Unpacking our Toxic Traits | Our Good and Bad Money habits || Thought Digest Ep06 

I think people forget that Caiah and Mpho are 21 and 20 but the way you speak and reason is so beautiful. You guys are so well articulated, your parents invested in your education and its was so worth it. I love you guys

Camera quality 😭😍🥺✅ Sound quality 😭😍🥺✅ Brilliant minds and great personalities 🥺🥺😫✅🔥

I am a 38 year old guy and I find this podcast so interesting, I tune in every week, I love the consistency, may you please tell the guys to be more consistent as well 🙂

The way I realized how I operate like a robot through this episode? I genuinely don't care about human relationships, you leave? Bet, you stay? Then you're going to have to accept me for who I am. Like I don't compromise or even add effort to my friendships. I also breadcrumb people in friendships, like I make people attached to the friendship in the beginning stages and then I just move like they don't even exist once I'm bored 😭😭😭oh and I am manipulative too and very petty 😭I have alot to work on shame

Caiah's hairstyles always eat omg 🥹🥹

This is therapy lowkey. Its doing what its supposed to be doing. Its thought digesting. But most importantly its honest. And thank you for that girlies.

Mammi Dearest did so well this episode in terms of not cutting Caiah off. she surely does read comments, well done Mpho.❤

I'm 19 years old and I can genuinely relate to Mpho and Caiah and I'm learning a lot from both of them I would like to say thank you for starting this podcast not only am I learning from you I'm also learning a lot about myself and I couldn't have done it without the both of you guys 😊😊

This episode made me realise alot about myself 😭I need to start treating people with care. I’m such a narcissist, In my world on i matter I don’t care about anyone else’s feelings. And that’s wrong.

It's a safe space Mpho you can cry vha😭😂😂😂

Ever since i started watching this podcast my brain has digested some knowledge 😭😘love this ladies, they are so wise.

This is exactly the podcast I never knew I needed in my life. Thanks to Thato and the beautiful ladies❤

I'm finding so much humour in how raw every episode gets😂😂 and this is why I enjoy these dialogues, you actively speak on your thoughts and understand things about yourself through the conversations. "The only idea I had of love was sex," "I see people as objects" (which I think has alot to do with seeing people as disposable, because- and shamefully💀- same) and "I will manipulate you into believing me"😂😂 all these were very much from the core. Absolutely love it here.

🥳🥳🥳almost died thinking we weren't getting an episode this week.

Journals❤ Me: I'm broke Mpho: "there's no such thing as a broke hun" Kuthi angikhale😭😭😹

this channel is the best thing to ever happen in S.A

Caiah and the extremist chat😭😭TOO REAL

📓📓📓📓 It’s how Mpho consistently drops bombs nje every episode, always leaves me shook!😭🤣🤣 This episode was such an indirect way to call me out on not self-reflecting 😭. Weyibo? Need to do that ASAP😭😭

Please I also have a hate-love relationship with Jakuja😭😭… but she’s better now… she’s making sense ❤

Caiah and Mpho thank you so much for opening up yourselves to us,talking about your experiences and being vulnerable to us.I wanna thank you personally cause your podcast has opened up my eyes.I was in the darkness until you guys came along and showed me the light.I have been consistent in watching your videos and honestly I am loving it here and chileee I am here to stay.Love the both of you so much.Continue the good work❤️❤️🦋

I love love this podcast Thato really cooked The hosts are super smart and charismatic. I learn soou much from each episode And I can say the podcast changed my life,am literally a new person now. Highly thankful,Mpho and Caiah you girls are the best Wish you all the best Keep the episodes coming please With love from Namibia

Couldn’t wait to see you Caiah 🥹

I could literally listen to Caiah speak all day, so well spoken!!

