(UPDATE PINNED) My Little Brother is Actually My Fiance's kid 

UPDATE 2 : (UPDATE 1 IN THE VIDEO) Hi everyone! Again I want to say thanks for all the support on my last update, honestly like I said in my previous post, it really helped me a lot emotionally all your comments and also all the advice I got, that being about moving abroad or what to say when I do the blast. THANK YOU! Update: A lot has happened. I DID THE BLASTING! and this is how it went down. I first posted on my family's FB group we share, this is from my mom's family side. I used inspiration of what you all suggested in my last post and said something around the lines of : " I want to communicate to you all that my wedding with X has been permanently canceled, since I found out that my mom (name) and my ex (name) had in the last few years a sexual relationship which resulted in the birth of my little brother (name). I had no clue of any of this, and I found out about it last week. I won't have moving forward a relationship with (name - mom) and ex (name) for obvious reasons. I would appreciate your understanding and I felt it was only fair to let you know of the situation. Since I value transparency and honestly above all." I also included a screenshot of my mother message (what I said to her once I found out and a message she managed to write back before I blocked her (didn't open the message till before the blasting - I didn't want to hear(read) her and be persuaded). It exploded. I had family reaching out via text and calling the whole day after the blasting. I would say most were very supportive and I could tell they were just shocked. There were a few neutral and some suspicious that "it wasn't the whole story and maybe I misunderstood". My grandparents were in the "maybe you misunderstood" category, which it wasn't surprising since my mom is super close to my grandparents and like I said before, my mom was always a good mom. So no red flags. I will be moving with a cousin that is more like a sister to me. I haven't reached out to her previously bc I knew once she knows everyone would, that's why I went to my friend's place. My cousin is devastated on my behalf and offered I live with her and her 2 kids until I can get my feet on the ground. I accepted and will be moving next week. I'm a bit afraid this will give my mom an easier access to me, but I cant stay at my friend's place forever. I then proceeded quickly to post a similar message for my (we share most of our friends since high school and local university) friends on Instagram. I created a "close friends" story and tagged most of them too. This went sort of "viral" in our friend group. Actually one of my friends sent me my reddit post and asked if this was me, I confirmed. They were also shocked and speechless. They never thought my ex would even remotely do anything like this. They said "he was crazy about you". Oh well... apparently he went overboard on the crazy part. The group of friends is divided atm, some are completely "on my side" and some are thinking it isn't the whole truth. I told everyone that reached out that if they don't believe me to ask their friend if he is asking for custody of my little brother... that kinda shut them up for now. My ex deleted his social media apparently. Also my ex's parents called me like I guessed they would. They were kind to me and were very sorry about everything. I got the feeling they are also overwhelmed and very disappointed. However, it was clear they will be supporting their son. They are very upset at my mother, and don't want anything to do with her, but not sure how that will work with my little brother and everything else. They tried to give me "info" about the custody and what is my ex up to now, but I shut that down quickly and told them I don't want any info, I want to move on. I also asked them to not reach out in the near future, that I needed distance, specially if they will be supporting my ex (he is living with his parents atm). Also my ex and my mother after the blast were going nuts trying to reach out to me. They tried calling my friend (who she blocked them) and reaching out from different numbers. I had to put my phone on silence and ignore everyone. However my mother sent me a long text (from another number), and that was a weird text. She said that I was being cruel and that she didn't think she raised me that way. She said she thought we had a better relationship than me blasting out "laundry" like that without talking to her first. That I didn't have the whole picture. She did mentioned something that confused me. She said in her long a$$ text, that the reason she slept with my ex, is because he reminded him of my dad. That it was grief. That she didn't mean to "use" him to heal her pain, but she wasn't strong enough. I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS??? Like did she think that my ex looks physically like my dad? or personality? or what?? I have seen photos of my dad, and well, yea my ex isn't super different but also not super alike. I mean they share brown/dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, white skin... but that's not so uncommon, I don't see what else? I don't know. That threw me for a loop and honestly makes me wanna confront my mom just to know what the hell? from all the thing she could say I was NOT EXPECTING THAT. I'm holding on better, I don't cry every hour or wanna murder them. But, I'm still sad and upset and it just feels like it isn't my life, that is a big joke or a bad dream and I will wake up to my "normal" life. I also need to really start planning my future and start applying for jobs in other cities, or maybe check the possibilities abroad more seriously. I might as for 2-3 days off work to really get my thought together and do some research. I'm terrified tbh. I feel frozen, but I know I need to start moving. **************** LIKE & SUBSCRIBE

Mom for the streets. Fiance too.

I think I missed that episode of Gilmore Girls.

never understood people who cheat on their partner with the partner's family members and MISTAKENLY have kids with them. And they always say "i love you SO much. didn't want to loose you". GET LOST. I would die if I had a secret like that

When Things Go South, But It Still Somehow Works Out... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-AKoImu_MUbc.html (I slept with my daughters ex boyfriend, He got me Pregnant and I had an Ab*rtion. They got back together and got married.)

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This is way to wild😶😶

well.. you went hooing to...

JFC!

OMG😮

the girl being mad cause shes still mad and he is honestly boo hoo go cry i found out my brother is literally my age part of the year because my father cheated like within the same timeframe so close we quite literally could have ended up being born like a day apart he wasnt there at mu birth and he is in jail for stabbing her boyfriend(her and my father were married) didnt see my father from anytime past 3 years old and the one time i got to see him in person past three he expected me to hug him also hasnt called or sent a letter which can be done from prison plus all my life i needed to be ready to help my mom because she later got back problems, had a stroke, broke her leg, me and her have been in multiple car crashes,had to go to a safe house multiple times throughout my life because we were under a life endangering threat,has mental health issues(she still is pretty normal 90% of the time) ,and worked most days to just get by If this lady is so mad about it and thinks he didnt get what he deserved boo hoo keep better watch of the next guy you date (Real life story) Im doing pretty good much better than how it was when i was a kid