but once I moved to NYC, I started carrying some type of protection with me at all times!
Anytime I see them bitching and moaning in their redpill echo chambers, this is how I picture their interactions with women actually go down in real life😅
You think if a guy compliments you he's interested? I complimented a very well put together woman a few weeks ago. She smiled and said thank you then I kept it moving.
Of course. Attraction has to be a 2 way street. Just because I stop and look at a pretty flower doesn't mean I want to pluck it out the ground and take it home with me.@@moniquej369
@@mackaylacook148 Even pepper spray? How about recording it 'live' if it's in public space? Well, in my experience, making very sour and unfriendly face, or avoiding eyes contact (from the start), usually good enough for me (well, at least for me, in my place, but the men are nice here). Idk the situation in other place, but don't give any slightest thing that will encouraging them to approaching you, whatever that is. I heard some homeless women even act crazy and dirtied their clothes and body, to avoid this situation, but that an extreme example.
@@NurmaBP far as I know western Australia is the only state in Aus that allows pepper spray, I'm in New south Wales and as of yet there are no laws against recording in public
I just love how as he's having his temper tantrum, he ironically keeps swearing that he "doesn't care." "Do you think I care about you mf'ers?" Gee, I don't know!! 🤦🏻♀️
He will be a passport bro by next month and he will start complaining about American women being a called too difficult and masculine. Mark my words.🤷🏽♀️😂
I remember I dated a guy and he would get so mad that when men approached me and I would smile while politely rejecting them. I had to explain to him it’s literally a SAFETY PRECAUTION because men like THIS exist. At the end of the day, the person is informed I’m in a relationship, he moves on, & the conversation is over. You never know how a random man that has an interest in you may respond to rejection. My bf at that time didn’t understand & I flat out told him I’m not risking my life being rude a random man to satisfy your ego. Needless to say, we’re no longer dating. 💁🏾♀️ Shout out to this woman for choosing to record instead of engaging. There’s a saying “when you argue with a fool, onlookers can’t tell the difference”. If she would have argued with him onlookers would have thought they were a toxic couple having an argument but allowing him to rant & rave alone, people realized he’s truly unhinged and the police need to be called.
He didn’t consider that he might have to step in if one of the men may have become aggressive or dangerous? Was he ready to fight a crazy or armed man or was he going to sit by while you defended yourself? I’ve had a man get upset at me for not responding aggressively to men who would approach me. I had to remind him that on average (at least in my case) women are smaller and physically weaker than men and I wasn’t going to risk being beaten or killed just because he wants me to get aggressive with men.
He acts like this and then turns around and accuse Black women of being the ones that call the police on Black Men the most, as if we’re supposed to put up with murderous threats and abuse. Then, with the same breath say accountability is like kryptonite to women… 🤡🤡🤡
He said my grandmother was better... I thought of my grandmother who had a glass bottle across her head by my step grandfather. So we are just supposed to continuously expect abuse and except it?
My grandmother's first husband shot her when she left him. She was granted a divorce because he was in prison for it. My grandfather, her 2nd husband, wasn't much better. Women have been abused for simply existing for thousands of years.
Yeap, many of them think that way. Why do you think many are so angry that we actually have more "rights" now?? The thing that mildy surprises me is that many men have issues with women, when many of the issues they have an issue with is...because of them.
My 4 month old baby smiles at nature's milk jugs and expects to be fed or he throws up this type of fuss. He screams, cries and throws a fit until I feed him😂😂😂😂😂
@@smfarrie2943Exactly so true, and no offense his Grandmother should've be very disappointment that her child didn't raise her grandson any better a.k.a the correct and proper way whatsoever at all period 🙄😒🤦♂️. But he is adult and he should've take responsibility for his own actions.
@@FishAestheticit could easily be both his parents fault. I don’t wanna assume too much about the guy, but you know there’s a high chance his father wasn’t present. And there’s a lot of single boy moms who coddle their sons because they don’t have a man in their life so they make their son the man. Then the son starts to date and expects women to coddle them like their mother did and when they don’t, it’s a problem. Either way, it took two people to make him and they both failed.
@@nellyrose392 people can also grow up to be pieces of shit regardless of good or bad parenting. So people making a bunch of assumptions about how his parents were based on this video is really really dumb.
@@dickiegreenleaf750 I was going to give him a benefit of doubt at first and say that he is not dumb enough to do it in public but then again he is a psycho.
