Unreleased Full Episode: What Does She Bring To The Table and Is Chivalry Dead 

“But youre not” “But i can” “But youre not” “But i can” “But youre not and not willing to” The best depiction on this topic.

I pray to God my daughter never falls victim to a Rico. Which is why as a woman it is so important to me to be mindful of the example I set forth to my daughter. She will mirror me...my behaviors, my habits, what I tolerate, etc. Although I am a little sad about turning 30 this year, I am thankful for the growth and knowledge I gained in my 20's & I will pass that onto my child.

Greeting someone at the door should never come with conditions. Its called manners.

If Erins husband hears this and they don’t have a conversation about her comments. Rico is right. She’s not married to a man.

The fact Erin has a list of viscous jugular hit insults always stewing in her mind, for the man she's in a relationship for. That's a major red flag, I hope she understands that.

My dad has saved me from a lot of heart-breaks and drama by meeting the guys I've dealt with. If their intentions weren't to do right by me, they were more likely to tell me they couldn't meet the standard because there is a man (My Dad) they would have to give an account to if they're playing games. 🤷🏽‍♀️🥰

The fact is everyone in this video is hung up on money and material possession and no one is talking about real value, for example, moral compass, character, personality, spiritual health, mental health. These are the only things that truly matter. Money comes and goes away and if all you can focus on is material possession then you have a lot of growth to do as a person.

I am not a father but I have dated daughters. In the world today as a safety factor I want the dad of the family to know who I am to convey that I have her safety in mine. Just in case something happens. This goes to character.

The only thing Rico and Oliver proved by not being willing to ring the doorbell is that the minimum level of respect people show each other has dropped to almost 0.

The better question is what do you bring to the table outside of what can be bought?

Rashaan is 💯% correct in damn near every point he made from a REAL man's/Father's perspective

If you get a women that is successful and rely on her, she will treat you like a clown

It seems like the women don’t know what they want overall. You want the man to want to take care of you “because he’s supposed to”, yet he still has no leverage in the relationship

Erin won't be married long with that attitude

If a man said: if a woman not sexing how I want her to I would talk reckless to her. These women would lose their marbles.

It kills me that women say He tryna get to know ME, Taking MY time, etc like she ain’t tryna get to know me, using My time taking her time out etc… It Ain’t Just YOU!!! 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾

This is a teachable moment. I see a lot of issues that shows me we need work on both sides

The gentlemen in the blue shirt is the PRIME example of how important it is to truly get to know a man before sleeping with him. I would be disgusted with myself if I had given him my body only to hear his viewpoints within conversations like this. He has the mindset of a child. If you are a yound woman watching this podcast & you happen to see this comment PLEASE WAIT...explore a man's mind before giving him your body.

A father meeting a man for you as a woman is smarter than most women will ever know. A dad would be able to tell you some things about that young man that the woman will not see

Only one person on this panel that understands the importance of a father's approval of his daughters relationship. Hence why our community is where it is.

I never understand how men date women like Erin for more than sex a few times, it's just a certain level of respect is required.

That’s a major problem, to think of someone else, while being intimate with him/her🤦🏾‍♀️

4 years ago I stopped caring about being in a relationship and I’m the happiest I ever been. My peace and freedom is too precious and valuable for me to have these type women in my life. 100%. Wish all the daters happiness tho 🤝

Rico be cookin' 🔥🔥🔥 sheesh!

The respect is real when a man provides. If he doesn’t it causes a lot of disrespect. He also has to have other good qualities to go along with it.

This whole conversation show how men who’s use to getting a lot of quality women vs men who’s just happy to get a women’s attention. Men who been getting women their whole life treat women as humans. Men who’s not use to getting women treat women like their porcelain.

Chilvary is not dead. It is a love language. Called “acts of service”

Erin saying she has done them before (paying for a house), yes FOR YOURSELF, youre not bringing it to the table with the man youre with.