From the moment I've started watching this amazing podcast, I've just realized how much honesty and vulnerability is put in ey❤You,my beautiful hosts are brave... And for that I'm definitely here to stay❤😊 May God continue to grow this pod including all Thato Rampedi's channels... He deserves all that❤,Maaan you all are putting in work effortlessly, loving it and appreciate the conversations always❤ To Thato Rampedi,Bro I'm so proud of the way you are so consistent... Yoh❤

Yoh I realized so much more about myself watching My issue is always wanting to be better or above others. I can't be happy for my friends or someone close to me when they are doing better than I am. I always want to be above them. For example, if one of my friends gets a higher mark than me, I won't sleep for a week, I will study all night everyday to make sure that I beat them in the next exam. Yes I want them to do well, but not better than me. I don't even know where to start with working on that. But I need to fix it. If you do have suggestions on what I can do, please do tell me so I can better myself in this regard

😭😭 Self reflection is not easy or for the weak One thing I noticed on my journey of self love is how easy I detach and not because I don't care about the person but because if the person dose even one thing wrong I emotionally detach so if they leave (which is not always the case) it won't hurt, which is wrong because the other person could still be emotionally invested but you know if I leave first then they can't hurt me and I failll to tell the person what they did wrong because then I burden them with my feelings and I honestly think this stems from 'daddy issues' 😭 I am getting better with it though.

By journals I meant: 📝📖📒📔 😂😂😂

This episode was too good because it made me acknowledge somethings that I didn't wanna acknowledge. Guys I have this toxic trait of doings things just keep people in my life even though I know that it's chai, this person has to go, but the obsession that I somehow have on that person clouds my judgement and I end up doing some extreme stuff to keep that person around especially when I know that they still cares about me.😢 guys I need help

Girl!!! Not cursing someone in your heart😂😂😂😭 how Mammie... I enjoyed this episode. Thank you for your vulnerability and for being real.

Let’s stop showing our man on social media ♥️♥️😊😊

This is girl chit chat podcast we didn’t know we needed until now we have it now and we love it 💗another amazing episode the ladies always speaking facts and informative and entertaining On the topic of financial literacy/ liberty it is such an important matter that not many of the african/ black community are 100% informed about as Caiah stated. I believe there’s a difference between having money and the ability of using the money you have to become financially liquid. Having money is the basis in the sentence itself the money you get is the money you use whereas using the money you have and investing it into something that will give you more assets to attain in the long run and increase your financial knowledge. Property investment a very common financial investment that many people use that generate an alternative income and their financial growth not many African / black communities are as well informed or are exposed to resources that give them this type of information unless in the work environment , employment industry and educational institutions and opportunities which steams to the point of having the knowledge you obtain and using it to your most active gain to help increase and broaden your financial liberty because if more knew about the smart ways of being money wise the more productive of working for money would become in our country.

A full episode of toxic traits please!!!!!! This was too deep and it needs a lot of unpacking please!!

Conversation about money 🔥🔥😭😭I’m scared because I relate to

43:10 . Man, I relate with Caiah on this one. Maybe it's because no one was kind enough to give me a chance (so why should I). Shame akumnandi kwa self-reflection but we gotta work on ourselves...🙂

Journals. What a heavy one😅

I relate so much with Caiah 🥲

Finally. I thought you had loadshedding so you couldn't cook for this week

Journals I really enjoyed this episode it was an eye opener i always thought i was normal because i always think im right.Im looking forward to work on myself too

What a raw and beautiful episode ❤😢. I definitely resonate with Caiah with a lot of her traits. You guys speak so well

I low key relate with mammi dearest on being bullied an how I later reacted to it in my defense

I love how transparent and real you guys are ❤you guys are doing great

I think we all human and our flaws should be celebrated because they make us different and entertaining.

Loving the consistency ❤❤❤❤

Watching this podcast is sooo therapeutic ngl❤

Taking notes ladies❤❤thank you.

Love love love ,this podcast ❤️

Yooh yoooh yoooh. You guys are firing shots at me on the topic of what’s wrong with me, like all you said is me bro. Soo helpful thank you ladies ❤❤❤

Wow finally ❤🎉😊 I really love this channel. Ladies I'm learning a lot through this podcast I won't lie. . Thank you for that.