It's been my experience directly... Me and my friend got physically attacked by a group of Black men because we walked past them and didn't say anything when they were trying to 'compliment' us about our bodies... We were both 15 and fully clothed. The group of men were easily in their 20's. The thing that angered me the most though is that they tried to s*xually assault my friend, I defended her, we were both beaten and the Police didn't do anything because we are White and our attackers are Black. It's been over 20 years now since that attack and I still refuse to go near groups of Black men.
He's pretty big...but law enforcement could have been called. But if you look, it seems like there is this one quiet guy circling her. And the other onlookers seem invested
I'm not even surprised there are people this unhinged over rejection. Just last year a guy pushed a lady off a cliff, killing her, just because she rejected him. Sometimes, the women themselves are even blamed despite not doing anything wrong. I'm sure theres people out there right now defending this guy using brain-rot logic.
This is nothing. Imagine getting acid thrown at your face, resulting in permanant facial disfigurement and possibly blinded, just because you rejected a dude. 🤪 This happens in India. Very dangerous country for women.
@@hazelmint6671 man, everywhere is fucked. Why is there a stigma that women are overly emotional when men can be THIS fragile over rejection of all things.
Anytime men complain how hard the fear of rejection is, I tell them these stories. Men will never have to fear for their life or safety because they rejected someone. Yeah, not every man is like this, but you never know which ones are safe and which ones aren't. And when we do find out, a lot of times it's too late. Men need to hold other men accountable.
Talking about she's going to end up on the forensic files and inside his trunk, then really wondering why his type stay single???! All over a compliment!
THIS. Was waiting on someone to make this observation. Black men have been precisely this reactive to rejection from Black Women forever. Esp in ways where they justify or have pride about actually killing us for the same reasons. Not to suggest Black Women don’t want or aren’t attracted to our men (quite the opposite; we love them more than most of them love themselves or care for each other), but speaking directly to how Black Men can be so violent w their emotions towards us. They do this v casually, & there’s definitely a history behind it that is three parts sociopathic, misogynoir, & tantrum-esque.
Men telling you he is going to be on forensic files, you need more than pepper spray. That is just going to piss him off. He will come back. This guy is boiled bunny type crazy
I don't understand why no one checked him. Around these parts, that "forensic files" comment would have gotten him "escorted" to his vehicle with a quickness.
I'm betting the cops showed up at the call of a by-stander. People are VERY reluctant to confront these SCREWBALL INCELS because you never know if the D-BAG has a GUN.
@@cocc_goblinimma be honest, there are some people that are so unhinged you can’t say nothing to them or you getting shot or stabbed. You call the authorities, you don’t escalate, and you wait there to make sure he doesn’t attack these women physically till the police come and take care of it. I’m not trying to lose my life to a lunatic.
@ks-hm4cw people are unwilling to approach this UNHINGED a p e because he could snap at any instant! No one's problem but hers and his. No one owes her anything. She is heard to complain, "why aren't these men talking to him?" , then when someone does, she says "don't talk to him" , They're both clowns
It happened to me. I was talking and walking with friends. Didn't realize that the guy was talking to me. By the time someone told me, I was so many "b" words. He peeled off and whizzed past me in his car. Then black men go around lying about why black women have attitudes. This type of thing would make anyone angry. Some days, it's about hanging with your girls.
Xeno, when I was 23, I was a bartender at a club and there were 3 guys that were trying to hit on the cocktail waitress and I. We repeatedly told them we weren't interested. Once the bar closed and we were headed to my car to go home. The guys were outside waiting and had ramped up like this guy. We both told him to go away. He and his friends grabbed a tire iron and chased us. We ran across the street to the 7-11 amd the manager locked the doors and called the cops. They beat on the glass with the tire iron and we were terrified they'd get in. When the police came, they actually let them go and told me and my roommate/coworker that if we were going to work in a bar, we are asking for it! He said that he did us a favor by letting them go or we might have get worse next time. This was in Fat City in Metarie, Louisiana. It's about a half hour from New Orleans. From that point on, I carried mace.
With that backpack he's wearing and as unhinged as he is over a rejection of a compliment, I'd be afraid of a gun or knife he's carrying around. If he got closer to her, then yes I'd consider stepping in. But the words obviously aren't bothering her so why risk it?
@@matthewsanchez7953nah man. nobody knows what this guy has on him. with him acting like that id not want to get anywhere near him. best you can do is call the cops and make people aware.
