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I also love how he touches on both genders without blaming the other

Consider when arranged marriages in the villages helped to keep clans together inorder to build family and community. The levels of debauchery izikhathi zamanje...Let's explore the true cost of not being aligned with the Land, Nature and our Blood Lineages.

Love it, wish the episode was longer but grateful none the less

This gave me chills. What a tragedy to our bloodlines, to the family structure, to our spirituality😢😢😢😢

Abba is right, the story of Juliet and Romeo was a tragic sitcom - it was meant to show the foolishness of umjolo. Basically, we all need to outgrow umjolo its for teens

The problem doesn't begin with "Nthabiseng" rather with her father who has failed to be the epitome of fatherhood. Where will "Thandi" gain knowledge of the value of her bloodline when she's raised by a mother who is imbokoto on father's day and a mother on mother's day. Mjolo isn't even the root cause of the problems we are witnessing in our community.

I don't know if it's my algorithm or what ,but i keep getting these conversations about the relationships we're having in the current. I just jumped from Penuel' live on facebook to this on youtube.

Wow! The truth is surely a bitter pill to swallow but good for the soul. Thank you.

I LOVE YOU ABBA ❤🙏🏿 Thank you for getting this Truth out there

We need a full podcast on this particular issue, this is a very very important topic. How do I get hold of you sir?? I'm a mess 🙏

as a 2k baby that follows this podcast religiously I’m so triggered 🥲🥶

One day we need to address the issue of western clothing (shorts and long pants) as a statement or status of respect or societal decorum and demeanour

These truth is what we need.....thank you ABBA

Today I learned many things.Keep it up

The truth in this🙌🏾

Maduma Abba relaboga nako ya gago and ur efforts to heal the nation. Thokoza👏🏿

Undisputable facts, inkomu

Yerrrrr This hit tooo deep.

something is very touching and i cant help but voice it,with the men you say their boys because theirs fathers did not choose to marry and change their surnames,is it their fault that they were born to unworthy men?my question is,should a ''boy'' like that marry himself into a surname that does not want them just to be called a men?

Someone send this to Penuel

Profound.

The truth hurts but someone have to say it... I'm also burdened with trauma coz of "Mjolo" and we think it's a badge of honour to have multiple partners.

Uxabene Mbona. Uxabene Tshayingwe. Andisoli nto kodwa kuba uthetha iinyani zodwa. Qhuba Mpandla simamele!

the fridge part killed me

Powerful. Well said!!!!

I've been there😭😭😭😭hell of experience

Siyabonga ukufundisa sesikhulume sakhathala

Kanti unguMbona, well said

Abba not sure if ive missed an episode where you explain why do you cover your hair? Is it a traditional thing or a personal preference.

Thank you brother. Mjolo is not the issue. Its mental problem yes. But patriachy is the root of the problem its the unnatural mental issue created by us. Its unnatural basically criten. Nolly Mhlongo

Danko Mkhulu

Lol about denilton em30....😂😂😂😂😂 im from Groblesdal

Haibo !

Greetings Abba. Can u touch into unpopular Khoisan History. Are they Xhosa or the other way around or not even similar? Why are they not considered a Bantu nation.

Go deeper ABBA so that humans may get healed from this deadly disease

😭😭😭😭😭 ibrukwe efrijini dusted me aibo ngempela 💀😭😭😭

Wa bua go tlala seatla Kgosi Yaka, Kgalema

Madolo kayihlo😢😂oyhini Abba

Sad truth

So as umntana ovela emjolwen not raised by my biological dad who I've just known to be ngikhula ka zwane li mpondo utatami wenyan

I appreciate your teachings. Is Co-parenting healthy for a black child?

Pants in the fridge? 😱🧐😅🤣

Tell them baba 😅😅😅😅

Truth hurts hey.....

Arranged marriages maybe 🤔 they were useful and could still work, *💬 thinking 🤔*. . What do you think 🤔, friends?

Camagu. Kwande kumkani

Mmmh

Undibidile kengk "isixhosa asithi" umntanentombi ngowakulonina?

The negativity my brother always shows is disturbing, We don't learn from him anymore, I went hear is him criticizing others Mara are yena o spiritual.... Nah man... Teach stop criticisms

What happened to Ntsiki Mazwai?

Kunzima...

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Onendlebe uzwile .

Khona amadoda afakha amabrukwe efridgini? Kanjani manje😅

Shuuuuuuuu!

Why yall bleeping now? Give us uncut, raw dialog

This man said umjolo is a mental illness, and went on to say to Jol is to have fun...so having fun is basically a mental illness according to you him ? Let him cook

this is biased, failed to acknowledge that there's issues that lead to such instances and people do not primarily put themselves in these disgraceful situations...just cause you had your good ways paved for you, you sit today recording this from "your fathers house" mind you, while some of us have nowhere to call home, it gives you no right to judge others upon situations that were way out of their control...i like the fact that you've touched on issues that put people in these situations yet here you sit today laying judgement.

So I take it this is the real Men's Conference? 🥲