I got through about 15 mins of this chick erin is literally the foulest jezebel I have ever had the horror to witness.

im with rashaan on girls needing to respect their fathers and appreciate them more. the girls with fathers who sneak around and dont let boys meet their parents at all and try to move like the girls with no fathers, ungrateful. a man could read a boy or another man like a book. he might save you the trouble. he might save you from harm. to disregard the elders perspective is not only counter productive, in some cases its dangerous. those girls without fathers (we all know from growing up) they be in those dangerous situations, sometimes they end up dating niggas way too old for them, sometimes they dont know how to read men and bad shit happens to them. a father is what stands between that. not having your father meet your date sometimes its like having a personal trainer and refusing to do the drills. you hurting yourself in the long run

I agree with Rico.. you gotta stand on your manhood at all times. No matter your situation. Because if a woman makes more money than you they feel they can challenge you. And they will.

So what Erin is saying is what I bring to the table is I spend money.

Erin needs therapy, because what decent man will put up with this? Be his peace, and I agree with Rico that respect is demanded. He said his response as I was typing, she needed a better father in her life. To teach her how to respect a man.

Am I the only person who sees that selfishness undergirds everything these people day. There’s no talk at all about sacrificing for their partner’s gain. The focus is entirely on themselves. My Dad once said, if you are all you focus on, don’t be mad when you are all you get.

What I'm hearing from all these, is that women don't love men, they love the value men bring to help their life easy.

Rashaan dropping knowledge for young ladies out here. Much respect for him

Rashaan is a GROWN MAN!!

It's so unfortunate that there's a desire to justify being disrespectful and emasculating a man while the desire to exchange versions of v1olense (verbal vs physical) is non-existent. Fascinating

The fact that Erin would have alll those "for the jugular" insults on the ready means she dont respect that man lol

Damn Erin straight up lied to us at the 2:46 she said her preference is a man that makes more then her NOT because she is looking for a man to take care of her, then in the very NEXT SENTENCE says “I don’t care if he makes 40k or 80k he has to take care of me” 🤣🤣🤣 See this is why Kevin Samuels is winning! Nothing wrong with the option but which one is it

Rico is literally repeating what Arron is saying already then trying to make it a rebuttal lol

You know what none of these women are willing to admit? Women don't date down. They want a man to take care of them and be the provider. If they make more than their man, they will, slowly but surely, begin to find his replacement. And I'm not talking about the man makes 60k and the woman makes 80k, I'm talking about a vast difference. A woman will not date someone she looks down upon in ANY aspect.

There’s no problem with a man making less, but if they are making less they have to provide in different ways that will benefit for the both of us and/or our family. There isn’t anything to emasculate if the man is doing his part. Finances don’t determine masculinity, but know if I went from doing everything by myself to having a “man” around and still doing everything by myself… I don’t want it and he will eventually be emasculated under those circumstances. I think the issue is that a lot of men/women in this generation don’t even have true skills to even provide in different ways anymore. Therefore, if they are lacking financially then what are they really providing?

Saying you would disrespect your partner and bringing up them making less in an argument is TOXIC. What does that have to do with whatever you're arguing about? That's not healthy communication. Also why are y'all so high strung about these traditional gender roles??? We ain't going to be ever be free.

@Rico chivalry is becoming a lost art, yet you don't have to wait until date ten to show that characteristic. If you're kind be kind, if you're a gentleman be a gentleman because that's "WHO YOU ARE." Periodtttt!

Money runs Erin relationships… and that’s wild. Like bra said, respect is brought for her.

She "respects" a man with more money because she doesn't want to see the next woman benefit!

The two guys on the right way off you can’t demand respect if you don’t treat her like a lady, and the bid of not facing her father is shady as hell, on a respect factor you gotta give the same respect you expect to receive

First of all I am a 57 year old blackman raised by my southern grandmother and uncle. And I was raised by both to always be a gentleman ie when picking up a woman you park your car, you ring the bell, you walk down to the car and open the door before during and after the date. It is called being raised as a man of quality, which Ricco and Oliver clearly do not understand but Rashaan does. And for any woman reading this post you never go out or allow your daughter to go any where near a man who does not understand the basics of dating or treating her the she should be treated as along as she shows said man she is a woman of quality and grace. Oh yes if said woman lives with her parents he better be prepared to sit for awhile and answer some questions from her parents. On a side note It would be nice if the woman reached over and open the car door for me as the man taking her out but that is a different story. And for the woman with the short blonde hair speaking for a great many men if you decide to raise up to any man you chose to be involved with that will be the last time you will raise up towards him. As an adult neither one of you should be so childish as to let it get to such a point that you can not consider each others feeling to stop and think or apologize if it does to that far. And living together well my personal views are the woman is going to be paying some of the bill or we will split it all right down the middle. And as far as what she said what she brings to the table I did not hear on single solitary thing she does that I can not do for myself. That is the end of my rant