The fact that a ton of men were surrounding these ladies and no one spoke up speaks tons about the majority of men in our society today 🤢🤢🤢🤢and this is why more and more women are deciding to stay single.
Women are not entitled to men's protection! Those bystanders don't know the woman or the crazy dude in the video. She needs to get away from the dude and call the police.
@@roythousand13I totally AGREE women are not entitled to men’s protections and therefore men aren’t protector. And men aren’t entitled to women’s homemaking skills or live. They need to get DF on.
@B6gmxy ,we did get DF on! Now, women are complaining about passport bros, and men are not dating them. There are thousands of videos on RU-vid, Tik Tok, etc of women crying and complaining about men going to foreign countries for women or complaining about how men aren't showing them attention or asking them on dates. You women are all over place. You don't know what the hell you want!
There was a lot of bystander effect happening here. Plenty of people around listening to him talk casually about murdering them and doing nothing about it. The best assumption we can make is they assumed someone more qualified (like the police would step in), but a lot could go wrong before that happens.
This stuff is terrifying, I have autism and I don't understand social cues at times. I was walking my dog at the local park when I was a teenager and this man emerged from the woods. He asked me if I wanted to be his friend. I said no and proceeded to walk with a group of people toward the main area of the park. I noticed this guy was running and hiding amongst the bushes and crouching behind them. Watching me, I would stop on a dime and stare at him. The park was crowded, I was getting creeped out and lured him toward the police substation is when he left me alone. He was angry and glaring at me. Everyone around me saw him too.
I'm autistic as well and didn't pick up on a guy "flirting" with me. I ended up offhandedly mentioning my boyfriend somehow, and he immediately got super aggressive. Luckily I was around people I knew 😕
How about we dont. Autistic social cue issues may piss off the neurotypical, but are endlessly helping me weed out the people we dont want to interact with. @iamme25yago
Autistic or not, "NO" is a full sentence. We are not objects to be possessed, assets to be conquered or prey to be hunted. Nothing (in this case rejection from a stranger) warrants or validates predatory and maniacal behavior towards someone. Glad you were able to remove yourself from that situation unscathed. Be aware! Be safe!
How quickly he escalated is the really scary part! 😱 It's always the self professed "nice guys" too. I had a date with a guy like this once years ago, he was a friend of a friend. But when the day arrived for me to go out with him everything in me told me not to go! He hadn't even done anything as of yet but red flags were suddenly going up and I didn't even know why. I just knew i didn't feel comfortable...as soon as I told him I wasn't feeling well and needed to cancel, it was like a switch was flipped. He completely lost his mind, called me a bunch of horrible names and said HE was dodging a bullet and all kinds of craziness. I had to block his number and fortunately he didnt know my address. But the craziest part is, he reached out to me on FB awhile later because we had a mutual FB friend and i hadnt blocked him on there yet, and he just casually (barely) apologized and asked if I wanted to reconsider. As if we only had some minor misunderstanding or something and that he wasn't a total nut job 😂 he was the only guy that's ever truly scared me and made me feel like I literally dodged a bullet. I could've ended up on forensic files! 😮
@@mysticlegion8088 he is the one who claimed to be nice. It's one of the first things he told me about himself. I now know that people who are truly nice, don't need to tell you. That's why I put nice in quotations. He was scary weird lol
@@CyndieAmalaSomebody like you don't like nice guys plus you are the type of person who wants to date/marry the top 10% or top 1% . PROBLEM, there are not enough of those guys to go around. So next time the FedEx driver ask you on a date go and hold on for dear life. And if you over 25 you ran out of time.
These types of guys don't understand that we can feel that type of energy in you even when your trying to be nice, we feel your deep down shittiness and you prove it every time you do this type of crap..He didn't care so much he cried on and on for the longest.
I had an experience with a guy similar to this. I had posted a picture on social media and his response was “Look at you” so I just said “lol.” And then he replied GOING OFF on me bc I hadn’t said thank you! Apparently, his “look at you” statement was his way of complimenting me, and I should have responded as such. Ridiculous! I blocked that man so fast. Some of these men are UNHINGED when it comes to even the thought of the POSSIBILITY of being rejected!
Guarantee his mother will be talking about how he was an Angel as a kid. It’s so vile. I hate when women join in and defend these monsters when all we have is ourselves
At least her ordeal was over quickly. Mine purchased my address on WhitePages and travelled 800+ miles to break into my bedroom at 3am. Even after jail and a restraining order, he was making videos and publicly posting them about how I should be with him. They are out there and are dangerous, and seem to always get a slap on the wrist unless or until they finally kill someone. The psycho after me is now up to at least four restraining orders from four different women in four different states. Mine was his third.