I love how y'all always include the Lord in y'all's conversations. I'm down for the next episode, can't wait!!! 📕📔📖

Always soo informative, fun and interesting!

So insightful!❤

I love this podcast so much and made me unpack my toxic traits ❤you guys a great example to us girlies who are in our twenties

My favorite place to be ❤️

I did so much self reflection after this episode !! Thank you guys 😮❤ I have a lot to work on

I love watching thought digest keep doing what you're doing I love you Caiah and Mpho❤❤❤

📔📔📔📔📔📔, Loved this episode! So proud of you both for your vulnerability on this episode, I'm here realizing how awful I've actually been lol damn lemme go unpack and cry.🤒

I can relate so much to Mpho’s toxic traits 🤞🏽🤞🏽I think I’m always right,I have daddy issues,I’m clingy 🥴🥴

Love it here ke sana 🩷❤️

Massive massive knowledge from you lovely ladies,,,,,, im a guy but i take notes every week ,,,,, atleast i get to understand ladies more and i know this will help me navigate my relationship better ❤ Enjoying all the way from Nairobi kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

I really love and appreciate you guy's honesty You'll are very inspiring, You are really making a difference in other people's lives I love you'll so much ❤️🌺

I've beeeeeen waiting 😭😭😭😭what happened. ????

Can I just say that by far all the conversations I have watched I have learned something so thank you very much ❤❤❤much appreciated 😊😊😊😊

57:44 the realization kills me!!! 😭

📝amazing episode once again 🥰Love the name “gesties”🥳

Insightful especially the financial literacy part. Intriguing thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us.Thought provoking too!!!🔥 I love this yeah self introspection? Lemme get into it ... Beautiful ngenani lah ZITHANDWA ZAM 👊👊👊👊👊🔥🥰

Hey Hi, Ladies first of all your drip is perfect guys and thanks you very very very much for popping out there topic of the Good and Bad money habits which do and thanks for your thought digest cheers🍾🥂

Love you girls!

Yho the way I enjoyed this ❤

As a side note, could you guys please turn up the microphone volume because it's really low? Even though I always listen at 100 dB, it seems like it's only on 20 until the commercials.

Journals!❤ See y'all on monday..love you a loads🥰❤️

you rocking ladies📖📚📕cheers🍾🥂

I love you guys❤

Love you guys

Love this❤

I am Caiah and Caiah is me literally 😭

Yah no this episode was a lot😭😭

Haibo, this felt like 30 minutes😢❤Was it really a 1 hour episode❤I enjoyed it❤

Guys nibahle and smart yohh😭❤️

Let’s gooooo🔥😭

Heii 😮 this was a confession episode

Yeah it’s a safe space Mpho 😅❤️

Kgane this week ga gona episode 😭?, I have been waiting since from Monday 😔💔

So insightful❤ #journal 📔

ohhh God! now we have to wait for a WHOLE WEEK!!!! i khantbrifffff😭 yet another week and yes i love being hereee🙃

I like them a lot, shout out. However Caiah has a small or rather low voice. I just wish she'd somehow bring the mic closer to her because she is sometimes not audible.

Journal!

Caiah is me like everything she said that’s how I am and I think it’s a way of me trying to prevent myself from being hurt again

Fìnally😢❤been waiting ages

JOURNAL 📒✏️ thank you #Jesties♡. A very much needed conversation, very open minded and informative.❤

I learned to respect money and see it differently 2023 because I was a waitress before I was in my current clerk possion at a platinum mine neh... So being a restaurant ambassador comes with a lot of money but I didn't even save a cent during that time nor did I build something out of it, mind you the money also comes in intervals because when I started getting one form of salary I struggled to. Make to monthend, didn't have a budget for anything I was living large, following and living influencer life's.. So long story short I got into debt.. Sigh

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I didn’t want it to end😭

Siya ke Percy neh

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Caiah is so relatable

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