For example a brother as myself who provide a full operating mortgage free residence for his woman. Paid all utilities and personal expenses while she made $100,000 a year. Still cant get nurtured! I support you Rico. Plus i support a lavished wardrobe for both. . Preach Rico!!

Totally agree the father thing… our fathers are our protecters until the correct protector comes along. It’s for my benefit Periodt

It's disrespectful of women to have a sense of entitled to anything from a man. It's not just a woman's time, it's also a man's time....and money. A man is already doing more to impress a woman - picking her up, paying for the date, etc.

39:43 Yess Rashaan!!!! When a tradtional Alpha male is still in the room. Love this content!!!!

First off I noticed the "What does she bring to the table conversation" was cut short. I feel like it went down a road that was very revealing and it couldn't be aired. Rico's point of Erin doesn't respect a man that makes less money was 100% on point. She doesn't respect a man that makes less than her and respect is bought in her eyes. And Rico is also right in saying everything Erin said she brought to the table can be bought.

I need Rico to explain what he needs a woman to bring to the table.

Big difference between providing versus taking care of you. I take care of kids, pets etc. I'm not taking care of a grown up. Looking for a partner not a daughter (liability).

You can’t mix money with love, IDC what anyone says. Real love is something you don’t get a choice in, it takes over you because it’s from a higher power. You can have both but, it doesn’t make or break true love. True love won’t wanna be out here hurting no matter what.

This episode was fun especially the last part 😅😅😅

Omg this was too good. This is the video men been waiting years to see. Lightskin dude with the headband went off. Lol.

This was definitely interesting 🤔. One thing I would have like y'all to have discussed was what he can't get hard and stay hard and she doesn't get wet enough how would you handle situations like that. I think that medications and stress can cause some situations 🤔 I'd like to hear conversations about that one day.

Honestly what a woman brings to the table a man can do for himself, and what a man bring to the table, a woman can provide for herself … however with two it makes it easier not to have to worry about all of it because you have a partner helping. I now want to know since men get so heated and feel like a woman doesn’t bring anything to the table … then what do you want her to bring to the table ?

‘But you’re not and you’re not willing to’ exactly. Checkmate. And this attitude is exactly why men generally don’t care about a woman’s career or bag. Rico is exactly right. Erin is straight tripping. And only in a first world country can she even have this audacity. Try disrespecting a man like that in Dubai. This is why Iyanla was saying black Women are out of order. Rico was on point. Women have no problem claiming what a mans duty is. But they are quiet when it comes to what their duty is. Erin wasn’t saying a damn thing. ‘I make a house a home’ these are buzzwords. No substance. This is what Rico was schooling her on. Rico shut her whole weak argument down. How you talking about being taken care of and traditional roles and in the next breath talking about modern woman boss bae nonsense. It’s like hedging bets. I can be a modern woman. But I want a traditional man. Doesn’t work that way.

The convo was 🔥

I like Raasan whole thought process about how he looks at a man ringing the doorbell to pick up a girl and his expectations for his daughter’s

Rico always got the word..Shout out to Amanda, at. the end, for letting women know how simple it should be, but they always choose the hard way or give up. Accountability.

No-cohabitation, no marriage it’s that simple!

Man yall were trippin for waiting to drop this one lol. Love the conversation

What’s is Rico finding somebody to clean his house for $100 a week? I need their contact information

I hate when “Grown Men” get online to bash woman . The sole purpose of this show is to bring different personalities and perspectives to the following questions on relationship based topics. If everyone on this show agreed with one another it would not be as popular. Instead of trying to throw up 🤮 all this energy into what others you don’t agree with talk about watch a different show. From my understanding Erin and Jada are the only married individuals on this show so even if you don’t agree with her standpoints I find it crazy how y’all even feel so bold to write such belittling comments about a woman you don’t know ? Like make it make sense? I love everyone on this show. Btw keep doing y’all things.