Why should they? I thought women were strong and didnt need a man. That's what men have had drilled into our heads for the past 6 decades. Nah. Yall got this.
And also, the advice isnt for women to get a gun or pepper spray. The advice is to HOLD OTHER MEN ACCOUNTABLE. This is the exact problem with society. Men refuse to hold other men accountable for making women feel unsafe and disrespected. Not ONE man in that crowd came to her defense or protection against this unhinged psychopath, despite men constantly touting on about how their job is to protect and provide. Until men hold other men accountable, nothing's going to change.
I get it. But the protection thingy is an obligation to a man's FAMILY. No one is entitled.to help in this world.. I understand your take I really do! Because I personally would say something outloud to defend these ladies. But at the same time the world is the WORLD. People are entitled only to their choices. And it's a sad world when you realize most WOULDNT make the same decisions you yourself would 😔
Multiple men came to her defense. You can literally hear him arguing with other men in the background. Male strangers don't owe women anything just like female strangers don't owe men anything. Men are not required to be disposable freelance soldiers to fight in the street for strangers' honor.
Something like this happened to me once but the man was bigger and following me down the street in broad daylight yelling at the top of his lungs. He also was just outright calling me BBs and nappy headed. No one helped. It was insane. Once I realized that BW have a DV and Intimate partner deletion rate 5x the national average I stopped capping for these males. All women need to stay safe and stay strapped in these times. It's crazy out here.
I've talked with my daughter about this very thing: Guys that are so immature and selfish they can't handle a woman not wanting to be bothered. The young lady obviously had nothing against him. But for some men accepting a compliment is a ticket to get what they want from a woman no questions asked or no room for refusal. And women are so used to this type of behavior they don't know who to be liberal with when it comes to their emotional generosity. It's terrible.
@@rich2583 This logic can be used for people who are rape apologists. This person targeted you because you are like this all that. There are a lot of unhinged men who target any woman. So it’s not fair to say if this is the type of men that you attract them there’s something wrong with you. If this is what you think you may not be as good as you think you are
It is literally so dangerous to be a female these days. Just stepping out of the house if a guy says something and you don't respond positively than there is backlash, if you actually do respond positively there could still be backlash. Personally I try to be polite with any response but sometimes that gives a signal to a guy thar he can keep pursuing. Sometimes ignoring is best idea. I have even made sign language gesture so he just shrugs me off... works most the time
I bought a cheap but nice looking ring that I keep handy to slip on and just tell them I'm engaged. Occasionally, it works, but I also carry pepper spray and a weapon with me. These days, unless it's work related, I go out with a group of friends, and we don't split off from each other. We've had to have a designated GF to play the part for whoever in the group is being honed in on, but that's a risky play too. Some of these guys lose their shit even worse when you tell them you're there with your girlfriend, so no, thank you. These dudes really need to learn how to cope with rejection.
I actually really hate when people say this, apart from children, women are literally the most protected. You think its dangerous being a woman, try being a man and you quickly understand the definition of danger. You literally saw the woman in this video expecting other men to help her, honey as a man, no one is coming to help you. But hey, don't take it from me ask radical feminist Nora Vincent who thought the same thing as you and decided to become a man for 1 year. She committed suicide shortly after due to the trauma she faced whilst being a man.
Some dudes are just sad. I mean, all this because your date doesn’t like you? Just keep it moving. Sadly any woman who gets with him is in trouble, in the long run.
I’ve encountered guys like this so many times, they get so angry! Had two different dudes pull guns on me for not speaking back. One time (while pumping gas) a dude was persistent so I said “ I’m just trying to get home to my kids,” he said “bitch I’ll make sure you never make it home to yo kids” smh damned if u do, damned if u don’t 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
To passers by, all it looked like was him yelling in public. If he actually tried to move towards her like he was about to attack I don't doubt that anyone especially a guy would step in.
@@ReikiontheRunexactly no need to challenge an already agitated person. I’d stay close just in case he actually attacked, but no need to escalate this situation.
Unfortunately this is very common. I always think about the beautiful young girl that was shot in the face and k*lled for telling a guy she didn’t want to dance with him at a Caribbean festival in NY a few years back…😢