Dress us? The short hair German Shepherd trippin.

Wait what? Women have to work for respect? Ladies, if a man cares for you, and doesn’t want to be without YOU…..he will go above and beyond for you just like you do for him. If he doesn’t, move on or be happy with yourself.

How dude holding that cup while talking is killing me lol 😆

I treat my relationship like a business. Period.

It will always be amazing how women pick and choose traditional points of the relationship, why waste the time on semantics vs being real? How does any amount of money a woman can make change anything on this topic? Women fake themselves as the prize and controlling power of a relationship. Doesn't change one problem with unachievable standards and unrealistic expectations. If women had it to bring to the table, why aren't they?

What’s sad is these individuals will have kids with someone and not take RESPONSIBILITY!!🤦🏽‍♂️

This is the craziest, funniest episode so far😂

1:08:44 Every man on earth felt that🤣🤣

Men - "I bring food to the table, whet are you bringing?" women - "I'm bringing food too" Men - "The table already has food, what about cutlery or even water". Women - "well I'm bringing more food and if you can't handle that you're sexist". Men - "Just bring a dam napkin, anything but more food". Women - "Your toxic".

Yooooooooo, when he hit the part of Chivalry is almost dead!?? That is the MAIN issue with this world and this society. Relationships in general have become a JOKE because of this.

When they have these conversations, it always sounds like they are dating partners who don’t even like them. It’s so important to align with you.

33:00 - 35:00 & 44:00 - 45:00 💯 Rico is crazy 4 saying this...that's a great test to figure out if he's a chump or a real man. If walking to the door is too much work for a man then that dude can't hand a relationship.

If you make 50 and she makes 50, you're still paying all the bills and she spends her money on herself. If she has to pay half the rent, then she will have disdain for you. "what you're bringing to this table is a service that can be paid for...You can't buy somebody to buy you a home"

Definitely enjoyed this one..lol

Wondering how many of us watching and listening to these cats Wondering how many of them still gonna be single in 10-15yrs and if Erin gonna be divorced by then..? Lol Truth!

🗣🗣Oliver I’m with that open my car door..

Amanda has a lot of contradictory takes, but she forever hit a Grand Slam towards the end of this episode

I am a woman and I went to school for a career I expect be able to not give up my career and still have a family. Being taken care of is different than being able to say we are building and finances are not the main aspect of my relationship. We are partners but know how to let him be the man in the relationship. Respecting and honoring each other removes the need for this argument

Jordy explained that so perfectly

My view on alllll of this is just don’t expect your woman to be submissive if you’re not a provider

They need me on this show

Rico different breath🔥 💯💪🏾

I’m going to teach my son to ring the doorbell. I never looked at it like that, but I understand both size on the doorbell

For this on another video before this one I said she wasn't shit and I'm speaking of Erin because she is holding all this back just to let it out at one specific time to make you hurt or make you feel less than whatever you want to call it and I'm saying she not shit because she only respects money she doesn't respect the man period. I knew she wasn't shit when she opened her mouth

Like listening to adult children. The human race is cooked.

This show should be called "at the end of the day" because everyone says it 35 times lol

The man that says chivalry is dead was not fathered by a man - a man that feels it’s too much work to come to your door ain’t that two dead flies

It’s all about the connection. This is way out the window if you genuinely care and love someone why do you ppl make it so difficult it’s simple. Being able to read and connect with your spouse without saying a word being intuitive with each other.

🗣🗣🗣Amanda I feel you…nobody need to know how much each other makes as long as each s/o is taken care of..#Period🎯

And I gotta ask if as a man, I am paying all the mortgage and taking care of all the bills. What is my wife doing? Is she cooking every day? Is she doing all the laundry? Is she keeping up with the children’s homework? Is she keeping up on all the things that the kids need? Is she going to all the PTO meetings and dropping the kids off to all their extracurricular activities.. we talk so much about what a man is supposed to do. What is the woman’s responsibility?

Fammmm why Rico start spazzing @ 22:30 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